#anon with relatable issues

[rest-your-head-in-my-lap]

too scared to post it on my blog so I'll just ask here in case someone relates. I'm hypersexual and sometimes, especially irl (because it's more rare to see someone being open about it there), I just feel safer with ace/aro people because it's like my brain just goes "oh, alright, they don't like this stuff. oh, I don't have to worry about them sexualizing me either"

it's not even like I get sexualized that often (well, if I try hard enough, yes), but there's just something about it. last time I fell in love, it was with a demisexual person, and I felt the safest in the world until she told me she had started feeling attracted to me. then it was a mixture of that "euphoria" when someone is openly sexual with me, happiness because I made her feel safe with me to do that, and fear because I didn't want to think of us differently, sexually, because it was safe before, and things had changed.

sorry for rambling, and please tell me if I said anything wrong, I don't know.

Hey, there's nothing wrong with you feeling like that. It can be very, very difficult to find someone who doesn't sexualize you. Not always, but a lot of times yeah. And it isn't at all strange to want to avoid that possibility entirely by hanging around people who mostly don't feel things like that. But hey, I know it's not much consolation; but if you're looking for someone who will love you and not sexualize you, there will be someone like that out there, promise. I've had a partner who basically just saw me as a way to pass the time and bend to their wishes. My beloved has had partners that started feeling sexual attraction towards it that felt awkward and strained and just- not in the right ways. I was so terrified of engaging in that sort of thing because I was scared it'd get upset and feel like I was doing it for its sake; Or I would have to leave it hanging at times and make it feel bad. But we talked about it, and I feel very secure and confident in what we have now. And I know if anything changed it would still be okay... Point is; people have been there, you aren't alone. And you can find somebody; whether they be a best friend or a partner or someone you think of as family. And I sincerely hope you find something <3.

[hakusins]

If male Jordan looks female does female Jordan look like a male? … (let me fuck em both)

unfortunately anon you'll have to get in line - there's already someone by jordan's side and he ain't the sharing type

but on f!jordan design!! I actually didn't think much when making m!jordan cause i was just thinking of what my oc's type would be (pretty men) HBREHBFJHBERF but if i were to view f!jordan, it would just be m!jordan design but female? so they'd look something like this:

BUT YOU DID give me the Thought of .... short haired f!jordan so you also get a bonus brainrot doodle from yours truly <3

but same anon - same, i want to fuck em both

[naughtybg3confessions]

This is a response to the person who sent the confession about starting to enjoy vaginal sex with their partner for the first time thanks to BG3 and fanfiction.

No, you're not pathetic. And you're not alone. In fact, thanks a lot for the confession. I completely related.

Anon is responding to this confession.

You're definitely neither pathetic nor alone anon, especially on this blog. And by sharing, you never know who your confession could be resonating with. So thank you for opening up to us!

[cabeswaterdrowned]

Sorry (not) but I find anyone who acts like Blue is making something out of nothing when she’s mad Adam’s first question is about the kissing to be like. Deeply suspicious. Of course she is mad that’s the first thing he asked her! They’ve been walking on eggshells around each other and not really communicating since the last aborted kiss attempt which is on both of them to some degree, but when he comes around to her it’s only for this and when she has so many fears and insecurities about not properly belonging in the gang because she’s a girl (which is founded based on the fact aside from Noah they’ve all been misogynistic towards her at some point even if it was passive) and not being respected, when she’s also an outsider at home because of a different thing she can’t control. And you can not say that her feeling Adam is treating her like a thing to have and not a person he connects with is unfounded he again literally “I got Blue without you!” screamed at Gansey, consistently going to her after they fight (he did it end of TRB after repugnant too) to validate himself or just generally when he’s falling apart looking for validation from her like in the apartment scene. It’s not a bad thing to seek validation from your partner and in TRB before I’d say the last quarter I think Blue and Adam were genuinely connecting and developing a friendship while also exploring their feelings/attractions to each other, which did always have elements of seeking escape or validation for both of them in different ways, but it’s dissolved into that so much now. And I do think Blue is to some degree mad at Adam because he’s here and available to be mad at when she’s also mad at Gansey for it (I don’t think they’re *in the wrong * for not inviting her but they are in the wrong for not even considering she could want to go or at least want to be in the loop, also even though it’s Gansey’s party if Adam is trying to be her *boyfriend* it was kind of his place to ask her) so she’s conveying anger at Adam when the anger is for both of them, and also more general factors she’s frustrated by, but also Adam has the exact same response of channeling emotions that aren’t solely about Blue through their fights (and to his credit he is self aware that he does this) so again crucifying Blue for it is whack imo. Also to check myself on shipper-brain for the Adam-Gansey aspect of it, well obviously I read that here as a factor because I’m me, but for arguments sake on the premise Adam has No feelings about Gansey that are anything other than platonic Blue would still have a right to be mad about him prioritizing his platonic male friends over her and treating them with more respect, obviously, because misogyny exists (also these are not two contradictory readings in that I think they’re both factors. Signed an Adam Stan).

