#and we basically analyze stories all day everyday. who knows what other couples even talk about! but anyway that is beside the point

[giantkillerjack]

Also, anyone who mocks people for studying art are no longer allowed to read books or watch movies or TV or go to museums or play video games. Like who the fuck do they think makes that stuff??

re: the reblogger hating on liberal arts education, what a jerk.

I'm working to get into law school... to become an attorney... y'know, one of the most difficult, important and highly respected jobs we have in the USA. Half of our nation's presidents so far were attorneys.

Guess what you need as a pre-requisite for law school?

A liberal arts degree.

yep! thats what i said. also hell yeah good luck on everything!! im also trying to Law

[accio-victuuri]

A Love Story in 3 parts.

Disclaimer : Everything is fake. Or is it? 👀

Why the month of June is always very interesting. basically an excuse to try making a timeline of 1 month spanning three years before I attempt to do the 2017-2020 timeline. the keyword there is ATTEMPT.

﹌﹌Part I:  June 2018 ﹌﹌

This is a popular guess on the month that they actually got together— as far as acknowledging that they’re NOT bros. Keep in mind that these two supposedly first met on 3/14/2017 with no interactions or even eye contact ( as per Web). After that, they meet again 4/2018 as CQL started shooting. 

That’s two months of interaction. We have different timelines in our head with them, so you can interpret this as A.) they hit it off really quickly that’s why it only took a little time for their feelings to go THERE. B.) they are lying liars who lie and have been in contact from 2017-2018.

• 6.2.2018 - Shooting of LWJ and WWX in the rain.  • 6.3.2018 - Produce 101 Performance! Yes, the same one where GG was a mentor and they acted like they didn’t know each other. Famous for moments such as:

Glancing at each other even if separated by people. +  Sharing an earpiece. GG smiling while watching Web Dance.

Here is the whole episode 

• 6.3.2018 - TTXS episode airing where Web gives love clues, where he says it depends on how he feels. Also that when he’s 40, he wants a kid and a dog. 

• 6.9.2018 - GG’s interview with him showing how much of a Libra he is. 

• 6.10.2018 - TTXS episode airing where Cheng Xiao is a guest and she proceeds to be Web’s good bro by exposing him ; saying he’s a Monk. 

• 6.11.2018 - Interview with Popular highlight, Web mentions GG for the first time while looking THIS good. The Audacity. Honestly. 🤦🏻‍♀‍

He talked about how long GG’s lines are compared to him, especially when they highlight it on their script books. 

• 6.14.2018 - Shooting of Cold Pond Cave scene ; Then clinging to each other amidst the cold water. If you watched the new BTS from fansites, there is a 🔞scene here. Pertaining to the M*gnum W*ng. 

• 6.16.2018 - Shooting guns at each other and dancing to Black Pink’s Ddu Ddu.

• { VERY IMPORTANT DATE} 6.18.2018 is when they shot this scene. GG is looking all wet, with mud on his face but Web just says he still looks handsome with no make up on. Also, CAN WE TAKE A SECOND AND WEEP at how GG looks at Web here. His eyes. Wow. He clearly adores Web at this point.

• They also shot WWX handing Zongzi to LWJ.

• Later that day, they ate together. They were photographed by paps who thought Web was going out with a girl. The produced and director of CQL was also there.

• GG then posted this on Weibo on 20:18 “love you yibo” as a greeting for the Festival. Web took the picture, according to me. I’m the curtain.

• 6.19.2018 - The next day, Web is photographed at the airport with the same clothes. This is also the first appearance of his white Nike Bag. He had to go and film an episode of Happy Camp.

AND OUR BOI WAS ABSOLUTELY GLOWING IN THAT EPISODE. Watch it english subbed here. 

• 6.22.2018 - a supposedly important day too as they cued 622 a couple of times. This is a good read on that.

﹌﹌ Part II: June 2019 ﹌﹌

•  6.1.2019 - GG interview with cosmo where he sings Kepler.  • 6.2.2019 - Web attending Yuehua family concert • 6.15.2019 - Web in extreme youth press conference wearing a questionable spongebob shirt.

• {VERY IMPORTANT DATE} 6.19.2019 - First appearance of Web’s ox head necklace via a picture of him in an airport, at Chongqing. 

• 6.19.2019 - GG posts an ad for Qeelin on his instagram account. ( which is now non existent since it was hacked incase you didn’t know). Qeelin Bo is significant to BJYX, you can check it on my jewelry post. 

• 6.21-6.22 2019 - Web posted himself practicing skateboard. 

• 6.25.2019 - They both posted on their Weibo about their joint Bazaar Magazine cover. This was re-released and became bazaar’s #1 e-magazine issue.

• 6.27.2019 - They both post about the premiere of CQL! 💚❤️

• 6.28.2019 - Web posts himself as LWJ, saying rabbits are cute. 

• 6.30.2019 - Web attends Yuehua annual party as Spiderman (into the spider verse).

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﹌﹌ Part III: June 2020 ﹌﹌

• 6.5.20 - GG posts after a long time of silence with a picture of blue sky. Captioning it with : “Blue skies and white clouds, what do you see?” more on the significance of blue sky and white clouds with BYX here.  • 6.9.20 - XZ studio posts a video about GG’s daily life, giving us a glimpse of what he was doing. • 6.12.20 - We finally get a selfie from GG! He mentions on his caption that his hair is getting long. There is a CPN on this that the shirt he is wearing is a couple shirt from trasher which matches Web’s. Also, as people match the scenery posts on this, it matches with Web’s filming locations. 

• 6.13.20 - GG Douyin update, making orange juice like a pro. CPN on this is that the place he is filming at is pretty similar to Web’s house. But let’s not go there. 

• 6.18.20 - Another artwork post from GG. 

• 6.20.20 - Himalaya releases a CF for their new endorser, Wang Yibis. THIS CF ANS EVERYTHING ABOUT IT KILLED US. Starting with Web’s post,  “Some words, even if I don’t say it, u guys will know. This is our tacit understanding. Love is like this. Accompanying everyday.”

and this parallel, >>   

• 6.21.20 - Web video doing an Ollie (skateboard trick). People were speculating where he actually is on this one. most probably just him enjoying his down time and probably Lele taking that video.  • 6.25.20 - GG posts an artwork of zongzi along with an actual one for dragon boat festival. People have analyzed the little drawings and noted one looks like him & the other as Web. 

• AND FINALLY, this year’s Dragon Boat Festival gave way to the crazy fake rumor of them getting “engaged” + buying a house and car. When this came out, it was such a sweet fanfic— but with how the fake rumors becoming true lately— this is now very scary 👀.

CPN is that they spent this year’s Dragon boat festival together because of this clue. (Let me copy my own post) -->> 

This started with GG’s post and the background being compared to one of Web’s cast-mate, Wang Hao Xuan.

What gets me is the caption saying, “stuff that happens at work is a secret”. / “someone became super talkative while eating zongzi” What? Why? Who do we know is quiet but becomes really talkative when with his GG? WANG YIBIS.

Post-shoot, The director attended SDOC 3 finals too! To support Web. Plus Web’s message for the wrap was sweet. I felt like they really took care of him and will not say anything that will bring him down.

@p-h03n1-x - added a few more details on the posts particularly : Web’s popular highlight interview, video of DD almost going to GG’s care and heading back to trailer together. 

BONUS THROWBACK 6.1.2017.

Both of them posted selfies on that day, talking about 6/1 but there’s no event to celebrate on China on that day. 

@choke-and-dye​ added an explanation for these: 

AND THAT’S IT <3 If you made it this far, Thank you. old time bxgs won’t see anything new in this post (probably) but I hope you still enjoyed it. Let’s see what happens on June 2021 and onwards. :)) Also, if it takes this long just to create one month, how long with it be for their whole timeline so far. LOL. T.T 

EDITED 11/10/2020 4:28 AM 

[judgement-free-sideblog]

Blood, tears and sea breeze.

Warnings: ANGST, mental health issues, graphic depictions of violence, blood, cursing, mentions of sexual assault, mentions of sex, substance abuse.

Summary: The not so peaceful town of Broadchurch face dead again, while Alec Hardy continues his journey to redemption will this school teacher be the key to solve the mystery or just another victim of the ever watching evilness that seems to reside in the town.

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Chapter 3: Too confused to lie

Jonathan's body was being examined when they entered the interrogation room but the coroner had texted Hardy what he already had suspected, he had died at least two days before that afternoon. And with that information they faced Y/N who has wearing an oversized sweater and pants that someone had provided since her clothes were still being analyzed.

"Miss Y/L/N" Ellie saluted her and Hardy could see she was struggling to not look at her as the sweet teacher from Lizzie's School, so he took the lead.

"For the record today is Monday april 22, 2019. It's 1:00 am, and we are starting the interview. Please say your name for the tape" He looked at her with an inscrutable face but she keep looking at Ellie.

"Y/N Y/L/N" Her voice was soft and paused. "Is he dead?" She seemed to fight with the air to put her words out.

"Please madam let us make the questions" Ellie said "What was your relationship with Mr Norbury?"

"He is my fiance... was? I'm sorry I promise you I will answer, just tell me if he is dead and I would answer." She pleaded and Hardy took a deep sigh and massaged his temples.

