#and tells u not to overwork urself

[lxnarphase]

I’m dying from the gym so imagine not being able to have sex with toji (who is going feral bc u look really good after coming from the gym) bc u went too hard on the hip adduction machine and even THINKING about spreading your legs has you groaning in pain

so the ‘poor thing’ just sulks because he wanted to spread you open and eat you out before you showered and lick the sweat off you but also bc seeing you wince just from walking up and down the stairs is making him upset

[hoodreader]

𝒫𝑅𝐼𝒩𝒞𝐸𝒮𝒮 𝒯𝐼𝒜𝒩𝒜 𝐸𝒩𝐸𝑅𝒢𝒴

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི tiana most embodies the energy of saturn for most of the film. she’s so absorbed in labor / work that she’s like a hermit. and the most saturnian thing about it as well is that she does it to sort of honor her late father, whom she looked up to + felt inspired by

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི it’s also a classic rags 2 riches type of story. tiana grew up impoverished, like most other black louisianans in the ‘20s

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི i don’t think these qualities of being a hard worker are necessarily admirable - u need balance. she worked her whole life ( three jobs !? ) and overworking urself is actually anti-saturn. that’s the lesson she had to learn

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི i’m guessing she’s a capricorn rising. always had so much responsibility and never really allowing herself to have fun + fail + be human + fall in luv

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི her personality is effortlessly graceful and really regal. despite being a poor black girl from louisiana, prince naveen thought tiana was a princess at charlotte’s party - i feel like royalty are able to identify themselves quite easily. so just wearing a princess dress doesn’t make someone princess-like, but bc tiana has so much grace / charm / poise, he assumed she was also of royal lineage

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she’s pretty strong minded, funny, etc but she doesn’t really let people in enough for them to see that she is. when naveen came to learn that she did have a lot of personality outside of work, he was pleasantly surprised !

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she’s also smart as hell :) bold and protective. she’s fiercely loyal - when the shadow man offered her all of her dreams in exchange for the necklace, she decided to be loyal to love / herself / naveen. even tho having that restaurant meant to much to her and her father

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི so for that reason… i’m getting leo sun vibes from her. regal, charming, loyal

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she’s very sentimental - when her mother gifted tiana the gumbo pot her father used, she was brought near tears. her wanting to have a restaurant at all is very sentimental

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she’s imaginative. despite everyone telling her that she shouldn’t pursue her dream - bc she’s a poor black woman - she doesn’t quit. she keeps going! she’s a dreamer

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she claimed she struggled to dance bc she’s never done it, but she was able to so quickly learn how to dance with naveen in that one scene. she has a natural artistic affinity

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི she’s good in the kitchen! i think that’s a gift that shows intuitive abilities

♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི for that reason, i peg tiana as a pisces moon! sensitive, still loving her family a lot ( she just channels it into work ), a dreamer, and a visionary

as for her other placements… i feel like she’s a virgo mercury, virgo venus, and aquarius mars. but these are mostly vibes, lol

u cannn switch the rising and sun ( leo rising + cap sun ) instead. but that’d change her other planets too. so for that, i see: leo rising, pisces moon, capricorn sun, capricorn? mercury, capricorn venus, and aquarius mars.

what do you think? this was my favorite movie growing up, i watched it probably ( no exaggeration ) thousands of times lol. anyway, i hope this was a fun read. i want to do more disney characters son

[vacate-et-scire]

hi!! i saw your matchup event and wanted to request one ^^

personality: INTP, i act kind of nonchalant at first if im not close to the person, but im rlly js a freak 👅 inside HAHAHAH im also rlly lazy as a person and often procrastinate, and a lot of ppl tell me i have a lot of potential and talent but i just dont put in effort so it kinda goes to waste...

physical appearance: im 4'11 (149cm) and 41kg, i hv rlly rlly pale skin thanks to my anemia and rlly dark brown eyes, like u can only see they're brown in the sun (i hate the sun btw.) i also have black hair with like thin bangs and an overgrown wolfcut with an undercut, but only at the back so it's only visible if i tie my hair up. i would say my face in general looks like those average east asian girls, but a lot of people say i have unique features? but i get compared to seungmin from skz, soobin from txt and acheron from hsr a lot.