[xxplastic-cubexx]

magneto tiddies in the preview for rogue the savage land #2 (and confirmation that there won't be any rogue/magneto romance thank god) 😌 https://aiptcomics.com/2025/01/20/x-men-monday-282-tim-seeley-rogue-savage/

ON MY LIFE YOU SWEAR ?? PROMISE ??????

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[t4tails]

You know, I wouldn't be surprised if this actually is why Riddler got the red hair and sideburns as well as the personality update to be less emotional/less pathetic/more heartless/consistently being written as a direct foil to Bruce now (evil business major constantly trying to usurp Bruce at WayneCorp seems very Thomas Elliot). Hush is the major "we need to make the Riddler a serious threat" comic and if there's one thing DC writers love to do with Riddler it's to merge him with Hush in some way (e.g. see Batman 2022 - his costume, wrapping his victim's head in tape like bandages and his videos flashing the word 'hush' on screen)

its funny that its thought of as that because i dont even think they succeeded in making him come off as a major threat...? like yes, he orchestrated a big plan. but you know. it also failed. and ended with him getting punched in the face. its an especially odd reputation for it to gain when like i mentioned before, its really only a single conversation of the riddler boasting about his own abilities! he is not really in the rest of the series at all! it feels like this was perhaps the first pin in the idea of a "serious riddler" in the sense that later versions take what it wrote as inspiration for really bizarre flanderization

[vampmilf]

dear god all those usamericans in your asks are wild. "Texas and florida are sooo different for example the accents" girl if we cross national borders in Europe there will be a DIFFERENT LANGUAGE. Like yeah it might be slightly weird for you to talk to someone from a different US state but you CAN talk to each other. I had to learn FRENCH for years before i could cross a border and do the same, i think there might be a difference. Also imagine people just going online and saying "im from lower saxony" and immediately getting mad when people dont know thats germany? We would never

no fr fr and then they get so pissed when you tell them that other countries also have regionally different cultures and *gasp* even different ethnicities and indigenous groups and *double gasp* immigration history?!??!? that they reside in your inbox for the next two days calling you entitled and priviledged because uhhhh you told them theyre not special... average pissing on the poor webite behaviour 🫶🏻💖

[journey-to-the-attic]

really liking ik's dynamic with raphael already and i cant get this out of my head for when he becomes an exchange student too

rapheal: this is long overdue. it's time we talked, face to face

lucifer: *prepared for past related angst*

raphael: *walks past him to ik* i have so many questions about sharks for you

i love this.... raphael has found inner peace and learnt to let go of the past through increasingly technical animal facts, to the point where he and ik are learning a whole zoology degree's worth of information

ik will probably still make him talk things out with lucifer and/or simeon at some point, and of course this would be a proper serious discussion - but imagine with me for a moment the comedic hypothetical alternative:

raphael tries to have a serious talk-out of all his guilt (of both the religious and not religious kind), but he keeps accidentally slipping into animal metaphors the whole time. simeon's like "raphael i really appreciate the effort but i do not understand how the migratory patterns of seabirds relate to this"

[phantom-fleetways]

Thoughts or tidbits about spite perhaps?

Only what you can share though! Don't feel too pressured to spoil styff

I just think he's pretty neat so I'd like to learn what I can about him ^w^

Sure!!

Nothing said here is gonna be canon, and that's mostly cuz this is all scrapped stuff.

Working on Invidia is... Hard. Genuinely speaking. So I have a lot of scrapped content for it that was used to build up bits about his character!

Some reference notes about THIS design!

During this time while I was working on Spite, I had basically polished out a concept for Invidia. Mostly that Invidia was the name of what is basically Moebius during this period of development. I was reusing what little I understood or Moebius from Archie to craft this early version of the AU. At this point, only 6 main characters had been established.

Originally, in these early concepts Spite was more outwardly jealous and scheming.

Another important thing is that in these early concepts, Spite made Scourge. And Scourge made Spite. I frankly feel like I will revisit these concepts, but not in the way I originally planned.

Spite, as it stands now, hasn't changed all that much from my first crack at characterization. But he's not nearly as outwardly prone to acts of Jealousy as he used to be. He's a bit more secure in his relationship with Scourge. Mostly cuz he is the ONLY person Scourge truly gives a fuck about on a genuine level.

Hopefully, when more of Invidia is finished and I actually get their part of the story properly hammered out I can share even more and even start working on more shitposts for them. For now though, I'll stick to sharing small things.

[kaiserin-erzsebet]

Tbh the love is there in some capacity in majority of Dracula adaptations-31 one and Seward loves his daughter Mina and Mina loves her friend Lucy and etc. 58 one and Holmwood loves his sister Lucy and Mina loves her sister-in-law, etc. in fact I don’t remember Dracula adaptations where nobody cared about anybody at all, they all had human characters caring about some other characters and loving them.