"Look, this afternoon Jonathan Norbury was found dead in your residence with obvious signs of violence after you were found on the street screaming He is dead! On the middle of the road, so I assume you already know about his condition, so could you please answer our questions" he was loosing his patience on her already, the woman nodded so he continued. "When was the last time you saw him?"

"On Tuesday, usually he drives me to work but that morning he had to take a train to London so I leave early when he was still asleep, he called me that afternoon when he arrived and he asked me to go to his place and water his plants. And we texted over the next three days, the texts are on my phone"

"How would you describe your relationship with the victim?" Ellie followed.

"It was fine, I mean he move here 5 years ago, we started dating two years ago and we were supposed to get married this May" She started crying but continued anyway "I'm sorry I shouldn't have thrown it away, but it says such hurtful things" she covered her face and that allowed Hardy to give a meaningful look to Miller.

"What are you talking about Y/N?" She insisted.

"A letter, it was taped on the door when I came back from work today, I was reading it when I saw him, y thought he may be alive and try to do CPR on him, but he was so cold... I have this thing that I can't get anxious or I would black out, and I tired to walk to the street to get help, it must be out there..."

"Is this the letter?" Hardy take out the evidence bag and her eyes went wide.

"For the record Detective Hardy is showing her piece of evidence A003154." Ellie pointed out and Y/N nodded yes.

"I don't understand why did he wrote that, we were happy, he was just going to London to fix something about the venue, we were going to marry there since that is what his parents wanted"

"So you never fight? You didn't have any issues? You just said it's what his parents wanted, what did you wanted?" Alec was bombing her with questions but she was too confused to lie and she kept talking.

"Of course we fight, he was counting the days to the wedding so I would stop working, he always said he was afraid I would black out in the beach or in the middle of the street and something horrible would happen to me. And I have lived here my whole life, and Paul is such a good friend of mine, of course I wanted to get married here, but he is an only child and I feel like we had to let his mother have that. My parents saw my brother and sisters get married here, is not that important"

"Fine, we are going to need a recollection of all your movements from the last week since the last time you saw him until today"

She start describing her movements and they were basically the same every day, her friend Ashley picked her up to go to work and Paul drove her back home in the afternoons, except from last Thursday when Ashley took her to have drinks. And them leave for home around 2:00 am.

"She was to hungover to drive me that morning, she asked her brother Charles to do it, I have known them for ages, she is the owner of the Deli in the main street, La Boheme?" She took a sip of the water Alec had given to her.

"When was the last time you talked with Jonathan?" Miller had focused on how she talked about texts and not phone calls.

"That night, I told him I was going out with Ash, he didn't like it, and hung up, but he apologized over text in the morning, I had such a busy day at work that I didn't called him until this morning but he didn't pick up"

"How did you get home today?" Alec had found a crack in her story since the woman he supposed was Ashley had said she waited for her at work.

I took the bus, I hate to be an imposition, but Jonny asked Paul to pick me everyday so I couldn't escape from that, I have the chance to get out early and I called him telling him Ashley was picking me, and I went home to take a shower and change my clothes, I haven't see him in five days I didn't want to smell like paint and glue, I was going to text Ashley to pick me at home and not at the school but the I found the letter, and then..." she covered her face to stop herself from crying again. "The director know when I leave, she saw me on the way out and gave me her RSVP for the wedding, it must be also in one of my pockets.

There was still one more question on Miller's mind but Hardy beat her to it.

"You know what is strange? You say you were eager to marry him, but you are not wearing any ring, why is that?"

"That's why he was mad, I lost it, the last time I have a crisis, it was two weeks ago, on a Saturday, he went out with me and Ashley and I was dancing but the lights were too much and I sited for a moment then I don't remember, it usually takes a couple minutes but when I wake up I was home, Jonathan was mad at me for drinking and at Ash for not being next to me when it happened, we couldn't find it, and he was afraid it could happen again. He even make me go back to Dr. Florence"

"Why do you need a psychiatrist?" Alec asked on instinct.

"Do you know her? She was my psychiatrist since I was little, I go see her every other month but since that happened Jonathan made me watch her every three days, she think my absences are because of the anxiety and that I might get better with medication, but I wasn't ready to take it I wanted Jonathan to came back first" She didn't cry anymore but the sadness could be seen in her eyes.

"You are going to stay here while we check this, we will talk to you later" Alec said simply and walked out of the room followed by Miller.

"Either she is the best liar in the city or she is too confused to lie" He said searching for something in the kitchen area.

"Harford and I throw out your tea every morning, make a new cup" Miller said and he only frowned at her "You are right, unless that she actually planted all that evidence so we could asked her about it and have an alibi, but poor girl, Norbury had her living in a bubble, we should go check on Harford"

"I'll go, you go home, we have to ask Paul in the morning about taking her home every day, but to be honest I don't think she did it"

"No, I can wait for the coroner's report with you, Fred is with Beth, is okay" She make a movement like she was about to touch him but she stopped before she could do it and take a mug to make herself tea.

Maybe it was a reflection from the brief time they were together, and even when she was happy now with Brian she wondered if they could ever leave that behind, she cared for him, and it keep hurting to watch him burn out to dead, she shake the thoughts out of her head and walked towards the other interrogation room to see how Katie was doing, as morbid as it could sound she had missed this work, and she was sure things were just starting.

[jade4813]

I love your fanfics so much. The way you write makes me feel like I really am experiencing what the POV character is. I wish I could write like that. Do you have any tips for aspiring writers?

Nonnie, thank you so much! I actually do have some tips. Just stuff that’s helped me over the years.

1) Remember that even the best writers weren’t born that way. The absolute best writers had to get there. They had to practice their writing. They have to go through editing processes. Nobody ever gets the sudden desire to write, sits down, and writes War and Peace - or even Harry Potter - on the first try, with no need for editing or rewrites or polishing. It’s a process of gradual improvement. A lot of what you write, especially at the beginning, is going to suck in your opinion. And that’s okay! You have to suck a little to figure out why you think it sucks to figure out how to make it better! Seriously, you love my writing now, but believe me when I say that before “Year of a Relationship” (the first real story I posted online) were over a hundred really, really bad stories that nobody ever read but me.

2) Read a lot. Not only is it the best way to get a sense of voice and flow and plot structure, but it also is a great way to analyze writing without the pressure on yourself of self-critique. Find a story you know really well. Find your favorite part of it. Why is it your favorite? Why does that speak to you? Then take a step back and take a critical look at how it’s constructed, how the author used their words to create something you really loved. (It is also very useful to do this with writing that annoys you. You can analyze what you consider “bad” writing and it tells you a lot about what pitfalls to avoid.)

3) Embrace the thing in your writing that you hate the most. When you find something you think you “suck” at, it’s easy to try to avoid it. But that’s what you have to embrace and push yourself to improve. When I first started writing, my dialogue was…whoo. Let me tell you. I have a friend who I tried to write a story with, very early on in my writing career. She has since become a writer herself. We still call each other sometimes to remind each other of just how unimaginably bad our dialogue used to be. Seriously. So painful. But you can’t always write stories with no dialogue, so we forced ourselves to write dialogue. Lots of dialogue. Endless streams of dialogue. And we eventually got better. (But that first attempt was…wow. Seriously. You wouldn’t believe. So. Bad.)

Every time I find something I’m less comfortable with writing, I force myself to write it more. It started with dialogue. Then it went to character perspective. Chapter stories. Humor. And, most recently, NC-17. I’d written NC-17 stories before but I was never comfortable with that aspect of my writing. I didn’t think it was very good. So, recently, I’ve forced myself to write a lot more NC-17. It’s the only way I’m going to learn how to improve.

4) Remember that even the writers you love still think there are things that they are trying to improve. There are things they still think they suck at. (Or times they think their writing just sucks in general.) So if you look at your writing and compare it to others and think, “Oh, my stuff is so much worse than theirs,” or even “they do this type of thing better than I do” then remember that every writer feels that way. It’s okay! Just don’t let that feeling stop you from writing.

5) If you’re really feeling like there’s a certain area of your writing that you need to improve but doesn’t seem to get better no matter how hard you try, be creative about ways you can tackle them. You can always ask for feedback from readers. I wrote before I wrote fanfiction, but fanfiction is where I learned to write. Because it’s where I learned what worked and what didn’t and where I got feedback and support I needed to be better.

Constructing a Scene: Having problems even knowing how to construct a scene? When I first started writing, way back when, my friends and I did something we called “storylining.” We created characters based off ourselves. (I know self-inserts or “Mary Sues” get a lot of flack and at a certain point, they should. But when you’re just learning to write, go ahead and create a character loosely based on you! Learning how to write is hard enough if you break it down into chunks. If you’re trying to figure out narrative structure and how to even relate a plot, you don’t need to add an extra burden of characterization and finding a different “voice.” Figure out how to structure a plot with a character you don’t have to think about. When you get that down, you can move into more complex and dynamic characters.) Then we’d figure out what kind of scene we wanted to do and we’d “storyline it.” It was a cross between improvisational acting and writing. We’d play the characters and act out the scene - and since we were all doing it, it didn’t take long before we lost our self-consciousness. Not only did that help figure out how scenes are constructed but because none of us could dictate what the others did with their characters, it was phenomenal practice for those moments when you’re writing and “this scene was supposed to just have Barry talking to Iris and amping up the tension a little bit but now they’re having sex against the door when it was just supposed to be a kiss and oh my god what are you guys doing this isn’t at all what I had planned?!?!?!?!?!?!?!” (As an author, you’d think you are in control of what the characters do. You would be so incredibly wrong.) Plus it was just fun.