hobbies, interests: i like drawing mostly, and have been drawing for half a decade now. I'm currently being taught by the teacher of a famous political figure in my country, who also happened to be into art. basically, im carrying on the legacy. aside from that though, i have a lot of hobbies, and i often change up my interests. for now, I've been doing figure skating, sewing, and insect pinning (?) on the side.

my type : i don't have a particular type i think, i just like whoever i can be comfortable with. also, as long as they're obsessed w me it's enough to make me stay. i prefer someone who takes care of themselves, and have a good amount of self confidence. i don't like someone with fragile masculinity, or someone who flirts around a lot (otoya's an exception ❤️) they also need to be an extrovert bc im an introvert and i cannot function well in society without someone to guide me. they don't need to be that extroverted, just a bit more than me at least. i also like someone with more feminine features !! if their hair is long enough for me to tie up that's good for me.

that's all about me, thank you and have a good day!! hope ur taking care of urself ^^; make sure to take breaks !

Your Blue Lock Matchup: Yoichi Isagi

Let’s explore why Isagi is a great match for you. At first glance, you might think Isagi would be too ordinary for someone like you. However, Isagi’s real strength in relationships is in his supportive nature. He’s the kind of person who wouldn’t let your abilities go to waste, not by pushing you to change, but by quietly motivating you to strive harder because he truly believes in you.

Isagi’s extroverted side isn’t overbearing, which suits your preference for someone who’s just a bit more outgoing than you. He’s friendly, warm, and naturally charming without being over the top.

Your physical appearance and style? Isagi would absolutely adore your unique features and aesthetic. He’s the type who’d notice the small details others overlook—like the way the sun hits your eyes just right or how your undercut peeks through when you tie your hair up. He’d probably gush about how cool and striking your figure skating moves are, even if you’re just starting.

Now, let’s talk about how he’d support your hobbies. Isagi would be all in on whatever your latest interest is, even if he doesn’t completely understand it at first. He’d love watching you draw and would be genuinely fascinated by your insect pinning, asking questions and marveling at how unique your passions are. And when it comes to sewing? He’d definitely rock something you’ve made for him, proudly telling everyone, “My partner made this.”

The one area where you and Isagi might butt heads is his tendency to push himself a little too hard. You, being someone who’s more laid-back and introspective, might feel the need to remind him to slow down and not overwork himself. But this wouldn’t be a dealbreaker—in fact, it could strengthen your bond. Your calm demeanor would ground him, while his ambition would motivate you.

Why him? Ultimately, Isagi’s unwavering loyalty and quiet confidence make him the perfect fit for you. He’d be obsessed in the best way—not in a suffocating manner, but in a way that makes you feel cherished and valued. His subtle extroversion would be the perfect guide for your introverted tendencies, and his appreciation for everything that makes you, you would be exactly what you need to thrive in a relationship.

[aquz]

HI AQUZZZZZ

first of all, HOW HAVE U BEEN?? we haven’t talked in like six trillion years (and overnight story- love that song btw)

second of all i tried to send in an ask that was pretty much the same as this one but idk if i sent but if it did js ignore that one bc this is pretty much the same LMAO

third of all this is kind of a more mental health fixated topic for the request so if you feel uncomfortable doing it you can totes ignore it bc your comfort n well being comes first!!!

finally the request (jeez nyx you talk so much 🙄✋) do you mind writing for a reader who’s really stressed and practically burnt out (and in desperate need of a good nap) who js keeps overworking themselves bc they feel the need to impress everyone?? (so they’re basically a people pleaser if that’s easier) but it gets to a point where they’re neglecting their needs and ignoring their friends to focus on their studies n stuff (with vil, trey, ruggie, azul n jade)

take care of urself aquz!! remember to stay safe, hydrated, and nourished!!!

burnt out reader - multiple characters with a reader who overworks themselves to impress others

⟢ trey c, ruggie b, azul a, jade l, vil s.

