#and the 'people' who didnt beleive her

[the-blackdale]

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[dullgecko]

Some random childhood Bad kids headcanons

Riz was incredibly small, even for a goblin kit, like concerning tiny ears were so absolutely massive compared to his body. He also didn’t start walking on two legs until really late in his development.

Gorgug was taller than his parents at 2, but he was also very interested in their work and would randomly hand them tools to learn the name. He didn’t talk until he was 3 and his first word was “Tree.”

Adaine’s first word was “Aelwyn” who had been secretly coaching her to say the word. She also had a fascination with frogs from a young age, and at every chance she got, tried to look for them in puddles.

Fig didn’t trance as a kid (cus not an elf) but she didn’t say anything because she thought that this was normal. She used to try to sneak onto Baxter and get him to fly, but Baxter knew better.

Riz stunted his growth a little bit as a small child by being incredibly picky with his food. It was mostly a texture thing and even if he was starving he would refuse to eat, it brought Sklonda to tears sometimes because he was just so small and so skinny because the only thing he could keep down without gagging were basically smoothies. He still got all his vitamins though, in the form of WAY too many supplements. He forced himself to eat things he found physically gross once Pok died, mostly because he had to force himself to eat whatever they could get their hands on so it wouldnt be wasted once they went down to a single income household.

Gorgug might not have talked until he was 3 but he fully understood everyone when they were talking to him. He wasnt dumb, just quiet, and once he said his first word he was saying full sentences the same day. Wilma and Digby had to excuse themselves from the room a couple times because they were crying in releif and didnt want to freak him out.

Adaine was also a fairly quiet child but it was mostly because her parents were horrible and neglectful and didnt talk to her very often. Aelwyn did, because as small children they got along fairly well, and used to take her outside when it was raining to look for frogs in their garden. Adaine splashing in the puddles wearing her froggy raincoat while her big sister held her hand.

Fig, when she was small, once asked her mum why she tranced so much longer than the other elves she knew. Everyone else only needed four hours but she always felt awful unless she got eight. Her mum just told her that sometimes people need more and it was totally normal and changed the topic. Fig totally beleived her right up until her horns started coming in and she realised that oh, actually, i wasnt trancing i was just straight up sleeping this whole time.

[enter-the-performapals]

@arcvmonth Day 18 D/D/D- Different Dimension Day!

Even though its a little late (because I wanted to color these lol) I wanted to talk about my Mermaid AU- concepted while I drew my big piece for Mermay this year! I was originally going to turn it into a series basing them on the En cards, but I didnt have time (maybe next year?)

This is a high fantasy AU, of course, and each of the stories happen around the same time-which Ill get into later. All of the Bracelet Girls, Dragon Boys and Zarc + Ray are in their 20's here, with romantic interactions between the expected couples (Fruit, Apple, FallenAngel, Predator, Genesis). All of the stories are unrelated but take place around the same time, with the the exception of the Genesis which takes several decades before.

Just slapping the word 'Mermaid' on a character and not basing them on a sea creature has never been an option for my autism brain, so I based the girls off of sea creatures I thought suited them!

Yuzu is based on a Betta fish- the only freshwater mermaid out of the five- mainly because I think theyre gorgeous with their lovely flowing tails, but also because theyre highly territorial, which I will get into later.

Rin-Rin is based off of one of my favorite sea creatures, the Lionfish. Bright and beautiful, but venomous and a ruthless predator. She's also Siren.

Ruri is based on a Parrotfish. Beautiful, iridescent scales and placid nature who live in coral reefs. Also, bird pun becuase I couldnt resist.

Serena is a Human-Mer hybrid whose based off an Angler fish. Scary creatures who use beautiful light not to illuminate their surroundings, but to draw in prey. She requires more oxygen than a normal mermaid, so like a mudfish, she can chill out near the surface of the sea and take in oxygen when she needs to.

Ray is based off of a Sea Angel, which is apparently a sea slug. It's pretty and I dont know much about it, which is the exact same thing I can say about my girl Ray.

Under the cut ill get into my thoughts for each of the AUs! Including a minific which kind of adds a little context to my piece from Mermay!

Ill go over all my ideas for the different storylines - marked by their ship- and at the end is minific! Sorry for any punctuation/spelling mistakes!

Genesisshipping:

Zarc is an apprentice boatsman on his first voyage on a big ship. After smashing into rocky bluffs, the boat he's on capsizes and falls into the ocean. Almost drowning, he is rescued at the brink of death by Ray, who takes him to an uninhabited island to bring him back to life. Over a year or so, the two fall in love and while Zarc does want to escape the island he beleives its futile and doesnt even try. Eventually a ship does come to rescue him, and he promises Ray that he'll make it back to the island one day to be with her.

After hes back on land, people ask him what happened, howd he survive, ect; he eventually lets slip that a mermaid saved him. This makes it around, and eventually wealthy prospectors hear. Entranced by money and power wished to him, he leads hunters to the island to capture Ray.

Thinking that hes back to start a life with her, Ray's shocked when other people come from the boat and try to capture her. Realising Zarc had sold her out, she escapes to the sea, never to be seen again. Realising the error of his ways, Zarc decides to stay on the island after the disgruntled hunters leave in an attempt to attone for his greed and to hopefully see Ray one more time.

Appleshipping:

Hugo had always heard tales about sirens in books and wanted to if they were real or not. After attempt of humours faliures to become part of an actual reputable ship crew, he falls in with some pirates who decide to take him out to the seas. On his maiden voyage, he is so nervous that he cant fall asleep on his first night. Thats when he hears it. A siren's song in the distance.

The rest of the crew asleep, he steals a rowboat to find the source of the singing. He finds it- the most beautiful girl hed ever seen, singing the most beautiful song hed ever heard. He falls head over heels for her at first sight.

While Rin just wanted a meal, she now has to put up with idiot pirate trying to woo her. She is severly displeased about it, and makes it known. Then she realises- this dude is a grade A idiot with the luck of god on his side and now has to live with a human taking up her favorite rock. Ridiculousness insues

FallenAngelShipping:

Ute grew up in a port town that had a great relationship with the fellow merfolk. He and Ruri grew up together, and eventually became a couple. One day, the village was raided by hunters, who both killed and captured the humans and merfolk, burning the town to the ground.

While hed somehow escaped from the raiders, he knows he has to break in to the enemy camp as they transport prisoners and set everyone free.

After weeks of planning and watching them from afar, he finds the perfect moment and storms the encampment, setting everyone free, including his best friend Shun and his lovely Ruri.

While they are displaced, remaining survivors help rebuild the city, and they try to rebuild their lives. Now with round the clock border security :)

Predatorshipping:

Joeri is a wealthy buisness man who found success selling various snake oils in his teens. Feeling bored of scamming people out of their cash, he goes to a beah town in an effort to refresh, regroup his thoughts, and figure out his next buisness move.

While walking a beach in the dead of night, he notices a glow coming from a little cave in the distance. Sneaking a peek, he notices Serena stting, resting, and his mind races. Mermaids are uncommon, but not unheard of but most people havent seen one, so what if he could show her off?

Practically smelling the money from the buisness opportunity, he approaches her. She startles, and draws a weapon on him. That night he tries to talk her down and using all of his sales knowledge and charisma, tries to get her to warm up to him.

While it ends up in faliure, the next night she is in the cave again. And he makes up his mind to convince her to join him, whether that be by convincing her with his words, or bribing her with anything he can get his hands on. He has a goal and wont stop until it's realised.

Fruitshipping:

Feeling wanderlust in his early teens, Yuya decides to dedicate his life to becoming an adventurer to see all the beautiful sights hes read about in his beloved father's old travel diaries. After about a decade of seeing what the continent has to offer, he takes a wrong turn (not the first time) and accidentally stumbles into a serene clearing blanketed in cherry tree blossoms nestled in between foothills. In awe, he explores the adorable little field, picking wild dasies as he goes, and spots a lake fed by mountains. As he investigates, he is jumpscared by a mermaid who warns him to leave immediately or face the consequences.

After a breif moment of shock, he starts to laugh. Yuzu is flabbergasted, as most humans would have fled at that point. He tells her that meeting a mermaid was always on his bucket list and that hes pleased to make her acquaintance, which leaves her even more shocked.

While she is standoffish at first, Yuya sets up camp near the water's edge to really drink in the scenery, subbornly telling an annoyed Yuzu that it was the best vantage point in the clearing.