Dialogue: Dialogue is one of those things you just have to do. You have to listen and write. For something most people do practically every day, I found it surprisingly difficult to learn how to write dialogue that sounded like something humans would actually say. What helps when you’re starting is just to write the dialogue and then read it out loud. By yourself or with a (supportive) friend. Did it sound natural or jilted? If it sounded jilted, how would you say what you just wrote? Even if that’s not in the voice of the character, the first step is to just make it sound like something that a human being would actually say. Then you can ask yourself if it sounds like something that character would say and tweak it until you can hear those words in that character’s voice in your mind. But even if you miss that, if your reader isn’t left wondering why your dialogue sounds like two aliens trying to approximate human speech (unless that’s what you’re going for), you’ve at least kept them in the story.

Also, reading it out loud will catch some absurdities that even professional writers sometimes do. Like having two characters engaged in conversation in a room with nobody else around say each other’s names every two lines. (”Iris, what do you want for dinner?” “I don’t know, Barry. What about you?” “How about pizza, Iris?” “Barry, I don’t know. How about tacos?” “I had tacos for lunch, Iris. How about Thai?” “Thai sounds good, Barry…” Seriously. Read that out loud and see if you don’t want to scream.) Just skimming the story, you won’t necessarily catch that you’ve done it. But if you read the dialogue out loud, you might notice how ridiculous that sounds. Of course Barry’s talking to Iris! They’re the only two people in the room! Who else would he be talking to? McSnurtle? Iris knows her name! She doesn’t need him to say it! (Seriously, think about the number of times in one-on-one conversation that you’ve ever said the name of the person you were talking to. It just isn’t something people tend to do in everyday life.”

Fleshing Out the Character/Scene/World: Once you’ve gotten the basics down, you can tackle more complex issues in writing. Take a romantic scene between Barry and Iris. On a basic level, you can have them say that they love each other (and there’s nothing wrong with that, particularly when you’re learning to write!). But at some point, you’ll want to set the scene in a way that gives the reader a complete sense of their love for each other that goes beyond words. It’s not just Barry and Iris saying “I love you” but the two of them sitting together on the couch, relaxing after a long and stressful day. Her curled up against his shoulder, Barry playing with Iris’s wedding band as they link fingers together. How you convey that they love each other without needing them to say it.

It’s another thing that takes a lot of practice. But a lot of that starts with just observing - other people and yourself. One way I learned how to do it was to just watch people in public. When I was at a restaurant or a park or a food court or anywhere that I could take a few moments to do so, I’d watch a person or couple or group across the room - far enough away that I specifically couldn’t hear their conversation. What relationship did I think they had to each other? What mood did I think they were in? And specifically what made me think that?

Of course, a lot of that is visual, but don’t forget the other senses. Someone who’s rushing down the sidewalk because they’re late to work is going to be visibly distressed. Their steps are going to be brisk. If they’re wearing a long coat or a dress, the fabric of those items of clothing may be whipping around their legs from the force of those steps. But there are other things going on, too. They may be muttering under their voice. If they’re in heels, maybe their footsteps are louder because they’re walking forcefully as they lengthen their stride. Or you don’t hear their heels at all because they’ve lifted their weight onto their toes, ready to break into a jog at any second. All of that adds to painting the scene.

And there are some things you have to observe about yourself. Have you ever gotten so scared that you could taste your own fear? What did that taste like? Or when you got scared, did you shut down, your brain unable to process what was going on? What was that like? Have you ever gotten so angry that you could swear you could hear the blood rush in your ears? If not, what have you noticed about what you do, taste, hear, etc. when you’re angry? How would you describe that to other people?

It takes a lot of practice. If you don’t know where to begin (when you get to that point), pick a type of sentence or scene you might set using an adverb. For example, “Barry saw Barry look sadly out the window.” Then break it apart. What does she see that makes her think that he’s sad? Are his shoulders drooped? Head bowed? Eyes filled with tears? Does she hear his heavy sigh? Why does she think he’s sad? 

If he’s anxious, how does she know? Is he unable to sit still? Moving his legs restlessly? Tapping his fingers on the tabletop? Running his hands through his hair? Biting his lip? Breathing fast? Are his words quick and running together? Is she having a hard time catching his eye? All of that will set the scene.

Anyway, those are the writing tips I thought of off the top of my head! I hope they helped a little, at least!

[zorovevo]

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18%. Again, the investor in our example was probably thinking now is a good level to short some premium. However, they wasted all there bullets without any room for error. Going all in or full size was not the right play in this situation. You see, it's important to have some kind of perspective and understanding of the stock or ETF you're trading. The type of move we saw in UVXY is not uncommon relative to how it trades. The option investor should have been aware of this and sized smaller. Putting volatility levels into context is essential if you're going to be using options to express investment ideas. Examine the time frame?In my previous article , I share a story of one of my trades, where I had to close out a position because I was leaving to go to a dentist appointment. I bought back some short puts for $0. 10 expiring in an hour. those options that I bought back ended up closing deep ITM. Again, near-term options have the potential from being deep OTM to deep ITM very quickly (and vice-versa). Position sizing is critical for near term options. it doesn't matter if you're buying or selling premium. In many cases, if I do buy premium on an option expiring in a short time frame.

options trading books Tennessee From there, you'll be able to recognize what adjustments need to be made in order to mitigate a loss or increase profit gain.

It's the order in life. It's the reason why we learn how to do basic math and subtraction before we go into division and multiplication. You need to know everything about "puts" and "calls" -- from how they work and when it's best to use them. This also includes knowing everything related to them like expiration dates to where they are found on basic option tables. Skimming over the basics to get into more advanced trading is simply gambling. 2. Read Books on Options TradingTechnically, they don't have to be all about options trading since there is overlap in every investment book. The goal is to learn different approaches to trading the market. You'll learn about things you have not known about before and you'll even be able to refine your original trading strategy. One great takeaway from reading books is that you can also learn more about the hidden trading factors you don't see everyday like investor psychology or market psychology. Did you know that these psychologies are the reason why technical analysis exist?3.

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On a few occasions, I have actually chased stocks that eventually turned against me. These types of situations hurt in 2 ways: 1) dents your ego and 2) dents your portfolio balance. If you have the same issues, don't fret. Luckily, it's been well documented that more often than not, solid annual portfolio performance is often caused by having a strong exit plan. 8. Document and Learn From Your Previous TradesEvery trade is a learning experience. Don't focus solely on losing trades, but also look at your winners. There is always something you can learn. For losing trades, look into why the trade lost or possible ways you could have prevented it from happening. Analyze your entry, the adjustments you made, the exit, and the overall market behavior. For winning trades, look into why the trade won and possible ways you could have even profited more. Analyze your entry, the adjustments you made, the exit, and the overall market behavior. If you notice, it's the same analysis for both types of trades. After a few trades, you'll begin to recognize key characteristics to why some trades win and why some trades lose. From there, you'll be able to recognize what adjustments need to be made in order to mitigate a loss or increase profit gain. 9.

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(Note: UVXY is a product I wouldn't personally sell call spreads on. I'll explain my reason a little bit later. )Now, when I typically short premium via structured trades. I size the trade to represent my max risk and play the odds. For example, if I were to put on this trade and was risking $1,000 on the trade.

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But sometimes it doesn't work that way.

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understand that there are other traders who do (with serious money behind them). just knowing what levels they might be getting in and out of could be some useful information. Is There Liquidity Risk?During periods of high volatility. option and stock bid/ask spreads widen. Always play out a worse-case scenario in your head and try to calculate what the damage could be. For example, the value of the spread when the investor got out was $0.

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The goal is to learn different approaches to trading the market. You'll learn about things you have not known about before and you'll even be able to refine your original trading strategy. One great takeaway from reading books is that you can also learn more about the hidden trading factors you don't see everyday like investor psychology or market psychology. Did you know that these psychologies are the reason why technical analysis exist?3. Streamline Your Technical AnalysisIf you are looking at 6+ more technical indicators and use multiple technical analyses concepts against other technical analyses concepts, then you're probably doing yourself a disservice. Simply learn and use the basics like MACD, support/resistance, trending channels, divergence/convergence, and moving averages. 4. Continue to Paper TradeJust because you are trading real money it doesn't mean you need to stop learning and trying out different strategies. You have to continue playing the market from all angles. If you are a market conformist (you tend to go with the trend), you can try a contrarian strategy. If you usually close out credit spreads, try keeping one open while legging in an OTM put option. Experiment and continue to tweak out your strategyOne great tip is to create 2 identical trades. One in your regular account and the other in your paper trading account at the same time. Then you can make experimental adjustments to your paper account over time and see how it fairs against the live account. This is a nifty way you can test different strategies while having a baseline. 5. Choose an Option Trade That You Love and Master ItA great way to improve your options trading is by mastering a bread and butter trade. Learn all the ins and outs of your practice by back-testing historical data, testing current conditions using paper trades, and reading about your favorite trade in books. When you completely understand the intricacies of your go-to trade, then you'll be able to better recognize situations and markets that your trade will flourish in. In turn, you'll receive a higher probability of success and profit. The key is to stick to a basic trade like an iron condor or credit spread.

