#anyways IRL MUTUALS TY SO SO MUCH 🫶🫶🫶🫶

[murdleandmarot]

Sometimes you go to bed and wake up an entirely different age

(Also I am NEVER GOING TO SHUT UP ABOUT THAT BLUEBELLE STATUE. OH MY GOD. MUTUAL YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE 🫶🫶🫶)

[getonite]

hiiii! seen a couple of people do this, plus i realized i don't appreciate my mutuals as much as i should. and since the year is ending (literally today), i thought i'd appreciate y'all for a lil bit.

→ if the tagging irritated you, i apologize 🙏🏾. if i missed you, lmk, i was 100% half asleep while making this! (this is actually so embarrassing ngl. but i luv yall 🫶🏾)

(🎧 : avian) → @sensivs

starting off with my pookie with a beautiful (horny) brain. im dead fucking serious i have zero idea how we became mutuals (🧍🏾‍♂️). i just remembering talking to you one day, and the we were having full conversations in dms lmaoo. an emoji ring, helios, an unborn baby (??), and multiple fic ideas...now we're at the end of the year. i really appreciate you and all of your chaotic energy, it made me laugh! and all of your prompts are immaculate (🤌🏽). i await the days you post more fics or drabbles so i can support you the way you have me! :) luv u pooks, i def wanna ramble u more about hcs!

→ (i sound like im about to die omg)

(🎧 : snail/seraph) → @flimsyichigo

again, zero fucking idea when we became mutuals (i don't remember shit). we don't talk too often but i be seein you likeing my horrendously down bad and chaotic thoughts...i appreciate you bro (🙏🏾). i love your fluffy blue lock sruff, and your overall vibes are (yes, through the screen) amazing! thank you for dealing with my bullshit.

→ (as i type this, i realize just how many mutuals i have jeez, (half of which i barely talk to but still))

(🎧 : ame) → @pastelclovds

ameeeee, number 1 ive always loved your writing (iterally giggling and kicking my feet as i press the like button). your themes r so fucking gorgeous omg. we don't talk as often, but i love when we do interact. i hope we can more (im just easily embarrassed).

→ (i sound like a teenager leaving a love letter in a locker. omggggg)

(🎧 : ace ) → @acefantasyy

another person who puts up with my horrendously down bad bullshit takes. i applaude you for dealing with my ass lmaoo. but, on another note, i smile when i see you in my notes (no, i didn't originally mean that 2 b a joke). i really appreciate the reply you made when i went on a little break, thank you! i hope you continue to deal me, and i hope we interact more!

→ (i really gotta start talkin 2 yall more)

(🎧 : riri) → @pynkkgeto

we're friends irl. i don't have 2 say shit 4 u (luv uuu 🫶🏾)

(🎧 : rome) → @satocidal

yet another person who delt with my nonsense lol. you're quite busy, so you won't see this for a second. but thank you for being awesome and making me laugh with your naobito jokes. thank for the reply you left when i was the one going on break. hope all goes well for you!

(🎧 : idk ur name TvT) → @infrunamie

i feel so bad omg. but i wanted to appreciate your writing for a sec. whether its a drabble, headcanons, a fic, or just 100 words, your brain is miraculous when you write cuz it always leads to me wanted more. seriously, i love it. i was actually shocked you followed me, literally looked up to your writing ong (🙏🏾). i love it when you show up in my notes even if it's just a like. thank you for your reply when i went on break, trust, all of them got me through those shitty ass exams! ty!

→ (im sure this isn't what my therapist meant by being outgoing but im gunna do ts anyway)

(🎧 : spirit) → @spiritfrvr

literally the best vibes on earth i swear. your blog is like a fluffy hug omg. and (imo), you kinda bring that over to other blogs. i'd really like to talk to you more and ramble about random shit! :)

(🎧 : arlan) → @asuyaka

your drabbles r so cuuutee! i love them so much omg. especially the taking care of suguru one! i was surprised you liked my writing sm, and i love yours the same! i really appreciate the little reply under the break post and the christmas tree! seeing notifs of u makes me smile!

(🎧 : qi) → @yaekiss

i don't think we've been mutuals for too long, but omg we reeally should speak more!! i loved your message on the christmas tree! i love the vibe and look of your blog omg. i hope we can interact more!

(🎧 : juno) → @arlertdarling

hi junooo! ty for the message on my christmas tree, and i agree! we really should interact more! you seem like a realllly cool person, plus im on my fucking knees for your writing, dead serious. hope we can talk more, i hope you have a great 2024!