While he'd oly planned to stay for a couple of days, as he talked to Yuzu- her sharing enchanting stories about the depths of the lake and the merfolk who lived there and in turn, her avidly listening to Yuya's travel stories- he decided to stay through the end of spring... and then summer... until eventually autumn's chill prompts him to eventually- begrudgingly- forces him to start packing up his temporary home.

Over the months the two talked and talked and became best friends. Through the wilting daisy chains they made, to the silly splash fights they shared on hot days, to almost sombre monitoring of deciduous leaves starting to fall as the lake theyd made memories in starts to slowly develop its winter shell, baring the aquatic from the terrestrial.

As they say their goodbyes, Yuya noticing Yuzu shivering slightly as she sits above the water, he promises her to come back in the spring with even more travel stories, handing her one of his earrings in a jesture of his vow. And she is overjoyed.

As they part ways, he catches her tightly gripping the blue crystal of his earring before she slips below the water, and he wishes that winter would just leave and never come back.

Over the winter, Yuya can't stop thinking of his time in the clearing. The curiosity that Yuzu would have for the camp meals he'd cook. The sparkle in her eye as he'd describe one of his adventures. Her concern over even the most miniscule of old wounds hed accrued over the years. Her witty remarks that never failed to get a laugh out of him. That no matter where he went, he'd always wonder what Yuzu would think if she'd been there with him.

As the weather started to turn from hail and snow to bright skies and sunshowers, he practically made a mad dash to the little clearing tucked away on the forgotten road near the foothills, hoping that the ice had melted in the area- if not for the whole pond, at least around the crude dock he'd put together to sit with Yuzu on, so close to where he'd set up camp.

As he approaced the sea of sakura, the blooming daisies, the grass rejuvenated after it winter hibernation, he noticed a figure waiting where she always was early in the mornings before he awoke, brushing her beautiful magenta tinged hair, facing toward the mountains in the distance.

He grinned and picked the prettiest of the wild daisies he could see on the bushes around him.

He was back home and couldn't be happier.

[my-castles-crumbling]

Dancer anon advice

Hi all! Someone wrote me about some advice, I'm just copy and pasting it here so I can add a 'read more' line and format it a bit differently than usual so I can keep my thoughts in order!

Italics is their writing

Bold is mine

i noticed ppl were using this blog to ask about stuff, so here goes ig?

(also im sorry this was going to be me asking about gender stuff but now its just kinda my life story 😭 if you dont want to answer this, you can just write a post saying like. dancer anon i dont feel comfortable answering this or whatever)

Ahhhh, you all need to stop apologizing! I never mind helping!

im afab, and i feel like i never really fit in with gender? like, i would always be so jealous of my feminine friends but i didnt feel good when dressing feminine myself

i also take dance classes (i started at around 6/7) and i felt like i had to wear all the skirts and shit because i wanted to be pretty like the other dancers, and i felt really terrible after a few years of that, because i hated how i looked in them and how i looked when i danced

(i also used to have a dance teacher whos hands were always cold and thats all i can remember about him but i really hated dancing with him and would get relieved when classes were over. ive hated dancing with boys/men ever since)

and it got like. really bad. i believe? (my memory is actually terrible. i cant remember anything for the life of me, so it could be my mind overexaggerating, but anyways.)

i would always ask for me and my teacher to just do stretching because i hated how i looked when i danced because i hated the skirts and everything because i hate my legs and how they look when bare. i hated attending dance classes because people would see me and see my legs and see how i looked and i felt terrible all the time (i think i was around 9 or 10 at this age?)

so one day i had a whole crying fit and my dance teacher told me that i dont have to wear skirts or whatever, i can wear pants and shit (i was so fucking relieved. istg. i now wear skirts to dance only like. couple times a year maybe)

and then soon enough covid happened! (also keep in mind that i grew up like. really sheltered. i did not know what gay people/transgender people were until i read fanfiction about warrior cats 😭)

and i was so delighted! because on distance learning, no one would see me and be able to judge me for how i dress or whatever

at around this time, my fear of everyone masculine really grew. its still there. im fucking terrified of all men. i cant help it. like every boy man masculine person. i get so scared. i hate it. i hate it so much

but then covid came to a halt, yk, school started again .-. i felt like shit, honestly. i didnt have ANY clothes i felt comfortable in. my hair felt too long and "feminine" and i wanted to cut it for the longest time. my clothes made me feel terrible. i hated how the leggings would wear on my legs and how my sweaters would show my body shape and how my butt looked (i still really hate how it looks. why is it big. i dont want it to be i hate it so much)

yeah so there i am, feeling dysphoric as shit (i did not know what that was, back then, by the way, but i believe thats what i was feeling)

didnt help that my only friend was a toxic, lying, manipulating bitch who led people on for fun and always expected everyone to worship at her feet

after a while, i discovered different labels! (bisexual was the first label i had for myself. i felt good with it, ig?)

and then i got to the gender situation. i used so many girl alligned terms because i was so scared of being percieved as the very thing i am terrified of (masculine ppl). i went through demigirl, girlflux, genderfae, genderfluid, i beleive, maybe somethign else too, because i wanted to stay connected to being a girl.

Okay so here, I want to ask, what's the reason to wanting to say connected with being a girl? Is it feeling like you are partially a girl? Not wanting to be connected to masculinity? Not wanting to let go of the 'girlhood' that you grew up with? None of these reasons are bad but I think thinking about this more might help you figure out your gender.

around this time i started doing leader steps for dance. the euphoria i felt. please.

ahhhhh wait! I do ballroom, too! I'm a follower, though. what's your favorite? I LOVE tango. Okay, sorry, I got distracted.

found out i was a lesbian, used nonbinary but with she/they pronouns and felt like shit whenever anyone called me she but didnt want to make a big deal about using they

ooo, okay here- asking for your correct pronouns isn't 'making a big deal.' it's asking for what you need and asking for respect.

found out i was aroace because "people actually find video game characters attractive?" 😭

thought i might feel better as a boy? cut my hair. i loved it so much (i still do) (that was may of last year) got baggy clothes. covered up my figure. did leader steps for dance.

over the summer i started using labels such as agender? which i feel like fits me?

anyway, thats the life story part, now for the part about what the fuck am i

i feel like shit whenever im called a girl or refered to with feminine terms. im not sure if it would classify as dysphoria or not, becuase i dont feel /that/ bad about it, but it still ruins my mood and kinda makes me want to cry.

okay so here's the thing. not 'feeling THAT bad' doesn't mean anything. Dysphoria is dysphoria. and this is dysphoria. Just because you're not throwing up in a corner doesn't mean your feelings aren't valid.

if my grandma calles me granddaughter, girl, whatever in russian, it automatically ruins my mood. makes me feel terrible. i hate it.

i dont feel as bad when my sister calls me her sister, though, for some reason.

Okay! So for me, I hate being called a lady, but I don't mind my wife calling me her wife. Again, this is all completely valid <3

when i get called by she/her i hate it so much. i dont want to make a big deal about asking for they/them - sometimes my friends remeber, sometimes they dont.

ive never tried he pronouns, dont think i want to.

they/them pronouns dont give me that much euphoria either, its just like. ok

Okay! Have you tried neopronouns? If you're not interesting in those, it could just be that they/them is what feels best. And that's okay, too!

another thing. my friend has another nonbinary friend. she always genders them correctly, but almost never me. it makes me feel like shit, like she cares more about getting their pronouns than mine, even though i know that thats not a good mindset and shit.

*loud buzzer sound* wrong. Your friend should be gendering everyone correctly, not just some people. Good friends care about making their friends feel comfortable, and this friend is making you uncomfortable. Would you feel comfortable talking to them about it?

also, heres some more on my fear of men because who doesnt love being scared out of their wits irrationally :D

my dance teacher had to leave to go back to where she lives, so they gave me a male teacher (i tend to only have female ones.)

i would be in tears every lesson. i felt like shit. (also i hate the sound of peoples voices and he would always be talking and i hate it so much because his voice, amongst others, is one of the ones that hurts my ears the most.) i even went to my mom to ask her for a change which helped ig? my new teacher is really nice and i love her so,,, yeah

Okay, I want to stop here to say- a lot of this has to do with gender, right? But this particular response seems to be rooted in trauma. Without prying too much, I am wondering if there is something that happened with a man or masculine-presenting person or people? You do NOT have to share with me, but this might be something to explore with a trusted person in your life. I mean, there is a chance it's gender-related, but in the most loving way, there seems to be something deeper going on here.

anyway, you dont have to answer this, i was going to just ask for help with labels and feeling like theres no correct label for me (i use agender now, for simplicity, because i dont feel connected to having a gender at all)

So I guess my question is, how do you feel about the agender label? When I looked up the definition, it seems to be defined as exactly what you described- someone not having a gender at all.

