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wah i looove their designs and animation...
#sketched last night looped ''hot air balloon'' track last night rewatched elemental last night you know just how it is....i love it all augh#elemental#elemental 2023#pixar elemental#elemental fanart#ember lumen#wade ripple#it's so fun how just going w/the flow waviness drawing a wade is Correct. some flamey shiveriness / jaggedness in ember's lines is Correct#and it's all the more fun how it's like oh ofc not quite hitting the mark of how great their designs really are....so so good#and of course the expressive elasticity not only with their faces but the way their bodies ft. respective elements can be expressive#in addition to just usual [assume you have a usual literal human body] expressiveness options in posture / movement etc lol#also was thinking about how like we know everything we Need to know re: wade & his dad but also have so [zero details there]#which is interesting to wonder about. kinda assumed like oh a parent got sick & died but now considering how it could've been an accident..#the tiny layer of A Reaction he has when ember's talking abt parents giving up everything for you: could be nothing much; or Anything#also noting i Didn't note the first instances that they hear each other's names or introduce themselves thusly lol#or at least i sure can't recall it. just start knowing the other's name partway through which Isn't A Problem but it's like#ooh just more to consider & reexamine. i love to pick up More Details & that's helped by my difficulty in catching them in the first place#one thing about me i don't Catch things i don't Notice shit i don't Get stuff. and also of course: i do though lol#always a trip when it's like oh i love this movie i'm seeing it probably the two dozenth time#and then i notice something for the very first time that was clearly straightup meant to be Gotten upon the immediate viewing#even to the extent that smthing later seems to be kinda happening out of nowhere if you didn't. & i'd just rolled with it#like ok i'm autistic ofc that's something i gotta do all the time. & the adhd means i might keep getting distracted around the same pts.
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having another one of my job-related crises
#where are the jobs for blokes that do fuck all. where are they!!!!!!!#i am quite literally looking for jobs where you do nothing. you do not understand how much i dont want to do anything#granted my current job has a certain amount of doing nothing in that i have the time to look for jobs where i do nothing#but i want to do even more nothing. do you understand#if i lived on my own i probably would consider some weird night shift job#but its probably better i have the routine i have living during the day like a normal person#despite the drawbacks of my cursed routine#where are those jobs i see people making tiktoks about where you do fuck all in the office and send like one email a day. id kill for that#my dream is to be paid for like. mostly sitting somewhere where i can work on my needlepoint#id even do mindless data entry. PLEASE pay me for mindless data entry i love repetitive tasks. if you let me listen to music im unstoppable#ive come across a couple data entry jobs but i think they always require a college degree#and its like oops sorry i never had the time or money for that! still dont! however i can promise you my autism is qualification enough#my dad talks about the market research jobs he used to have and how for like the entry level jobs there#there was clearly so much goof off time they were playing early computer games and shit#but there were like so much more data entry jobs that i guess are obsolete now bc of technology#and its like yes technology good but theyve destroyed an important job category: jobs where you do fuck all#whenever i have one of these crises i also check out gigs n jobs on craigslist and unfortunately everything there seems so sketchy#like every 'personal assistant' job sounds either super pervy or like im going to get serial killed#i should get paid a million dollars a year for doing nothing at all i think#anyway once again my only option is my successful director dreams. would be great if theyd actually happen#<- guy that doesnt spend enough time actually working on creative works in progress#well anyway. such is my mental state today thank you for your time
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Is it just me, or is there an attitude in adaptations of All Creatures Great and Small and articles/books about James Herriot (Alf Wight) that Tristan is optional?
The second movie has no Tristan at all.
According to this post, the only reason the 1978 version has Tristan as a main character is because Robert Hardy insisted. Otherwise he wouldn't have been.
The 2020 version did an entire season without Tristan and articles about it kept saying things like "Tristan isn't here, but Helen made a mistake and it was funny so we don't really miss him."
The biography "James Herriot: The Life of a Country Vet" mentions Tristan (Brian Sinclair) only a handful of times and it's things like "The brothers were very different. "The two men were good friends." "He died and it was sad." There's basically nothing actually ABOUT him.
