#bd/sm reward

[droolypupboy]

made my sweet puppy boyfriend a sticker chart <33 whenever he does something good that i ask or that he just needs to do in general, he gets a star. every ten stars equal one BIG star (he gets a prize). there’s a section for smaller victories too!!

this is not only a good training tool (he’s drinking more water!!), but it’s also an absolutely joy to hear my adorable puppy’s voice light up when he gets a little reward. i can get a sticker? is the most endearing sound in the world. his head tilts, his voice goes up, and i can feel how alight he becomes.

i’ve trained him to be so responsive to the idea of these little stars and to strive for them. his first reward was a sweet playlist. ten songs for ten stickers. i also filled him up with one of his bigger toys. i’m your pretty little bitch, im your good little slut, im your good little faggot; yes you are, doll <33 it’s becoming increasingly easier to make him repeat after me.

here are some of puppy’s stickers!!

@purenullity good dog <33

[dumbbutchmutt]

Free use dom for a day :D Reward a sub by letting them come up all day and get whatever they want from you ❤️ Let them climb on you when you're trying to watch something and rude you until they cum. Let them hump against against your leg whenever, whining and panting but you have to wait until they tell you they want you inside to pull them up and fuck them. You're working on a project or reading and theu crawl up and suck you off lazily until you cum in their mouth and they crawl away, satisfied though you're now aching even more to fuck their mouth. A desperate sweetheart who ask you to hold a vibe to their dick/clit while they tell you about something, interrupting themselves freely with gasps and whimpers. Asking you to clean them up after for more while they try and remember where they left off. Just a good sub who now can have a day of whatever they want from you as long as they keep telling you how you're so good to them for letting them have such a wonderful treat.

[Minors, Ageless, and Men dni blogs don't touch]

[droolypupboy]

choking & ALL forms of breathplay should always be considered edgeplay (playing on the edge). i like to define edgeplay as activities that are generally a gray area between perfectly safe ssc/rack (safe sane consensual/risk aware consensual kink) vs unsafe play.

other examples of edge play include things involving fluid bonding; yes, this can be as simple as someone cumming inside you or as extreme as sharing blood. there’s also things like play involving weapons, and even things that are mentally and emotionally taxing such as cnc can be considered edgeplay.

edgeplay doesn’t have to be only things that “sound extreme”, they can be anything physically/emotionally taxing to a level that might ride that ssc/rack-unsafe line. for example, slave position training might be perfectly safe for some but to a person with physical disabilities, prolonged position holding could be considered edgeplay.

but something like breathplay/choking is UNIVERSALLY edgeplay for everyone. restriction of airflow is never not going to be dangerous. even with all the precautions and education in the world, there will still be a level of risk you are accepting and playing with when you engage in this type of play

choking shouldn’t be as normalized in the bedroom as it is. i think things such as slapping, choking, & spitting are all becoming accepted as parts of vanilla sex and i don’t think this shift has come with proper education, understanding, and sensitivity.

disheartening to see that “entry level kink” is winning on this poll. it is absolutely not.

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[thesugarjar]

I love praising my subs and telling them what good boys/girls they are. What’s your favorite way to be rewarded? 😘🖤

[hopelesslywanderingone]

(just getting in the car, seeing each other for the first time in too long)

I feel squirmy, for lack of a better word. A little like crawling out of my skin. Sometimes I can't find the underlying cause for that feeling, but right now it's clear as day for me.

I glance over at you, settling in to the drivers seat. We've only barely said 'hi', but even so I still feel it bubbling over, your name slipping from my lips. I watch as you look at me expectantly, that eye contact just makes my skin warm even further.

"Could we -" I clasp my hands together, slip them between my thighs just north of my knees. It feels most natural in these moments to drop my gaze, mine always feels so small in comparison. I let my mind wonder in that split second, how I must come across to you; whether the warming of skin under the heat of your gaze is noticeable, if I'm blushing. And if I am, if you already know why.