Also, remember that your gender identity and expression are two different things! You can identify as agender (or any of the other things you mentioned) and still choose to dress however feels most comfortable and use whatever pronouns feel most comfortable. There are no set rules except: do what feels most genuine and comfortable!

if you do want to answer this but dont want to use this large of an ask on your blog, just call me dancer anon, i will see and understand 👍

again, sorry for dumping all of this on you

ahhhhhhh don't be sorry, you are a wonderful human!

have a wonderful day

you, too! please message me if you want to talk more! <3

[luffythinker]

That's so real, when your ready to not keep us a secret we are dating for real

I like that lol

I didnt mean shes different like any different I meant something else I didn't explain sorry had nothing to do with what I meant.

How would this go about? Like what do you think Deku would do at this point? Would he risk the people thinking hes that way with girls? And I so beleive the only person who's in on this is Kirishima Bakugo telling him every thing do you think she would go to Kiri and be like "was i too hard on him?" Or do you think she would brag and say "his ass knows what the right decision is"

How do they solve this

Helloooo so sorry i took so long, this week was a lot, but i have a few days off yay

As for what they would do, or rather Izuku hmmmm This is hard for me because i don't see deku caring all that much about it, like he would clear things up with Bakugo and explain that he never really lead anyone on, but he can't change the mind of everyone else so i don't see why he would let this impact his chances with the person he truly loves. So going with that i think he would just go for it and be open with bakugo for everyone to see. But if we must make him care for what others think i think he would definitely go down that rout in romantic comedies where he makes sure everyone knows he's just nice, he was not interested in anyone else and only like bakugo, maybe standing up on a table during lunchtime lol

And about our dear bakugo, she would definitely brag lmao, she knows her real chances and that he is in love with her, it's only a matter of time

I think all in all it would get solved pretty quickly cause once they acknowledge they like each other, they both wouldn't want to drag this long and overcomplicated things for each other, they wasted too much time already

[kobecold]

MY FIRST LOVE WAS A PROSTITUTE

WE MET AT A COLLEGE PARTY AND I DIDNT KNOW WHEN WE MET

I WAS A VIRGIN WHICH I BELEIVED SHE LIKED

WE STARTED DATING AND I FELL IN LOVE

I IGNORED OR WAS OBLIVIOUS TO ALL THE SIGNS AND SHE DIDNT DO IT OFTEN

BUT DEEP INSIDE I KNEW AND FELT VERY PATHETIC FOR CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP

But that is love

AND HONESTLY IM GLAD I GOT TO BE USED AND ABUSED WHICH SHE KNEW

WOULDNT NO OTHER GIRL WANT ME EVEN THO IM A LITTLE ATTRACTIVE AND I WOULDNT MIND THE CHEATING

All is fair I guess

ANY WHOS I HOPE TO SAVE THIS GIRL FROM HER FILTHY LIFE OF PROSTITUTION

BUT SHE TRULY IS PERVERTED AND IN LOVE WITH THE GAME AND TACTICS OF WHAT SHE DOES

AND SHE NEEDS LOVE AND KIDNESS TO STOP

But not from me I'm not that nigga

HOPEFULLY I FIND SOMEONE NEW

But I'm so very ugly lame and crazy

THEN BE ALONE BITCH

Hmmmmmm ok I do t really like people back anyways I guess I still get lonely and disconnected

[devilfish-cafe]

a case in the back of my mind

a case i dont see people talk about very often that i believe should be spoken about more and my introduction to this case

if your on the same side of true crime horror and just disturbing content side of the internet then youve probably heard of one of the many cases of a body being dumped in a suitcase or something simmilar. the randonautica suitcase with a dead body, melanie mcguire aka the suitcase killer and even that freezer with a dead body on the side of a road in alaska are all pretty simmilar cases with a body being dumped in some sort of container, but theirs one i dont see many talk about that often and thats the Bear Brook state park murders sometimes refered to as the allenstown four.

although the bodies were reported in 1985 i found out from a podcast documentating the case it tells the tragic story off how a group of children unknowingly stummble apon a bright blue barrel with a funky smell, thankfully they didnt investigate that much further as that was the only thing keeping the children from stumbling opon a dead body. when a hunter found and reported the barrel they found the body of two females who would be later identified years later, they both died of blunt force trauma. they were found dismembered in various states of decomposition and wrapped in plastic bags. the older woman found in the first barrel was eventually identified as 24 year old Marlyse Honeychurch and one of her two daughters Marie Vaughn.

back in 2000 a second barrel was found not too far away from the first one containing the body of Marlyses second daughter Sarah McWalters and a unidentified girl, they were also badly decomposed (i believe to the point of being skeletons if not very close) they were too badly decomposed to determine a cause of death.

Honeychurch and her children were identified back in 2015 the second girl found in the barrel in 2000 has yet to be identified and is beleived to have no relation too the family. the suspect who killed them was often called "the chamelon man" due to his habbit of picking up and dropping new identities, terry rasmussen was imprisioned for the murder of Eunsoon Jun, her murder was truely heart breaking her body was found mummified under cat litter. he died in 2010 in prision for the murder of Eunsoon Jun but he was the prime suspect for the murder of the allenstown four.

i found out this case from a true crime podcast and it really stuck it with me it takes alot to truely disturb me but the details of the case are horrible and it frustrates me how little i see people mention the case. no victims case deserves to be forgotten or spoken over for another case but theirs still details of this case that are still in incredibly mercky water. we dont know who the jane doe is and even though all off the victims were incredibly young she was 2-4, that could have been someones sister cousin or friend and to have her life being taken from her and no one doing or saying anything is absolutely heartbreaking. we ended up talking about this case in my sophmore english class and i wrote an essay over how much this case and Eunsoon Juns case stuck with me. these were vonerable women and girls who had so much to give and its hearbreaking how little i see this being spoken of.

Marlyse Honeychurch was 24.

Marie Vaughn was 7.

Jane Doe was 2-4.

Sarah Mcwalters was 11 months old, a defenseless infant.

Eunsoon Jun was 45.

im going to link all of my sources so yall can do your own research i really hope this made sense because im holding back tears this case always gets me really emotional

Inside The Horrifying Mystery Of The Bear Brook Murders — And The Evidence That Points To The ‘Chameleon Killer’

Bodies In Bear Brook Barrel Murders Linked To 'Worst Serial Killer Out There'

Bear Brook murders

New Image Released of Unidentified Girl Found in Barrel Who Could Be From Texas

Timeline of serial killer Terry Rasmussen's terror in New Hampshire, California

Bear Brook Podcast

[geooricle]

Making observations about you.

Here's something new:

You said above "for those who actually believe in something." Let's unpack that.

In the previous discussion we had, when o said I believed in nothing you used a common wordplay trick of using a different definition of beleif to try to convince me I did have beleifs. It was something like "but when you press the app button you believed the app would open." (I'm not checking the exact wording because I wouldnt reread any of your posts if you paid me). But now you've said "actually beleive in something" it's clear you know what "beleifs" do mean in this context and that I dont have them. So why pretend to think I did before?

This is something do say a lot, my Sunday Schiol teacher used the example of believing the light will come on when you press the switch. It didnt work for her, they tore her to shreds, but to be fair, a room full of bored seven year olds will pick holes in any argument just for fun. Creationists do a simlar thing where they call people who don't believe in the creation story "evolutionists" or "people who beleive in evolution". But why do this? What do they gain by it?

The answer is actually really simple; if it's a matter of a beleif vs beleif rather than beleif vs just being a guy who lives in the world, then it puts you on an even footing. It's just my beleifs vs yours, were just haveing a friendly debate, heres my evidence, present yours. Bible vs Atheist Bible, Pope vs Dawkins.

