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poor soap, ghost's been away on a mission for too long...
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#so i was kinda sad a little while ago#and somehow my coping mechanism for being sad is to just draw military men rawing the hell out of each other so...#theres more where this came from#turns out i CAN do more than just answer asks amiright#ghostsoap#simon ghost riley#simon riley#john soap mactavish#cod mw2#giragi art
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"hi love you need better coping mechanisms and also maybe to leave the city sometimes because its stuffy and putting you on edge so will you come burn some marshmallows with me in the woods"
@naffeclipse I continue <3
*self insert is not a girl (he/ she)
og detective au by sunnys-aesthetic!
#post let luce#dcamv#sleuth jesters#bloodstain fool#apropos i still need to reblog the chapter link - focus#naffeclipse#my art#something something fuel to the brainrot fire#shakes him and his coping mechanisms#im only more insane about him after the second chapter came out#i also apologize for my marshmallow crimes#im unfortunately the person who burns half my 'mallows#i finally got to experiment with flame painter tho!!#bought it last year during the rebelle sale and didnt have the opportunity to try it before gfhdjs#what better trial than burning marshmallows <3#menace4menace
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This dude spitting facts! Please consider listening to this if you have the time, it's just under 3 mins. :)
(Inb4 all the people who claim this video is 'defending boomers' when there's a big difference between explaining something and justifying the outcomes.)
#this checks out tbh i know multiple older people who had serious food insecurity and their kids grew up terrified of that#then THEIR kids grew up in a very prosperous situation and came to believe they 'worked hard' to achieve stability when lots of it was just#being born at the right time#one of my parents is like this and it bugs me so fcking much#they refuse to believe my generation is way way less lucky in the economic prosperity sense than theirs was#they're scared of the idea that it's really possible to be that powerless so they argue against it as a coping mechanism#josephabrassey#tiktok#baby boomers#boomers#the greatest generation#generation x#generational trauma#capitalism#current events#psychology
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⚠️arcane season 2 episode 6 spoilers⚠️
Song: who live, who dies, who tells you story- Hamilton
#arcane season 2#arcane edits#arcane jinx#jinx and isha#isha arcane#arcane spoilers#isha and jinx edit#isha and jinx#coping mechanism#grief#crying since it came out
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Man it is a bold choice for the second game to just pepper in little asides that oh yeah btw Edgeworth's fucking dead. Yeah no he died off screen between games. No, you don't get to know how. Phoenix is too fucked up about it to tell you anything
#like I know he's not really dead bc I have heard rumors about future cases where he's present#but if I were playing this game when it came out? without spoilers?#I would be RIOTING#also lmao 'Please don't say that name in front of me ever again'#bro you are Fucked Up#and not beating the griddlehark similarities allegations#yes harrow very literally redated Gideon's name from her memory#but I think if Harrow had died before Gideon she would also be like 'hey yeah never mention that name again'#'bitch went and got herself killed with her stupid pride. she's gone. don't mention her again. bye.'#this is a healthy coping mechanism (not)
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Yeag...
#boniji#bocchi x nijika#hitori x nijika#am I allowed to be cringe over a rare ship on tumblr dot com in the dwindling months of 2023?#like I didn't expect this pairing to become my recent comfort ship in these trying times#one time I got curious and decided to read some fanfics back in February (?) It didn't click to me yet. I just think it's cute and moved on#but months later it came back to me full force in July and the next thing I know I went into a gay trance (just like Bocchi in ep10)#and starts searching for fanarts and obsessing over them#this ship is seriously my coping mechanism during a stressful time#sometimes a ship is what keeps a fixation (sanity) going#gathering the crumbs from both anime & manga 'Mmm...scrumptious~ 🤤😋'#episode 8 my beloved 👐💕#fr what's with me and rare pairs. I'm not that even big of a shipper#but this is actually my first time where the tag of the ship (on tumblr) is basically inactive#or only sometimes gets tagged when other ships are involved 😭#like I know there are some great art in the tags but it's just...not enough#it's tough to fixate on smth that's barely have any content for it#well there's one way to fix that... ◉‿◉#I'm about to be annoying on the tag of this ship#I was gonna tag the main tag but I chickened out. I'll just stay in my niche corner brainrotting over a rarepair 🤐😶 however...#btr#<- using this obscure tag instead lol#my ramblings
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there's something that just rlly fucking sucks about burnout. like? i'm not even doing much. 5 hours of class a week where i sit down at an easel and draw. then i have an assignment over the weekend that's less than 2 hours long. and i'm still exhausted. i can't draw like i usually do because my imagination + ability to craft compositions is used up. it really makes me wonder if i'll ever get anywhere in life, if this is what gets me down
anyway. i have a bit of a buffer of posts but after that idk how long it'll be. just an fyi
#rambles#sorry to vent on main. might delete this later#an art degree is most definitely unattainable if i can't handle a beginner's drawing class#i like to draw and i'm good at it. but somehow it still wipes me out#yesterday it rlly came to a head when i set up my easel and just. could NOT. make myself draw#art burnout is probably the worst cuz it turns one of my best coping mechanisms into a stressor#actually autistic#<- sorry guys lol
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hi fellow neurodivergent people
i hate to jump on the "i think i might have adhd" bandwagon, but if i think i might have adhd, how do i bring it up to my care team as a 28-year-old cis woman who was a massive overachiever until i couldn't keep up the ruse anymore?