⟢ gender neutral reader, reader is not described physically, can be seen as romantic or platonic, reader is overworked and tired, mental health problems

TREY C.

for sure knows a thing or two about burning yourself out and people pleasing. he is like... one of the most real, genuine guys at nrc. he's naturally worried when you come to class looking nearly dead and everytime he texts you, inviting you to heartslabyul, you either never respond or tell him you're busy. once he finally finds out you're overworking yourself (he may or may not have walked into your dorm without asking. it's not breaking in if nothings broken...!) he makes you rest. let's you tell him about how you feel as he gets you water and texts riddle of his whereabouts. he'll sit on your bed and praise your hard work while you lay down with a cold towel on your forehead. (sick or not, i love cold towels they're so soothing). trey would for sure try to cook an actual meal, but he's a baker NOT a chef so we'll see how that goes. he offers to help with your work and doesn't leave you alone until you've eventually fallen asleep after eating and talking to him. he'll be calling you later and will check in on you the next day, though.

RUGGIE B.

another one who knows about people pleasing and overworking. though, he tends to overwork himself to "survive". he does everything for leona and has a hard time taking a break for himself... he's so used to the hustle, you know? he notices right away when he sees you outside in PE and you're about to faint. asking to take you to the nurse, he instead takes you back to his dorm where he feeds you something and basically forces you to tell him what's going on. ruggie isn't a liar when it comes to these things and he tells you how genuinely proud he is but you've really gotta take care of yourself...! tells you stories of how many times he's gotten in trouble or hurt because of how tired he was from constantly working. if you're working to impress someone who genuinely does not seem impressed, he'll tell you not to sweat it. he feels like leona doesn't appreciate his hard work sometimes... but he's used to that; he just wants to let you know that he understands you. after he eases you into rest, he leaves cuz he's a busy man; but if you ever become distant or start neglecting yourself again, he will start using FORCE. (￣ヘ￣)

AZUL A.

i'm like 99% sure everyone here has had experience with overworking themselves oh my god. anyways, azul takes a while to notice because he's oh-so-busy, but he realizes when you come in to work one of your shifts, you look like you're about to collapse. of course, he sits you down and gets you something to drink and asks if you're sick; then you tell him how hard you've been working on school, relationships, AND work. azul overworks himself frequently, he understands. so, he let's you off the hook. he'll let you nap in his office and if you're hungry, he's calling jade (floyd would tire you out further...) to bring you something to eat and to refill your drink. he's willing to offer some words of advice and make sure you know your efforts aren't going unnoticed. he warns that you must take care of yourself more because you can't just expect to work hard and not stop for a break and then be completely fine?! that's dangerous! nobody would be pleased to know you've almost killed yourself over some homework! (that sounds so weirdly worded i am genuinely sorry) he reminds you that you can't expect to always help others if you can't help yourself. eventually you'll burn out so bad you won't be able to recover.... or that's what it feels like. he's also sort of a people pleaser so he knows it all too well.

JADE L.

jade suspects something is up when he doesn't see you drop by the lounge much anymore. he thinks it's weird but it's certainly none of his business... until floyd won't stop complaining that he can't find you anywhere. apparently it's difficult for ANYONE to get ahold of you. one night, late late LATE at night, floyd shakes jade awake and complains he thinks something is wrong with you and he can't stop thinking about it. jade, fed up with this, went to go find you... find you up at 4 am, studying for a test... that would be taken in a month. you had a whole month to study and you're doing it all in one night? he has to actually lay you down to get your full attention, then you tell him you're afraid to disappoint. of course, it's early in the morning and jade isn't fully awake so there's a silence, interrupted by youe stomach growling. so, he instead brings you a snack and some water, makes you consume it all and then lays you down. he promises to talk to you about it all in the morning so he can properly reassure you that you're doing enough. he ends up falling asleep on your bed with you but when you wake up, he's gone but theres a covered plate full of food just for you. at school, he stops you and asks you how you're feeling before handing you MORE FOOD and going to class. he's a busy man but he shows appreciation in his own ways.

