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so you guys do realize that when you 'shift on accident', or 'mini shift', it wasn't on accident or mini. you simply shifted, shifting is just that easy, give yourselves some credit, you're more capable than you know.
happy shifting ♡
#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifters#shifting community#shifting#shifting antis dni#shifting consciousness#shifting blog#shifter#shift#dr s/o#idol dr#kpop dr#harry potter dr#desired reality
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TYPES OF FANS TO SCRIPT IN YOUR DR ! ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹♡
hey loves! I decided to make this post for all the shifters who have fame drs! I personally think the idea of specifically scripting how people in your fandom are is a very cool idea, might be extra for some people but me... I enjoy scripting every detail of every crevice lmao anyways I hope you guys enjoy! :)
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THE CULT-LIKE DEVOTEES ♡ //
This fraction of the fandom doesn’t just admire the person they stan—they worship them. To these fans, their favorite celebrity is more than an artist; they are a living deity. Over time, they have built an entire belief system around their idol, complete with sacred rituals, celebratory holidays, and unofficial scriptures containing their most iconic quotes, song lyrics, and interviews.
Their gatherings resemble religious ceremonies, where they discuss their idol’s achievements as if they were divine miracles. Some members have gone as far as to tattoo symbols or words associated with their idol onto their bodies, believing it connects them to something greater than themselves. They refer to their fandom as a spiritual movement, and excommunication is the only punishment for anyone caught disrespecting or doubting their leader.
Critics often debate whether this level of devotion is concerning, but despite the cult-like aura, these fans remain organized, influential, and fiercely protective of their idol. They ensure their favorite celebrity's career flourishes, and their sheer numbers make them a dominant force in the entertainment industry.
THE RICH ELITE FANS ♡ //
While some fans support their favorite artist by streaming their music and buying albums, this particular group takes things to an entirely different level. These fans are wealthy, and when they spend, they spend big. They are the type to single-handedly buy out entire album stocks, ensuring their idol dominates every chart. If their favorite celebrity announces a concert, they purchase thousands of tickets, sometimes just to prevent scalpers from profiting off of them.
Money is not an issue for them, and they use their financial power to uplift their idol’s career in ways no ordinary fan could. They fund expensive projects, purchase extravagant birthday gifts, and even invest in massive advertising campaigns—Times Square billboards, Super Bowl commercials, and magazine covers promoting their favorite artist are all courtesy of them.
Beyond financial support, these fans are also highly connected. Some are CEOs, politicians, or heirs to powerful families, capable of pulling strings in ways most people can’t even imagine. If a brand disrespects their idol, that company will suffer—whether it be from an organized boycott or an unexplained financial downfall. The industry knows better than to cross them.
THE UNHINGED STANS ♡ //
These fans are chaos in human form. Their minds work in ways that no one can fully comprehend, and their humor is so unhinged that outsiders often find themselves both horrified and entertained by their antics.
They are known for flooding social media with the wildest takes, creating viral memes, and saying things that toe the line between absurdly funny and completely insane. One moment, they are writing detailed analyses about their idol’s artistic impact, and the next, they are threatening to physically fight anyone who so much as breathes in the direction of a hater.
Their obsession manifests in strange but hilarious ways—some have entire rooms dedicated to their idol, while others write fanfiction so outlandish that it becomes infamous across multiple fandoms. They are unpredictable, unstoppable, and absolutely terrifying to those who don’t understand their sense of humor.
The best part? Their loyalty is unwavering. They would go to war for their idol without hesitation, and their dedication is so intense that even non-fans can't help but be entertained by them.
THE LOYAL PROTECTORS ♡ //
Unlike casual fans, who simply enjoy an artist’s work, these fans treat their idol’s career as a mission. They are not just supporters—they are defenders.
Their digital archives contain years’ worth of receipts, ready to be deployed the moment a scandal or accusation arises. If someone tries to cancel their favorite celebrity, they will immediately launch a well-researched counterattack, using past statements, statistics, and undeniable proof to dismantle the opposition.
