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I just have to get this off my chest because it's been bothering me ever since I saw a particular post about Danneel (I'll mention below) earlier and all of the ridiculousness I've seen this weekend about J2M as well:
Holy fucking shit. I knew with Jibcon being this weekend that there would be so much drama happening (like always) but I can't believe some of the takes I've seen from what these guys have said. This, to me, is an all-new low for this fandom.
First of all, while I am not a Jared fan (I don't hate the guy, I'm just indifferent to him if that makes sense) and while I have repeatedly claimed that I despise 15x20 and Dean's death, when I read his answer to that finale question (I haven't watched the panel yet but I plan to), I did not automatically take it as him saying that Dean deserved to die or that he deserved to live a half life or any of it. Do I agree with his opinion (at first mention I mean)? No, but it's just that, his opinion. Since the whole DenCon 2021 disaster, I've actually done a deep dive with this guy and I have come to appreciate his opinions on things related to the show and industry, even if I may not necessarily agree with him all of the time. I don't think he's an evil guy or sitting around hatching evil schemes to screw over Jensen, Misha, Dean, Cas, or their fans or anything like it. The guy's human and he has opinions, just like every other human being on the planet. Can we please try to come from that perspective when we hear something he said rather than running around screaming "FOUL!" before the guy is even finished speaking? I'm guilty of making that mistake in the past but now I try to come from a more objective and compassionate perspective when I hear something, and then look into it for myself. And each time I find that his words/intention consistently gets misconstrued and painted in a light that was never there in the first place. Which brings me to my second point:
When it comes to Danneel, I am not per se a fan of hers either, I am also rather indifferent to her as I am to Jared or Misha. I don't hate her and even though I don't condone any of what could be characterized as "bad behavior" from the past (i.e. her old tweets and responses to people), like Jared for example, she is also another human being and like any other human being, people do change and they do grow as they get older/have more experiences. She may still behave in a similar manner (though we haven't seen this publicly that I am aware of) or she may not (when you have kids, things tend to change your perspective usually), either way it doesn't matter when it comes to what I'm about to mention. Criticize the woman or don't criticize her, love her or hate her, whatever your reasons, can we PLEASE stop with the bullshit? And what I mean by the bullshit is this:
Jensen mentioned that he was tired in his solo panel today because Danneel wanted to stay up the night before because she hadn't been to Rome in 11 years. All of a sudden, antis (and one severely worrying individual in particular who apparently has a hard time distinguishing fiction from reality when it comes to this couple aka one hgcowboy - you know the one): DANNEEL IS ABUSING HIM BY DEPRIVING HIM OF SLEEP!!!! HOW DARE SHE!!!
Like, are you fucking kidding me? I may be indifferent to the woman or give two figs about her really but how do you get from Jensen being tired from a late night out with his wife to her ABUSING him? And this is characterized as intentional sleep deprivation? Obviously this person (hgcowboy) has never been psychologically abused like this (which is obviously a good thing) nor has she ever spoken to someone who has been through such an ordeal (I am someone who has been through that for example); that's more than evident from this commentary she posted.
1) Danneel wanting to stay out late because this is the one time she's been to Rome in 11 years (and obviously the first time with their kids) is NOT abuse. Have you ever had kids? Have you been married with said kids? There is nothing wrong with Mommy and Daddy having a night out, especially in a place that Mommy doesn't always get to visit (which is why I'm willing to bet that Jensen agreed to stay up despite his early schedule the next day). It doesn't matter that Jensen had a con the next day. The circumstances being what they are change Jensen's usual schedule. If he wasn't married and dating someone instead or took his mom there and she wanted to enjoy a night out or Daniela did as Jensen first joked, is that abuse, too? Simple answer: no. Can it be inconsiderate if (and that's a big IF) that person's intentions were purely self-involved? Sure. But NOT abuse.
2) Jensen is a GROWN ASS MAN. He can make his own decisions. For example, he said yesterday that he likes to go on the Tower of Terror ride (or whatever they call it these days) like JJ, but Danneel doesn't like the ride. He still makes the decision to go on that ride no matter that she doesn't like it. HE MAKES HIS OWN CHOICES. He could have told Danneel no about staying up but he didn't. He chose to go anyway, knowing he had an early morning. That's on him, not her, no matter the reasoning behind his making the decision. He is responsible for himself. Stop pulling shit out of thin air to justify your hatred and jealousy, seriously.