I do not think that was what I was saying. It would be a bit absurd to say that none of the adaptations have any love between the characters. Unless there's a particularly grimdark version that I'm forgetting or haven't seen.

I was saying specifically that a lot of adaptations tend to underplay or significantly reduce the affection between Lucy and Mina (any version that has Dracula/Mina romance has to undercut her relationship with Lucy, because otherwise why doesn't it upset her that he preyed on the person she loved?) And/or make the suitors significantly less affectionate with each other, in some cases even jealous of each other. Those dynamics work is pretty key to the narrative holding together coherently. "In some capacity" doesn't really encompass the putting yourself in danger, going to the ends of the earth, banding together through anything kind of love that drives the narrative in the book.

As a side note, having forgotten most of the plot of 53 Dracula since it's been a while since I saw it, being reminded that Arthur and Lucy are siblings in that one threw me for a loop.

[the-real-rain-world-confessions]

I think people confuse this blog for a place where they can safely air out their deepest, darkest thoughts. Sometimes, the rain world-related confessions are swamped out by trauma venting and creepy behavior justification with a very thin coating of slugcat

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[morganafayes]

What does Gwen sacrifice for Arthur(aside her taking care of his father for two years)? Arthur literally rose her from dirt to gold.

well. i'd assume her sanity for one! also hey anon what do you mean by 'dirt to gold'... quickly. in a way that's normal about class!

[automatonwithautonomy]

Did you name yourself Lake after the character

lake infinity train? yeahhhhh. i love them <3 they're the first charater i ever related to through a specifially trans lense and they mean a lot to me. i was struggling to pick a name that fit me i guess, and then i saw a picture of them and i was hit with a beam of oh shit i could totally name myself lake. so i did :]

[ro-is-struggling]

Hey, just wanna say hello!! 👋🏼 Miss your writing btw ❤️❤️❤️

Hi anon❤️ Thank you for stopping by!

Honestly, I miss writing too. I've been having some problems with some stories I'm working on and that kept me from writing for a while, but I'm slowly starting to catch up!

I'm almost done editing the next part of my Fireproof series, I don't know if you read it but I'll be posting part 2 soon so that's something! I'm also working on a Geralt x reader fic that's half way done, but I won't make any promises because when I write for him I never know how long it's going to take me since I tend to get carried away lol

I also have a few unfinished/unedited wips I need to work on, but I'm taking it slow as to not get burnout yk

Thank you so much for taking the time to leave this ask, it really motivates me to work hard when I read that someone is waiting to see what I post next❤️

[babacontainsmultitudes]

Hm... I haven't listened to the teen talk yet but I heard what Will had to say regarding the Sparrow-Normal situation and... Hm... I was apprehensive about this teen talk for exactly this reason so I suppose said apprehension was well-placed lol. I have thoughts aplenty (much of which is more on the meta end of things tbh) but frankly I haven't had the energy to write anything on the larger scale regarding the show for a while... Hm, maybe eventually. I guess this is mostly just a vent post lol.

[genericpuff]

Rachel could have put a warning saying her story isn't accurate to the myths it's based off and it would have been fine...ljke?? What reason did she have not to?

TBF she does have a disclaimer/warning, but it's shoved in the author's notes of the first episode:

And it's still not even that great of a disclaimer, because besides the fact that it's shoved near the bottom of Ep 1 where no one reads, but she says "not designed to be cited as a scholarly source on mythology except in the analysis of literature, media, the arts, humanities, etc." which... can basically be broadly applied to anything people see fit.

That being said, she also argues that she's a "self-proclaimed folklorist". She barely has the sense to put trigger warnings in her comic, you want her to have humility, too? 😂

"I'm a self-proclaimed folklorist but I haven't studied it or anything in the sense that I haven't, like, gone to school and studied it, but I mean, obviously doing these comics is, like, my day job so research is a very important component so I study it in my free time..." - an actual quote from Rachel's audio interview with Temple of Geek

Don't get me wrong, I'm not some academic versed in Greek myth either, but y'all know that and I'm not gonna pretend like I am. In that sense, you're right, Rachel does nothing to remind people this is fanfiction. She does nothing to remind her fanbase that it's not okay to use her comic as fact in Greek myth discussions. She does nothing to hold herself or her fanbase accountable when her readers go and edit public wiki articles with inaccurate information ripped from LO. Either she just flat out doesn't give a fuck (irresponsible) or she genuinely thinks what she's doing is okay and doesn't see the massive issue with a white woman from New Zealand using another culture's religion and mythology as a way to make herself money in such a crude way (ignorant).

I often try my best to live by Hanlon's razor - "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity." I'd like to think Rachel isn't doing this shit intentionally as a way to damage Greek myth stories or gentrify a culture, Greek myth would be the WORST avenue to try that because of how influential and massive it is.

But right hand to Kisúlk, I genuinely think she's just not that smart.