Beyond their skills in damage control, they have infiltrated various online communities, industry circles, and even entertainment journalism. Many of them work as PR professionals, social media strategists, and content moderators, ensuring that their idol's reputation remains spotless. Some even maintain direct contact with their celebrity, acting as unofficial advisors when necessary.
Their presence is so strong that public figures fear speaking against their idol, knowing full well that the backlash will be swift and merciless.
THE SECRET SOCIETY OF FANS ♡ //
While most fandoms operate openly, this particular group thrives in the shadows. Their identities remain a mystery, and their influence is whispered about rather than publicly acknowledged.
No one knows exactly who they are, but their actions suggest they are high-ranking individuals in society. Some believe they are government officials, elite hackers, or powerful industry insiders who have taken a personal interest in ensuring their idol’s success.
Their methods are calculated and often untraceable. If a journalist writes a negative article, it mysteriously disappears within hours. If an enemy tries to sabotage their idol’s career, their own reputation suddenly crumbles without explanation. Some conspiracy theorists even claim that this group has rigged award shows, manipulated voting polls, and orchestrated industry shifts to benefit their chosen celebrity.
Their existence remains unconfirmed, but the evidence of their work is undeniable.
THE SUPER INTELLECTUALS ♡ //
While most fandoms contain passionate supporters, this group consists of some of the most intelligent individuals on the planet. Professors, researchers, and literary scholars dedicate their time to analyzing their idol’s work, treating every piece of content as though it were a classic novel or historical document.
They have convinced universities to offer courses on their idol’s artistic influence, written peer-reviewed articles about their impact, and even debated industry professionals on their significance. Their level of analysis is so detailed that even skeptics begin to question whether their idol is actually a misunderstood genius.
Every time their idol releases new content, they dissect it in ways no one else would even consider—breaking down themes, symbols, and deeper meanings that casual fans overlook. If anyone dares to claim their idol isn’t talented, they will effortlessly destroy them with a dissertation-level argument.
THE MEDIA MANIPULATORS ♡ //
These fans are masters of digital warfare. They control the internet with terrifying efficiency, making sure that every narrative surrounding their idol benefits them.
They know exactly how to manipulate social media algorithms, ensuring that positive news about their idol dominates trending pages while negative press is buried within minutes. They flood comment sections, report harmful content, and flood search results with favorable articles.
Many of them work within the media industry themselves—journalists, social media managers, and digital marketers who understand how to sway public opinion. Their work is so seamless that most people don’t even realize they’re being influenced.
THE FANATICAL STREAMERS ♡ //
To these fans, streaming is a science. They have developed complex algorithms, spreadsheets, and AI tools to maximize their idol's streaming numbers.
They hold scheduled streaming marathons, coordinate across different time zones, and organize mass listening events. They even educate new fans on the most efficient ways to stream to ensure chart dominance. Some have gone as far as to create automated streaming bots, making sure their idol's music is never off the charts.
Their dedication is so extreme that even music industry executives acknowledge their impact.
THE AESTHETIC CULTURE CREATORS ♡ //
These fans determine what’s cool. They create stunning fan edits, viral TikTok trends, and fashion movements inspired by their idol. Other fandoms copy them, influencers follow their lead, and brands scramble to appeal to their aesthetic.
Their work is so influential that even people who don’t listen to their idol’s music still engage with their content.
THE CELEBRITY CONVERTORS ♡ //
Their goal? Make everyone a fan. They strategically target influencers, actors, and musicians, ensuring that their idol’s reach extends into every corner of pop culture.
They have converted entire celebrities into die-hard stans, leading to unexpected collaborations, viral moments, and industry-wide recognition. Even those who initially had no interest in their idol eventually find themselves drawn in.