"Never mind," I start again, shake the thoughts out of my head, second guess my inclination to tell you them so quickly. I make myself look back at you, hold my gaze steady against yours even as I register that, yes, I am blushing. "I'm just glad you're here."

That urge to look away, to shift in my seat intensifies as you give me your direct stare another beat longer. I can breathe normally again as your gaze shifts, until I realize it has dropped down to where my hands sit; where they've inched higher between my thighs, are clenched tightly between them. I feel my chest tighten as I wait on that ledge, for your direct address or perhaps for you to casually take note but to continue on for now.

"Tell me what you were going to say." I start to shake my head 'no', wriggle my way out of this corner I have painted myself into now that I'm here. Curse myself for my lack of self-control on what is supposed to be just a sweet and casual afternoon out. I stop shaking my head entirely and feel my lips part when you pull your eyes back up to mine, though; what I see there is more than enough to set my heart racing further.

It feels like my brain turns off for the next few seconds. I find myself letting out a short gasp, your hand fisted in my hair at nape of my neck, turning my head towards you and up in just the slightest. When my brain catches up and realizes you've repeated yourself, I dart my tongue out to wet my lips then swallow hard. I give in to the need to close my eyes, to hide a little from your intensity, though God do I love it.

"I wanted to ask if after this, if afterwards I could - well, if I could suck your cock." It feels like I'm yelling, though I know I've whispered it. The cabin of the car feels small, our exchange seemingly sucking up all the oxygen. I wait, though impatiently, until the pregnant pause tempts me too much and I open my eyes to yours again. You reward me with a tightening of your grip in my hair, and with your words,

"Then ask." Your voice is hoarse, and I realize I'm not the only one who has felt the full weight of our time apart. I settle back further into the seat, your hand caught between me and the head rest. You release my hair and I nearly shiver while turning into your hand as you move to grip me by the side of the neck, your thumb smoothing over my cheek. I try to focus on my breathing, and feel a rush - many, even; of breath out of my lungs, of wetness between my legs, of saliva in response to the thought of you in my mouth.

"Please may I suck your cock?"

[ange-deprave]

Giving myself an encouraging little slap on my ass every time I'm done taking lewd photos for this blog😌

[smittenkitten2-0]

I did a good job cleaning so now I get a reward

Hope no one sees me through my open windows 🙈

[thesugarjar]

Have you been good my sweet? I’d love to reward you 😘

[whimperaudioconnoisseur]

🥹😍 !

quote from the new bottoming book

[squirting-sub]

Was at a family dinner and planning to meet my dom afterwards. During dinner, they texted me asking me my safeword and then proceeded to tell me that they will not be checking up on me during the session like they usually do.

[intrusivecurse]

Rope feels so good against my bare skin. I go into sub space so quick with it. I’m practicing new ties for tying my girlfriend up and I have to fight back the urge to fall into blissful sub mode. How nice it would be to tied up and used as a toy

[midnightfantasizing]

Ways I want to involve exercise and sex life with each other

-Push ourselves with the exercise until we're getting weak, sweaty, and tired. And then fuck with the adrenaline from the work out still present. Vigorously riding and fucking eachother extending the work out even further.

-Competing in workouts and having sex based punishments or prizes for the winner or loser. (The loser gets edged/the winner gets to pick the position/etc.)

-Working out naked and watching eachother build up a sweat, get put into vulnerable positions, pump up muscles.

-Kissing sloppily between exercises.

-Doing push up and sit ups with your partner either sat up in front of you or laid below you so you can sneak in a bit of oral with every rep.

-Getting in a set number of pumps between every set. Sliding your cock into your partners wet pussy and getting 10 thrusts in before you have to move onto the next excercise. Rinse and repeat until one or both of you can't take it anymore and you end up fucking desperately on the floor.

-Overall trying to be positive for eachother in every way and turning bodily care into something super sexy

[squirting-sub]

Might get a rape play session as a reward