In real life "James" (Alf) and "Tristan" (Brian) were best friends just like they are in the books. When Brian was in the RAVC, Alf sent him twenty page letters. Post-war when they were living in different parts of Yorkshire, they and their wives got together every week for decades. Brian was one of the few people Alf told he was writing a book.
"James Herriot" did not consider "Tristan" optional. He considered him one of his closest friends.
#All Creatures Great and Small#Of course with regards to that biography. James | Alf didn't want a biography written about him except by his son.#So I'm not really impressed with that guy for writing one anyway.#I need to get my hands on Jim Wight's book about his dad. The online preview was fun to read.#My local library doesn't have it. So I'd have to inter-library loan it.#Robert Hardy for MVP of the people who understand that Tristan isn't optional.#(Trying to clear out my ACGAS posts drafts before season 5.)
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Sowing seeds of discontent and disharmony by hanging up on my parents birthday phone call the second my mom asked if I gained weight. Hope that sits badly on their minds while they think about how that's the first call I've engaged with them in 2 months and it was for the dogs birthday. Dad scrambling to text me for my mom that she didn't mean it. Like fuck I told her I've been having a rough month and day. She couldn't keep it to herself that badly. Fucks sake
#was already not in a great place mentally but i entertained the call and was actually feeling okay talking to them giving them an update#she just hits me with that. and I'm not normally sensitive about my weight even when my mom harped on me for gaining some a few years back#i genuinely normally don't care bc I'm happy with myself. but i know ive lost weight because I've been on icu and we don't have time to eat#im so fucking mad and im even more mad I'm crying about it#bc what the fuck#i was actually feeling like momentarily safe talking to them and being vulnerable about working on my next life stages#and she just ruined the call. i wanted to talk to my mom and dad more. i do miss talking to them about some things.#i was happy to get to see my family all together even if it was for the dogs birthday. and people were smiling and shit#and ik theyre gonna say i ruined it by being sensitive but jfc#it was literally the 2nd thing my mom said to me on the call after we sang happy birthday#why couldn't she just shut up. why couldn't she have said anything else. why did i let it bother me so much i hung up#I'm just fucking tired and sad and now feeling even lonlier than ever#i just wanted a nice moment with my family god fucking damn is that too hard to ask for#and im even more angry and sad now that i cant call them back bc my mom will get on me about smth else we were previously talking about#that phone call was supposed to be a neutral zone just for the birthday song. and i was going to ride it out but fucking hell#why didnt i just put up with it so i could have talked to my family#and no calling them back isnt an option. they haven't apologized and it would be an un neutral call#which gives them space to harass me about work and shit
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More for Pretend that I Never Left, except this time it's all post-fic hurt/comfort and fluff scenes I couldn't stop conjuring in my head at 5AM!! uwu @redstringraven I will laugh gleefully hard if I've somehow managed to predict Anything of what you're doing for the Epilogue
#tmnt#tmnt mikey#tmnt 2003#tmnt 2k3#aloy horizon#my art#pretend that i never left#fic fanart#my art show up in the search tags challenge#to be fair to myself#these scenes were not conjured during one lone 5AM#it was over the course of several 5AMs and also during work#the comic was so fun to make lol#can you spot all the visual funnies I put in there#also those outfits Mikey and Aloy are wearing are what my outfits would be if I lived in a cold environment#I mean sure it's like Chilly right now but not enough for Layers#also I'm very proud of my first Splinter doodles#old rat dad is filled with fur and angles but I think I did great#anyways!!#I will now wait (probably) for the Epilogue before doing more fanart of this AU that I love very much#edit with additional commentary about the playthrough I watched of HZD#which had Aloy choosing all of the heart/kind options until it came to the final battle with Helis#which was just like IMMEDIATE KILL KILL KILL#loved that lmaoo
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Interview. Interview. Oh Another interview. Interview. Interview. Guess what's next? An interview that a manager is like "Today at 2pm sound good?" which I took bc yeah, it was good...
I'm tired.
Now will ANY OF THEM ACTUALLY Call Me Back???