Hope you guys found this helpful, requests are appreciated! <3
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i wish that nyx was a girl not just because i’m pedantic about nyx being a female goddess but also that having a son puts feysand in an incredibly sticky political situation. in eight years they’ll be expected to drop him off at an illyrian war camp, where kids are whipped and have their bones broken for infractions. if they don’t make him, the illyrians will never respect him or see him as one of their own, and will grow resentful of Rhysand. If they start trying to reform the child soldier training system now, it’s going to be blatantly obvious that they’re only doing it to spare their son, which will cause more resentment. So their options are let Nyx be abused, which Rhysand thinks is normal and Feyre is horrified by, so massive rift in the marriage and a traumatized kid. OR variations of losing any vestiges of respect the illyrians. now this is an sjm problem and fits better as a doylist critique but i will add this to my list of evidence that rhysand is fucking stupid anyways. not only did he not think through the potential physical dangers of having a child with feyre but never connected the dots to see just how badly it’s gonna blow up in his face in t-minus eight years. oh tumblr user kataraavatara, you say, you’re so cruel, why are you criticizing him for wanting to start a family. well when you’re the head of a hereditary monarchy your children and how you raise them are in fact political choices as well as personal ones. tough luck bat boy.
#the only option is for Nyx to trans her gender#nyx archeron#anti rhysand#Carly’s anti Rhysand manifesto#but now that i think about it#isn’t it kinda crazy Rhysand idolizes his mom as like a saint even tho she dropped him off in the war camp#logically he should think nesta “letting” feyre endanger herself was illyrian (complementary)#wow nesta elain and papa archeron you sure did the whole sink or swim method really well. you remind me of my mother.#feyre archeron critical
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Ayano Sumida behind the scenes of her Arms Magazine November Issue shoot
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Some Atla fans are deeply unwilling to engage with the fact that their beloved series may bear the marks of being written by two white men in the early 2000s. They can’t conceive that the show might’ve been anything less than perfect and that there are certain problematic elements within it that are consistently overlooked by the fandom at large.
#hence why discussing Hama is an excercise in futility#They refuse to hear it they refuse to hear that Hama was unfairly vilified by the narrative (a pattern that pervades through the subsequent#episodes as well)#Maybe I’m just a hater but sometimes I can’t believe how much faith fans have in the politics of Bryke and idolize them as the perfect#storytellers#avatar the last airbender#atla#atla netflix#avatar live action#anti bryke#atla critical#atla discourse#fandom
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the bees!
#femstars#my art#enstars#ensemble stars#rinne amagi#rinne is the one who changed the most.#rinne being like. The Anti-Idol. i imagine she dresses however she wwants and is happy if it causes a higherup to burst a blood vessel.#rinne amagi says love your body. show it off. have confidence babes.#anyway#niki shiina#himeru#kohaku oukawa
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I’m so sick of people making Y/N so soft in soooo many fics LOL like I get it I like being soft sometimes too but be fr if someone said “mind your business” to a simple question in passing I’m not acting all “aw I’m sorry 😣” and packing my stuff to move rooms I’m going “ppfff okay 😀 weird” and ignoring them like why are yall acting like you’re just rolling over and showing your bellies at every moment of the day. And like I LIKE being soft like that sometimes but every damn fic at every waking moment they’re acting all sad n defenseless n boneless like girl stand up ✋ aren’t we an avenger or warrior or whatever you are in whatever universe we’re indulging in rn aksjksjsksk
This really isn’t a big deal I was just annoyed but after typing it out it’s lowkey kinda funny bahahahaha
#sorry that started out serious but the more I typed the more I thought it was funny#LOL#no but we don’t need overbearingly overpowered or stone cold or anti-soft characters but girl#stand up once in a while#fanfics#x reader#y/n#y/n needs to grow a pair sometimes#Bucky x reader#Steve x reader#the Witcher x reader#Geralt x reader#multifandom x reader#idol x reader#lads x reader#fanfiction#jokes
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who am i? : idol dr
now playing...sugar - flo rida
"pain killers...mixed with candy. i call em' mike n' vikes."
the strange and eccentric party girl. im always pursuing some odd niche hobby, chit-chatting with a stranger or cracking jokes. i cant seem to take anything seriously. frequently found shopping or partying. my disposition is why the members of my group nicknamed me "the jamaican version of snooki". despite my sunny exterior i am introspectice, kind, empathetic, wise & genuinely smart.