#idk what happened when i got laid off it seriously is like my brain BROKE i cannot do anything#i have not done much of anything in a year. and i think it's bc my coping mechanisms were 1. self-medicate but ESPECIALLY do that while#2. overcommitting. because it kept me busy and distracted. i excelled in school because i could focus on it without it giving me anxiety#school was honestly almost the only thing that didn't give me anxiety as a kid. and i never felt quite Right like i didn't feel like i fit#in with my peers. i've always felt like a human being that isn't a person. like something's not quite right. i excel but i feel like i'm#doing it wrong because it's SO hard for me. i graduated my BA and BS programs with a 4.0#but it came with the cost of alienating all of my friends and family and becoming really reclusive and weird and distant and anxious#but i really just wanted to do well at the one thing i felt i was good at. which doesn't seem like something i should take note of#idk. my life feels like a claustrophobic box. i feel like i'm buried alive and i can't get myself out because i can't work#because i can't focus. but maybe i'm just stupid and lazy and want everyone to take care of me forever so i can continue laying around doin#fuck all. which i do a lot because i'm chronically ill. idk. like is there ground to stand on here. i literally have zero friends rn#and i feel so so so sos so anxious any time i am working because i worry i'm going to do something wrong or forget to do something or make#lots of mistakes that get me in trouble. i'm so scared of making mistakes it keeps me from doing anything at all. but i get so anxious bc#i'm not doing anything! i'm wasting time! and i can't focus on anything when i AM working because i have to get up and pace#like i HAVE to move around or i start to feel like i need to peel my skin off like i'm an orange#like. is it anything at all. or is this just me being someone who has Other Stuff going on
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I missed her...
#my art#illustration#donkey kong country#dkc#dk64#tiny kong#this is just silly perspective attempt- I like how it came out#I loved Tiny so much aaaarghh she was kinda of a coping mechanism to me........... thats why I portray her so messed up...#I think I went too overblown with the background but I legit had no idea how to do it jsjjsjsjhjejakdbx
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how did you first get into Jeremy Jordan
good question—and one i very recently asked myself when the inevitable "how did i become this person" reflection happened 🫣.
i think there were many different factors (most of them not that good) that caused me to dive into obsessive mode so hard (and so quickly)—and it's definitely a "i see it now, but i couldn't back then" kind of situation. however, i'll spare you from those details XD.
the simple story is that, similar to you, i watched tangled the series and instantly fell in love with varian.
i love him
funnily enough, varian was the reason i started watching the show to begin with (coupled with the fact that i love tangled, and rapunzel, and eugene, and pascal, and max, and- 😆). i actually listened to the tts songs before watching the show 🫣 because my sister had gotten hooked on it years before. however, i only listened to the songs with mandy moore and zachary levi 🫣🫣 (cause i was like "who are these other random people, i want rapunzel and eugene"). then one day i listened to "through it all," in which varian has one line (plus an "eh" which i love now, but couldn't tell was him when i first listened XD)—and i was instantly just like: who's that.
have i listened to this one line on loop? you bet.
so i started watching the show—and loved varian from episode one—so naturally, i decide to look up the voice actor. it was jeremy....surprise. except...i didn't actually become obsessed right then. if anything, i was a little weirded out that this tiny boy was voiced by a 30-something year old man 😂 (but it's voice acting, so i was just like: wow, he did a great job 🤩...i'm going to go resume loving varian).
okay and then he sang. i knew he was good from his one line in "through it all", but wOW. adfasjkjaskfjd, on repeat forever and ever.
yes he was
that's not when i became (jeremy) obsessed either XD.