#taks speaks#literally woke up to an email from a place that interviewed me two days ago saying i wasn't selected for an interview#like??? What???#YOU JUST INTERVIEWED ME#there's one of them that i'm hoping for bc it has the lovely 8-5 hours. not per shift. just being open#and it's a tourist trap#that has good health benefits and gets me into other tourist traps around town For Free +3 guests max#like hello. dad can visit. bring both sisters. we're going touristing#and sea world at 50% off which is pretty damn cool#i'm gonna start harassing them daily on the phone as of wednesday#if that gas station food prep job doesn't get back#which pays a touch more with a 10% discount on GAS#BUT they're the ones who sent that weird email this morning saying i didn't make it to the interview stage which um#why? what? you talked to me twice?#I'm QUALIFIED? It's the same damn job i previously had but for a gas station. i mean come on#ugh. my lowest quality options are part time at a busier and more annoying tourist trap#or *sighs* dominos.#at least dominos gets good tips tho#everyday for like. the last week has been interviews#except yesterday which tbh i slept most of it#i need a fuckin job dude. come on#i have also created a list of managers i would rather be interviewed by#at the bottom of the list is intimidating older woman. next is slightly younger than that woman who thinks i don't look local enough#somewhere in the middle is that really chill old lady who gave me advice about chafing in the heat. great lady#and top is black man in his 20s. very chill. easy to talk to. i've been interviewed by two and the first one was younger than me#and i intimidated him. bc i knew more about interviewing laws than he did. whoops. missed out on the job but he was nice#today's though? KNEW HIS SHIT. Perfect manager. I'd want to work for him. Chill. easy to talk to and understood the laws well#...just realized the bar is that low. wow.#sadly he's the dominos guy and that job is second to last on my preferred list#i have most definitely noticed that the person interviewing you sets the daily tone for the job
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I think making sweeping generalizations of specific traits being considered "ugly" is not great the same way i think its rude and unnecessary to call others ugly, i also think its worthwhile to acknowledge that certain traits ARE considered "Ugly" due to societal beauty standards, that doesn't make them ACTUALLY ugly, bc beauty is subjective anyway, and can be found Anywhere, and even someone who seems to tick every single box of societal beauty Ideals will almost certainly have at least one trait or feature about their appearance that they are insecure about or feel is "ugly", bc even within the constraints of conventional attractiveness theres subjectivity
also this fish was so fucking Ugly and i adored it so much. i miss him.
he was also gorgeous.
#toy txt post#toy pic post#he passed in like. man. i want to say 2019? his name was Gus. he was a pink kissing gourami#the thing about albino fish is that they always look a little bit sickly and concerning. his head always seemed a little big for his body#like he was really old. when i got him he looked so bad cos he had wounds all over him from dads fish that got infected and the dude#straight up looked like a zombie. every day id wake up and prepare myself to find him dead. but he recovered and never went back in w the#fish that injured him. his face was hideous. he looked pale and sickly. his head was a little too big like he was super old#his scales were iridescent and pretty and shimmery. he had no concept of giving a shit about me finding him beautiful or not. not even on#his mind. simply not something he would think about. now. im sure he'd have some sort of beauty standard to hold himself to for mating if#that had been an option for him. but it wouldnt be the same. idk. i just. i love the idea. of animals that are not traditionally cute or#beautiful or charismatic and the fact that they do not give a single fucking shit what we think of the way they look. BOTH ways. a#a butterfly does not give a single thought tohow beautiful or inspiring you find the colors of its wings. the wolf fish does not care that#humans find it hideous and terrifying. it just looks the way that it does. its fine. its vibing. it just wants to live and survive and get#enough food. yes beauty is everywhere but so is ugly. and there is beauty in ugly. to me. there is beauty in not even thinking about#standards to be conformed to or not. the beauty is irrelevant. its not For You. it doesnt Matter. its just Existing. if you like how it#looks while it exists? great! good for you. if you dont? okay cry about it i guess. this ugly ass fish doesnt give a shit if humans find it#beautiful or not. he was just going to continue to use his lips covered in teeth to scrape biofilm and algae off the surface of rocks and#driftwood and play in the current of the filter.#let girls be ugly the way marine iguanas dont give a shit if humans find them pretty cos theyre just sunning themselves and eating seaweed#off rocks. all humans are beautiful. all humans are ugly. it doesnt matter. let us go dive into the ocean and scrape seaweed off the rocks#and then bask in the sun on a warm rock and not fucking worry about that#anyway also Yes ive seen uglier fish than him.i know they exist. but he was also special cos he was My Fish u see
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“Hancock is bad with kids” “Hancock is bad with Shaun” no, well, maybe, but where I was getting at was, the objectively funniest dynamic there that I can think of is that Hancock does, indeed, not know what to do around kids BUT Shaun is super curious because of that and will not leave him alone. Hancock will be looking at sole like “I can’t handle this, i don’t know what to do, get your kid” and Shaun is just like “why do you dress like that? Do you still get sunburnt? Do you like lazer rifles? I like lazer rifles.” Like a cat that sees the person ignoring them and goes up to them for attention. And the funniest response from sole is something like “the sunburn question is rude, Shaun” and then they continue doing whatever they were before saying that.
