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cistematicchaos · 3 months

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You want to have a baby? Be my guest. It's not the same as having a prosthetic or being visually impaired. Don't expect everyone to get out of your way just because you didn't use a condom. And that goes for when the kid, after birth, is on a plane or in a restaurant making everyone around them miserable.

Its always the assumptions that get me. Like, not everyone "chooses" to have a baby. Rape and pro-choice bullshit are abundant all over the world. So is the knowledge that condoms are not 100% going to prevent a baby. And so is the fact that "making the people around them miserable" isn't a child only thing, as evidenced by you sending this anon.

But lemme say fuck all that for a second. Its fine for people to have sex and want kids. No, being pregnant isn't the same as being visually impaired (like me!) or having a prosthetic but it doesn't have to be. Not all disabilities are the same.

You're supposing that just because a pregnant person supposedly consented both to sex and having a child that they don't deserve accommodations for things like mobility issues (that range from oh its hard to get anywhere to oh I'm bedridden indefinitely), brain fog, depression, chronic pain, possible dislocations, dizziness, ect, ect, all of which on their own can be disabling. You're supposing that your moral upset over people having sex and your hatred of children should override their understandable need for accommodations.

Well, hate to break it to you, it doesn't. People who get pregnant deserve the accommodations they need not just WHILE they're pregnant, but afterwards as well! And if I have anything to say about it, they will get those accommodations! Go fuck yourself.

(Btw, there are numerous disabling conditions that pregnancy can cause after giving birth which I haven't even mentioned but even without taking them into account, accommodations after pregnancy are still needed.)

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volfoss · 2 months

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it is beyond infuriating how anne rice seems to insist on marius being a positive force in anyone's life ever. like she can't fully commit to exploring the fact he groomed armand and has repeatedly taken away his consent for what marius thinks is best (take the end of TVA as an example) and just kind of flatly puts it in the narrative. there's not really much interest in how these horrific events make marius come across as the worst because EVERYONE loves him. for gods sake, lestat learns from armand exactly what marius did to him in TVL and then proceeds to go find marius and be super friendly to him in the same fucking book. even armand and pandora, two of the people who have MORE than enough right to hate him, do not. it doesnt feel like shes trying to explore the toxicity of the abusive dynamic he traps them in, it just is there. and like yeah ofc the toxic vampire romance series but i think that this should be handled with more care. and it is not ever really framed in a way that she is interested in exploring how marius should easily be one of the most horrific characters in this series because it kind of feels like sa/rape/grooming/other things of that sort are just put there to further plot and not to really get the respect that they deserve in a medium.

#twist rambles #vc posting #grooming mention #for blocklist sorry im on my im really mad about this fucking series soapbox again #to be fucking honest she treats slavery similar. like its just THERE and the characters doing it dont really feel bad about it (much like m #rius doesnt seem to.. feel much if any remorse for arm.and) and it is just like... ok heres another bad thing with no examination. this isn #a super coherent post but i went a bit forward to see how b&g was handling the arm.and stuff and oh my god. oh im so mad. like i just... i #wish so badly that arma.nds abuse was taken seriously other than haha its sooo quirky that mari.us is in a position of power over him and #provides housing money sex comfort etc for him and is abusing him but hes sooo happy with himmmm. like he fucking sold him into sex slavery #and we are supposed to root for him #ask to tag #sorry this is just. its a very triggering part of the books but its something that i kind of keep returning to to mull over because it is #handled really badly. like i think she was trying to go for a lo.lita vibe (iirc she did actually mention nabok.ov as an inspiration) but #didnt really care enough to examine WHY that is an interesting take on the subject matter. not even to get into pan.doras stuff bc its just #really bad but at least he waited until she was an adult i suppose. like i will give anne one thing that she has characters and (poorly han #led) writing that makes you really think and analyze. which i think is where i enjoy media that is like... this kind of sucks at points but #u can tell the authors viewpoints soo transparently. and u can examine it thru this. like i think thats why i find the gr.ell run of GA int #resting too bc u can telll that man is a libertarian and doesnt respect women. and then claims to do so. its interesting to me. anyways #did u guys know she defended bill clin.ton when the monica stuff came out and victim blamed her. just a funny coincidence.#sorry for the really long tag rant but i am sooo fed up with how she treats this topic forever and ever. bc its been this way forever.#anyways back to reading had to get that out. lmk if u need me to tag this bc its a lot of tws :)