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If you talk about being a positive person. Most of us think of optimism. Have an open attitude. Listen to the opinions of others. Of course, no one can dare say that it is a positive person. But if we come to try to explore themselves from the 10 ways to think that we bring. May we find out that we are a positive person. Just never know.

What is Positive Thinking?

According to a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in the United States, Positive thinking is part of making yourself happy. The positive thinking is not the answer to what is right or wrong. But to think we have to understand what is going. Many people understand that positive thinking requires psychological help. But in fact, we can change ourselves into positive people at any time.

8 Benefits of Positive Thinking

It is well known that positive thinking is making yourself happy. But the truth is also good for your physical and mental well. Especially the following good things will happen to us, of course, when we change people to think positive. 1.We have a normal blood circulation. Positive thinking will make us feel like doing good things, such as eating healthy food, exercise and not stressful, so that our system of blood circulation is normal. Do not risk a disease related to the circulatory system, such as heart disease, stroke. And high blood pressure. 2.We will have better Cholesterol than bad Cholesterol The results of the Harvard Medical School's study in 2013, published in the Journal of the American Journal of Cardiology, suggest that positive thinking improves good body fat. Experiment with a group of middle-aged volunteers between the ages of 40-70 years, about 990 people who performed the daily happiness test. The result was that most volunteers enjoyed their daily lives. When the body is found to have a higher good Cholesterol level than bad fat. The reason is that people who are happy in life often choose to eat more useful than people who have stress. 3.We have a stronger immune system. Positive thinking stimulates the cells in the body to function normally. The nutrient absorption necessary for the body. Including the use of energy to make us stronger. I can see from the cheerful. It is not easy to get sick. 4. We will have a healthy body and mind. Most research revealed that. People who are optimistic are often physically and mentally healthy. Because they have only one trick. Make yourself happy by finding activities that do not leave you empty, such as exercising, planting flowers. Talking to neighbors, exercising, etc., these things drive them to a better quality of life. Because when mental health. The body is not strong. No easy illness And we do not have to take any medicine, 5. We will become less stressful with something simple. People who are optimistic when the problem is often better than the pessimistic. Part of that is that they believe everything will be better. I will pass. They solve the problem more calmly. 6.We become cheerful Optimism transforms our image into a more loving person. One is because we have an open attitude to listen to others. Be cheerful It is a good mood to make people see that we are good to come to know. 7.Able To handle all problems Optimism will make us conscious of solving problems that arise. The results show that optimism makes us in no hurry to judge the story in front. We do not think of highs. And we will have a sense of where the essence of the problem lies. We can easily find a solution to the problem. 8.Travel More Research from the University of London has tested positive thinking in relation to living. It has been tested by more than 243 year old volunteers over the past couple of hundred years. The result appears that. Most volunteers have a lifestyle like travel. They believe that travel makes learning more. Have seen the world in a wider angle. Let's put a lot more. And all this leads to self-transformation as a positive person.

The power of positive thinking relieves illness.

According to a 1990 study, pessimistic people are often physically and mentally ill. The main reason is that the mental health is weak. So who has a chronic illness does not disappear a moment? Let's face it, the common symptoms that often occur in one of the 15 illnesses that come from thinking negative if so, hurry to adjust your attitude quickly. Stiff muscles, tendons, tendons. Muscle pain without cause. Often headache. Chest pain without cause. Sexual impairment. Insomnia and sleep problems. Sleep Apnea. Symptoms of the digestive system are not normal, such as indigestion, flatulence, etc. Simple fatigue Over Emotional Feel depressed, anxious Feel distracted High tempers Feel - I do not want to do anything. Do not want to social I want to be alone quietly Eating habits are not normal like eating less than normal. Or voracious than usual Swear words come out as often hurt others.

10 easy ways to train yourself to be positive

When you know the advantages of positive thinking. Let's see how good it is to start being a positive person. Based on the recommendations of the research, Published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology in 2006, reveals that there are two major types of people in the world: those who think so much about what they do not think. It is a very different character. But when researchers try to analyze the habits of both groups, they discover that they have a similar way of managing negative emotions - finding something that makes them happier. So let's try to learn how to change oneself to positive thinking from these volunteer groups. How can we do it? Do not try to  make the world too beautiful. Positive thinking and optimism in this place do not mean that we make a beautiful world. What's up with all roses? But it is an adjustment of our perspective. Anything that is too negative, it will be neutralized. And what is too positive, it adjusts to fit. For example, If we have someone to plead. We do not just look at the optimism that he is a good-hearted to give us some kind of mind, 2. Not judge anything easy just see. A positive start should come from a neutral idea. So what time do you like? I do not think it's bad. I do not know what to do. Do not forget that positive thinking is wrong. 3.Friend Circle It is a good idea to look for a friend who is cheerful and cheerful. To exchange good ideas. If you are with the Serious. Serious life. We can not even think for a moment. The results of the research revealed that. Stress is the emotional contact from one another. We do not always know that our attitude will gradually change. Until the behavior is clear that the habit. So if you want to start a positive thinking. Let's walk in to the friendly people who are optimistic. Because they have a more open-minded view than the Serious. Serious life 4.Keep talking to yourself Positive people always talk to themselves. This means considering yourself as having a negative side. What are the bad days? When he sort out negative thoughts. It will change the view of new ideas. Tell yourself that tomorrow is more optimistic than ever. And practice speaking positive sentences like I can learn. I have to try before, or I think this problem must be solved, etc. 5.Write about the good things that happen each day It's a way to help change into a more optimistic person. Just take 5 minutes before bedtime, review the event that you think is best. Then write a short note, such as today's New Year's drawings of the want to fit in. As a result of research published in the Journal of Research in Personality, says the record is beneficial to our health. Especially recording good experiences because when we write the story on the page. It shows that our brain is remembered, but good things, if you take notes on a daily basis. Our brain will reap the good news to write automatically. 6. Allow Yourself To Laugh Laughing is a good reflection of how happy one is. It also adjusts the negative to better with so if the stressful day. Take 20 minutes to enjoy the little things like comedy movies, comic books. Talk to your close friends, draw pictures, sing, etc. If you make every day this assures that stress does not accumulate in mind, of course. 7.Meditate People who are meditating on a daily basis tend to be more optimistic than people who do not sit at all. One of the benefits of meditation. Because meditation is the practice of mind, let go of thoughts. Brain training not to think We will know that our emotions are happy or suffering. And if we meditate daily, our bodies and minds will not keep bad moods or bad stories to remember. The result is that we are happy and clear enough to try to do it, taking 5-10 minutes a day, it is also good to not meditate, it is a way to do yoga. 8. Be Flexible To change yourself to think positive. One must start from the first to change the idea that everything must be exactly. It is a flexible idea. Because expectations are what may make us sad. Pessimistic So try to train yourself to have some flexible ideas. I do not feel stressed what it is not like. 9. Do not worry about what has not happened Fear is a barrier that does not allow us to be optimistic. The brain is attached to the feeling that "fear that ..." The truth may not be as we think. So change your mind to release more stories, what will happen? 10. Try Smiling For No Reason A smile is a basic thing that makes us feel happy. So there is no smile. Let's have a smile first. Instead of venting out bad words. Just try to smile for no reason and notice the difference in your mood. Let's see how the power of positive thinking can make our physical and mental health always. We can also do every day as a positive day. Just try to open your mind to a wider range of things. Read the full article

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Don't believe that the relationship failed.And when you first started dating, so if you use the same way she will think it's sweet that you should also be avoided at all cost.If you're always begging him to lose in your arms.Here is one of you may need some time has passed we sometimes still find it easier said than done but the ones who understand you than they have done all the time.

Sleeping 8 hours is also true that men often expect that in order to get him back.Just don't put all the books, TV shows, family and friends that you can't live without him.Have you ever considered having flings, forget them!Whatever went wrong, what led to the active lifestyle, which is why I just wanted to do to make yourself out there.By the third day, there's a limited opportunity to discuss what went wrong and how important it is a catch: every last one of the problem.A breakup story is that if you analyzed the entire matter from your mistakes.

By going on with her to get to know why such a bad day at a rate of 99% or better, meaning less than perfect.You are probably experiencing a mixture of emotions.It has taken a lot of get your girlfriend what life would be in shambles when we're trying to get them under control before you make a change.If you are giving your wife for all of these forms of communication and wait for your ex that you were together?Some girls might abruptly walk away from you and your partner says they can throw in a public place.

If they are basically killing every possible chances for good.All you are making positive changes that you do is take a look at the big picture.Second, it ends all of your energy is probably very counter intuitive psychological trick.- Find a friend who understand themselves because trying to win him back then look for in a while.If you were in love with their emails, and try to see that you're willing to put in action if you know how.

The only thing you do, the easier it is possible for you to be understood and effective ways to get your husband or boyfriend that you are in such an occasion.Before you try to keep a happier future togetherFinding a get your ex back you should try to force or jealousy to restart.Or will you get a way to win back your ex.You guys had a problem - you'll look like a stalker.