Then you can set up a debate and show how super reasonable you are even when the nasty mean atheist says nasty things. You can say "My beleifs are different to yours but please respect them" two sentences after (to pull a wild examples out of a hat) claiming that Judaism and Islam dont have the same historical root origin in Abraham so that your beleif that Islam is inherently violent and hateful dosnt contrasdit the idea that theres a consistent set of ideas across all of history about what god is like that everybody secretly really knows and they're just pretending not to so they can tell you youre ideas about a cartoon are weird.

Winning the debate is not important, in fact it's better that you loose. The ideal outcome is for people to laugh at and insult you, because you then get to forgive them and turn the other cheek, demonstrating how pious you are and how you're the bigger man.

Becsuse having the debate is the goal, rather than winning the debate, the belief vs beleif conceit really helps because, as you keep saying, since beliefs are unchangeable and constant, unlike our own minds which change, by definition neither side can win. Its immovable object vs immovable object. The rubes just keep coming back with more and more evidence, you can keep it going forever. Then if someone catches on you can make a shocked face and go "are you accusing me of being intellectually dishonest? I followed all the rules!" Even when in an environment with no rules.

Once you recognise the playbook you can know how to defeat it; just say "no".

“At least it's not ferociously attacking God quite as directly as Steven Universe did…”

Not that I’m surprised by this statement, but can you elaborate on this? Kinda intrigued by your thoughts on Steven Universe.

Okie dokie, you’re not the only one who has asked me about this, so I suppose I’ll poke the hornet’s nest. 😅 I haven’t talked about this before because I assumed that everyone who wanted to hear my kinds of opinions on stories wasn’t watching or interested in Steven Universe.

It’s like asking vegetarian if they enjoyed a turkey dinner. The turkey dinner was so obviously not made for vegetarians to enjoy, so why would the vegetarian even bother analyzing the turkey?

But I think if some people are asking me why I think Steven Universe is anti-God (of the Bible) its because maybe they don’t know what the turkey is. Not completely. (Maybe not you, because like you said, you’re not surprised by my comment.) So I’ll explain my thoughts on Steven Universe.

If you’re just following me because you liked some stuff I posted, but didn’t realize that I’m a Bible-believing Christian and don’t want to hear about it, unfollow me now. Because I’m going to talk about some hot button issues here and the trolls will come out.

Steven Universe is really well-done. The jokes are funny, the writing is believable, the characters have great chemistry, great design, the concept is fascinating, the slow build-up and reveal of the plot elements is great. But when you watch the throne room scene in the last episode of Season 5 “Change Your Mind,” it’s alarmingly clear how much the whole show is not just settling for defending and championing the LGBTQ+ worldview—it goes all the way to attacking what Christians believe, on the other side.

Anything that’s pro-LGBTQ+ is doing that by default, but this show goes out of its way to do that.

You have to understand: God created and designed us. Deeper than that; He created and designed romantic relationships, and invented marriage. He didn’t just create love—He is love. So when humans come along and do what we’ve always done since the fall, and say, “I’d rather define what Your thing is and how it works for myself, God,” it’s not only an incredible slap in the face, it’s an attack on God’s actual identity—and it’s destructive for us and the people around us. Like a fish insisting it can breathe oxygen.

But Steven Universe goes beyond that. It knows that the Christian worldview is it’s biggest opposition. It digs right down to the heart of the worldview-battle. LGBTQ+ worldview says, “I should get to love what I want and be who I am, because I’m me. Love is love. (By which I mean, any action or relationship I choose to call love is love, because I’m the one calling it that.)”

Biblical worldview says “No, wait, you shouldn’t base your decisions on you alone; what you want changes day to day, and you’re broken, so you can’t ever be satisfied based on what you want—the Bible says God made you for something, and you rejected that, and it broke you. You’re not how you’re meant to be: even what you want and what you think love is is twisted up and can hurt you and others. But if you submit to God He’ll help you, He’ll fix what’s broken and give you new life by making you how you were supposed to be: He’ll live in you and through you.”

Are we beginning to get the picture?

See, the whole thing with the opposing views between LGBTQ+ and Christian people is as old as time. It’s not a new debate. It’s Satan and Eve in the garden. She says, “This is not how God said things should be,” and Satan says, “Are you sure that’s what He said? He knows if you do this thing, you’ll be like Him. You’ll be god: you’ll get to decide ‘how things should be’ for yourself.”

He lied and said that disobedience would satisfy her. That she knew what her own heart needed better than the God that made it did. That the very act of being imperfect would make her godlike.

And then Steven Universe comes along and says “if every pork chop were perfect, we wouldn’t have hotdogs.”

And has a cast of created being characters who’s imperfections (Garnet’s forbidden “love,” Pearl’s obsession, Amethyst’s insecurity) are supposedly “the best thing about them; what makes them who they are.”

And has a main character who used to be a part of the god-like creator relationship, but used her power to come down to earth and completely change who she is into a fully different person.

And has a godlike Creator character who claims she “doesn’t need” her created beings (just like the God of the Bible) but they all have a little part of their creator in them so she has to repress their imperfections; she holds them all to a standard that’s impossible to reach called “perfection” and punishes them when they don’t meet it even though it hurts them to try; she expects them all to do what they were created by her for; she fixes them when they can’t meet her standard by shining her light through them and making them extensions of their Creator.

And has a main character who argues, fights back, tries to stop her, and is answered with lines that sound surprisingly like what LGBTQ+ people hear when Christians argue with them: “you’re only making things worse; you’re just deceiving yourself; even while you resist it your actual light can’t help shining through,” etc.

White Diamond just wants everything to be perfect. Like her. She just wants her created beings to “be themselves.” But what she means is, be how she created them to be.

And she’s the bad guy. She’s playing God in this show, and Rebecca Sugar is saying, “If God is telling us that can only be happy by being perfect, as He is perfect, and doing what He created us to do, then He’s wrong. Our imperfections are what make us special—unique—individuals—free—and there is nobody who has the right to take that freedom away from us, not even out creator!”

And you know what?

If God were like White Diamond, like Rebecca Sugar believes Him to be, Steven Universe would be right.

But He is NOT.

God is not a dictator who forces us to conform to a standard of perfection and then smashes us when we don’t meet it. He is a King who made us perfect to begin with, and we rejected him, because He allowed us to do that. He knew that true love was love that had to be chosen, and He wanted us to love Him by choice, so he gave us the option. But Rebecca Sugar doesn’t understand—there was never “Choose God or Choose Yourself.” There was only, “Choose God or Choose Nothing.” There was nothing except God. Then He created everything. There is no version of reality where you have something better than God, or even slightly less good but different, to pick. You’re not jumping from one ship into a smaller one, but at least it’s yours—you’re jumping from one ship into a void, and then complaining that there’s no other ship. That’s humans. That’s not God. / White Diamond didn’t make her creations perfect (Amethyst) and she didn’t make them for love. She made them for power. That’s not the God of the Bible.

Even when we did choose to try and love ourselves instead of God, and therefore warped our ability to perfectly love at all, He didn’t smash us. True, everything fell and was cursed, which is exactly what He warned us would happen if we chose it, but it was a natural consequence of breaking ourselves. And then He didn’t leave us that way. He didn’t give up on us. And He certainly didn’t just zap us, snap His fingers, quick-fix it and turn us all into robots who are extensions of Him, who say they love Him but only because it’s His voice puppeting us to say it.

No. He came to us, chose to give up His life at the exact point on the timeline when Romans, masters in the art of slow, humiliating, torturous death, would be the ones to carry out His crucifixion, and saved us Himself. Through the sacrifice of His own life. And even then, we still have a choice. We get to choose to accept that incredible self-sacrifice when we don’t deserve it, and be given new life and a relationship with the Creator who knows us and loves us better than we can love ourselves or receive love from others—OR we can just keep stubbornly insisting that our slavery to the opposite of what God wants is somehow freedom, and our twisted versions of love are genuine, and we’re not broken, and die like that. Die broken creatures who lived their whole lives stomping their feet and screaming “I’m not a creature, I’m a god!”

White Diamond sacrifices nothing, because Rebecca Sugar doesn’t know the God of the Bible. She just knows her idea of Him. She’s never actually gotten to know Him. If she had, she’d learn how silly and twisted her idea is.

Because you know what, yeah, if every pork chop were perfect, we wouldn’t have hot dogs. But people aren’t pork chops. And hot dogs have flavor (not better than pork chops) but they are awful for you.