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soars22 · 6 months

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Wait wait wait wait wait wait-

So I have this idea, right? That I’ve mentioned in comments/tags somewhere possibly maybe? About Dapper and Pomme escaping the island with the French because I’m Big Sad and I know Bad’s probably planning some angst about them being gone and I’m not about that right now (my name is Root Beer Dr. Pepper and I’m happy endings until I die).

So like, basically, everyone gets off the island and it’s slice of life and Bad stays behind to take down the Federation and along the way he and Cucurucho get together become roommates and like, Bad’s like “I can fix him!!! (I can make him worse!) and then Cucurucho like, goes along with it because he’s bored and anyway the point of this word vomit is that when Bad eventually escapes and finds everyone Cucurucho is with him like your strange aunt who no one likes but is too afraid not to invite to dinner or possibly like a particularly persistent strain of herpes.

The Islanders: what’s that?

Bad: a smoothie!

(It’s Cucurucho. He’s wearing Bad’s bathrobe)

And everyone hates him but he can’t really do anything by himself and he’s honestly too busy fucking bothering Bad to do much to anyone.

I think this was going somewhere but I forgot. I’m very tired.

#qsmp #qsmp badboyhalo #qsmp cucurucho #qadmin situation #<— just in case but like not really but also kind of??#wait-writing? was that what my point was?#I may write this maybe #I can do some angsty shit with this but make it happy YesYes #I will make everyone on this island alive and gay and happy god damn it #WAIT!!!!#Madagio is there too with Fit oh my god #same reasoning as Cucurucho #well-maybe not (unless…)#no actually I have no idea but M’s there and she and Cucurucho sit around and bitch about everyone #and are generally insufferable in a reformed villain way #do you see my vision?#this is perfect #now if only I could find the motivation and time to actually fucking write it

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katiebell · 1 year

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echoes of a memory

#my art #botw #the legend of zelda #tloz #FINALLY IM DONE!!#link #i`m actually really happy w how this turned out - obvs its not perfect but i had fun making it #anyway when i have time i want to do a companion piece w zelda in totk #in case it`s not clear this is before link`s recovered his memories but i hc that during that time he always had the lingering feeling of #something missing...#tumblr totally fucking the quality up but since it didnt make it That bad im just leaving it lol

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yellobb · 6 months

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I love learning that my dad is a genocidal fucking maniac

#m rambles #I mentioned offhandedly the stuff going on in Palestine #I’m not shocked that he’s a Zionist #I mean he’s a trump republican so it really isn’t a shock #but to hear him say ‘if they offered me a ceasefire I wouldn’t have taken it either. I would kill them all.’#and ‘the peace will come when they’re all dead’#that’s a whole other thing #I was fully prepared to argue against all his points #and good god did I #for once I didn’t have a breakdown when talking to him #I just explained why he was wrong and gave him the evidence and stats #but in his words ‘I don’t need to research because I already know everything’#jesus fucking christ #I said ‘maybe I’m just a radical but I don’t think anyone deserves to die’ and he said that yeah that was radical #then two seconds later claimed that I would have been happy if hitler killed all the Jews in Germany????#please make it make sense #like that would literally be your position. that the peace would come after everyone was dead. that’s literally what you said #I’m fuming right now #he’s the only Zionist I’ve actually talked to in two years #and the only Zionist that I know of that I still talk to #I used to think that the man could change if he got off of Fox News for two fucking seconds #but no he’s apparently just as bloodthirsty as the rest of them