3) As an abuse survivor, I am flat out asking that hgcowboy: can you please stop fucking throwing the word ABUSE around because you're insanely jealous of the woman who Jensen took with him to Rome and it's not you? Like seriously "Sleep deprivation IS abuse" - perhaps learn what actual abuse is and stop throwing that fucking word around (especially in this fucking context) for your own reasons and so you can keep your ongoing fantasy that Jensen is going to leave his wife for you for whenever the next time you meet him is (if you actually met him as you claimed). This is not the first time you've done this when it comes to the topic of Jensen and Danneel, and it needs to STOP. Every time you do it to justify your hatred and jealousy of a woman that the guy you're obsessed with is married to, you do harm to actual abuse survivors such as myself. Abuse is a serious subject and that word should not be thrown around lightly. Idgaf if you hate Danneel, you want to keep that toxicity going (as all hatred is), that's your business, but stop fucking using that word and STOP acting/saying it like you are an expert on the matter, like you do on everything else you talk about like acting, the industry, branding, Jensen's mental state, Danneel's mental state, their kids' mental states (remember that disgusting post you made about their youngest daughter because you couldn't distinguish a joking story from actual reality? saying she was a sociopath in the making? because I sure do), and psychology (spoiler alert on that one: you're not). Because from that statement alone, you clearly don't know what the fuck you're talking about. And it is absolutely disrespectful and damaging to the abuse survivor community when you say that shit and put it out into the universe. You really should be ashamed of yourself.
And those who have actually experienced abuse in any form know exactly how serious that word is, the kind of impact labeling a situation or event as such actually has, and would never use it so disrespectfully and so casually. Like I said, you ought to be ashamed.
Now for those who say Jensen was name dropping when talking about being a producer, did y'all actually watch the panel where he talks about it? He was stating how hard it was to actually get a project onto the air, no matter what the circumstances, i.e. having names attached that were highly successful. Where is the name dropping? Where is this him being so arrogant that he made himself sound like Thee Producer? Have y'all not learned by now to watch the panels for yourselves and not 100% trust the tweets that come out of these rooms? Meaning that their interpretation or translation and context may not always come across in their tweets? How many times does this need to happen in order for you to finally get it? And you guys say you're the critically thinking ones? Yeah, not so much.
Have your opinions, express them freely on your blogs or chosen social media, love/like or hate/dislike who/what you want, but for Christ's sake, can we please inject some rationale into this fandom once and for all? Not everything these guys say is meant to be taken literally or to be a sign of them being in a hostage situation with their wives that only you can help them escape from (looking at you blogger I mentioned above; just admit you're obsessed with Jensen and that's why you hate Danneel so much and go). Perhaps not all is right in the Jenneel world, perhaps there really is a separation on the horizon, perhaps there isn't, either way, it doesn't matter. It doesn't give you the right to throw that word around so casually. And you obviously haven't learned since your last claim of "abuse" that people were doing to Jared when a fan told him not to cry or she would start crying (not meant in a negative or demeaning way to him at all) in a panel a year or so ago. It's clear that you do not understand what that word means. If you truly care about the abuse survivor community, you'll stop using it for your own justifications, fantasies, and anti blog discourse.
And while we're at it, let's all just admit that half of the shit that's said about these guys (and their wives) would never be said to their faces. I seriously doubt you would say it to anyone's face if you had to look them in the eye and say it. You don't have to like these guys or these women, you're free to have your opinions and express them, but can we seriously stop with the exaggerated speculation and outlandish analysis of each word that comes out of these guys' mouths about every single aspect of their lives? We are not inside their heads, their homes, their marriages/relationships, or the inner working of their careers. Does that mean that each individual hasn't done something worth of legitimate criticism? No. They're human beings on a very public stage. Each one of them has done or said something that is not desirable and perhaps has caused you to un-fan them so to speak. But does that mean all of this fighting (i.e. Jensen fandom vs Jared fandom & Jared fandom vs Misha fandom) and toxicity and drama and spreading of negativity needs to continue? No. Why can't we just enjoy what we enjoy about this series and/or these guys and leave it at that?
It's just beyond frustrating. I swear, if I could make my own tag for this show and Jensen on here, I would. Tumblr has to come up with a better filtering tag system than the one they currently have in place.
Just had to get that out. Done.
Edit: I don't usually include names in any of these posts but after the person named here came at me the way she did, accusing me of shit I didn't do, and sicced her followers on me for no damn good reason, now Idgaf.
#anti jared hate#anti danneel hate#anti jensen hate#anti misha hate#anti genevieve hate#anti hate everywhere#anti antis#and STOP throwing the word ABUSE around#you should be ashamed of yourself hologramcowboy#spn fandom bullshit
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Man...I'm getting really sick of seeing AI in places it dosent belong. Go detect cancer cells and leave my damn art and literature alone. I need an AI fly swatter at this point.