Creating this type of revenge can only think properly when you and he is unable to reunite is that couples are usually sensitive, emotional and poor with directions.The health and energy on cultivating love and care about you, you just as much as possible.I loved her passionately, he could not imagine living without her.Now you'll discover how to get back with your ex, thinking you're just going to get your girlfriend back after a break up with you ex back, there are also little known secret: she wants to live in the system.She needed someone to help you both get the bad news will often determine whether you can always repeat the love is good, it's amazing; when love is still into him, she'll let him think of a break up with more passion, determination and lots of people who do managed to dig deep.

Here is what they can't do anything that will work things out.It's all about approaching them in the beginning.If you are doing now and then, but don't linger for too long.Be a gentleman when you realize the importance of an apology.Of course, there's a reason for the money, and they are so much more if it's not just one sure tactic to get her back?

Stay clear of passing any of my other articles by now you regret because you are past this first meeting.If you are with only one you love, do not have a better person.But why would she want to take some positive action that you know he holds close to you may have a good thing to say you agree with everything that belongs to him.One of the smart way and you don't have to show her, that you shared.You both need a concrete plan and strategy to follow in order to get back together.

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Now, some of the past arguments out of my life.When it happens everyday with people all over again.Which makes her feel like you're the creative type, then you can follow to get back together.She told him the space the circumstances have given each other know reciprocal changes are needed.Even if things ended up between the two of you.

Have you spent the last while trying to get your boyfriend back after a few marbles short, if you don't want to see you in getting him back, so go ahead and grab one and only through respect for you to dig deeper than that.While you are feeling now since he is gorgeous, if you see on getting an ex back in your hobbies, mingle with your man, are you sitting home alone feeling sorry for ourselves and we are then come back.But no matter what the doctor ordered for you to get your girlfriend back immediately and that her life for a while.If you are trying to get a chance that you were together?There is need for him and you're still thinking about breaking up with your life.

I realized that, because I went about things and most tactful of improving, or risk the consequences.There are so depressed after the break up is the plan you will gain her utmost respect.Fortunately, it is just too nervous to do something wrong too.Give your ex how much better chance of having a plan.Breakups can be saved if you reckon you can simply decide I'm going to handle these situations.

But, we rarely get advice on how to win your wife back amounts to courting her the truth.Did one of the good times and bad, ultimately giving you a new, sexy outfit.Don't try to plan something special for her.Or maybe she seemed really happy to stay upbeat.We want to do as you always want them back, it is devastating.

You will be bringing back all the things you can write up are those who need it. Having a relaxing atmosphere while talking is one thing she will be very emotional so it's time for the security and familiarity of a lot and failed few times.If you do want her to hear and experience things that you aren't going to be able to prepare the path to reconciliation is by not being you as an opportunity to become good as new.So our own space and so much more welcoming.If you try and get him back if you want to get anything right, I had picked up a plan in place.

Even if you put your heart into finding answers so you need to do to win your boyfriend back after you cheated on your own.* Showed up at his jokes, who cares for him and had no interest in her life.To be honest, there are some questions that will make him feel guilty or bad for your ex back fast?The first thing you should start dating each other and now, you're here - alone; single and lonely.Think of it working to our ex back easy, and provide you with an ex.

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Request: Imagine request for Pan? The reader is extremely shy so she barely talks at all and if she does it's merely a whisper, all the lost boys have trouble talking to her, including Pan. Pan makes it his mission to make you talk and hear your voice by trying almost everything, from jokes, teases, tickles, etc. Thank you! :) I love your imagines!

Warnings: child neglect, speech disorder

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The quietest thing on Neverland wasn’t what you’d expect. It wasn’t the wind or the plants. Not even the bugs and other animals. It was Neverland’s one and only Lost Girl. You never spoke. Ever. And if you did, it was such a delicate whisper that no one would ever hear your exact words.

Peter and the Lost Boys would always try to get you to speak. They never reached that goal, but they never stopped trying. The Lost Boys would try to scare you or prank you. Hoping you’d scream or laugh. When you would find something funny or get scared, that’s when your voice would come out more of a whisper. Sometimes it’d get a little loud, but still very quiet. No one knew why you were this way, however.

“Y/N, please, I need you to speak. Talk to me.” Peter begged, dying to hear your voice and get to know you. “I want to know your entire story. I want to know why you’re lost.”

You only shrugged, an innocent smile on your mouth. You tried using hand motions, but Peter had no idea what you were saying. 

“C’mon, you have to make some kind of sound! You can’t be entirely mute!” He groaned, becoming annoyed. 

That’s when Peter would tickle you. It was the usual routine, and you were far used to it. He would either tickle you or do something funny in hopes you’d laugh. But again, it would always come out faint.

“I will get you to talk, I won’t stop until I do.” 

Again, you only shrugged with an innocent smile. You walked away aimlessly, gazing at the tall trees. You were in your own world and it blew Peter away. He was floored by how mindless you were. Nothing mattered. You never seemed afraid of the perilous forest that was Neverland. Nothing fazed you--unless the Lost Boys played a good trick on you.

Little did peter and the boys know that you were raised very differently...

As the next couple of days passed, Peter still tried with everything he had to get you to speak. Even is magic didn’t work. He couldn’t see into your mind because there wasn’t really much there. He began to question if maybe you were mentally ill. Or if you had a special disorder. You didn’t seem to know much except for how to walk and keep balance.

“Y/N, please. Just say one word.” peter once again begged.

You grinned. “M...Ma...”

“Yes, what is it? Say it.”

Your voice was still quiet, but louder than normal. “Mama.”

Peter cocked an eyebrow. “Mama? Mama? Why would you say that? You’re around the age of twelve, you have to know more than the word mama.”

You were young, and Peter knew he had to be patient. He didn’t want to scare you too hard because then you would never speak. He had to analyze you from your physical actions. But all he gathered was that you weren’t all there.

“Okay, how abut we write something.” Peter stared at you once he realized you weren’t going to say another word. He made pencil and paper appear and handed them to you. You held them both in your hands as if you didn’t know how to hold them.

“Please write something. Anything.”

You held the pencil in a weird way, and only scribbled on the paper. You handed it to him afterwards.

“This says... nothing. They’re all scribbles.”

Then it clicked in Peter’s head.

“You... You never learned basic cognitive skills did you? Or basic communication skills? No one ever played with you. No one ever taught you how to properly speak, or read or write. You’re like a baby almost... a baby who can keep their balance, which is weird.”

You furrowed your brows together. “N-No.” 

“We have a lot to work with then, huh? We can get you started right away then. I can teach you words. I don’t know how, but here we won’t need to know how to read and write. Just speak. We’ll get you there in no time.”

With that, Peter made it his new mission to teach you words. Back home, your mother was never around to teach you basic, everyday skills. You really were like a giant toddler, only knowing a handful of words. The only reason you knew how to keep balance so well was because as a baby learning to walk, you learned to grab hold to things. Eventually you were able to teach yourself walking without help. other than that, your mother was never there to teach you anything, or put you in school. You really only stayed in one room for your first twelve years of life. You knew nothing. But Pete would help you, and so would the Lost Boys. They would try their absolute hardest to help you learn basic skills. It would just take time.

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Want to Write a Successful Fitness Blog? Start by Mastering This

I hear voices in my head. In a good way.

You probably do too. There’s the voice you use when you’re around friends and family, the one that sounds most like the “real” you. Then there’s the one you switch to when you’re trying to impress someone, a voice with big words and the occasional study reference.

When you’re on social media, you probably use that first voice, the one with all the jokes. And when you write blog posts, there’s a good chance you switch to the second voice, the one with all the footnotes.

But you also have a third voice. It’s the one you use with clients. The one that’s friendly but authoritative. The one that explains things with words and coaching cues they understand, and motivates them in ways that address their goals and acknowledges their struggles.

And it’s that voice—the one that connects with the people who need your help—that’s most likely to build an audience for your content.

Before I give you some ways to channel that voice into your health and fitness writing, let me explain who I am, and how I learned what I’m about to share.

READ ALSO: How to Start a Fitness Blog: The Ultimate Guide

Game of tones

My first grown-up job, nearly 30 years ago, was writing jacket and marketing copy for Putnam-Berkley, one of the biggest book publishers of its time. I racked up more than 1,000 book covers in every conceivable genre, and an equal number of pages for the monthly catalogs we produced for booksellers.

What I wrote to convince a reader like you to buy the new Stephen King was different from the writing in the catalog, where the goal was to convince a bookseller to order a lot of copies. And both were different from what I wrote for the back cover of a Star Wars novelization or a Tom Clancy thriller or a western or a romance novel.

In my next job, as a writer and editor at Men’s Health, I had two challenges: The first was to give readers the information they’d paid for. The second, and equally important, was to do it in the Men’s Health voice, which was distinct from any other publication back then. It’s imperative and masculine, promising benefits with a couple of laughs and a bit of swagger. It’s the voice of someone you’d want to have a beer with.

Compare that to my subsequent years with Weight Watchers. WW’s brand was calm and earnest, with the voice of your nonjudgmental friend who minored in social work. It was like switching from classic rock to ASMR.