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hanzajesthanza · 1 year

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some terrible part of me wants to comparatively analyze the reynevan/jutta sex scenes VS the birkart/douce sex scenes as good VS evil…

it’s about the worship of VS subjugation of…

#sapkowski kind of kinkshamed with that he said no rights for S/M LMAO #no before you know it there will be people who are like ‘he’s my joker and i’m his harley quinn’ but with the wallcreeper and douce of pack #dude how the black riders slowly start becoming less of a supernatural force and more of a just general banditry and sadists #and how the wallcreeper gets WAY more context and backstory compared to the two previous books #that being said when he and douce um… met for the first time #i reread it like thrice trying to ascertain if this was r*pe or not #and then i realized it doesn’t really matter because. evil. that’s why #like what happens when two murderous sadists throw themselves at each other. that. that’s what #honestly i was very happy that douce of pack showed up and played a part and wasnt just forgotten about #she made my blood run cold in her introduction in warriors of god so i’m just happy that she met her equal and also suffered horribly ❤️#dude when she’s fucking crying for help to not be left alone and birkart is like. ✌️bird form see ya #like contrasted with reynevan and jutta. as she. oh my god #i am loving the contrast actually it took him like this long to make the wallcreeper like a guy and not just a phantom #i mean you kind of see it in warriors of god too but. its kind of this awkward part where it feels inconsistent with the character #dude the way that over the three books everything just loses its sheen and becomes so real and painful #txt #hussite trilogy spoilers

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sonknuxadow · 1 year

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i do not like sonic future aus where sonic is married to amy and has like 3 kids not only is that sooo boring but he just would not do that . he would not fucking say that but its he would not fucking grow up to be in a traditional nuclear family with a wife and kids

#i say amy specifically because i really dont like s/onamy #and also because amy tends to be the default romantic partner for sonic in aus like that #but i actually dont think a lifestyle like that fits sonic at all regardless of who his partner would be.#and the type of aus im talking about just tend to not consider that that isnt everyones idea of a happy future at all #theyll have every single character be married with kids and they always use the boring ''default''/most popular m/f pairings for everyone #like first of all why did you make eveyrone cishet #but also why is there nobody who remained single by choice or didnt have kids by choice #why is there nobody who has adopted kids why are there no single parents. wheres the variety here #you'd think with adopted family and found family being such common themes in the sonic franchise #the fanbase for it wouldnt be so boring with stuff like this. like come on

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impostorsshow · 9 months

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I love watching Tears of the Kingdom memories out of order /sarc /lh

It took my around 100 hours to even find out the tears were a thing and wondering wtf my mom was talking about when I kept asking for help on what to do but that aside, I had seen #1 and #2 in order, tried to find Tabatha stable for a good 2 hours and then decided to go take a break and got hit with #8, WHICH WAS LIKE GETTING HIT BY A TRAIN

#1: :0 time travel wow oh wait your my old grandparents

#2: "let's go to the castle dear and get some clean clothes"

#8: SHE'S DEAD AND GANON IS IN POWER AND YOUR FUCKING WIFE IS DEAD AND ITS YOUR FAULT RAARU

Also there's 18 memories?? Damn how the fuck is it gonna sucker punch me more than that fucking 180 in story but aside from that i. I really wish it gave you a little way to back out, like it tells you the memory of what your about to watch and if you wanna do it later, I wanted to watch them in order TT AND I STILL HAVENT FOUND TABANTHA STABLE

#once i lost a carton of milk in the fridge and genuinely stood there for like an hour i was later told trying to find it. and then #my roommate walked over and handed it to me in about 4 seconds so i am not surprised i cant find the stable #im gonna go use google now #im mostly posting since i realized i should make semi regular posts on this account for my own sanity even if its not s&m related #since im not really s&m related anymore aside from the occasional art i'll change my pfp to reflect that eventually #i want to start making zelda art but i would want to put ALOT of time learning a more realistic artstyle to be happy with that #and contrasingly im struggling to learn the really cartoony style of aga so uh. shit outta luck with all of my hyperfixations rn #i might make something genuine related to undertale in the meantime? i have some aus ive held incredibly close to my heart #talk talks #hmm okay yeah i should start using fandom tags but i dont want to clutter anything what do i do here #zelda ranch dip #hell if i'll remember that but i'll put it in my searchable tags as a hail mary #would anyone be interested in my wackass theory about how i think link is a witch #i have a giant ass rant in my discord i think as well as a few rants on the fae and the such #oh shit good tag to put in her actually right before i hit post #spoilers #totk spoilers #just in case cause i got spoilered a little bit? but i have really good luck and skill with avoiding spoilers about alot of games and #the only thing i really know is that zelda turns into the dragon..i think ive been told that was wrong but i might be being juked