#emma posts#fallout 4 oc#this is their dynamic. i have decided that#especially because his mom did something similar when acquiring a new dad#and also curiosity obviously runs in the family#I am building on these characters where canon left gaps#especially synth Shaun. obviously#I am not ignoring my youngest child 😤#or my eldest but he’s dead now and it’s complicated#wait. is codsworth her kid? she made him and sees him as family#that feels different though#the mathison way is just pestering someone (especially with questions) until they at least tolerate you#well. not with EVERYONE. just people they find interesting enough#sort of. i don’t actually know how to explain who his mom decides to befriend/adopt#or reverse adopt. nick is her new dad and it’s not optional#she imprinted like a duckling. she’s in her 20s? doesn’t matter#Hancock is like ‘you’re a parent though and I’m not good with kids. should you really settle for me?’ and she’s like#Shaun will be great with you! the question is will you adapt’#‘shouldn’t it be the other way around?’ ‘no. you’ve seen me with nick. this family adopts. even when adopted’#he possibly feels some dread and she continues with ‘we’re family when we decide we are. But can the people we declare family handle us?’#she is of course saying this increasingly ominously because she finds it funny. it is true though. everything she said. it’s true.#and it’s okay if he doesn’t see you as a dad. just that he accepts you as my partner. at least it’s that way to him and i. I know my kid.’#her knowing her kid also makes her constantly concerned about him getting into something for having questions. She knows she has.#that’s how she met Hancock in the first place. Piper. I found something crazy. Piper I want answers#and piper was probably like ‘wtf is this blue?’ and sole was like ‘a story’#so they got in over their heads trying to solve a mystery… sort of?#those two get into all sorts of shit that way#her imprinting was probably part (mostly) trauma. but it happened regardless#I’m making this reblog able now because people find it funny apparently and if that’s all i don’t mind
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Scream 7 opening concept:
It's late, the scene is a police station. It's pretty empty except for a couple of old and crotchety desk jockeys. A handcuffed Tara is being walked into a cell. Her hands are cuffed in front of her and she's a little beat up, and scowling. The cop tells her that her sister is on her way, and not to look at him like that, if she didn't want to be here then she shouldn't have assaulted an officer. She slouches down on a bench with a huff, and the cop leaves. There's some drunk who flirts with her from the other side of the cell - what's a girl like you doing in a place like this, and other such things - he's handcuffed to a bench.
The lights go out.
The drunk makes some comment about it, but Tara's alert, it sets her anxiety off. One of the cops heads over to a breaker box and fixes the lights, mumbling about shitty funding. He goes back into the office to find his partner missing. He looks around a bit, calling for him, before finding him dead under a desk, he sees nobody else around. He runs to the cells to check they're still locked, and Ghostface appears behind him, stabbing him in the neck.
"Hello, Tara. What's a girl like you doing in a place like this?"
Tara's eyes flick between the Ghostface and the drunk, who is visibly confused and upset about what is happening.