okay...and then a bunch of life stuff/circumstances kind of collided, and let's just say that i was feeling extremely lonely while also struggling with grief. i think there was about a two week period of this before i started actually bouncing back, and i had just reached the end of s1. now tts was doing a good job with bringing much needed happiness in my life, but...s2 had a very noticeable varian-shaped hole in it 😒.
that's when i turned to jeremy jordan youtube. it started off (the first hour) pretty mild—just some of his disney medleys, or the greatest showman video, or just the ones with millions of views—but it very quickly turned into a full out jeremy jordan youtube spiral™️ XD.
i must put this in your face again
i think in part, i latched on so quickly because jeremy and i are actually very similar people in general. i think at the point of extreme change that i was in at the time, it was just nice to "know" someone who was like me—and it definitely helped that there was easy access to extensive jj content. on a slightly different note, this is absolutely the reasoning behind the fact that if i had a chance to see jeremy live, i would choose one of his concerts over, say, gatsby—i am obsessed with jeremy jordan as jeremy jordan XD (hello akp).
literally me (i grew up in california by the way XD)
anyways, fast forward ~3 months, and i joined tumblr 😆...and we all know what happened after that. honestly, not a bad decision in my mind (at least so far), despite being very anti-social media my whole life. i've gotten to chat and obsessively geek out with so many great people, and i'm just so grateful for that 💕.
i've still only watched s1 of supergirl...and many youtube clips
#okay...woah i did not expect this post to get sooo long#i'm adding a read more line 🫣#help i blinked and there was an essay again#this is probably not what you were looking for#i'm just....passionate...?#and i left out...a lot of major plot points 💀#basically#jeremy jordan: the best coping mechanism#he is less of a coping mechanism now though...and more of just *a problem*#but the best problem#there is absolutely saga continuation potential here#that was like day number one#we didn't talk about how i came home to visit and sneak attacked my sister into watching newsies with me for the first time#or the blessed day i discovered the concert recordings#or the day my mom texted me to say that she knew who he was#but this certainly got too long so we shall halt here XD#just to be clear: jeremy and i are very different in many ways as well#i like to say that if you combine jeremy and laura osnes that's like 70% me#and then add a good dose of violet parr and you're like 90% there 💀#okay i'm done with my#tag ramble#again#jeremy jordan#a lot of him#alchemicalwerewolf#thanks for the ask!
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Hi guys, it’s been a few weeks now since I last posted. I didn’t plan on going on hiatus, but this year really has it out for me. Every time something bad happens, and I’ve just started dealing with that Mountain of Shit, another one pops up. Like whack-a-mole. I keep looking at an invisible camera, acting like I’m in The Office because there is no way this shit is real.
The upside is that I’ve been working on some stuff while I was gone, so I will try to find some time to get that done and posted in the next couple of days. I started writing the first chapter of my vampire!Matt series Carpe Noctem, the next chapter for Chaos Theory (almost finished, too), and the next chapter for Do No Harm. There’s some other stuff I have in store, but I’m going to keep that to myself. For now.
I want you all to know that I saw your lovely messages/comments and I’m so grateful for your support <3 I will get to answering them individually today or tomorrow, at the latest. This is just to give you a little heads-up that I’m not dead. I’m very much hanging in there.
I love you all.
PS. One of those mountains of shit included an incident that made it impossible for me to go to the comic con I already had tickets for, meaning I didn’t even get to wear my cosplay. I will do a photo shoots one of these days just for you guys and post it because I was so excited to be Elektra. It’s a great emotional and financial cost, but I can’t change it now. Unfortunately.