→ (srsly, y tf do i sound like im moving far away or smth TvT)

(🎧 : najma) → @honeybleed

ilysm ong. number one, we cousins (😔✊🏾; im joking pls help), number two, your theme was downright gorgeous (still is), number three, your writing it delicious. i haven't had too much time lately, buuut, i love how you post content that isn't completely smut (as a smut blog that fails at angst lol). its nice to get a break and see fluffy or angsty stuff in the tags instead of the same repeated material. you know you what you like and you stand firm in what you say (i need 2 b more like u fr), and your overall vibes are amazing! i love seeing your anime takes omg. i hope we can interact more in 2024!

→ (that kinda rhymed...and unrelated, but im listening to the mean girls soundtrack or 4 hours of sleep writing this)

(🎧 : yoru) → @dilfverz

number one, thank you for the messege on my christmas tree. number two, your so cool (😭). i love your themes and your writing, how you interact with ppl and anons is funny lol. literally look up to your writing ngl. i super appreciate your for explaining genshin impact to me, cuz im definitely not playing that damn game lol. your reblogs and likes in my notes make me wanna cry ngl. thank you for being so cool! (🙏🏾)

→ (am i over using emojis? i am so tired omg)

(🎧 : sy) → @wrizzesley

we just became mutuals like a week ago lmaoo. but i love your writing so much. and your themes?!?! (:O). i know damn well that shit is time consuming and exhausting, i applaud you, i could never lol. but anyway, i hope we can interact more in this new year. i think your really cool!

(🎧 : astro? idk im so sorry) → @astroknottt

i love your writing holy fuck. but other than that, i love it when you reblog my stuff! esp with those little comments, they've given me a bunch of motivation. and seeing you write such toe curling shit, that gives me motivation too! hope we can interact some more in the new year!

→ (pls ignore my silent pleas for help in these notes, but my vision is wonky. i promise im going to sleep in a second)

(🎧 : ) → @naee0

your probably locked out of tumblr again lol. but if you see this, thank you for your chaotic energy! and even if it was one sentence, what you sent on thr break post, i really appreciate it! even if you or me aren't on tumblr much, i hope we can interact a bit more! you're pretty cool! and i loved those drabbles. i hope your doing great!

PRODUCER MESSEGE: "i think that was all. again, if i missed you, please lmk. i might have been blind (my eyes prolly look like that squidward meme). but i appreciate all of you! thank you, and pls dont hate me 🙏🏾"

[luvhyun3]

It's the season of love! and you know what that means, time to find yourself a valentine! and who better than one of your beloved mutuals? answer these questions, and the mutual with the most mentions your tumblr valentine:

Mutual you can always rely on?

Mutual who never misses a post?

Mutual you share the most interests with?

Mutual you have the most in common with?

Mutual you look up to?

Mutual you'd run away and live in a cottage with?

Spouse material mutual?

Mutual with the best personality?

Mutual that never fails to make you laugh?

Mutual you'd have a crush on if you knew them irl?

Mutual you absolutely cannot live without?

figured i’d actually do a game for once 💀 im sorry y’all i swear i’ll get to them one day…. until then keep tagging me i may not do them but it makes me feel good being included anyway 🥰🤞

mutual who never misses a post — without a doubt @j0swhiterice 🤭🤭 my number one supporter since she started following me <33 she likes pretty much everything i post HAHAHAHHS thank u for that ily

mutual you’d run away and live in a cottage with — @1-800-lixie she gives very cottagecore vibes idk ,,, i feel like it’d be very fun living somewhere idyllic and tending to a cute lil cottage w a pretty garden w her <33

mutual that never fails to make u laugh — @yujipg sae ur so funny im dying literally every time u post/comment how do u do it (also off topic but u genuinely make me smile sm every time u interact w my posts ur so fun to talk to 🫶)

spouse material mutual — @cutieseo fae’s so lovely i think she defs fits this one 🤭💓 would get down on one knee if she asked

mutual(s) you look up to (this is less a ‘look up to’ section and more an excuse to compliment my moots 🌝) —

@torhues ur so smart and cool and funny and u have rly good writing … that was rly badly worded but i want u to know that i think ur great ☺️

@hwangsify i know u arent on tumblr anymore but ur writing was genuinely some of the most beautiful stuff i’ve read on tumblr i still come back to it sometimes bc its SO GOOD

@byhees too !!! i’ve only just become moots w u recently but ur writing is so beautiful and u seem like such a lovely person !! 🫶

@acaiasahi ur themes always slap and u have the most based opinions 🙏🙏

@i-luvsang i havent interacted w u very much but u have such a pretty acc ++ the cutest fics ever

@jennaissantes u seem like such a cool person i’d defs wanna be bsfs with u if i knew u irl

mutual you’d have a crush on irl — @astrozuya based off vibes i think i’d find you cute too 🤭🤭

@dokiyeom also bc she gives cute girl next door vibes i think🫣 🫶

mutual you have the most in common with — @ everyone bc we’re all obsessed w unobtainable korean men ….