Meanwhile, Sam, irritated, walks into the police station and finds the receptionist is conked out at her computer. She puts a hand on her shoulder after she doesn't respond, and she rolls over dead.
Back to the cells, Ghostface bends down to take the cell keys from the cops body and begins to unlock the cell. Tara has stood up and backed away as far as she can. She eyes the door as Ghostface walks in, wondering if she can get past them. She tries, and fails. Ghostface slams her head into the bars, dazing her. "This isn't the place for you Tara, but I know where you belong." The Ghostface grabs her, one hand on her shoulder, the other grabs her by the hair, and marches her out of the cell and back into the office room.
They find Sam holding a gun in their direction, she took it from one of the dead cops.
"Tara, you ok?" "Well, I haven't been stabbed yet, so pretty good I guess." "Great, now fucking let go of my sister. This won't end well for you."
Ghostface releases Tara's shoulder to hold a knife to her throat instead. "Are you going to shoot me Samantha? Have you been practising your aim?" Ghostface moves Tara more in front of them, using her as a shield. "I hope so, you wouldn't want to accidentally hit Tara now, would you?"
Sam falters, the gun lowering slightly. Tara tries to struggle, but the grip on her hair is strong and they press the knife harder to her neck. "Ah ah, behave."
Ghostface starts to move forward, Sam stepping back. They pivot around the room, until their positions have been reversed. Ghostface goes to step out the room when a shot rings out and the knife goes flying. Ghostface's been shot from behind, it's Kirby.
The shock has them loosening their hold on Tara, and she throws herself forward at her sister, who grabs her and lifts the gun up again. Sam presses Tara's head against her and covers her free ear with her hand before taking a couple shots at Ghostface, while Kirby does the same from behind.
Ghostface dies, and when they unmask them... they have no idea who this person is... or what they wanted. Well, they search him and find several photographs of Tara. Guess they do know what he wanted afterall.
#/mp#Scream#Sam Carpenter#Tara Carpenter#Scream 7#scream concept#my writing tag#the tags tag#Tara has been in two openings so far and we need to see her in a third. but not if she's gonna die thanks lmao#this post is inspired by my need to see more of Tara's anger issues thank you#don't @ me about the 'process' - Tara's an adult getting treated like a child because of extenuating circumstances#there gets to be a running theme of what exactly is 'a girl like this'. the girl in question being pretty angry and unstable tbh.#she's sick and tired of everyone trying to tell her who she should be#the best part about this concept is it works with so many Ghostface options. is it a cult? will it be her mum? her dad? some stalker?#alternative line: “Great now fucking let go of my sister or I'll shoot you in the head.”#there was a second post I thought of half way through writing this and now I've finished I've entirely forgotten what it was. shit.
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Alright, which one do I submit for Cody's drawing competition 🥺🥺🥺🥺
#or do i draw another one#I've got one of Trent and ginni.....#no idk#obviously the Daisy ones would win#also can i join Cody's colouring group or do i have to bring Charlotte#Charlotte is a magpie though#is Joseph too young for colouring#I'll kidnap Joseph (not my brother shut up)#my brother Joseph is too young for colouring but a 1 year old should be alright#Joseph's dad is a dog supporter but his mum has a soft spot for Collingwood#his mum doesn't care too much though#oh and yes i understand all these options are great#thank you#you're welcome
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because i know you have food opinions and i am thinking about it being in the carolinas this weekend. opinions on barbecuing?