VIL S.

vil notices the physical differences easily. you've been ignoring epel, rook, AND him for quite a while and epel was acting out because of it... or so vil thinks. so, he scouted you out after class. he notices how tired you look and the thinning of your face... what's going on? vil takes you to pomefiore and interrogates you over a nice meal. just you and him. when you tell him, he gets soft. he scolds you lightly for your behavior and mindset; you don't have to do all of that to impress anyone. you need to take care of yourself so vil takes you to his room, runs you a bath, and takes care of you. he'll do your hair if you let him, he'll apply his favorite skincare onto you and hold you in his arms. he whispers to you sweetly how he recognizes your effort but wants you to stay safe.. how sweet. he walks you home and puts you to sleep, even burning a calming candle to put you to bed. the next few days, rook will be showing up after classes to check on you and bring you something to eat as well as new lotion or whatever vil sees fit. when he's overworked, he likes to be pampered but this was about you; it's your turn to be pampered. good job, (name). you're doing great.

[ HIIIIIII IM SERIOUSLY SO SORRY FOR NOT WORKING ON THIS SOONER, mental health and school have been rough but HIII I FINISHED IT I HOPE YOURE DOING WELL!!! i too love six trillion years and overnight story ^_< i hope this post was enjoyable! don't forget to take care of yourself because you can't preform nearly as well when you're exhausted compared to when you're feeling good!!! ]

[6okuto]

Would it be alright to ask for some more fluffy Vere hcs,,,,,can't get enough of him,,,THO PLS DO IT WHEN YOU'RE FREE OR SMTH U SHAN'T OVERWORK URSELF MA'AM >:000

gn!reader | yeaass hellaur i have been a little busy with things. smth smth gifts..party...dentist appointments.. got braces & now my teeth hurt smth smth😐🫤 but I AM HERE!

ohh matching jewelry...i think he'd wear jewelry you got him regularly and would make sure to take good care of it. he hopes it's good quality,, only the best for the best :)! (doesn't actually rlly care . he will find u endearing either way!)

^ likes to clasp jewelry on for you btw. or zipping up your outfit or fixing the collar or fixing your hair for you while you're out and the sun is so bright you can't see yourself in the selfie camera etc etc. little things. etc etc. little things.

will let you try the new expensive-ish tea he just got. you're his test subject now yes he Will take note of what flavours you like most for future reference e.g. gifts, when you're sick, etc

steals sips of your drink. you say you might as well share and get him a straw and he says it isn't the same thing. the entertainment is in the theft isn't it. you start drinking His drink! ok. he will poke holes in yours with his fangs.

in scenarios where everyone is suffering like the weather's too hot or too cold or the electricity has gone out or something,, you can trust him to prioritize taking care of you before the others! sorry ais. erm. you're second. too hot Good thing he has a fan for the both of you to sit in front of and cold drinks. too cold He has a weighted blanket only big enough for you etc etc

and when i offer the hc again that his tell comes in the form of his ears or tail flicking which is how you know he enjoys your presence and the hug you're giving him. < doesn't know how to react but he hugs back. though it's…a 4.5 or 5/10 hug (at first) probably.

the thing abt vere wrapping his tail around you. waking up to it in your face sometimes like ?! hello? it'll be a sincere accident but you wake him up and then he swishes it in your face on purpose. Beauty Sleep!

sleepy softer vere vulnerable to your affection 🙁 when you leave a kiss on his forehead and he hums and leans further into you,, especially when you kiss the markings on his face. complains when you stop playing with his hair. he's more important than whatever you want to do

@lost-lonnie @mitskiologist

[uzurakis]

when you overwork yourself, megumi leaves you treats, notes, etc. so that when you wake up from a nap the first thing you think about is something that makes you happy instead of stressed :,)

AAAAA i’ve had the same hc for 3 years now 🙁 not only when you overwork urself, but like every time he has to go on a mission for some quite time, he leaves small notes on your bedside table telling u he’s gonna be gone for awhile and asks u to take care of urself etc etc (HE HAS A PHONE I REMIND U) yet i believe he prefers to do this practically and traditionally . . like megs doesnt fw with technology; which makes it somehow funny but really endearing. chivalry isn’t dead with fushiguro megumi people !!