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stormyoceans · 2 years

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People who want you to shut up about vice versa better know I'll be under their beds with a knife 🔪. (kidding) (maybe not)

SFJKSGFKSGDJSGFJSKFG THAT'S VERY SWEET OF YOU ANON BUT THAT'S NOT NECESSARY

this is actually all part of my master plan because, see, if they want to buy my silence then they're gonna have to watch the show. if they do watch the show, then maybe they're gonna fall in love with it. if they fall in love with it, then maybe they're not gonna want me to shut up about it anymore. and even if they don't like it or if they still want me to shut up about it, im increasing the views of the show by making people watch it

EITHER WAY IT'S STILL A WIN FOR ME

#JUST ACCORDING TO KEIKAKU #but seriously i don't mind if they feel like that!!!!#i mean. im not gonna lie and say i don't get self-conscious sometimes #because i am aware there are like. only two people who care about my vice versa/last twilight/jimmysea posts #but it's fine!!!! they make me happy and i have fun talking about it so im not going to stop!!!!#and people who don't care about it are actually so very nice to still be following me and bear with me!!!!#and if it comes a day where they had enough i hope they know they can't unfollow me. no hard feelings #tumblr is supposed to be a safe space for everyone and i hope we all can have the best experience possible #but still. thank you so much for being so sweet anon!!!!#it actually warms my heart to know that you like my vice versa rambling and your message really made me smile #im sending you the biggest hug!!!! 💜#m: ask

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genderfluid-druid · 1 year

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dropping thoughts like laundry into the aromanticism washing machine and watching them spin. taking little notes in a fancy journal titled "greyro??" and crossing them out, but then going back and scribbling an addendum. holding up an extravagant glass beaker full of a cool bubbling potion and peering at it through safety glasses that say "mind the amatonormativity!"

#i think there are two layers of questioning to deal with #the first layer is easier to see and that's the trauma-related layer #the second layer has been going stealth for years and is more intrinsic #the second layer *could* have been a contributing factor toward the first #so anyway the question is. as i work through the trauma and have the support of a therapist to deal with the first layer #does the second layer become an issue. or is there only the first and it's just worked itself deep enough that it now feels intrinsic #the thing is i do get crushes and i do yearn and i can't remember a time when i didn't crave the idea of a relationship #so that should be that right? not aro. at least not intrinsically.#but why did i always end up losing interest in the relationship once i had it #was it really just because i wasn't dating people i actively chose #honestly maybe. there *was* B. i don't know how much longer that might've continued if logistics hadn't put an end to it #and M....... M is a tricky one. because even though i left that relationship by my own choice. i kind of had to in order to not want to die #the thruple vibes with K were just so utterly rancid and M was just so incapable of doing anything to make it better #so yeah. maybe that one could've continued indefinitely IF two to three of the people involved had been #a leeeeetle more mature and well adjusted. maybe. but desire for a relationship was not the issue.#so okay. maybe im NOT aro. maybe i just have shitty taste in men. you know? that's a distinct possibility.#okay. so now on the other hand. let's look at how happy and enlightened I've felt since starting to *use* the aro label #cuz it actually is fantastic. the freedom to just feel love and affection for anyone I'm close to and not have to worry about #it being taken in a way i don't intend. that's great i love that #and not feeling any pressure to find The One? rocks. good shit. i can just let whatever relationships be what they're gonna be #and not have to fret over assigning a label and structures and expectations. hot shit.#(honestly it's helping me understand where M was coming from in a way that would've been. you know. pretty useful six years ago.)#i don't wanna lock myself in a relationship with friend E but it's great hanging out with her on a regular basis #cuz that's the amount of affection i feel for her. enough to chill and watch Owl House. not enough to be in each others' space all the time #(god idk if I'll ever want to be around anyone all the time ever again. that is a LOT for my limited batteries)#idk how physical affection fits into this yet. that area is still under development #but like. if my friends were cool with it and i knew they wouldn't take it too seriously then YES i would probably kiss almost any of them #and i THINK that's true and not me telling myself something i think I'm supposed to believe? i THINK.#'s always the possibility that i just very badly want to be kissed and my brain is looking to make that happen in a way that isn't scary #ah shit that’s 30 tags. i’ve done it again.