my personal taste preference leans towards a dry rub on the meat and a vinegar based sauce. i like the way the acid pairs with the fattiness of the meat. but i also think the meat itself should taste really good on its own. i don't like when the meat comes pre-sauced when it's served, i prefer to dose sauce out myself, cause i want to be able to taste the meat on its own too. and because i think pre-saucing everything up front might be a way to try and hide what might be a bland or dry or otherwise not preferred piece of meat. i'm not a huge fan of the thick, sweet sauces that are based on molasses or tomato. i tend to find them too sweet and gloopy, and i generally avoid store/chain brand bbq sauces for that reason, but i won't outright turn up a house made sauce without trying it first. i think pork is my favorite meat for barbecue because it's got good flavor and lots of fat to stay juicy, yet it's not so strongly flavored that strong spice or sauce covers it up. though i prefer a cut like shoulder to ribs. beef brisket is good barbecued, i think that's a texas specialty, but i've had some really dry smoked brisket before, and also i'm very partial to brisket prepared other ways like braised or cured into pastrami. and as far as chicken goes, it CAN be quite good, but for me it's gotta be dark meat and it's gotta be cooked competently. i've had too much "barbecue" chicken that is either just plain roasted chicken drowned in mediocre sauce or overcooked so badly it's like chewing on linen fibers. but a nice, simple, salt cured/brined and dry rubbed chicken leg quarter smoked and served with a good sauce on the side? now that's a great dinner. gimme some cornbread and fried okra to go with. yummy
#leporellian#sasha answers#ty#i'm by no means whatsoever a connoisseur of barbecue but i do know what i like#a lot of times what's just called 'barbecue' disappoints me but a lot of the time mediocre barbecue in like. cheap food service/catering#contexts is just like. unremarkable overcooked shredded pork or chicken (that probably wasn't actually smoked)#and drowned in gloopy store bought sauce#i mean it's EDIBLE. but i'll only go for it if it's the only real option. y'know#note: i am not from the south and i do not live in a region with a strong barbecue cuisine culture. my response is based on this experience#i'm sure walking into your average bbq joint in carolina is probably gonna be better than what i can find here unless i'm actively searchin#also again i'm no expert but i think my bbq preferences line up really closely with eastern north carolina style#(dry rubbed pork w a thin vinegary sauce)#i don't think i've had the south carolina style which i think is more mustardy. but it sounds good i would probably like it. i like mustard#also i don't know if this can be really considered barbecue or if it's just plain hot smoking. but smoke grilled sausage is good too#and turkey. smoked turkey is great (when it's not overcooked and dry as hell)#years ago my dad and i went to a family friend's place for thanksgiving when my sister and mom were out of town#and they smoked a turkey for dinner. SOO good omg
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okay that is all i can muster for tonight. my insanity will have to wait.
#AALV TSATS liveblogging#please just mentally picture me chewing on this book#luckily i dont follow too many RR blogs so i am relatively safe from spoilers *[STARES POINTEDLY AT ALL OF YOU]*#nobody send me spoilers i swear#ftr i am still taking literally everything in this book as Optional Canon#im enjoying the writing so far but. bro. you cant drop a major continuity error like that. its just blatantly incorrect.#and then say it's Totally Canon And Actually A Major Thing For These Characters IT DID NOT HAPPEN!!#IT PHYSICALLY COULD NOT HAVE!!#do not misquote the ancient texts to me witch. i was there when they were written#but Writing Is Decent. thankfully Nico's narrative voice is not as jarring as i was expecting#tbh he's actually written here kind like how i write him which is. delightful vindication.#also if we could STOP RETCONNING THE UNDERWORLD that'd be GREAT#will we ever get one trip to the underworld where it is consistent with literally any other trip down there? nope.#none of the details line up. none of the descriptions. ever. any of the times really. in any part.#youd think theyd make anything with Nico and the Underworld and Hades and their powers consistent for this book#based on the book tour is sounded like Mark sure tried#but like. yknow. Nico has a room in the underworld! in BoO his dad literally says ''Yeah you always have a place down here''#and theyre on good terms! also in BoO Nico uses dream powers! it's heavily implied he can inflict nightmares on people#we've known that since TLO actually#anyways. hrmhrhrmhrm grumble grumble#writing good. details i am biting. will keep posted#if yall do want my more unhinged thoughts i am also posting updates as i read in the discord#the ones im posting here are curated for your enjoyment
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hey quick question for fellow out queers with questionably supportive parents
does anyone else’s parents preach and harp about how they totally support you and love you “anyway” yet whenever you actually bring up something queer that you’ve got going for you and they literally can’t even be bothered to pretend to be interested?
