#baby I know he was a fucking liar and hypocrite when he chose to apologize to elena abt something he did to bonnie

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Elijah still give me the ick from when he kept call marcel boy and refused to use his name. What is this the 1960’s.

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January 29, 2020 - Conservative Bitch gets what she deserves.

         Q. Ghost of friendship gone: From the first grade until my late 20s, I had a best friend, let’s call her “D.” We were inseparable. When I was 29, I ended up in an abusive relationship and had my birth control sabotaged. I ended up pregnant. I got an abortion. Long story short, she demonized me over the abortion (this was someone who had never been religious or anti-choice until she knew someone in the situation), and we had a massive falling-out. It was easily the worst time of my life. She and I stopped speaking years ago.        

         Well, I got an email over the weekend from D. She has reached out saying she is pregnant for the fifth time. She had told her husband (didn’t even know she got married) she didn’t want any more kids after the third, but he doesn’t seem to care what she wants. She wants an abortion and said she’s reaching out because I’m the only person she knows who’s had one and she needs help sorting out what to do.        

         My knee-jerk reaction is to tell her to fuck off. Surely she remembers calling me pretending to be the voice of the fetus telling me I was a murderer? Or that she abandoned me at the lowest point in my life and our entire friendship over this exact thing? I’m half-tempted to send a screenshot of the email to her husband through Facebook. Please talk me down from doing the wrong thing here. I can’t help her, but I don’t want to let this white-hot rage make me do the wrong thing either.       

Dear Ghosted,

My god conservative women are so fucking predictable.  “It’s not okay for you but it’s okay for me!”  or in at least one case I know of, “It’s not okay, bu the baby is half black and we can’t have THAT in the family.” - Mother who was forcing her daughter to have an abortion.

Your “friend” is a fucking moron.  She put her faith in the whole patriarchy stance of women are brood mares, then she gets shocked and shaken when her husband doesn’t care about her and uses her like livestock.  Color me surprised.  We always said at the state office that the quickest way to find a republican was to ask at the local abortion clinic waiting room. 

First of all, abortion is normal, happens a lot, and is one of the safest medical procedures you can have.

You, dear writer, had one because you were not only fucked with by an abuser, but chose to escape and not subject a child to more abuse.  You were a good person, you made the right choice and I thank you for it.

Your friend is a hypocritical cunt.

I won’t suggest telling her husband, he might be abusive, that’s a step too far, but I do think you are owed a massive apology before you even consider helping her.

Tell her how you feel.  Go ahead and write back and say, “Oh, now you want my help?  You don’t want me to call you and pretend to be a fetus and try to talk you out of it?  Why don’t you start by apologizing for the pain you put me through first and then we can talk.”

This is not an issue of like, “Well, she used to have money and hated welfare people, but now she’s poor and needs to eat and has to use food stamps.”  She is actively seeking out a procedure that she condemns, and harassed you for, and above all, is getting this procedure from the choice that women fought for that she would deny to others. 

Frankly, given the current situation of the world, I’m of the mindset to give no quarter to women who are traitors to other women.  If you can get an abortion and go back to wanting to shoot the doctor the next day - fuck you, you don’t deserve the compassion.

Now if she apologizes, it’s up to you how you feel.  But I personally, would help her get the abortion, we don’t need more people like her unless she’s come to her senses, (but even then, it’s still her CHOICE) but I would keep copies of all the messages and texts, etc.  Secretly.

If she comes out of that appointment and goes back on her bullshit, then feel free to contact her and tell her, “Knock it off or I’ll let everyone know you’re a hypocrite, I have receipts.”  There’s nothing wrong with calling people on that.

I know it may sound harsh, but I’ll tell you.  When that woman that I knew, let’s call her Susan, forced her daughter into an abortion because the boyfriend was black, all the while loudly proclaiming her love for pro-life and Catholic crap, I called her on it.  Publicly.  She didn’t stop being a useless liar, but then everyone in the office knew that she was one, and they stopped listening and started laughing. 

The world isn’t fair, there’s lot of hard decisions and bad people.  So it’s up to us to make the world more fair by calling bullshit where we see it and demanding that people act in a more honorable manner.  Or at least we can point out the snakes in the grass for others.

Mrs. Bitch