overview :
name ; Barbara Donatella Chibuike 🧁
stage name ; Barbie
group ; soul, 7mth
rep color ; pink, red
age ; 19
race ; west african.
nationality ; jamaican-american
origin ; harlem, manhattan, nyc
zodiac ; scoripo
born ; 11/20/03
hobbies ; singing, baking, sewing, figure skating, art, does shopping count...?
MBTI ; ENFP (im an infp in my or 😵💫)



visuals :
reeally dark skin. (just like in my or :))
natural blonde hair.
cute but not childlike.
natural blue eyes.
voice :
raspy.
4+ octaves.
squeaky & feminine.
think dulce maria, janis joplin & mariah carey in one.
fun facts :
i speak panamanian spanish, jamaican patois & american english
i can make a bomb ass margarita.
bb tricks is my first cousin. another cousin of mine is in the baddies franchise (she doesnt exist in my or)
ive won multiple baking competitions.
i was a DJ pre debut. (among other things...)
i can roller blade.
style :









s/o :
honestly i have no clue. im just going to "roll with it" and see who i end up with. but, i did script some "possible" partners. when i say that i mean ill have multiple chances to interact with these three the year post spawning, and ill have crushes on all of them. i havent scripted anything romance wise. im honestly not too interested in dating for this dr.



"WHERES THE BEEEACH" 🧁
row 1 - chloe sevingy, bb trickz, twiggy.
row 2 - 1st is paris hilton.
row 3 - holly madison & gwen stefani.
#shiftblr#shifting blog#anti shifters dni#shifting community#desired reality#shifting realities#shifting motivation#shifting#reality shifting#dr rambles#drself#own gg dr#dr scripting#fame shifting#fame desired reality#fame dr#dr self#idol dr#kpop shifting#kpop desired reality#shifting reality#reality shift#shifter#dr scrapbook#singer dr#reality shifter#kpop dr#7mth dr
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nobody asked for it but i want to give you guys a better insight on my shifting journey and some conclusions i got after shifting again today after a while.
I've been on this journey since 2021 and i shifted for the first time maybe a week after finding out what shifting was. but as many here, i was deep down in shiftok with disinformation all around and i build many bad beliefs around my journey that had already been successful, and i couldn't shift for maybe 2 years.
then i took a break from shifting because my life here felt better and i didn't feel like i had a reason to shift anymore. last year, 2024, i went back to shifting but completely away from shiftok and only trusting my instincts on what felt better for myself, and i mini shifted constantly doing wtv i wanted to, sometimes i wanted to use subs, sometimes i didn't, sometimes i just went to sleep, sometimes i used affirmations. and even though i always tried different things, the one thing that has always been there was my clear intention, i always say to myself before going to sleep: 'i trust and believe in myself that i will wake up in my intended desired reality'. And that's it, besides that i don't do much and i either enter the void before i fall asleep or i wake up there.
the top things i learned during me 4 years journey so far, is that:
• it's okay to use shifting as an escape, you don't have to enjoy where you are here to be able to enjoy there, you can totally hate it here and still live your best life in your dr.
• you'll undoubtedly and inevitably, eventually shift. there's no room for discussion, if you believe it fully or not, if you're frustated or not, you will eventually shift, all your hard work will be worthy.
• there's no magic formula for shifting and when everyone says that it's a personalized and individual journey, they're not lying. discover what simply feels right for you and be consistent.
• it's okay to feel frustated and it would actually be weird if you didn't feel like it, your feelings show that you're human and they make your journey unique. ask yourself why you're feeling this way instead of condemning yourself for feeling bad.