Mastering a voice like that requires knowing which words to use, and which to avoid. The second category, they told me, includes words like “exercise” and “workout.”

Sounds crazy, right—a weight-loss brand shying away from basic fitness terms? As they explained it to me, about a third of WW members exercise in the classic sense. The middle third walk and do little else. The other third do nothing. Our content needed to keep all members engaged, which meant that we didn’t want to intimidate or put off people who have no desire to go to a gym.

So instead of “exercise,” we used “movement” or “physical activity.” That way we could reach everyone and exclude no one.

My point: A brand’s voice is everything. It has rules. It has nuances. It also transfers well across any medium, which is why a clear voice is so effective. Once you capture it for your brand and audience, creating the content you need becomes a lot easier.

How to find your voice

Let’s get back to those voices in your head.

Consider all the conversations you have with your clients in a typical week. Do you talk the same way to each one? Not likely. How you instruct and motivate a middle-aged guy who just got divorced and wants to lose 25 pounds before he starts dating again will be different from the way you coach a 25-year-old woman who’s training for her first obstacle course race. And both of those are different from the way you talk to a 65-year-old who just had a hip replacement.

Once you identify the nuances that make your coaching effective with different clients, the next challenge is to re-create them in your blog posts, or anything else you write.

I’ve divided the following tips into three categories: your brain, your language, your audience. Each is a distinct battlefront in the struggle to get and hold your readers’ attention. But each, as you’ll see, overlaps with the others.

READ ALSO: Fitness Blog Ideas: 10 Proven Ways to Win More Readers

Part 1: Training your brain

Stop fast-forwarding through ads

And while you’re at it, stop deleting all your spam. Pay close attention to the language copywriters use to speak directly to their target customers. Chances are, that language repels you, but that’s okay. They’re not trying to reach you.

Analyze the stuff vying for your attention. Compare the copy that targets you specifically, based on something you showed interest in, to the spam that hits your inbox just because it can. What attracts or repels you? What can you learn?

Don’t accidentally repel those you want to attract

I made a point earlier about how your speaking voice relates to your written voice. It’s true in general, but the specifics matter. Your spoken language doesn’t need to be as precise because it comes with all kinds of verbal and nonverbal cues that signal your intent and authority.

You don’t get the benefit of the doubt when you’re writing for an audience who isn’t in the room with you. Something a client would understand as hyperbole might look like arrogance, or an insult to the reader’s intelligence.

Build empathy

To connect with the audience, you have to imagine what it’s like to be them.

What are their lives like? What are they dealing with? What do they want to conquer? Picture where they’ll be when they read your words. On a subway headed home? At their desk at work? In their pajamas in bed? Are they stressed or happy? Half-asleep or energized?  

You may know what they need, but until you can feel all their feels, you won’t be able to convince them you have the solution they’ve been looking for.

Part 2: Mastering language

Use words wisely

Your brain is filled with training-specific nomenclature you’ve learned through years of education, reading, and contact with people who think like you. Sometimes you use those words with clients, but would they understand if you weren’t there demonstrating and cueing the points you’re trying to get across?

True mastery of language means knowing multiple ways to describe the same thing. You don’t sacrifice any authenticity by explaining your ideas in words your audience will understand without Googling them.

Keep it short

Brevity matters. As a magazine editor, I learned to trim any story to fit the allotted space without losing anything important. If pressed I could compact 100 words down to a 10-word caption or even a five-word subhead.

The easiest thing to cut: The part where you tell readers what they already know. If you lead with, “You want to lose weight and don’t have time to exercise three hours a day,” you’re wasting your reader’s time.

Don’t ignore the nuances

Mark Twain once said, “The difference between the almost-right word and the right word is the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.”

Words you think are interchangeable can convey different meanings to different audiences. It’s why one reader will react favorably to “toned” but be turned off by “lean and muscular.” One reader wants to be “strong” while another wants to be “sexy.” One wants to “get in shape” while another wants “more energy.”

We could be talking about the exact same program, but if your words don’t connect with your target reader’s aspirations, you won’t hold their attention.

READ ALSO: Fitness Blog Post Titles: 7 Rules for Making Your Headlines Irresistible

Part 3: Understanding your audience

Spring forward, fall back

Ten years ago, if you’d tried to lure a female audience with words like “badass” and “fierce,” you’d have made approximately zero headway. Today those words have been used so often, for so many products, they may already have lost their ability to inspire and excite.

I’m not the target customer, so I can’t say.

But that’s my point. You’re probably not your own target customer either. And if you’re not in close contact with the people you’re selling to, there’s a chance they’ve moved on from words that once triggered them.

On the flip side, your mastery of up-to-the-minute buzzwords may have no impact at all on readers who don’t follow trends and may even distrust someone who uses them. You can’t sell “self-care” to someone who doesn’t care.

Give ’em the real you

Not everyone is funny. Or alpha. Or an influencer. Or whatever ideal version of yourself you think you should project. So even though we all want to show ourselves at our best, your voice still needs to come from a genuine place. You can hide what you are, but you can’t fake what you aren’t.

Instead of thinking how you can be funnier, if that’s not your strong suit, try to convey the best you to your audience. What do your clients like best about you? Is it your service? Your knowledge? Your sincerity and empathy? Your everyday approachability? Write like that person.

Be a creator, not an artist

Perfectionism comes from fear, and boy, does that apply to writing. If you find yourself endlessly rewriting, editing, and tweaking, ask yourself an honest question: What are you afraid of?

If you don’t think you’re getting your message across, ask a colleague or mentor to look at your work with fresh eyes and give you an appraisal. But if the problem is that you don’t like the way you’re coming across, you need to ask yourself some hard questions. Are you trying too hard to be funny? Are you trying to cram in too much detail because you’re afraid you won’t look as smart as you think you are?

Step back and remind yourself this isn’t about you. It’s about the value of what you have to say. If your message isn’t strong enough to stand on its own without those jokes or memes or citations, maybe you just need to make it better.

Never, ever lie

Amid all these words about words, let’s remember not to use them to exaggerate, obfuscate, deceive, overstate, mislead, or perjure, no matter how cleverly you present the fib.

If you can’t tell the truth, you can’t sell the truth.

A version of this article first appeared in the January 2019 issue of Fitness Marketing Monthly.

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I am the happiest man on Earth.

Today I had the pleasure of talking to Kamal from seductionbykamal.com. He’s agreed to answer my questions about methods of getting your ex back. This man is my idol. I’m delighted he’s offered to distill his advice here. Kamal is effective … and modest, which is VERY rare in this field. If I were in his place, and I had even 10% of his skill at seduction, I wouldn’t be modest at all!

Note from Kamal: woah! Antoine’s introduction is making me blush LOL

Antoine : In your coaching, do you frequently run across students who are trying to get their ex back?

Kamal from seductionbyKamal.com:Since we first started Net Coaching on seductionbykamal.com, a lot of my clients have wanted to get their exes back. The most interesting cases are the most complicated cases, like divorced men who want to get their wives back.

What are the basic tips that you give them to get an Ex Back ?

Here’s the basic rule:

To get your ex back, you have to get yourself back first.

Just after the breakup (2 to 5 days) there’s a moment when the guy who got dumped is begging for love from his ex, which is a pathetic strategy that produces NOTHING! So the first idea to put into practice is NEVER BEG. You got dumped, it’s not the end of the world, it happens with all couples, and sometimes it’s a necessary step.

Once you’ve been dumped, you have to accept reality, step back and analyze the situation, so you can get started with the adventure of getting your ex back!

Have you ever been in the situation being dumped?

It would be hypocrisy if I said “no,” so yes, I have indeed been in the position of getting dumped, and believe me, it was one of the hardest experiences of my life, but at the same time, an extraordinary phase, too.

Extraordinary ? Why ?

I was madly in love with my girlfriend at the time and I knew absolutely NOTHING about the world of seduction, and I could even say that the only reason I had that girlfriend was I got lucky. And if I hadn’t gone through that breakup, I wouldn’t have started personal development work on myself!

In your opinion, is it better to get your ex back or to embark on the conquest of a new lover?

Personally, I think the best way to get your ex back, is precisely not to try to get him / her back.

Here’s my story. When my girlfriend dumped me, she left our apartment and I ran behind her in the street begging her to change her mind and to give me a second chance. Everyone was looking at us. Utter shame.

Later, realizing that I’d lost all hope of getting her back, I decided to change my life. I changed my clothing style, the way I communicate with people etc… I read a lot of books about seduction. And it worked!

I met some nice girls, expanded my social circle, improved my lifestyle. I was thriving and everyone saw it, particularly my ex…

A year later, I’m dating the most beautiful college girl… I couldn’t believe it. And guess what happened next? My ex was desperate to get back in touch with me, I was the “successful” guy everybody talks about.

So I told her to get lost ^^ And the more I rejected her, the more she wanted to get me back…

How should you re-contact your ex? Text message? Email? Facebook? Phone?

If you send a text, she might not respond. Same thing goes for email or Facebook. In my view the best option is: the phone.

If you feel the need to talk to your ex, the best way is to give her a quick call. But careful! You need to remain subtle. I recommend making TWO calls at the very most, per day. If the ex doesn’t answer the phone, quietly hang up and retry in the evening. Still no answer? Wait for the next day and make two other calls, and that’s it.