Christians aren’t perfect cuts of meat with no individuality or flavor. Just because we all know and love the same God doesn’t mean we have no personalities. It just means we don’t think so freaking much about what we are, or who we get to be, or what we like and want. Jeez, what a self-centered, narcissistic, self-obsessed way to live. She plays Steven like he’s this wonder-child, innocent and full of heart, who encourages his friends to love and keep trying. But honestly?

This is very pretty animation but it’s not real. Steven looks happy hugging Steven but self-love doesn’t ultimately get you that.

That’s all based on the premise that what he’s encouraging them to do is actually good, and will make them happy, and will help them love better. And it just won’t. Not in real life. That’s not how any of this works. Self-love is just self-obsession. And that is a sure-fire way to hurt you, and everyone around you.

You’ll never be free by choosing to run to a worse master. You’ll never be satisfied with your crappy attempts at loving yourself, because you were made to be loved flawlessly and forever by someone who is Love Himself.

And choosing to identify with your imperfections doesn’t make you uniquely you. It just makes you exactly like every other human being marching in the same line since the Fall.

White Diamond’s not relational. She’s up high and distant. That’s not God. He made you to be in relationship with Him. He loves you, totally and perfectly, and He proved it by sacrificing for You.

So yeah. That’s the problem with Steven Universe. Come get me, SU fans.

[bi-peanut]

Can we please normalize coming forward about bullying after it happened??? Because when I talk about being bullied for 8 years of my life by one girl I want people to believe me even tho I talk about it years after it stopped. There are so many reasons people dont come forward about bullying so maybe instead of saying things like "well you should have talked about it then" Or "it's in the past stop complaining" maybe ask people why they didnt talk?

Bullying is not easy to talk about. So have some understanding. Please

[phantoms-world-and-more]

Danny's villain ark

So after danny came out to his parents as phantom, they didn't beleive him to be their son and turned him over to the GIW.

In order to save their families sam and tucker had to turn over information about danny, danny found out andnwas destroyed by this, he understood where they were coming from but that dosent stop the betrayal.

Danny is kept captive and experimented on, until one day when he overheard them talking about jazz, thay said that since shes uncovering everything they did they have to put a hit on her.

The knowledge that his sister never gave up on him and is trying to help him and that the GIW were about to kill her triggered his obssession. Being expermented on warped his morals so he has no problme whiping them off the map.

But not before sending all the information to jazz. And i mean ALL. The unethical experiments, the atempted assasination, the tax froud, everything!

After escaping the GIW danny just wanted to leave but he couldn't without saying goodbye to jazz.

When he showed up on her doorstep looking like hell, jazz didnt even blink, this was her brother he still looks like hes 15 and has gone through the 7 rings of hell he's her brother and she hugged him like her life depended on it.

After all the tears, danny explained what happened, gave her all the evidence he acquired from that GIW lab, which is more than enough to take down the GIW and their parents.

After their talk danny hesitatingly tells her that while he did miss her and loved her more than anything, being their changed him and that he didnt want to stay.

Jazz while saddened understands her brother, and won't stop him from leaving.

He gives her a phone he modified so that they can talk, communicate and give insights to each other.

Jazz while happy questions where he learned to make something like this, all he tells her is that he picked up a few new skills.

After staying with jazz for a month, danny is ready to take off, he makes sure their phones are working and that he has everything he could possibly need, he says goodbye to jazz promising to call and text every day

Danny starts to explore the infinite realms, he also gains a reputation of not being someone you wanna fuck with.

And jazz works to help all the people who are like danny, different fron the rest and tortured because of it, and if in getting them that help she distroys the GIW and her parents, making sure no one not even the janitors get away without a prision sentence, well thats between her and her brother.

[ssa-baby-outlaw]

9-1-1 S5 EP10

• My abandonment issues dont appreciate midseason finales

• Oh shiiitttttt the man has two families

• Run Forrest ruuuuun

• Oh yeah mans deserved to get yeeted

• Oh sassy eddie already, only 2:38 in

• The chaotic opening scene feels like familiar 911 shenanigans again

• CHRISTOPHER

• this diaz decorating montage is what we needed

• The sass is obviously genetic

• I always feel so proud of May everytime I see her

• Carla! It's your job to get our boys together

• Buck and taylor being equally as bad at buying gifts for each other is cute

• I've missed josh😥

• I need a giant poster of buck in his xmas hat carrying that pile of presents under his chin, pretty please

• Athena be telling it how it is

• No queen please ask him out

• Why is Christopher always throwing food off tables😂

• Oh fuck chris really went there

• "Like when I get taken hostage at gun point" "you what!?"

• Dont tell me this is leading up to eddie leaving the 118

• SUE IS BACK I have missed her so so much

• I fucking love people using athena to scare people

• Are you serious? You want me to beleive his car could take out a metal pole and crumble the fucking outer wall?

• While the rest of the episode loads imma make my lil prediction for the endish: I'm thinking they're all gonna be miserable in their own homes for their separate christmases, chris is sad so eddie texts buck who decides him and taylor will go over to the Diaz's and buck texts the other too so they all show up and bobby shows up with his 50 deep fried turkeys

• This episode is just bobby being pissed at other people not doing their jobs properly

• Oh fuck is eddie gonna get trapped under the rubble?

• Okay but if eddie decides to leave the 118 without talking to buck first then I will loose all respect for this show

• Okuuurrr so bobby is going to host xmas for all the people who cant go back to their building?

• Conspiracy theory: Bobby is santa claus👀

• Taylor's own personal emergency button🥺

• Just saying, if the bucktaylor I love yous last episode were genuine then they probably would have said I love you at their gift giving moment

• Oooh karen is coming in a separate car? ...perhaps with maddie and/or chimney?

• Are you fucking kidding me.

• I am not happy.

• 1) if there wasnt a story with karen coming later then there being no room in the car is a stupid excuse, why was she not in that scene -unless the actress couldn't be there, 2) it is unacceptable that eddie would not talk to buck about leaving first, 3) I despise sudden cut off endings like that, at least let us see a little bit of hens, bucks and ravis reaction, 4) I am also very disappointed that we didnt see a little of chim or maddy

[corpsette]

May I request a sykkuno x fem!reader fic where she's this really cute and shy yet cheerful girly girl and how they would match. Like maybe they first "meet" through a stream that Sean or Felix invites them on and sykkuno's being his adorable self and finds her really pretty, and it's all fluff and blushy. 💖

YES, YES, YES!!! I LOVE THISSSS! I hope you enjoy 💞

𝑩𝑰𝑮 𝑩𝑹𝑨𝑰𝑵

pairing → sykkuno x fem! reader

words → 1.2k

the day was going by slowly, and it had been rather boring so far. you had spent all day watching other people stream, and, to be honest, you didnt feel like streaming today...

until sean dmed you asking if you wanted to fill in for someone and play among us with some very big creators.

of course you jumped on the opportunity! who wouldnt? it would benefit both your social life and your real life. besides, a few more friends wouldnt hurt.

"yeah, she should be joining any minute now!" you joined the voice chat and heard sean talking about you. "be nice, please! shes a very good friend of mine!!"

"no need to tell me twice!" you heard a sykkuno say. you had been a fan of sykkuno for a long time, but you didnt have the guts to message him. "oh, is that her in the vc?"

"y-yeah! hello everyone!" you said, smiling shyly as everyone tried to say hello at the same time. "I'm Y/N..."

"that's a lovely name, Y/N!" sykkuno said, making you blush and making your chat spam 'uwu.' "I've watched a lot of your streams, I'm a big fan!"

"thank you, sykkuno! I'm a big fan of you too!" and that was the complete truth. sykkuno was a big role model for you, he was one of the reasons you started streaming.

"okay, enough flirting, sykkuno!" rae butted in, making you both laugh awkwardly. everyone went around introducing themselves, and toast started the game.

the word 'crewmate' flashed over your screen. you quickly said goodbye to chat and connected to the proximity chat modules.

it took you a while to connect, though, so when you came back to the game you found sykkuno standing guard and making sure you didnt get killed.

"sykkuno?" you asked shyly, adjusting your headset ever so slightly. "is my mic working?"

"it's working! I can hear you!" sykkuno said, wiggling his character back and forth.

"oh, that's good!" you said. it was a little awkward, you had not the slightest clue on how to keep a conversation going.

"yeah! so, how would you like a body guard?" sykkuno asked, at this point you were both blushing and smiling like dorks.

you were big fans of eachother and didnt think this moment would ever come, since neither of you had the guts to tweet at eachother, let alone send a direct message.

