#avoiding swinger red flags

[swingosphere]

Swinging Lifestyle Safety: How to Stay Discreet and Secure

Exploring the swinging lifestyle? Safety and discretion are key! Learn how to protect your privacy, set boundaries, and enjoy the journey with confidence. #SwingingLifestyle #SafetyFirst #DiscretionMatters

The swinging lifestyle can give couples a unique opportunity to explore their sexuality, deepen their intimate connection, and meet couples and individuals who think similarly. However, as with anything, safety and discretion in the swinging lifestyle are essential for maintaining trust, privacy, and overall comfort. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or veteran swingers, following best…

[carbsvixen]

Hot take but if I read you're in a poly relationship and you mention you just starting out with your HUSBAND, I'm avoiding you two. It's this weird thing with me where the man wants to cheat but doesn't want to hurt his s.o. so he throws polygamy out there completely unprovoked. You guys had 0 history of being swingers but this man wants to suddenly be one. It's a red flag for me. Like if it works for you guys then great! I just don't like men who are like that and send their wives out to groom.

[annekuniverse]

Flirting Tips for Swingers - 5

How to flirt in your profile

Flirting via textis a bit harder than verbal flirting because people won’t hear the tone in your voice.  Sarcasm and jokes can fall flat and come across poorly without the right delivery that you can provide if you were talking to someone.  Be careful and read your swinger profilemessage twice.  Focus on positive aspects and skip the negatives in life.  People don’t want to spend their free time with a complainer.  They are looking to have fun so make sure you represent that aspect.

How to flirt online

When you attract some attention online you want to be careful with your flirting because a misunderstood text message or email can sink your chances.  Since this is swinging and not singles dating, you probably want to keep the flirting to group messages.  This avoids anyone feeling excluded or minimized.  Steer clear of emojis.  Yes, emojis are fun but not everyone has the same set of emojis installed on their phone and not everyone understands the innuendos.  The safest approach is to use your words and save the emojis.

So what do you type to them?  You can ask a flirty question like “what type of naughty fundo you prefer” or “why do your lips look so enchanting”.  That is a good way to start a fun conversation.  You can also ask them questions about themselves.  Swinging is more about real life connection and less about anonymous online sexting so keep the conversation moving towards the real goal – to build just enough comfort & trust for a real life meeting for actual sexy fun. Make a connection & keep the conversation moving forward.

Do not send pictures of your junk.  Remember back to when we were talking about the right type of sexy?  That still applies.  Most of the time it is better to show yourself in a hot workout outfit or sexy underwear and leave the big reveal to when you are in person.

Sidenote – just remember not everyone online tells the truth.  Until you verify them in real life, keep up your guard and protect your naughty & embarrassing photos from potential troublemakers.  This is a reason why many swingers won’t show their face & naked body in the same picture.  On the flip side, act like you have seen another person naked before and don’t beg for their nudes.  That is a red flag and can kill your chances of sexy fun.  It’s ok to ask for a picture so you can have a general sense of their fitness & appearance but don’t whine about the pictures not being sexy enough for you.

When in doubt keep it fun. The more you flirt the better you become at it.  So remember to practice with your special someone and remind them how much you love & lust them.

[stephaniedorismond-blog]

Preventing Cheating In A Relationship, Is It Possible?

It feels like I can't turn on my phone without seeing a new relationship scandal. He's cheating, she's cheating, are they swingers? I feel like the one question women especially want to know is if cheating is possible to avoid. In my opinion, there's a yes or no to this answer. Or really a no, but.... answer.  If someone wants to be faithful, they will and if they don't, they won't. It's literally as simple as that. Where we go wrong in relationships is not accepting situations for what they are. Sometimes you will hit a dead end and it really means it's time to end that relationship; it doesn't mean you need to find a detour. On the other hand, you can't control what someone else does, but you can set boundaries with your partner, keep an open line of communication, and pay attention to red flags early on. That last one is a major, major key. When I go on a date, I ask certain questions just to see how the guy will react. Everyone's putting on their best face when they first meet you and I like to see what people look like without their masks early. I pay attention to all the little things most people wouldn't. We as women let men get away with so much in the beginning because it's the beginning, when in reality that's the time you should be the most cut throat. Seeing something you don't like, checking it, and deciding, "ehhhhh this isn't really the type of person I want around me" will prevent you from going through so much pain it's crazy. So the real answer is no, there is nothing you can do to prevent cheating. You can't baby a man, threesome him, or make excuses for all his flaws to prevent him from cheating. If anything doing all of that will get you cheated on faster than you can say cat, but what you can do is know your worth and respect yourself enough to walk away if infidelity presents itself in your relationship.