[sakumasmut]

hai haii !!! for the breeding kink ask game can i have madara with 5 , 6 , and 10 ? you can remove the numbers if ya want ! thank u so much pls dont overwork urself <3

Madara Mikejima Breeding Kink Asks

5. Cumming inside to avoid making a mess

Well, avoiding a spill is his excuse, but really Madara just likes the idea of breeding you in public. Pushing you up against the wall of a street alley, fucking you with little preparation and chuckling at your reactions, telling you to stay quiet unless you want people to see you like this. With a satisfied grunt he’ll dump his load into you, smacking your ass appreciatively. Your underwear will be a mess if you let anything escape though, so he expects you to keep his seed inside.

6. Jerking off then pushing into their s/o’s hole to cum

Madara isn’t the type to tell you when he’s horny, especially when you don’t seem in the mood. So his solution is to jerk off in the bathroom as quietly as possible, just to relieve himself before cuddling with you. Fortunately, you walk in just before he reaches his orgasm, and after a light scolding for not telling you about his needs, you pull your pajama pants down to invite his cock to push inside you. He’s only inside for a few seconds before he shudders and cums, but you quickly coax him to start moving again, using his cum as lube to get going.

10. Finding ways to keep their cum inside their s/o

Madara’s solution is simple, thanks to his giant dick. There’s practically no room for anything to escape while he’s balls deep inside you, so rest assured. Right after an intense breeding session, expect to cockwarm him for a while longer, or even through the night, just to make sure all his warm seed is cozy inside you. Bonus if he carries you around on his cock around the room as he cleans up, one hand on your ass and your legs wrapped around his hips.

()

[skzcre]

It's my graduation ceremony coming up this week and because I'm single, I'll be taking my bang chan p/c with me.

Can u pls write a little something-something about how proud daddy chan would be of me?

congratulations on graduating babez !!! <3333 chan would be very proud of u and i am proud too :D

he would be so supportive throughout your whole time in college, making sure to text u to remind u of ur due dates if needbe (and reminding you to not overwork urself and eat !!! i know i stay forgetting personally T_T)

you better believe he’d come with you to the ceremony too, standing proudly in the crowd and cheering as loud as possible for you even though he’s not supposed to. but who cares !! his baby made it to the finish line after working so hard for so long !!! how dare anyone try to tell him he shouldn’t cheer >:(

spoils the absolute hell out of you for at least a week afterward, like more than he usually does. buys you graduation gifts, takes you out to a really nice dinner and probably gets really deep during the conversation telling you how he admires you for making it through and even though it was tough on you he’s excited to support you on your future career (〃ω〃) probably makes you cry he’s just so sincere and it hurts ur heart in all the best ways

oh gosh he’s just so sweet aw heck :(

[causenessus]

HI NESS can i call u loveliness as well :3 anyways i'm really enjoying try again 😭😭😭 even though i'm like super busy recently i'm rereading the chapters every day <3 no pressure tho! i have a lot of random things to say but i really like ur blog & ur style :) i'm just checking in & hope ur doing well recently! don't overwork urself and we all love u <3 bye loveliness

HELLO LOVELY!! ofc u can call me loveliness thank you for asking and you're so sweet <3 (and dw!! i double checked with mango anon as well!!) AND AAA I'M SO SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT!!! i cannot tell you how much your love for try again has really motivated me and helped me feel more confident about the work!!! like i'm always so greatful and happy to read *your* comments because they get me so inspired, seeing how much someone is truly enjoying my work!!! and don't worry it's not pressuring at all i am always so so happy to hear from you and what you think of the chapters!!! another one will hopefully be out soon!! i think i'm almost done with it <3 you are so so sweet thank you for checking in and for your sweet words!! i appreciate them and i hope you're doing well my love <3

[violentviolette]

ASPD diagnosis anon again.