like, when i was coming home from college for the summer, i told him about the absolute insane love triangle that was my poetry class and the last weekend hangout that turned out to be a plot for two of my friends to get closer to their crushes (myself included for once) and how i found that out on a date two days later and how yeah i’m talking to her now. now, the general consensus on the story itself was that it was funny and cute for me from the friends i had already told. but he just didn’t seem to care. he just gave a bunch of “oh”s and a final “that’s interesting” in that disappointed dad voice and sounded i don’t want to say skeptical but not genuinely happy for me when he asked if i was gonna talk to that girl and when i said yes. and i wouldn’t think so much about it if he hadn’t seemed genuinely happy for me when i talked about my regular friends i was still in touch with.
and he always seems to have the same reaction whenever i talk about going out with another girl, whether we date or not. i’m not saying he has to like, go out of his way to understand queer culture or all the weird shit we lesbians get into when it comes to flirting and dating and relationships, but it just seems like he can’t be bothered to pretend to care 99% of the time.
this isn’t new; i’ve been out for a few years now and i’ve had partners & girlfriends before, but he always seemed the same about it.
is this like a “normal” thing other queers have happen or is it just another facet of my daddy issues? how do y’all deal with it? i mean, i know i don’t need his support or validation to live (trust me, that’s never stopped me before), but it just feels different/hurts more with this. it just. idk where i’m going with this. i don’t wanna say that i feel like i need validation for it because i hate asking for that but idk what i’m making this post for other than to ask or put it out there
#i have a. complicated relationship with my dad. it swings back and forth between extremes#from ‘i love you and you’re great and i’m glad you’re my dad’ one night to ‘i hate you and i need to leave this house immediately’ the next#i feel like this is one of the things that is always the last big swing into the latter#and no moving out is not an option i don’t have anywhere else to go yet. if i could rent a place up where i go to school rn i would#anyway that’s me airing out my dirty laundry with my dad again for the month. goodnight ✌️#grace being kinda serious for once#text post#personal#vent post#vent#lgbtq#lgbtq community
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Jacob had so much potential! His romance is actually quite funny in ME2 ("but the prize?" that's a classic), and then boom, they pull that bullshit in ME3. For no reason?? Not even mentioning his loyality mission, like did Bioware go through a manual of negative stereotypes in media associated with Black men and just dumped them all there??
ngl at this point i just assume lukas kristjanssons goal when writing any character is to insert as many negative stereotypes as possible 🥴️ just look at sera
#anon#asks#for the record i fucking love sera. i just absolutely hate how the game and her writer treats her#but i think most of us do lmao#but yeah seriously like... the one black romance option in the og trilogy and they decide to go with the fucking deadbeat dad stereotype*#cool! great! totally not racist huh!#*edit: not the whole trilogy but in me2. and the only straight black man until me:a so u know. still pretty shit
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Oh. Okay so, if I do end up leaving to visit my dad before the start of September, then it'll be impossible for me to get Freminet in Genshin since his banner starts on the 5th. So that means this whole week of me playing like 8+ hours a day to grind for primos has been entirely pointless. I can't get Freminet and I wasted all this time trying anyway. Hm.
#theres not enough room on my phone so ps5 is my only option and obviously i cant bring that with me#tbh all the more reason to not want to do this trip right now#and frankly now im glad my dad hasnt been responding to me lately cuz if this can get delayed until like. after my birthday. thatd be great#therapy can wait. i need the twinks more.#HES GOING TO BE ON ZHONGLI'S BANNER TOO SO I CAN GET MY TWO MOST WANTED IF I DONT LEAVE UNTIL SEPT 6!!!!#FATHER PLEASE MAKE ANOTHER MISTAKE! PLEASE! DELAY THIS WITH YOUR USUAL BAD DECISIONS SO I CAN GET THESE ANIME MEN. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO ME#personal
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My trans masc friend just sent me a "happy daddy's day, send this to all the hot daddies/daddies in training in your life" and I've never been more affirmed and more hysterical in my life
#im no where near daddy stage yet we're all very aware of this as he is#the joke began as 'fathers day should have an option to just celebrate the hot older men in our lives if our dads suck '#and now he's decided to text me about it i love him#we both want to date hot older men and will one day be hot older masc trans guys so its a great friendship
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