"y-yeah, I'd like that. thank you!" you replied, but before you could move an inch, a body was reported.

"double kill in-" corpse started, but he was immediately shut up by rae's yelling.

"NONONO, SHHHHH!" she yelled, trying to talk over corpse. "BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING, ITS CORPSE. I KNOW YOU'LL PROBABLY SIDE WITH HIM BECAUSE OF HIS VOICE BUT ITS HIM!!"

you giggled quietly as the chaos unfolded and rae and corpse started blaming eachother. at one point you zoned out, only coming back to your senses when sykkuno called out your name.

"Y/N?" he asked, you looked up to see you and sykkuno were the last people who had to vote. "are you there?"

"oh! yes! I'm sorry!" you said, fixing your posture and focusing on your screen.

"who do you think it is, I'll vote with you." sykkuno smiled to himself as you hovered over each person who was being accused.

"I think its corpse..." you said quietly, not voting yet, but sykkuno voted right away.

"I trust you, Y/N!"

"fuck, I should've listened to Y/N." sean said, shaking his head. "small brain plays on my end tonight."

you quickly voted and watched as the voted racked up. 3 votes for corpse, 4 for rae, and 3 dead people. it was obvious that rae, sykkuno, and you voted for corpse, so you already knew who voted who.

"should we 50/50 to be safe?" felix asked, standing at the button and waiting to call it.

"speed run?" corpse asked, laughing slightly as felix started wiggling his among us character, his child dancing behind him.

"SPEED RUN!!" felix said in a deep voice, only for reactor to be called. "SHIT." everyone ran towards reactor, leaving you and sykkuno alone at the button.

"hi again, Y/N." sykkuno said, standing on top of you to protect you. "I know you're crewmate."

"yeah, and I think you're crewmate too..." you said, a bit unsure. "because of the double kill."

sykkuno chuckled and wiggled around. "yeah! and, even if you were the imposter, I'd let you kill me."

"what do you mean-" you stopped talking as the sabotage was fixed and sykkuno called a meeting.

"we're alive!" leslie said, taking a deep breath. "so, we were right with rae?"

"I dont think so..." you said, thinking about all the big brain plays you've seen toast do. "I think its toast and corpse. toast does these kinds of things a lot-"

"WHA? ME? LITTLE OLD ME?" toast practically yelled. "I'd never kill anyone!"

"b-but..." you mumbled, trying to sound confident. "we should at least 50/50 corpse just in case..."

"I'm with Y/N on this one!" sykkuno said in his cheery voice, voting corpse and making corpse gasp.

"sykkuno... are you simping for Y/N instead of me?" corpse faked a sad sounding voice. "I cant beleive it. I actually think its Y/N and sykkuno."

"oh, it's not me and Y/N we were together at spawn when the double kill happened." sykkuno smiled, thinking no one would sus you two after that.

"can anyone confirm that?" toast asked and there was silence all around. "GET EM!"

with that, everyone voted, and sykkuno ended up being voted out because everyone trusted toast...

and that's how you lost the game to corpse and toast. damn, they really were amazing imposters.

"how'd you know it was corpse and toast, Y/N?" ludwig asked, making you try and shy away.

"w-well... I watch all of you guys so I know what kinds of plays you make..." you expected to be laughed at, but instead you got praised.

"that was really big brain, Y/N, sorry I threw that game." felix said, running around the lobby.

"yeah, that was really smart." toast admitted. "I guess I'll have you change my tactics from now on."

"oh... thank you all..." you said, laughing gently. "I have to thank sykkuno, hes the one that kept me alive. so, thank you, sykkuno."

"it's no problem! just trying to make sure we all have fun!"

after the stream, sykkuno added you and discord and you started messaging. you were so lucky to be picked by sean to join the lobby, because that's how you met sykkuno!

sykkuno brought joy to your life, even on days when you weren't feeling like there was any joy in the world.

you cherished these moments with sykkuno, and soon enough, he was more than a friend to you. soon enough, he was your bestfriend.

and maybe even a little more...

[billionairesitgirl]

Do you have any tips to help someone who keeps failing? I have been trying for several years now to get started and feeling more and more hopeless every year. I have attended $$$ events, lost weight, moved closer to major cities. Then of course COVID struck and made things worse. Is there something I can do that can help me gain an "in" or are certain things just not meant for some girls.

KEEP TRYING !!!

Yes i screamed it...  but that’s because thats the most important thing in succeeding.

Secondly Congrats on taking the steps and trying..... 

(THIS MIGHT MAKE MAKE YOU NEUROTIC.... If you already are then DO NOT DO THIS)

The following is also important 

1.) Have you asked your self why you keep failing?

Take a pen and paper and spend an entire day by yourself. Think, play things over in your head and Analyze.... This is probably the only time i truly suggested, over analyzing the crap out of your life, decisions, faliures and successes. 

(a) What mistakes, do you keep making? or What mistakes do you think you keep making. 

(b) what makes them mistakes 

(c) Would those actions have worked out better in something else or displayed to someone else 

(d) who and/or what would this action work on

2.) List your obstacles ... Every single one you could think of... 

Make 3 categories

 .....Obstacles you have gone through - What caused it? who caused it? (Regardless of who caused it... You owe some responsibility... so still own up to it... But remember BE KIND to yourself...) 

There is a fine line between being kind to yourself  and completely absolving yourself of any responsibility when owning up to the responsibility of things gone wrong

......Obstacles repeated - How do you NOT repeat this Again?

.......Obstacles Imagined and Obstacles that could still happen (based on different things, character flaws, finances, men’s personalities, race, looks, nature) Get as detailed as needed.  

Man plans and God unplans ... 

However, as humans we have ability to at least create contingencies... try to come up with possible contingency plan and POSSIBLE action on how to still not stand still when one of those obstacles appear... Basically figure out another way to scale through, wiggle through, swim through... whatever way (As long as there is life, health and will... there is a way.... After all people have clawed out of dungeous using only a stick or even their finger nails)

3.)  What have you tried that didnt work? or keeps failing... List it

4.) What ever #3 is that didnt work... What is the alternative that you haven’t tried. 

5.) Clearly you see this as an investment if you have lost weight, moved etc... What is missing in the picture? (I don’t know you, nor have I spent time with you or know your thinking process or views... So this is something even if you dont know what is missing... You have to sit and think... Sleep on it, give it time but remain introspective but be mindful to know when clarity presents itself. 

Being brutally Honest with yourself is the only way to know what is missing and where you are missing. 

Example: I met a gorgeous black girl A few months ago. From the get go, I knew she was hypergamous... The men also knew. But there was something missing and i couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Until we were all talking with the men present. 

She carried herself as a pretty girl, sweet and bubbly... But she made the mistake of trying to emulate the white woman’s countenance... So she could be doted on same as a white woman... I can’t explain this in detail.

But while it is good to emulate things noteworthy in other people... She lost her self and her own personal spark.  As a black woman... She avoided the pitfalls of a stereotypical black woman (quote on quote)... in the process, she mistakenly lost her goddess quality and blended in with the rest.  The men moved on from her. 

My Point is: WHAT IS MISSING... Are your run of the Mill? What is your core

6.) Standard - 

Do you have set standards? expectations of yourself and of the Men and of your surroundings?

Do you keep it? Do you up hold it or do you switch or lower it under pressure? 

Not to give too much information... I refused to live in the poor neighborhood when i moved off college campus. I lived in a condo and lived Smack in the center of the wealthy part of the city. I was not in this lifestyle then... But it was simply my standards... And even though it meant staying on campus longer till i got it... I did that.

Example 2: I have friends who do not care what hole they enter to get entertained (granted you can meet people anywhere)... But I am not the type that goes out very often... So why will i waste my few outings in some frat boys bar or club. So I go to high end places.

Example 3: I met a man who recently sold his company with upwards of $80 Million... I wasn’t told... I was aware of the process and listened to him through the proceess complain about delay in the closing and trying to avoid tax etc

He was deperate to meet me in person. As a matter of fact the day he closed. He flew me to his city (I went cause i was bored).  Long story Short... He is the type of man that got lucky... There isn’t much in terms of comparison... Thinks he knows everything, thinks himself black people’s savior and makes comments such as “If there were black women like you”...  Has some racists views he doesn’t think is racists... I met his friends... I liked one (But he just recently got remarried and was the smartest of the bunch). They had pissing games who had thr most rolex collection etc... He was crazy about me... Still is even without so much as a kiss and i spent a weekend there. (Had my own hotel room)

But, I knew while the money was there, he was generous and was crazy about me... It would drive me nuts being with him and interacting with his friends... My standard here is that I won’t deal with any man who so much as stresses me mentally especially as I am a black woman... I won’t take nonsense.