Thank for responding, I really appreciate it.

You mentioned your bipolar diagnosis affecting your rights/freedoms, what did you mean by that? I ask because personally, I have lots of things i need to address, and process, but therapy as a whole just seems like a massive risk. I'm not asking for a "do this/dont do this," I guess, but more of your perspective and experiences.

Thanks again, just let me know if it's too personal. :)

so in the us at least, it can affect a lot. bipolar disorder is considered a legal disability tho and is protected under the ADA so some of these things u can fight, while others u cant

things like workplace or educational discrimination for example, both are required to provide accomodation for bipolar individuals, but them knowing ur diagnosis at all puts u at risk for discrimination. i know most places wont hire u if they know that upfront, and in some fields (like medical, govt work, ect) outright state that u cannot have a mental health diagnosis like bipd in their field and they straight up will not even consider hiring u

it can affect ur ability to get or renew a drivers liscence, especially specialty liscences like CDL's and motorcycle

it greatly affects ur medical treatment overall. ive had problems with some dr's not taking me seriously because they see i have a bipd dx. i had a bone tumor the size of a baseball in my shoulder for years and when i told dr's it felt like i couldnt breathe and that something was pushing my shoulder out they dismissed me as being a hypochonriac and told me to talk to my therapist. i also need to make a point to appear put together when i see certain dr's or else they take it as a sign im declining mentally

were often at an increased risk for involuntary hospitalizations, especially if healthcare workers believe u to be manic or having an episode. this leaves us more vulnerable to things like guardianships/conservatorships. it is much more likely for judges to rule against us in cases where someone is challenging our legal rights or trying to gain prolonged control. this can be especially dangerous for people in abusive relationships or with abusive parents.

it also counts negatively against us in family court proceedings. judges are much less likely to side with a bipolar parent in custody cases and it's much easier for partners, family members, and the state to seize control over ur children

we also cant buy or legally carry any kind of firearm or other weapons. even knives that are legal to carry for others can become issues for us if the law becomes involved. we're much more likely to be given harsher punishment and prison sentences, and more likely to be mistreated in police custody

overall tho it's about weighing the pro's and cons for u personally. for me with my bipolar, i Need medication or i will go insane and kill myself and so i really had no choice there. u need a diagnosis to access bipolar meds consistently, wheras with something like aspd, u dont need a diagnosis to access treatment so it was easy to keep that one off the books

generally tho, unless ur out here telling ur therapist ur about to shoot up the grocery store or kill ur dog or throw urself infront of traffic, getting hospitalized when ur just seeking average talk therapy is fairly unlikely. hospitals are overfull and the mental health system is way overworked and understaffed and most places dont want to fight with insurances that dont want to cover stays. so u do generally have to be saying some extream things to risk being coded currently, at least in my experience. ive been held for 24hr stays before, but never longer than that. they almost always dont have a bed and so unless ur really losing ur shit infront of them they dont want to have to keep u.

also if u seek out dbt centered therapy and resources they tend to be better about handling hearing the nasty symptoms without getting too nervous. things like issues with empathy and anger management are much more common for patients seeking dbt. it also helps if u tell them these things upfront. this makes u appear more self aware and in control, which works in ur favor and makes it less likely they'll view u as an active threat to urself or others. but it really just comes down to what ur looking for personally

[cloudcountry]

hi

i’m going through a bit BUT i want u to know

that u make me

and everyone

happy

true

and

make my day a lot better

i love u loads growls. pls sleep well

and don’t overwork urself- if u need help my dms are open

and also i can happily send u more art

thanx for being in my life

true

winnie :(( this is really sweet but i feel the extra same for you. so make sure yorue taking care of yourself ^^ thank you for telling me about your silly little dreams all that time ago, im very thankful for it <3

[dajaregambler]