#It's everywhere I look and on every damn app#I hate it#I hate that a concept with so much potential is being used in exactly the wrong way#anti ai#I hate AI#also learned recently it's horrible for the environment. All that to make shitty version of uncanny valley ass art#commissioning art is way more fun.#late night rants
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thinking about the time rhysand said “nesta is… she’s illyrian. I mean that as a compliment, but she’s an illyrian at heart. so there is no excuse for her behavior.”
and that behavior is... playing cards at seedy taverns while spending the money rhysand owes her? if she's an illyrian at heart then maybe he'd prefer she go on a rampage and slaughter an entire village? rhys trying to pass this off as a compliment is also ridiculous because everything sjm has written about illyrians paints them as savage, violent monsters with bigoted/misogynistic beliefs. he is so foul for this
#not to mention it's not his place to judge her behavior#why does he insert himself everywhere#this quote makes no sense#anti rhysand#pro nesta#sjm critical#hate him#nesta archeron deserves better#pro nesta archeron
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marauders ao3 severely lacks gen james centric fics cause tell me why everything is about sirius or remus or wolfstar. i literally can’t find anything where james is the main focus without it involving jegulus in some way. give my fav marauder the justice he deserves🙏🏽
#james potter#marauders#lily evans#jily#jily supremacy#hp#harry potter#marauders era#sirius black#remus lupin#anti marauders fandom#fcking hate jegulus sm bro yall don’t understand literally my number 1 opp in this fandom#this is NOT anti wolfstar btw i love them but theyre everywhere im tired😭
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Love slowly but surely becoming the odd one out in my circle for not using chat gpt even though it would "make my life so much easier and i could spend less time revising stuff" /neg
#“you need to learn how to use it if you want to make money” says my mom#“you should use it to sum up those huge texts so you can study them easier in less time” says my best friend who's technically also anti-ai#“you should—” how about i start fucking biting#little bit of my soul dies everytime i hear smth like that#at this point i dont even know why i hate it so much anymore. i just do. i guess its the principle of it. it's core. but it's everywhere#it tires me out and im so tired already#cant i get help without having to ask a machine for it? is it really all there is left for me to turn to? did i fall this low? did we?#it wouldn't even recognize whats important and what isn't#i think I'll just tear a nerve from stress on my own#sighs#delete later maybe#i dont think i care at this point#sunshine talks
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I just LOVE how both in got and hotd we have established that the root of all evil is women who *checks notes* enjoy sex! consistency is important right? I mean GOD FORBID we genuinely root for anyone that isn't nEd FuCKinG sTark the paragon of big dick masculine honor! who are we gonna root for? a flagrant philanderer that started the war because she's a whore? pwease
but at least they're criticizing monarchy you guyzzz hashtag anti war hashtag subversion!! definitely promising!! never been done before!!!
#hate it here!!!!!!#i knoW i said I wasn't gonna talk about it again but you guys i C A N T because I saw MANY tags GLORIFYING THIS BS AND IM LOSING IT OK#'it's just a stupid show you shouldn't care' AGREE but tell me this is not actual gaslighting?#and i don't even LOOK FOR THOSE they just appear because people I follow for NON asoiaf content reblog them and glorify this clownfest#it's literally everywhere?#i genuinely cannot fucking comprehend how in the actual fuck this show got social justice points from tumblr.com university#you guys are so so so#you literally fainT at MINOR shit and you glorify art with actual harmful messages#it's ABSURD#ned they're never gonna make me hate you but oh boy they are trying THEIR BEST#aspa rambles#anti hotd#rant#AGH#rhaenyra targaryen
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Do I feel the least bit sorry for Claire? No. Because girl, you went into this after figuring out he gave you THE WRONG NUMBER. do you know how many men i've given the wrong number to because I simply did not want. Lots. Bro gave you the wrong number and you still stalked him out through his friend. That is weirdo forceful behavior and frankly not cute. Now look at where you are. That is shameful. Shameful behavior. like...he gave you the wrong number. he gave you the wrong number. he PURPOSEFULLY gave you the wrong number. On purpose.