My Point is : What do you compromise on that you do? It is a long road being steadfast to your standard... But it has been worth it for me.

Do not use anyone’s standard... Create your own and work on keeping it... Men will despise you for it... But respect you all the same.... It is a weird placed to be.

7.) What type of events do you attend. When you attend events, go out etc... What do you do? How do you approach these events? Do you wing it? Do you plan it?  Are you fearless and confident or shy or just pleasant enough to exchange pleasantries alone? What vibe do you give off? 

How do you dress? Different styles can come across different ways... Some ooze Sexy, some ooze elegance with a hint of sexy, some basic, some regular, some say just another event person

8.) Closer to Major cities : what part of that do you live? Even if you are not in the center of things... Where do you go when you go out? How often to do go to wealthy areas, who do you interact with there? 

There is a plethora of questions who have to ask yourself.

With Covid I have met people (but then, I work for myself and have more freedom to move around and also take mini vacation in other cities) And I already have a network... So, I have a  leg up -  

But, I know girls here and people are also still meeting people.

What is stopping you? What avenues and methods have you tried? Have you thought outside the box? 

Hopeless? No... Wrong direction... As you fail you learn things that dont work so that should make you hopeful. 

Also, I am a big beliver in manifestation and law of attraction. Feeling hopless will only make things more hopless...It will attract more faliure...

Find ways to think more positively, ways to turn negative things into potentially positive things... In this case you do not have to be rational... Imagine everything negative happening has a positive... 

e.g  : A man cancelled on you = It wasn’t meant to be... It might have turned into a terrible situation for you... Thank God or the universe for saving you from whatever it is you arent aware of. 

eg : Covid happening : Time to make more money, invest. Brush yourself up, level up some more, learn new ways to meet this men and become more resilient so you come out fire when, the world isnt tupsy turvy

e.g : Getting older: Perfect, the more sure and certain you become in yourself, the more you actually find out what makes you stand apart, the more you find out who you are and realize that whatever amount a man was going to give you last year, you’ve outgrown it with age, maturity, acheivements etc.

You get the gist.... NEVER FEEL HOPELESS

You can feel sad... But not hopeless... Dust yourself up and try again...

Maybe one day i will take time out to share some of my own short comings and faliures... Cause i think we share the successes much more;  that people think there aren’t mistakes and faliures and short comings... I have had them, and I continue to work and fix them. 

The only thing is after my introspection... and brow beating myself and figuring it out...i don’t like to dwell on the faliures... I put my self to work updating myself. Besides I think sharing more good news brings more good news and vibes... But, there isn’t anyone that can claim to not have had obstacles and faliures.

Finally: My sister beleives everyone has a destiny... But everyone is also capable of changing theirs... 

With regards to your question...  About certain type of girls ...

The Answer is NO...

Some people might find it harder, or lack the resources and know how

But trying, pushing ones self, acquiring knowlegde and doing whatever it takes (of course within reason and comfines of morality ) Is what makes the difference.

As i write... I know women who took their entire savings to go to ST Barts for New Year...  (Would I? NO) But some would... My point is. 

You will go as far as you are capable of seeing yourself go.

So if you want a change in your pattern... You have to break the wheel... Try something new you haven’t tried yet... And a new approach. 

Question for you: “Gain an in?” Into what circle do you want an in? What type of man

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[bookns]

Strike Back: Shadowmoth Final Attack

Listen I know what’s going to happen cause I have been spoiled. Felix steals the miraculous and the people of Paris go to the streets. And ladynoir has a scene. They have a fight too but that’s it.

I’m so excited and scared.

This theme song will not never be comforting

Felix?

SHIT SHIT NO ITS ADRIEN

Shit what is he looking at

WIAT what’s going on

OH THATS SO COOL

Marinette looks so tired

Pegabug?? I COMPLETELY FORGOT THIS PART

Oh shit

Lila-

FUCK YOU FELIX I HATE YOU

Wait how’d U FORGET HE STOLE THE MIRACULOUS

Boi you said it twice

No shit it’s a fake

Kitty cat-

How cute

Shadowmoth fuck you

That’s a really cool amok

THEY DONT KNOW

catalysm is NEVER THE FIRST ANSWER

“Would you risk who I really am without the mask” WHAT THE FUCK

THEY ARE FIGHTING SO MUCH AND SOME-PART OF ME IS GOING CRAZY

he protected her in the crisis

OH SHIT HES ASKING

Aww she protected him

THE FUCKING CHAT BLANC

SHE DOESNT BELEIVE HIM CAUSE OF THAT

Well I’m starting to cry

“Maybe BECAUSE you don’t tell me anything” SHIT MAN WHAT THE FUCK

Rena Furtive saving his ass

Them saving the people>>>>

Fuck you hawky he’s a KID

THIS ENTIRE SHOT

RENA FURTIVE

Hella fucking yeah

What’s Jules power

The mini Mylène

HE COLLETS THE POWERS

what is going on

So many people

KAGAMI SAVINV THE DAY

I love KAGAMI

NINO SAVING RENA

I LOVE THEM

His shell can-travel??

THEY DIDNT KNOW SHIT

HAWKY DIDNT KNOW

LADYBUG IS PISSED

He’s good with kids

Chat Noir my baby got hit

THEY KNOW

THEY ALK KNOW

Frogy has nun shuckers

Is she completely forgetting that SHE NEEDSG HIM 

I got stressed so I took a two minute break and Cornelia Street just started playing for no reason??? LITERALLY NONE

There’s so many

“I can help”

baby

Oh shit his catalysm got stolen

A ticket-

Bunnyz

NO NO NO

Baby stop

No please don’t

ITS NOT A GOOD IFEA

ew

Her costume is an ew

Her little pom pom

THATS NOT ADIREN

he’s gonna use it on the miracle box

No no no no

He has a collar-

Hi barkk

Ew I hate that costume

Isn’t it his goggles

NO it’s fluffy

Felix you better not do anything

Oh my god

Everyone is hurt

What the fuck is this scene? It’s so different- like scarywise

Chat Noir encouraging the senti

Maybe Marinette was right about that

The akuma thank god

SOMETHiNG GONNA HAPPEN

Chat Noir listening in and my god is my heart breaking

Not the adrien-

Chat probably doesn’t even realize

Fermidable what kind of a name is that

These names are weird

NOT THE POUND IT-

Yeah I’m sad

Like really sad

My heart is being broken in two and torn

He’s a baby

I hate Felix

What is the mistake

NOT THE SEWERS

See for me I personally feel very attached to the sewer scene that happen originally in season two because that was the one scene I remember religiously watching season three came out. It was that seem to me that I used to always watch, so seeing this pisses me off like a madman. 

Stop I hate this

Felix SHUT THE FUCK UP

Not chat not using his powers cause it’s not him to do that

I can’t wait for the ladynoir scene cause this scene is going to kil me

Not the shake paws

Bestie they ain’t getting along

Bestie I love you but shut up

Who’s rooster BOLD

SHIT

AND I HATE FELIX NORE THAN HAWKY

Bestie where’s max

Why am I thinking the portal is to chat blanc

Is she ever gonna tell chat about chat blanc

Don’t you dare Felix

Oh how weird???