THANK U SOO MUCH FOR THOSE SITD TRANSLATIONS WE'RE BEING FED GOOD RN 🙏🙏🙏 ALSO don't push urself to translate chap 3 this quickly!!! take ur time and dont overwork urself WE WILL WAIT

first of all, youre welcome!

second of all, i am not overworking myself! i am precisely working at this pace bcus i'm excited to share my favorite content with people! after a rough period in my life, i am taking time enjoy my life the way i want to and i want to make the best use of it by having lots of fun. literally have nothing to do either way. i play final fantasy online like its my full time job besides translating for the lols

i learned my lesson this earlier this year too which came with some regrettable but neccessary sacrifices relating to translation. and i haven't had the chance to go at it like this in quite some time. i like to think i know what im doing!

right now, i'm truly doing this simply because i am actually having fun and i want to do this :o)

so yeah please do not worry about me! i'm gucci. half of the time i quite literally adopt keith's overall work ethic and this might be the 2nd time in my life i put this much effort into something.... and neither can i say the first thing is work related in any kind of capacity. (100%ing katamari damacy is no easy feat lemme tell ya that)

[maiverie]

USER MAIVERIE HI HELLO💘💖❣️💕💓 how are u !!!

im a forgetful person so in consequence,, i forgot to scream about “bite by bite” like ?$,&&/$/ NOT YOU SAYING I MIGHT NOT ENJOY IT, i’m literally obsessed w the way you write and ,,, the way heeseung is portrayed is so chefs kiss IM LITERALLY OBSESSED????

also<33 i found the rain has an edge (i hope i got the title correctly bc if not,, that’d be embarrasing luv xx) BUT LIKE</33 TSUNDERE!SUNGHOON AND GRUMPY X AWKWARD SUNSHINE IS LITERALLY EVERYTHINF??? i’m alr losing my mind and you only posted the preview??🥹🥹 i’m saur excited to read it whenever it comes out so pls pls pretty please can i get added to the taglist for that one???? thanks i’m advance ur literally the best mwahhhh

also. i hope ur not overworking urself a lot nor stressing over stuff lovely:(( i saw ur last text post so i’m sending u a bear hug🫂🫂 pls take your time to update whenever u can and want !! i love you🫵💕

USER … ZZZSEUNG???? WHAT THE ??? new url change )&@“@&$ ITS SO GOOD R U KIDDING DANI i love it so much 😭😭 bunnygyus will def be missed but this ate ‼️

HI HI DANI MY LOVE HRU??? i’ve been good hehe 😝 sort of inactive these days but im here now 😋 HOW HAVE U BEEN??? WHATS NEW W U HEHE

also what the heck I SAW UR RB and i was gna reply to the rbs soon (just hadn’t gotten around to doing that) BUT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING BBB WHAT 😭🩷🩷 NAH CAUSE i warned u since its just so different from triage i was gen worried it wouldn’t be ur thing 😭 IM REALLY GLAD IT WAS OKAY THOUGH 🥹💓 i had sm fun writing it since i like the change in pace but it’s always a little nerve wracking when writing smth diff from what you’re known for so TYSM for the reassurance i appreciate u so much 🥹💖

ALSO YESSS GRUMPY X SUNSHINE ONE OF THE OG TROPES 😭😭😭 when i was obsessed w shoujo anime when i was like 13 istg i ate this trope UPPPP so this is a little but of an ode to that hsjdjsjs ahdjsjdja PLSSS i’d be so so honoured to add u to the taglist 🤓🤓

THANK U SO MUCH 😭😭💖💖 shut uppp ure literally so nice & friendly thank u for reaching out !! pls tell me all about u and the works you’re working on hehe bc i’d love to hear 🫂 sending u hugs too ILYSM 🫶🫶

[traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors]

sometimes (well, it's almost all of the time nowadays) it feels super exhausting being someone who's super closed off. there are times when i do want to vent abt stuff, but cannot, because:

1. the problem is too confidential in nature, and thus i cant just spill it casually to others