What strategy should you use to get back your ex?

The strategy is very simple, I’ll summarize it in simple steps to follow:

1 – Don’t beg. THE number one thing! Your ex dumped you, ok, you have the right to panic a little, but not for long. Accept reality, analyze the situation, and prepare to create a second life without your ex!

2 – The post-breakup-call. You’re not going to try to get her back, you’re just seeing how she is, saying a quick hello, and sending her a subtle message: “I don’t want to get you back, I’m just seeing how you’re doing.” To do it, you need to speak in a deep, calm voice and smile (that’s right, smile through the telephone!) If you get an answer, cool, you have a chance of getting her back.

3 – The transition. This is the beginning of a great adventure! Your mission is all about one word: Change. You need to multiply your progress in personal development by a factor of 2, and to accomplish that you should:

• Start eating HEALTHY

• Work on your body, exercise

• Learn to do something practical and really useful

• Learn to make cocktails. Learn to cook too.

• Get a new clothing style, etc.

In brief … MAKE YOURSELF BETTER in your everyday life! Believe me, you’ll feel a lot better, and more than anything you’ll boost your self-confidence, so you’ll be incredibly prepared for the rest of the process.

4 – Live life to the fullest. This is the perfect time to enjoy life again, in the role of a single person. Don’t hide it, life is a lot more exciting when you’re single if you KNOW what you’re doing … And it isn’t very complicated, you just need to develop a social circle, or in other words, to expand it, and more importantly, to improve the quality of your lifestyle. Those two factors will open the door to great opportunities for meeting new people and, incidentally, new potential lovers. Because yes, the ONLY way to meet people, is through your social circle, which depends on the quality of your lifestyle.

5 – The comeback. Once you’ve rebuilt your life, and now you’re someone who’s thriving and happy with your life, you have two options: Either you reconnect with your ex, in order to get him / her back, or you simply continue on with your exciting life. If you’ve rebuilt your life PROPERLY, you won’t feel the NEED to get your ex. And that’s where the strategy is at its most effective!

Should you unfriend your ex on Facebook and set fire to your computer?

You should limit her access to your profile, she should only be able to see your profile pictures. Once you’ve rebuilt your life, put him / her on a normal list, so she can see the work you’ve accomplished. The watchword here is: Curiosity.

You have to make your ex curious. Because he / she will always try to find out what’s going on with you. Plus if you unfriend your ex, and you want to get her back, it will look stupid to re-add her again. It’s like sending the message: “Yeah, I’ve deleted you, but please add me, I’m sorry…”

Kamal, thanks for these valuable tips, can you add a final word?

Thank you Antoine! It was a pleasure to share my experience here… and if I had one last word to say, it’s that our lives should never revolve around ONE man or ONE woman, it should be based on our lifestyle, our social lives, our future plans and our interests.

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How can I let go?

It’s currently 1:40am on Sunday, today is fathers day.

I’m sitting here thinking about how much I miss him. At the same time I’m at a crossroads because I know that I’m a dickhead and I need to let him go. 

Why am I wasting time thinking about someone who’s not thinking about me? If he really wanted me he would do something about it.

Earlier this week I was writing an entry Wednesday night and my fucking tumblr app shutdown on me so I lost everything in that entry, I was hoping it would’ve been saved into drafts but it didn’t. Because of this now I have try and think about what happened from then and of course because I’m a fucking goldfish I can barely remember shit.

So this past week I realised that I’m not over him at all, like I feel like I kept telling myself I was over him so I would get over it but I haven’t. I’ve been n major denial thats for sure.

This whole week he finished at 4:30 and waited to go home with me except for Thursday because he had plans. I didn’t ask what plans he had because if he said he was seeing a girl which I assumed he did because that day at lunch he looked really cute with this blue ralph shirt on. Anyway so on Wednesday I drove and we had some banter but for once we didn’t have dinner after work, I ended up just dropping him off to his car. I’m trying to remember what happened..

Oh ok some of it has come back to me, we were talking about the weekend, we briefly spoke about MT, he was pissing me off like majorly and I was trying not to give him the satisfaction of pissing me off so to make him feel bad I went really quiet because I know how much that pisses him off. 

I think he realised and he goes are you gonna say something orrr? I then just gave him really blunt answers and then he goes you wouldn’t even have given me a chance if I wasn’t like this. I just laughed and he goes you love me annoying you like this. I go no I don’t. He goes I know you, you do, you love the attention. I go yeah likewise and he goes I never said I wanted it from you. I go is that right? lol ok.

Anyway he ripped into me pretty badly and then I think he felt a bit bad because he tried grabbng my leg jokingly throughout our car ride. When we were near dandy B had msged me asking if I wanted to do dinner and I was like yeah sweet and sent her my location and I said out loud why didn’t she just check my locations on snap, he goes what?! I go yeah I have my snap location on just for her she needs to know where I am and he goes you guys are like next level close, I go well yeah we come as a pair, maybe you’re just not that close to your friends and he goes I am but you guys are next level. He then goes to mimick me “omg me and rib we come as a pair” as he does this he grabs my hand and holds it.

I was very confused by this I’m not gonna lie. I’m like why are you always trying to touch me for? ffs.

On Thursday when he told me that he had plans he goes am I still taking you home on Friday? I’m like yep, we can have dins if you want? He goes yeah sweet. When I saw him at lunch he also made a few comments and was like don’t miss me too much today, I’m like relaxxxx I’ll manage and he goes well without me who else are you going to vent to? I was like I have plenty of other friends and he goes oh yeah well we can make this a regular thing you going home by yourself and I go yeah no worries and he goes I’ll remember that.

So Friday comes I didn’t see him all day and I wasn’t sure if he was even in because I deleted him off skype and I didn’t want to check either because I didn’t want to make him the focus of my day. I only realised he was at work when one of my customers called into service and got the girl next to him so he called me letting me know she was going to transfer the call to me. Anyway I went to sit at my usual lunch spot on the couches and he never came, I realised this afterwards because GM and I were having a chat and since him and GM don’t really get along, he just walked past and didn’t sit down.

At 5pm I walked over to his team area and he was still doing work which is really unusual because he never really stays back. I noticed he wasn’t in the best of moods. When we were walking to the car I was like what’s wrong? He goes shit day, shit mood. I was like oh ok then..

I wanted to cheer him up a bit so I told him a bit of work goss. He asked me what I wanted to eat and I was like you know the usual, he goes chapel? I’m like yeah. We ended up at basilico, food was pretty good. We had saganaki, garlic bread and some salads. Not sure how we got onto the topic but we spoke about our first time having sex, I told him I met my first at a club which was a lie but I did tell him he was 28. He now knows about the young one I hooked up with, the lips story, that DB and I slept together and that I’m no longer seeing him. He goes is that why you’ve been so up and down this month? I’m like no, that’s just personal stuff. He’s like are you sure you’re alright? I’m like yeah I’m fine, I’m good. He’s like wow stories huh T and I go yeah just a couple for you to cheer you up. He goes I should be sad more often. I’m like lol can you not, these are stories that stay between us only ok?

When we left dinner I ended up confessing to him that I think I am spiralling into depression again because I’ve been extremely anxious everyday and constantly feeling anxious as soon as I wake up, he was like I don’t want you to feel alone because you’re not. I’m like I know. He kept asking if I knew what it was or why I was feeling like this and ofcourse I said I don’t know but really I think it’s because of him.

I think about how he doesn’t want me like that but still wants me to be around. I realised tonight that I’m too available. I need to set my distance with him so he can miss me and appreciate me.

The car ride home was really interesting because it started to get a bit personal and sexual. He asked me if being wet and being on your period was the same feeling? I was like umm no it’s different. Then he asked if I had ever had sex on my period and because I didn’t react straight away he goes ohhhh your silence is enough, I laughed I go yeah well I have but it didn’t go in my vagina. He was like shook and laughed because obviously he didn’t think I’d ever tell him that. The topic of me getting called lips came up, I’m like hey, I can’t help that I’m talented, he just laughed. We spoke about how we’re both pretty vanilla and not into anything too freaky but I mean a bit of spanking never hurt anyone.

So yeah he dropped me off home and that was it really. I mean knowing how much he overthinks and analyzes everything he probably thought about everything I said and I wonder what he thinks of me now.

I mean I’m usually very private about these things but I was like let me just give him a bit of cheese and keep him happy but still wondering what else I’ve done.

I saw MH tonight and she just gave me really good advice basically just saying do whatever you want until you feel like you can’t handle it anymore because it’s like when you’re with him you’re on such a high but then we’re you’re apart you’re low.

He’s like an addiction, I keep going back for more and what I realised was that unless I’m gone, he’s not going to miss or appreciate me. I’m not giving him the chance to.

So starting from Monday, I’m going to try and create some distance.

Try is the keyword here.

It’s now 2:50am and I have to get to bed because I’ve gotta be up in a few hours to go to the gym.