She did make a mistake THE MISTAKE OF FELIX

Rena Furtive bestie

Alya I love you but bestie no

I love you Alys

She’s crying

I love her

Adrien no no no it’s Felix

She did make a mistake

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOIBG THERE

what are you doing there

What is going on

UNCLE

Lila what the fuck

No no she’s gonna realize

Ladybug bestie no

The miraculous of the dog

My heart of when she is in trouble

so adrien is a seni monster

I kinda hate him more than Hawky

I hate this

This is torture

Ew Gabriel’s face

CAn the yo-yo deattach itself

I guess it can

Marinette panic is making me panic and cry

FUCK YOU HAWKY

Marinette don’t have a panic attack

She’s crying

I hate Felix hair

There’s nothing left

“ I lost”

No she left

She’s crying in the rain

I know what’s about to happen

Never mind WHAT THE FUCK

LUKA MY CHILD

Alys put the phone down for two seconds

KAGAMI

Ivan myslene

Chloe

THE GAUDRIAN

I hate HAWKY

I lost everything

You haven’t lost me

I’m not okay

I’m taking a break for two minutes cause my heart is HURTING

I’m okay now I feel relaxed now

Let me get back to stressed

Ladybug-

The thunderclap

Coup de foudre

She’s okay now cause she has him

The hug

The hug

The hug

The hug

The hug

Them the people of Paris

Your loyal partner

I’m gonna start crying

NI

YOU FUCKIN BITCHES DONT TELL ME ITS OVER

No NO NO

It’s over

I’m sad

[flower-zombie-rob]

Hello! I am the original 'septic-dr-schneep' anonymous person! I did not mean to cause discourse on Tumblr.

I wanted you to feel safe and validated, not shut down and harmed by Christian indoctrination. I have seen all of the screenshots in the past, which is why I had to tell you this.

(I actually contacted 'septic-dr-schneep' in the past about her views. She never responded.)

I am so glad that you did not believe me at first; that shows that you are more mature than most people on this site. It also shows that you are a free thinker, not blindly going off of something you saw.

You are valid, and with Pride Month coming up, I hope you feel even more valid!

Thanks im glad there are people that actually like the disagreement with following baseless accusations. The online world needs tk be more attentive because if theyre not you or a different anon could have really quickly spread misinformation through my blog.

Dont worry about me or anything, im alright, nobodys come attacking me or anything like they have in the past when i debated with radfems or terfs, everyones actually been very kind to me in discussing this. Im not myself an experiencer of being indocrinated as a christian beleiver, ive always been an atheist, but i can understand how having really negative experiences with gay people can make you think things that you dont understand the harm of. I was pretty harshy bullied by two people who practically let their claim to queerness become their entire personality and that lead me to a lot of self loathing and negative thinking to that community and myself. Since then ive come to terms with it and almost adopted the opposite of the christian beleif. Im more of a "hate the sinner not the sin" when it comes to those kinds of people (its not their sexuality thats causing them to act like assholes, even if theyre using it as an excuse like a "boo hoo im oppressed so im allowed to bully you" sort of thing since they didnt know i too was queer just not open with it) now and i can see how septic dr shneep might have a lot of self loathing. No one will ever know what her mind is like so i like to not go off the one ask and get agressive at someone for thoughts that arent explicitly hurting everyone or being pushed onto other people. Ive always prefered a critical analystic aproach.

Thanks for enlightening me though, i never wouldve known this about her before now so im glad i can form a better understanding if her as a creator and get the undertones if some of her actions and posts now!

[justflushme]

Fandom’s (that’s a me) Analysis on Chapter 76 TBHK/JSHK

Written: March 19, 2020

Let’s do this y’all (Navigation to previously written chapter analysis is linked at the bottom)

Ok first off, this chapter I found hella confusing I’ll say that but I think I made some sort of connections that could lead to some sort of theory. Alright let’s start! I’ll be going chronologically in the chapter with my reactions.

SHE JUS GRABBED THE KID THATS SO DAMN CUTE OMFG 😭

Ok this is what really tripped me over. The kid has a pulse and is warm meaning that he is in a human body. Of course Nene and Kou beleive this is Hanako’s descendant but honestly this kid could just be Hanako or Tsukasa. If it were a descendent, then maybe the whole Yugi family didn’t die? I thought the family suicide was about them but maybe it could have been another family.

OK WHY DIDNT NENE SAY “AMANE’S DESCENDENT” I bet the kid would have faltered then and would have given off more info! Also Kou is thinking in a good direction. I think the chapters forward are just going to keep causing Nene and Kou to think whether it’s Hanako or Tsukasa.

Did anyone else notice that the face on the phone looked like an adult type figure? The eyes were drawn in a style that resembled the adults in the manga. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was one of Hanako or Tsukasas parents.

I can’t, for the life of me, properly decipher that song. One night... Two dawns. Lowkey makes me think Hanako/Tsukasa was one person and the two dawns are his two personalities that got split when he became a ghost. But I doubt this is is true. Or one night could be a parent, two dawns could be a sibling, and all three are waiting for the morning. But what is to come at morning?

Also what happened to the other voice? In Chapter 75, there were two speech bubbles but Kou only sees one kid in that room. What happened to the other??

Ok this is interesting. These two moments in the chapter resemble certain school mysteries. In the second panel, we can see all the clocks on the ceiling resembling No. 1, the Clock keepers. In the first panel, this may be abstract, resembled the door Yashiro and Hanako were sucked through in No.6’s boundary.

The bugs in the trash pit of the boundary resemble the bugs that come out of the door Yashiro gets sucked into at “The Red House”. This may be a coincidence but I feel this is worth looking into. Maybe Yashiro is now going to be trapped into the pits of No.6’s boundary where Akane and Aoi were in chapter 69?

LMFAO KOU’S FACE AT THE END PFTTT. Also, WHAT A TSUKASA MOMENT. I know its up to interpretation so far on whether this kid is Hanako or Tsukasa, but what a perfect parallel of the earlier chapters where Yashiro was kidnapped. Here is the anime scene below.

I really want to believe this kid is Tsukasa but honestly its still too early to say. (I wrote a theory on the kid being Tsukasa which you can find if you look up “fandoms theories” on my blog :))

KOU PLEASE DONT CARRY HIM LIKE HE IS A PIECE OF LUGGAGE IM CRYING.

Alright,

So this chapter was pretty short, I’m guessing this is the start of a whole new arc where Kou has to save Yashiro. I will be confused if Yashiro is not heard from and it is just Kou centric because in the very first chapters of JSHK, Yashiro was seen as the narrator. I wonder if the authors just decided to ditch the concept or they swiftly changed narrators in the middle and the fandom didn’t notice.

As to whether the kid is Tsukasa or Amane, I don’t want to give up my position on the kid being Tsukasa but I am not cutting out the possibility it could be Amane. I’ve heard some theories that one twin is with Yashiro and Kou is dealing with another but I don’t know if that could be the case. The kid seemed to be exact same kid Yashiro took with her before she got sucked in. Maybe it is a scheme and a twin is acting like the first child but since the people who don’t want the kid to leave seem really protective, I think it is the same kid that got put back into the room Yashiro and Kou originally found him in.

I think the house isn’t centric to just Hanako or Tsukasa. I am going to go with the notion that this house is the one connection to all the seven mysteries. With the clocks (No. 1), the faucets (which could be a nod to Hanako’s bathroom), and the door bugs (No.6), maybe all of the seven mysteries have some belonging to this house. I used to think that the family suicide included Amane, Tsukasa, and their parents. Now, I don’t really know what to think. This chapter gave possibility to so many things that it is tough to find a theory that interlocks everything.

If I am correct (which idk) about Yashiro being sucked into No.6’s boundary, Aoi might show up in later chapters which could be interesting to see. I wonder if the house is a sort of time trapped loop or reality in which Amane/Tsukasa didn’t die and they live on in a human body stuck as a kid forever. Other than that, I am still way too confused on how the kid has a pulse.

Other random theories/questions (with not much basis for proof but interesting to think about haha):

- What if everyone who died in that house became one of the school mysteries. I mean of course this would be a weird mother and father thing to figure out but damn dude what if

- If the house is connected to all the seven mysteries, how did Mitsuba get roped into this? He became a school mystery when Tsukasa shoved the heart in his mouth so was it always planned that Mitsuba was to become a mystery? He has some sort of relation to the house as he took a photo of it but that could just be a coincidence.

- YO- ok ok. So what if that kid truly is Amane or Tsukasa right. He is one of the two. Let’s say the kid is Tsukasa (jus stick with me here) and Tsukasa is kept away to be with his toys. Amane was the one abused by the parents hence why the people who don’t want Tsukasa to leave are so protective of him staying in that house. If Amane was abused and Tsukasa was kept away, it might explain pent up resentment which could have led to Amane killing Tsukasa. I have no proof for this, I just think it could be interesting to think about. Of course it is tough to prove though because in Chapter 75, there were two voices in the room so maybe both twins were kept there.

I know I was all over the place with this analysis but I hope you enjoyed it! Feel free to send me asks/chat with me on anything! I would love to hear your thoughts!

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