@ox1-lovesick honourable mention bc U GET ME when it comes to my struggles on atzblr/blr in general 😓 ty for being there at my lowest 🤞

mutual you share the most interests with — see above ^

mutual with the best personality — cmon guys i feel like it’s pretty obvious that it’d be me 😒 (/j)

mutual you absolutely cannot live without — @cheezbot my love ever since u left me i havent been able to live with myself … u pieced my heart together and then ripped it out of my chest, leaving me unable to love and trust ever again ☹️☹️

mutual you can always rely on — @n0vad ty for giving me ur english answers 🙏🙏

@svngcore i can always rely on you to be my most delulu moot 🙄

im sorry if i didn’t include u! i love all my moots very much but im a bit forgetful 😞

[leejenowrld]

possibly tmi but how does having sex actually feel…? is it really as good as people make it out to be? if its too personal its ok to not answer!!

ofc i will answer!! don’t be silly!! send me more tmi questions, i wanna help you guys as much as i can and honestly don’t feel any shame when asking me personal questions :) if you wanna me how it feels to have a dick in the mouth then do so!! cus i got some answers for that. again a very long answer.

i’m gonna first of all list all the good things and then the maybe not so good things!!

the quick answer is yes, it is really as good as people say it is. if it’s someone you love, trust, communicate with and someone who’s willing to pleasure you as much as you pleasure them. it’s all mutual (it should be) i mean in established relationships sometimes the girl will use the guy to get off and vice versa to spice it up and that’s ok!! it’s spicing it up. like on my birthdays or just when my bf is in an extra lovey mood he’ll make me cum so much that he’ll put it ahead of him cumming, like he’ll cum but not as much as me

also what does it feel like? it’s really hard to describe because it’s unlike any other feeling in the world for me, keep in mind i’m not really an expert 😭i’ve had sex with one guy. and that one guy has a dick that bigger than my face so like… yeah. i can truly feel him in my stomach every time we fuck. i’ve choked on his dick so. many. times. when his dick is in me i just feel like i’m being filled, it’s so much pleasure and tingling and it’s just these emojis “🥰🫶🤩😳🍆😩😖” does that make sense? it just feels like he’s filling my whole body. not even only my pussy, everything is set on fire. when i’m in the moment i don’t ever want it to stop.

if you’re with someone and they only care about them cumming and getting off then run.

anyways. i love sex a lot. i love having sex with my boyfriend a lot. it’s just… it just feels like heaven. when he makes me cum i feel like i’m in heaven. it’s just something so beautiful in my opinion. i love the intimacy, how it makes two people closer, how it’s a love language in itself. it’s so private and personal that i love it. i’m talking about the soft moments here :( the body kissing, the eye contact, the giggling, god yeah it has me weak to my knees.

the rough stuff? yeah! it’s just as good in my opinion. me and my boyfriend are like 80% rough, 20% soft lmao. it’s just what we love 🤷‍♀️ but you need to make sure it’s something you’re comfortable with! make sure you experiment and have those conversations. communication. is. everything. things like slapping, spitting, choking, tying up, blindfolding, they all sound sexy in fic and they are irl! but i’ve found that i prefer it when i’m not sober 😭 but tbh if you love your man like i love my man then honestly i’ll let him do anything with me i just wanna be his fuck doll and he. knows. that. he does whatever the fuck he wants with me and yeah! i’m on board.

the bad stuff? the hurt. it does hurt. even 5 years into fucking my boyfriend i have moments where the pain gets a lot, you get used to it but make sure you take the precautions necessary. and please fucking stay safe! use protection, prevent yourself from catching diseases. it’s really fucking serious so make sure you stay safe and just take care of your sexual health.

and oh my god. please consent. please make sure all parties are comfortable and on board. it’s so important. please. don’t ever overlook this. even in an established relationship. 5 years in and my boyfriend has touched and kissed every inch of my body but he still says “is this okay?” “are you sure?” “do you wanna try this?” which is the bare minimum btw!!

having sex can have a toll on your body. everyone shares the good stuff but it can make you feel very drained and detached. i think there’s a name for it?? idk but i know it’s something that just happens sometimes after intense sexual activity. i know because it happens to my boyfriend sometimes, we’ll fuck like rabbits and then he’ll just be not himself after and at first it made me feel insecure because i was like ??? did i do something wrong :(( but to prevent that miscommunication and misunderstanding you just need to research!!!

he’s explained it as just feeling lost. he told me that it most likely happens because he’s very active, in sports, the gym, with his job, uni, with me so his body takes a toll during post sex :( he just feels drained snd god he sleeps like a baby after it. he’s flat out, he sleeps in seconds sometimes. but most of the time he’ll force himself (and me) to stay awake so he can clean us up and TMI he always makes me piss lmao cus you have to piss after sex!! keep clean and safe guys