• feel the fear and do it anyways. you can feel scared once you're in the void or if you use awake methods and feel the shift, it can be scary, but don't allow this feeling to keep you from living the life you deserve.
that's it for now, thank you if you read this far and happy shifting ♡
#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifters#shifting community#shifting#shifting antis dni#shifting consciousness#shifting motivation#desired reality#harry potter dr#kpop dr#idol dr#shiftinconsciousness#shifting reality#shifting blog
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I just have to say this: Aegon the Usurper flying off like an idiot in battle while Rhaenyra does not, doesn’t make this guy a hero, nor does it make Rhaenyra a coward.
We need to set the record straight: Women don’t have to be warriors in order to be worth something.
This is just another proof of classic misogynistic thinking of TG stans. But they also prove to be highly subjective since they give “poor sweet innocent” Helaena a pass for doing absolutely nothing and being less than relevant even as a dragonrider. And as the ringleader of the Greens, I don’t think Alicent sat on a horse and rode off to battle in order to further her own ambitions. She started the whole mess and then hid behind her sons. Even after Rhaenyra took King’s Landing, the only thing Alicent could say was something like “Just wait till my son Aemond returns bla bla bla.”
Rhaenyra is a girl’s girl. Those who read the book understand that. The canon version of her never wanted to be a son (unlike the stupidity induced in that show). She was very feminine: always choosing to wear the best dresses with the finest silks, many pieces of jewelry, and she is highly interested in men. She was always proud to be a woman. She embraced it. She never tried to act like the opposing gender as a way to make others look at her as worthy of the throne.
I repeat: Rhaenyra was a girl’s girl and she was proud of it.
She was not a warrior. She never trained with a sword in her life, unlike her idiotic half-brothers. She was not even the type (unlike Princess Rhaenys). Rhaenyra spent her time doing girly things and riding Syrax.
Shortly before the war started, Rhaenyra suffered a miscarriage which greatly affected her health. She needed months to recover. This is the reason why she didn’t ride Syrax in battle, as confirmed in the book. It was not because she didn’t want to or because she refused to fight her battles herself (as I hear many TG stans claim in spite).
And even if flying hadn’t been detrimental to her health, why would she fly into battle? You think that is a smart idea? It’s brave, but it’s also stupid, and the usurper himself proved that.
Aegon the Usurper rode his dragon into battle to show that he’s a man’s man, and what did that get him? Injuries which prevented him from being able to move well enough in order to sit on the throne he stole. The only battle he actually won was against a baby dragon, Moondancer. A baby dragon who inflicted deadly wounds on Sunfyre and caused his death.
So tell me again how ‘intelligent’ the usurper was to fly off into battle himself and what exactly he has accomplished with that. What exactly is so “heroic” about that? The fact that he shows off his masculinity on a big bad dragon?
And of course do forgive a poor woman for not flying her dragon into battle like a crazy person after a miscarriage and several psychological blows in one go like her father’s death, her daughter’s death, her son’s death and the usurpation through which a faction of snakes stole the throne that belonged to her.
Do forgive her for lacking any combat experience because you know…she was raised a girl and has a girlish personality!
And do forgive her for not being an idiot and getting herself disabled, like her half-brother did.
#I am convinced that 90 % of the TG stans are men who have fragile male egos and feel the need to put women down#while the other 10 % are women who idolize the show version of Alicent because of Olivia Cooke’s beauty and doe eyes#team black#pro team black#canon asoiaf#asoiaf meta#rhaenyra targaryen#queen rhaenyra#the dragon queen#aegon the usurper#asoiaf#fire and blood#a song of ice and fire#the dance of the dragons#canon rhaenyra targaryen#anti hotd#anti aegon ii#anti aegon ii targaryen#anti team green#anti alicent hightower#anti greens#anti helaena targaryen#pro rhaenyra targaryen#anti alicent stans#rhaenyra i
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it sounds like hawks is probably going to keep the ranking system, and when he says he's keeping it bc the people who want to tear it down are "only seeing the cons of the system, and none of the pros," it shows keigo's childhood plushie of endeavor, and that's wild to me. "the popularity contest still has its pros," hawks says as he thinks of his idol endeavor, the man who abused and neglected his whole family because he wanted to win said popularity contest.