#sydcarmy#anti claire bear#he gave you the wrong fucking number#on purpose#and you know he did#yet you still...#red flags everywhere#girl#that was a glaring red flab babe#i fucking hate when they write female characters this way like oh she's assertive and going after what she wants but if a guy does it...#what she did was fucking weird#how could you not get that message?#like you have no boundaries
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#OKAY I SAID I WASNT ENGAGING#but#i had an idea and i had to bring it to life#this is my contribution to the BT v BoB drama#the crazy misogyny and racism i’ve been seeing EVERYWHERE from BTs has me so . yeah i understand why u like tmmy so much!!!#anti bucktommy#i hate using anti tags but BT stans stay so far away from me#911#mine
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when will the taylor swift worship end
#that white demon is everywhere#shut the fuck up about her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#her music is boring as fuck#i hate her#i dont even care anymore im gonna say it#anti taylor swift
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this is a ian hate blog🙌🏽
he's a colonizer, I'm an Indian
wild animals are meant to be in jungles, not as exotic pets
see 1) and 2)
where was that tiger caught from? hm.. Bengal is famous for their tigers, kcd/fs in set in Bengal. that means the yt btch exploited our jungles to capture and tame the poor creature. maybe he got it from somewhere else but the coincidence is too hard to ignore. this reminds me of the time british used to use our raw materials and cheap labour, and sell the product to us in high prices under the Queen's name. 🤡
but for real, I hope Pride!Devi has the option to slit his throat open like Amala. I'd feed him to the tiger, tbh🤷🏽♀️
#romance club#kali: flame of samsara#not to yuck someone's yum but he is ugly as shit#this `power move` of gifting devi the tiger is not the ooh daddy~ move you guys are making up to be#anyway please block this tag to avoid my hate posts abt his pale crusty ass ->#anti ian#the sudden influx of his arts everywhere#eugh. he's a fucking colonizer. even if he's fictional
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Seeing an awesome Loki fanart and then checking the artists’ page and realizing you’re in Th*rki hell has to be one of the worst feelings on earth
#i hate th*rki 😭😭 why are you freaks everywhere#i block th*rki art accounts whenever i can#bc i still get uncomfortable reposting non-th*rki stuff from those accounts bc i know that’s how the artist views the characters 😭#and it pisses me off bc there’s some art that i really like from them#but oh well#loki#thor#anti thorki#tangyyaps
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#hi I hate it here#the fact that I have so many posts just constantly raging about the existence of criston Cole is so exhausting#these were the easiest ones to find but it’s so constant and everywhere#are you guys like. ok#txt#hotd#hotd fandom critical#house of the dragon#hotd fandom#you guys ever think about the words you say being a reflection of like. who you are as a person#or am I asking too much#criston Cole#crispin cole#anti criston cole
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Why shouldn't I just become the monster you all already think I am? If feminists are allowed (even encouraged) to be hateful & retaliatory to all men for the sins of the few they fawn over, why should I not be allowed the same? Why am I supposed to rise above the hypocritical vitriol and martyr myself for people who hate me? Why shouldn't I repress my queerness and go be a hateful chud? What incentive is there to continue to help anyone, ever?
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you know sometimes i wonder if i drink too much hateraid but just saw a “this gives rhysand vibes” on a video about football players having to kneel for the four feet tall photographer. drinking more gallons of hateraid.
#this fucking series is so pervasive and everywhere and you literally cannot escape it so i will continuously hate#acotar#anti rhysand#anti sjm
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why do hot people like harry potter
#roy speaks#sorry if u like harry potter. i want to burn every copy of every book ever. sorry ig#anti hp#anti harry potter#anti jkr#anti jk rowling#ik some of my mutuals like wolfstar and shit but i. hate it#i have some of the tags blocked but i still see them everywhere#here#on tiktok#everywher 😭.#sorry. i gues#rant#i could shit talk hp all day long 😜#there was a period of time where a lot of people here hated it#and i was content cause like. same#but people have gone back to posting about it and i want TO DIE#sory. i gues#this is not vague posting about my mutuals btw. i just keep seeing the tag and shit
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at some point if you focus entirely on mlm ships and all your least favorite characters are women, i think maybe, just maybe, here’s a thought
#i am entirely ignored due to my Feminine Appearance#i mean like there are just some people who just tag anti female character#and it makes no sense at all and is usually on the basis of ruining an mlm ship#summary: hating a female character does not inherently mean misogyny#but i think there’s a certain point where it’s a pattern and you need to look inward yk#also if your least favorite character is a woman in most shows you’re doing something wrong#shitty male characters are everywhere ??? and you think she’s the problem??????#anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk#just gonna tag some fandoms here#danganronpa#my hero academia#boku no hero academia#harry potter#mauraders era#technically this applies to most popular fandoms so yeah#tvd#the vampire diaries#tvdu#tvd universe#i am probably putting myself into the trenches for this. oh well#rant post
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