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jrwiyuri · 2 years

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Hey so.. idk what’s going on rlly. But I will probably not be posting much about the dsmp as of right now. Especially with anything in regards to dream or people close to him (dteam). Soooo. yeah.

#stupid snake talk #it makes me umcomfy #and I know it’s really only dr3am to blame in this situation #but even just by association it kinda makes my stomach twist #and I don’t want to talk much about anyone until we have people actually yknow.. commenting on the situation #and the stance with him #again again ik im being unfair especially towards sap/nap & George but at the same time #i already almost never say or reblog anything about them #and until I know more about the entire thing and where others stand? I want to keep it that way!#I’ll still probably post about things like hermit/craft. and m/cc #but idk about the d5mp #at the very least im not posting about content creators and I’m not posting about dr3am #charcater or not. it just upsets me perosnally #also plz for the love of god don’t ask more questions on this #I’ll be happy to give context but like seirously I don’t wanna have a convo on this #like at all #i don’t feel the need to share my thoughts and honestly? I’d rather not focus on this situation at all!!#so I’m going to move on with my life and unfollow and stop supporting the people I need to as more info is shown

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just-a-mod · 2 years

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the nice thing about having hallucinations is that while your having breakfast with your partner, you get to see a 7ft tall animatronic try to walk around a place too short for him

i was able to accurately draw on my ipad what my hallucinations look like, so other people can see the way i see the world a bit

they aren't always this transparent, and they aren't always this easy to notice too. some times they are less visual and some times i can't tell them apart from real people

im just extremely fortunate most of them are not hostile or harmful to me any more :')

#art #team work makes the dream work as they say #Neos was holding my hand the entire time to make sure i was grounded #which helped even though all Sunny was doing was walking around looking at people and things #he was curious about all of the smells and sounds cuz i dont usually go outside to places like this #but it was nice #he even walked with us home #andi m sharing cuz idk im actually really happy to finally have a good way to show people what my brain does #thank you procreate for having cool features #i dont know what is up with my brain chemicals but it makes my life a bit more

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izzyizumi · 2 years

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Digimon Adventure[s] ~ Miku&Tentomon / Digimon Adventure Official Collab Shirt photos of @izzyizumi {DO NOT Copy} {DO NOT re-post} {DO NOT remove Caption!} {DO NOT USE or share elsewhere without my Permission (Unauthorized use is prohibited!)

Pic I got showing official Miku+Tentomon shirt I received (back in Aug. around 0801!) though I think I had received it just a bit later, so I wasn't able to wear it at that time!

(The img also came out a bit blurry, but I tried re-sizing this one, I may take more later!) The color was actually nicer than I expected (for Yellow!) {so I was really happy with this!}

This is the Small size but only because I don't think they even HAD a Size M in stock but if they did (I might have to consider grabbing another one of these, Someday...)

[Note: Tags/replies that are Positive/respectful are OK!]