and it's specifically a panel of keigo's plushie, which reads to me that keigo's holding onto his childhood worship of the man so much, he's ironically only seeing the pros of the system (whatever those are), and none of the cons. it feels like hawks has blinders on when it comes to endeavor, and it's felt that way ever since he found out about endeavor's past and immediately, seemingly without any inner conflict, gave his stamp of approval anyways bc hey, at least endeavor's trying now! and i'm disappointed considering how complex a character he seemed when he was introduced. sigh.
#are the 'pros' that he had hope bc he found out abt endeavor through the media?#bc u can still have the publicity without the popularity contest...........#keigo my beloved what did they do to you#rei rambles#bnha#bnha spoilers#spoilers#anti endeavor#anti hawks#kinda. it's not really anti hawks so much as it is anti hawks's character arc but. well. it's not very nice so. 😅😅😅#hawks came off as smart and critical of hero society esp bc the commission raised and trained him at a young age#but he really didnt turn any of those smarts and critiques on his idol at all and it's been a really bad sticking point for me personally#big big sigh#i genuinely dont understand the quick panel flashback to the endeavor plushie#does someone else have a different reading for that panel cuz im having trouble being unbiased#i cant be unbiased about the way this manga is ending i am Struggling it's so hard
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Never over Will vs Angela's POV of Mike and El btw
#unreliable narration#stranger things#will byers unreliable narrator#byler#anti milkvan#the way will idolizes their relationship#and yeah angel hates el and thinks mike is ugly but has no reason to believe they're unhappy#if anything she should like will be unhappy that they ARE happy#but unlike will want to ruin it#but instead she becomes our more objective point of comparison#jealousy as the biased and somehow hatred as the reference point
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Cersei and Brienne I am so, so sorry that people in this fandom have madonna-whore complexed you two. I'm so sorry that your characters and arcs have been reduced to you being the devil and angel on Jaime's shoulder. You deserve so much better than how you're perceived by this misogynistic fandom 🙏🏾
#cersei lannister#brienne of tarth#asoiaf#anti jaime stans#down with Jaime and his stans!#Cersei and Brienne deserve so much better then being reduced to one note characters for his nasty ass 😭#it's also crazy to realize that Brienne would be demonized to hell and back by them if they couldn't use her as a redemption tool for him#kinda need George to kill him off in TWOW and flip the script so his death services /their/ arcs instead#Brienne learning to see past her rose-tinted glasses is more interesting than anything that can be done with Jaime's character#let her learn about his actions in AFFC + AGOT so she can stop idolizing him#and free Cersei from constantly being demonized by his stans to make him look better
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Can we please get rid of the idea that a “strong” woman with an effeminate guy is automatically a subversive and progressive relationship?
Look, I know this take comes from people whose only relationship experience is from fandom tropes and TikTok memes, but it’s frustrating. It’s frustrating to me because I am that woman, and even if it physically “looks” subversive, it often actually isn’t.
Just for context here, I’m speaking from my experience as the kind of woman I am. I’m tall; I’m 5’10”. I have a muscular build. I’m highly educated. I actually used to like the idea of being taller than a male partner, earn more, be the provider, etc. It felt empowering to me, so like a lot of you, I became interested in that idea when I thought about relationships with men. I always hated the “woman role” forced on me and I thought my stature would help me escape it by switching roles.
However, actual experience made it seem a lot less empowering. Because here’s the reality.
Despite what they say, men don’t like it when their wives/girlfriends are taller, or earn more. It makes them feel emasculated. You might notice this immediately, or it might take months for the mask to come off, for him to start acting insecure. But he will. And who will he take it out on? That’s right: you.