#lizzi updates#tw: mental health#hi i’m back#somewhat#life sucks balls#it’s like you know it’s a shit show but you can’t do anything about it#at least ttpd came out so i’ve got enough sad music to listen to#and wine#lots and lots of wine#< pls don’t use me as an example for healthy coping mechanisms#also tagging as an update for my stories:#carpe noctem#do no harm#chaos theory#matt murdock#michael kinsella#x reader
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unfortunately for everyone involved im hitting the exact right combination of summer melancholy + extreme mental illness spiral + late july/august + insomnia that makes me rewatch shadowhunters. sorry in advance
#it was the only thing that got me thru 2017 i always associate it with the second half of summer specifically..#i started watching it in march but s2b was coming out in july/august so that's why those stuck#im doing so badly. lol#i think everything just kinda came together coupled not leaving my room for anything other than my daily walk for#1.5 months and counting but oh my god. hello#im spiraling into shit i havent had to deal with in like years can i LEAVE. I THOUGHT WE WERE OVER THIS#it's not paranoia if im literally right 🙏 this is fine. it's fine <3#it's literally FINE if i repress everything far enough it wont bother me. im sure using that as#a coping mechanism for my entire life hasn't lead to an insane backlog of horrible shit that im gonna have to deal with at some point.#at least my brain helpfully doesn't let me remember 90% of my life so ion have to worry about all that. yay♥#guys it's direeeee tv show save me. i cant even work or go riding coz the weather is so hot i constantly feel ill#MAN whatever it's fine. at least i dont have scurvy i guess#barking
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The coolest gender thing in the 2009 Japanese video game persona 3 100% how hard they coded shinjiro as the dead mom
#.txt#i got soooo mad in the car driving home thinking about how his drug addiction is essentially the classic anime heart condition.#in that the only side effect of the suppressants is that they will kill him. like?#i realized for the longest time i had assumed the chest pain and sweating came from the drugs but thats. castor. obviously.#it doesnt affect his mood or his awareness its like a mood stabilizer pain relief pill?#its so odd that hes framed as like. being addicted to illegal street drugs. BY THE NARRATIVE.#when its more like hes on the most insane experimental medication that they wont even test on like. rats.#also im not fact checking any of this before posting. so i might be lying about things.#idk if it was all of strega that had trouble controlling their personas but like. chidori was because of the Experimentation.#and shinjis just like. mentally ill coded. in a bad way 😭#The inability to regulate a mood/stimuli to the point where he can be unsafe to himself or others.#broad ass symptom of disorders that are not treated well. its also interesting that its not brought on by a specific event.#like the childhood fire is there. but you have akihiko right there to directly compare it to. and hes arguably more effected by it all.#and he seems to be coping well 10+ years on like some coping mechanisms are kind of weird (protein) but nothing super out of the ordinary.#so the problem is really the october 4th incident which was just a pure honest to god accident.#the fact that it gets covered up as a car accident does feel like the best like. emotional equivalent.#because it being shinji being unable to control his persona his true representation of himself and it resulting in death is sooooo bleak#and it weighs on him for 2+ years of being suicidal and unhoused until finally he goes through with his suicide by martyrdom.#i lost the plot a little bit on the gender situation with the vague allusions to fraility when story convenient#acting as dorm den mother and cooking and sewing long hair jacket sillhouette reading like a dress#was referring to that before mental illness took over. woman under the influencing this anime boy.#long way of saying i think he should have a over the shoulder ponytail when hes older. and he should have a mood disorder.
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to people asking where is ekko are you for real or are you just delusional
#arcane#if you are for real- floting somewhere in hextech juice probably#if you are just delusional- i applaud your coping mechanisms#like come on three of them went in#just jayce came out#and he hates hextech now#i think ist safe to assume something bad happened to ekko and heimendinger#ekko arcane#jayce arcane#heimendinger arcane
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the constant emphasis on the can of alcohol though… it’s like it’s telling us that yuko’s too deep in her vices/self-indulgence that she’s completely oblivious to how much her younger son loves and cares for her…
#in other words… maybe shibasaki yuko was *the* yoidore shirazu after all—#though come to think of it… the lxl movie only ever showed us the worst interactions between aizo and yuko. so.#maybe she’s a better mother when she’s sober off-screen or something? idk. it doesn’t absolve her of all her misdeeds but. still.#lowkey feel bad for her though. bad divorce coping mechanisms really do change you for the worse… maybe.#especially when you’re not the main one at fault for the divorce… but still. taking it out on your kids is going way too far.#the cans kind of gave me flashbacks to my own yuko-esque parent though… sigh. time to never listen to hahaoyatte ever again#i have many thoughts on it but. yeah. no. i get the feeling that i’ll venture too far into projecting territory if i continue lol#but ngl i absolutely love how neither of the brothers bother to try to redeem shibasaki dad lmfaoooo i hope he’s rotting offscreen or sth#anyways. that’s all from me. next time you see me i’ll be with my kawaikute gomen manga bc it finally came in ayayaayayayayayayayyayayayyyyy
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I missed the puscifer concert because I was depressed
#month long depression#came out of my depression coma 2 days after missing the show#maynard I'll get your ass one day#every time i think hey im not drepressed anymore ive been doing well for a while nice maybe ive learned some mature coping mechanisms#nope heres some terrible shit to send you spiraling back to the hole#but hey i woke up half way through my work day on sunday and i finally feel alive again
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