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nitori-swims-rinstyle · 2 years

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Not the monster high rerelease triggering a want to work for Mattel again so bad I’m looking into internship programs

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celestialmancer · 5 months

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❌ //

#things are a mess mentally & its just weighing in hard tonight yet i dont even know how to put it into words.#exhausted. really exhausted. ig.#a lot of it involves M & also that one other ex who was like M kinda.#& also some stuff wrt that one former overly religious spiritually abusive ex friend who i met @ 13/14 while she was 21/22 #idk just a lot is weighing heavy & then my health being bad also just. tanked things. ig.#ig its just this wishing i could be happy. idk. in the sense of like ig not weighed down by shit rn or idk.#im just in a lot of grief @ the hand i was dealt in this lifetime #i wish id been dealt a better hand than this #& ig i wish i could actually have a shot at being happy in this lifetime rather than how ive watched the universe repeatedly strip me #of that in the past #just treating me back then as its piñata LMFAO #at least i have interesting lore ✨ thatll maybe make me interesting ✨ & not easy to discard ✨#… i dont know. i mm. sure itll pass ig.#ishtar rambles ;

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medicinemane · 6 months

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The problem with people who are "right" because they insist they're right, and the only way to be right is to simply perfectly follow their every dictation on the subject unquestioningly is this...

Ok, let's just take it as a given that you're right... the problem here is that if that's what's right I'm afraid I have to dig my heels into being wrong. If you are as righteous and just as you insist you are then I've got no choice but to be the villain because I can't stand what you're saying I'd have to do to be good

Shockingly I even think it's wrong, which is odd because we've already defined it that you're inherently and unassailably right... yet here we are

Worst part is there's a lot of these things where I'm not even full stop against it, I actually might be on their side if they could stop and address a couple of issues I consider kind of important... but they won't, because they're morally right and don't have time for addressing nonexistent issues I'm clearly just dreaming up

Undoubtedly right they are, the defect must surely be my own... and yet here we are. Vile and wicked as it might make me, I still can't just go along with you

#mm tag so i can find things later #and whatever you think this is about and however you've already decided it agrees with you #I'll say this is about like... minimum 2 topics at very different points in the political spectrum... and probably like 20 easy #so like... it may well be talking about your own behavior on certain subjects #I'm talking about not even being willing to entertain good faith questions #and especially about labeling anyone who doesn't tow your exact party line a horrible person #...the amount of shit where it's like 'you know I actually agree with you... except for this one major sticking point'#'just tell me how we deal with this one pretty big thing and I'm fully on board' and... well actually you're terrible for that #or the amount of places where it's like I agree with your goals; but not your methods but... I don't think arguing would do a damn thing #you've already dug your heels in so deep and maybe you're even right to do it.. but I'll never go along with it no matter what that makes m #and the number of overall good people I know who this post is honestly about #they may well be far better than I am; I've never claimed to be good; quite the opposite #and yet I'm afraid I have to say that... to me you're wrong; wrong in concrete ways #maybe you could even address my concerns and help me see with my stupid brain why these aren't issues... but you won't #because you're right; and you know you're right; and so you'll never be wrong #and this isn't just some idle whataboutism... or maybe it is; I'll never say I'm the moral arbiter; again I could be wickedly wrong #and there's a variety of reasons someone believes what they believe; but... there's often blind dogma at the end #I may be stupid; but I can usually draw a line from my stance to something in the world #maybe it's a stupid nonsense line and I don't see my mental gymnastics... very well could be #but I can draw a line... it's not just circular logic; it's not just bouncing between two points #and I often can actually point to places I'm not happy with how things are or will be... we live in the real world and that sucks #example that... man it's more politically charged than I like getting; but ok #I really want this Ukrainian aid to pass even though I don't like the Israeli aid attached... but I get that's the only way it's passing #I want the Ukraine aid because I see residential houses getting stuck by missiles; but I don't want the Israeli aid for the same reason #and it comes down to that I think that the aid amount is sufficiently higher to Ukraine to make it enough of a net positive #I could be wrong... but you can at least see my work; I'm coming at it from a perspective of bombing civilians is wrong #I could be stupid; I could point to two people I know on here who would tell me I'm stupid for at least one part of this... probably all #yet there it is... and... it'll be hard to convince me otherwise

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