Sure, it will be “my girl acts like a booktok boyfriend I love her!” and “my wife is the coolest ever I love her!” at first, but in reality? There will always be some lingering insecurity. He’ll expect you to hold his hand and reassure him that he’s still a man to you and that you respect him constantly.
And that brings me to my next point—these relationships really aren’t as subversive as they seem. Sure, he puts on nail polish and flower crowns. But does he do the dishes? Does he help out around the house? Sure, he gushes about how “cool” you are. But does he support you emotionally the same way you support him? Can you truly be yourself with him, or do you find that you repress and downplay your feelings to protect his?
The unfortunate reality is, there is simply always going to be an unequal dynamic. It’s been instilled into us by thousands of years of patriarchy. You can’t undo that with some fandom tropes. It’s like painting over water damage instead of fixing the broken pipe. The fact remains that as a woman, no matter how physically strong you are, no matter how tall, and no matter how successful, that “progressive” man will still always see you as the woman. His woman. He’ll happily enjoy the benefits of your paycheck while still expecting you to do the majority of the work around the house. He’ll happily “let” you be strong because it also means you’re spending your energy coddling him emotionally. This isn’t subversive or beneficial for women.
There is, of course, an exception. Men who have fetishes—which to be clear, it is never a compliment to be someone’s fetish. I’ve experienced this as well. It’s dehumanizing. You become an object. Even a man who claims to “worship” you in the name of his fetish really isn’t worshipping you—he’s worshipping the gratification he’s using you for. Gratification which comes from the humiliation of being subservient to a woman, because to them, women are weak and inferior so therefore being the servant of one is the greatest humiliation imaginable.
So yes, I’m really sick of seeing posts glorifying these dynamics, because it’s obvious they’re either coming from people who have no experience with them or from fetishists. I don’t care if he wears a flower crown. I don’t care if he’s shorter and cowers behind his #girlboss wife while she epically stands up for him. It’s cheap faux progress and reminds me of how isolated and neglected you feel when you actually have to be that woman.
If you really want to be subversive, as a man, try actually treating your girlfriend as an equal instead of putting her on a pedestal. Try actually asking her what she wants and needs from you instead of assuming. Try sharing responsibilities with her like a partner instead of a grown child. Try defending her with the same passion she does you. Be just as strong for her as she is for you. Stand up for her against other men. Challenge other men. Learn about what she cares about and values. Focus on what you can do for her. Engage with her hobbies. Treat her like a human being and not a trope.
Now that would be an actually subversive heterosexual relationship for a strong woman to be in.
#fandom salt reminded me of this but it’s true everywhere#feminism#personal#yes it is also:#zutara#anti kataang#sorry theres a reason for my preferences#strong women want strong partners#not a partner who idolizes you like a child idolizes a parent
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things ive said in my fame/idol dr
..hey guys! i just wanted to show some quotes that i scripted for myself for my idol dr, since i thought it would be pretty funny. this is copy and pasted from my actual script (some things i have actually said, some things i found on the internet. ill let you figure that out.)
“klemens bend over.” - during a live, klemens and curtis had come to visit from canada.
“ahh, hydrogen!” - me to my manager
“i wish peanut would oil up already.” - me talking about orangepeanut, a youtuber.
“it is earth day.” - me on a live
“oh im sexy, wait what was i talking about? pedophiles!” - me on a reality tv show
“hear me out. hyunjins mom.” - ?
“backshots! backshots! backshots!” - me to ?
“i was chill and making a bagel right and then suddenly out of nowhere i start having uncontrollable spasms.” - me telling a story during a concert
“i wish i had six extra nipples” - me to josh
“AHHHHHH WHOS GONNA BE THE WEEKND TO MY LANA AHHHHH” - crashing out on a livestream
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Im going to script that my personality in my dr is similar to my cr personality. I want to see how my family, friends and fans in my dr react to it. I’m curious to see what kind of videos fans make of me in my kpop dr
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