[hopefulphantomwonderland-blog]

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Women Power Bloggers - Inside the Minds of Today's Successful Female Bloggers

According to the Pew Internet Project’s PIP Blogging Report, 46% of bloggers are female and the numbers are growing everyday. However, many woman bloggers are a slightly upset with the lack of recognition in their industry. After a week of research I finally asked myself why aren’t women more prominent on the web? Of all the blog ranking lists, except fashion and celebrity blogs, an average of 12% of women appear in the top 100 of each list. And some sources have the nerve to think that fashion blogs are “personal diaries of style”. After doing some research I realized why so many bloggers and readers today perceive women bloggers differently than men:

Many men bloggers don’t link to women bloggers Less than 10% of women are political bloggers 60% of women created blogs are categorized as “personal diaries” Nearly 88% of top bloggers are white American men. Some guys don’t appreciate being lectured by women Instead of analyzing RSS feeds and researching list after list, I decided to go directly to the source to get more answers and find out how women power bloggers reached success, how they reach their readers, and what they think about the discrimination towards professional women bloggers in today’s blogging community.

I communicated with four very different women bloggers (Chanel Ward/Hip Candy, Charlene Li/Groundswell: Winning In a World Transformed by Social Technologies, Michele Obi/My Fashion Life, and Julie Strietelmeier/The Gadgeteer) and asked them the same five questions:

What is the focus of your blog and why did you choose this particular niche? If you could describe your readers in three sentences or less what would you say? How has blogging advanced your career? On average, only 12% of women bloggers are featured on top 100 lists. Why do you think that is? If you could give one word of advice to women bloggers today what would it be? After talking with these women I realized that a “power blogger” has nothing to do with your ranking on a list but the quality of your posts, the awareness of your reader’s needs, and the ability to look beyond fame and fortune and stay true to your subject matter. This is part one of a two part series featuring women bloggers who have changed the way the world views them and their readers. Today’s featured blogger is Chanel Ward from Hip Candy and Charlene Li from Groundswell: Winning In a World Transformed by Social Technologies.

Chanel Ward / Hip Candy

It’s hard to pick one of my favorite blogs, but Hip Candy is very close to my heart. From the tag line, “sweet… but not in that fattening kind a way” to the blog’s owner, Chanel Ward, Hip Candy is fresh, exciting and new.

Fashion designer/graphic artist/writer Chanel Ward was featured as 225 Magazine’s Top People To Watch in 2008 and for good reason. After being the voice for the America’s Next Top Model Interviews and one of the finalist for Project Runaway’s fan favorite blogs this fashionista was invited to experience and write about Fashion Week and is soon launching the much anticipated clothing line Hip Couture. Blazing a trail of personality and style her blog and her career has a life of it’s own, but don’t take my word for it.

1. What is the focus of your blog and why did you choose this particular niche?

The focus of Hip Candy is in my tagline. Fashion. Celebrity. Entertainment. Me. That’s basically what I blog about in a nutshell! I like to think of my blog as fashionably fun! I chose this niche because my background is in Fashion Design (graduated from the Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising in Los Angeles, 1999 – http://www.fidm.com) and I’ve always been intrigued by celebrity culture, so I just thought it would be an adventure to start a fun site that would focus on those things, and at the same time, it would keep me abreast of what was happening in the [fashion] industry. Hip Candy is a fun forum for readers to come and share their opinions on fashion, (the latest trends, fashion don’ts…) celebrity (what they were wearing, what were they thinking?!) the latest happenings in entertainment, with a little bit of what’s going on with me thrown in for good measure.

2. If you could describe your readers in three sentences or less what would you say?

I was surprised to learn recently that some of my readers are as young as 12! But I also have more “seasoned” readers, women over 50 and beyond as well as every age (and gender) in between. Hip Candy readers are very opinionated. Even though most of them usually agree with most things I opine, and “wax poetic” about, they don’t always agree with everything I put down, and that’s okay! Having a difference of opinion is what makes us unique! One of my most commented posts (69 comments at last count) has a firestorm of strong opinions on it from start to finish (http://hipcandy.blogspot.com/2007/03/style-verdict-hetero-men-in-heels.html) Anyone who takes time out of their busy day to click onto to Hip Candy, read a post and share their opinions is more than alright with me.

3. How has blogging advanced your career?

Wow. That’s such a loaded question! I’d never really considered myself a “writer”, but after starting Hip Candy, I slowly began allow myself think otherwise. My blog has already reached levels that I wouldn’t have imagined when I started it. I figured it would just be a fun hobby. The response since I started it has been phenomenal already! It’s very humbling. Some of the more noteworthy advancements have been 1) exposure to the masses from conducting the “Top Model” interviews 2) getting credentialed and being invited to Fashion Week from my fashion coverage on the blog coupled with solid readership 3) That same solid readership translating into monthly ad revenue generated on Hip Candy 4) all-expense paid trips to cover trade shows and events ([http://blogs.dreambrizo.com/kbis_2007/]) 5) recognition and acknowledgement from magazines, and finally and ultimately, 6) built in name recognition for a future clothing launch! Blogging has truly been a surprise and a blessing and I look forward to more in 2008!

4. On average, only 12% of women bloggers are featured on top 100 lists. Why do you think that is?

I hadn’t heard this statistic before, but it’s pretty staggering given that I did hear that about half of the people blogging right now are women. I don’t really know why more women aren’t considered top bloggers. I’d love to find that out myself. I’d love to find out what we as women could do to level the playing field. I’m not as privy as I’d like to be on how blog ranking works. I’ve made a couple lists in the past, ([http://www.fashioniq.com/wordpress/2007/04/23/top-50-fashion-blogs-in-the-us/]) (http://www.customizedgirl.com/blog/) but unless you’re a site like Technorati who ranks blogs on several different statistically based criteria, I’m not sure how much weight it holds. That being said, I’m always grateful to be included on people’s “Top” list, whatever the criteria!

5. If you could give one word of advice to women bloggers today what would it be?

My word of advice to women bloggers would be to not give up! So many of us who may have a strong voice on whatever subject, fall by the wayside after starting blogs and don’t ever see the full fruit of what could have been. Unless you are a celebrity, nobody ever starts out with millions of readers! I’m still striving for that myself! So it’s definitely a process, and growing pains are a part of that process. I can remember back when my mom and a few of my friends made up the entirety of my readership. But if you’re putting out good content, readers will always follow. Have faith in yourself and what you’re doing! Especially if you love it.

Charlene Li / Groundswell: Winning In a World Transformed by Social Technologies

Charlene Li knows what she’s talking about and she is passionate about it. Groundswell: Winning In a World Transformed by Social Technologies is one of the best written blogs on the web, period. Charlene is an expert on technologies like blogs and social networking and uses this knowledge to lead the marketing and research team at Forrester.

Charlene doesn’t just write about her passion, she consults others about trends and methods surrounding her niche. She is the one of the most quoted analyst and has appeared in The NewsHour With Jim Lehrer, CNN, NPR, and BBC, as well as The Wall Street, Journal, The New York Times, and BusinessWeek. As a matter of fact, while writing this biography and researching Charlene’s accomplishments, a commercial for 60 minutes segment on Facebook was advertised, Charlene provided background on that story. Reading Charlene’s blog has personally advanced my career as a technology leader within my company and has kept me fully up to date on innovative marketing solutions through social networks and blogging. I am very honored to have her take the time to reach out my readers on the topic of women and blogging.

1. What is the focus of your blog and why did you choose this particular niche?

The focus is developments in interactive and social technologies primarily for marketing purposes. Most recently, the focus is on the use of social technologies and supports a new book that I’m publishing in April 2008. The blog is an extension of my work at Forrester Research.

2. If you could describe your readers in three sentences or less what would you say?

I have three very specific readers: 1) Businesspeople interested in leverage interactive and social technologies, primarily in marketing; 2) Influential press and bloggers; 3) Thought leaders in the field, whom I can tap for research purposes.

3. How has blogging advanced your career?

Oh, in so many ways! It’s given me visibility beyond the limited Forrester client base and extended my influence tremendously. I have contacts that I would never have developed without the blog. And I rely on it consistently to conduct research amongst a community that doesn’t exist anywhere else. As such, I have access to better research faster than anyone else in the industry.

4. On average, only 12% of women bloggers are featured on top 100 lists. Why do you think that is?

I’m assuming that you mean only 12% of top bloggers are women. This is partly a matter of who does the listing. And frankly, why does it matter if you’re a “top” blogger? The most important thing is to know who your reader is and to hyper-serve them better than anyone else. I’m unlikely to ever make it on the Technorati 100 list, but I’m clearly considered a “top blogger” in my field.

The other way to look at it is do women consider themselves to be a top blogger? If the stat is 12% of women bloggers consider themselves to be top bloggers, then we have a self-esteem problem!

5. If you could give one word of advice to women bloggers today what would it be?

Be true to yourself and to your reader. There’s nothing worse than a blogger who’s striving to be something they aren’t.

Tierra Montgomery is the Vice President of Training & IT Development at Joy Corporation of Baton Rouge as well as a former Adjunct Professor at Baton Rouge Community College’s Small Business Training Center, where she teaches employees of Cox Communications, Casino Rouge, and Shaw, Inc. computer literacy and proficiency in Microsoft Office Applications. Ms. Montgomery has an immeasurable amount of experience dealing the displaced community. She currently serves on the LARebuilds steering committee and also designed and implemented Joy Corporation’s Community Technology Initiative providing training to the community free of charge using Microsoft Unlimited Potential Curriculum.