2. the problem is too complicated that not explaining everything in detail will make the person i'm talking to misunderstand and draw the wrong conclusions, but having to explain every little thing is also exhausting. my problems tend to get tangled and influence one another instead of being fully separate, so there are also times where said problem needs to be explained in great detail to be able to get full context, but there are also some part of the problem that are confidential so i cant talk abt it and thus making the other person not have the full context, which in turn just makes me frustrated

3. idk if i just happen to stumble upon shitty ppl or anything, but sometimes i get the impression that ppl consider me very passive and incapable. if i talk abt a problem, i always get recommended simple solutions that i either have tried with no result (or sometimes even worsen the problem), or not possible to try for whatever reasons. but if i tell them that they will either come up with reasons on why i should have done this or shouldnt have done that (stuff like "well u should have done xxx back then to avoid this problem" or "thats ur own fault, why did u even pick xxx/do xxx, did u not think of the consequences", or if i say i cannot do this and that bc of reasons, i get responses like "stop making excuses" or "well, life is hard. nobody told u life will be easy" or smth similar. this is very frustrating when it comes from ppl whose circumstances are obviously easier than mine, but it pisses me off when it comes from someone whose circumstances are similar to mine, but they managed to get out of it out of pure luck. it comes across as really annoying bc like. u went thru the exact same thing as me. i have seen u break down over this. now that ur out of the situation (with pure luck, mind u, not bc of their own effort(not saying they put zero effort, but effort alone wont be enough to get them out of the situation)), u look down on those who are in the same place as u in the past? this is, like, the kind of person i really have a hard time respecting. u literally reacted similarly to us when u were still stuck here, but after ur done with it... u look down on us??? same reason why "i was so cringy back during my teenage years" rubs me the wrong way, bc i believe u should have compassion for ur past self, not mock them, but especially u shouldnt mock current teenagers bc they remind u of ur own behaviour in the past. even if said behavior is immature... well, u literally werent an adult at that time so give urself some grace pls. esp bc ur disgust towards ur past self already extends to shitty behavior towards other ppl. (to clarify, i am an adult, so no, this is not a teenage complaining abt the way adults treat them (altho i support their right to vent abt shitty treatment from adults as well)). like, okay, i wont tell ppl what to believe and how to think so i wont bring it up to these types of adults, but as soon as that mindset makes them treat anyone who reminds them of their past self badly... then thats a different story

for example (not the problem im stressed out about; just an example): i complain about not being able to get a job. they say "well u should have looked harder for job vacancies", then i say i have applied to 100+ vacancies and none accepted me. they say "u should have honed ur skills, nobody wants an unskilled worker", then i say "i did hone my skills, i was ambitious before graduating uni, but all those hard work led me to serious burnout, which is why u only see me 'lazing around' (resting) nowadays". they say "well thats ur own fault then. who told u to overwork urself". bonus point if they were the exact person who told me to use my time before graduating to get as much experience and skill as possible so i can compete with countless others and get a decent job. but i know for sure they will also blame me if i wasnt ambitious and honored my own limitations back in the day (turns out i've been living in hard mode since i was undiagnosed neurodivergent, ha!)

but even if i was diagnosed, i will still get blamed for not standing up for myself. really annoys me bc aside from the notion that disabled ppl has to go above and beyond just for accomodation... i did try to advocate for myself. multiple times. which led me to the conclusion that nobody cares no matter how nice i phrase my requests. i will end up at the same position anyway. so i really hate ppl who always assume i havent tried every single method at my disposal

i think the problem is... i feel like deep down they already have a preconceived notion about the whole mess being my own fault. so no matter what explanation i give them, they always respond with things i could have done (or should not have done, according to them) without taking into account the specific circumstances at that time that led me into making those decisions

4. difference of value. there are also times when the person i talk to is supportive, but then they give support/advice that differs a lot from my value, so i cant execute the advice. in this case i usually also feel bad bc i feel like i'm not appreciating their genuine support by not heeding their advice

simply put, lots of those experiences have made it hard for me to trust others enough to vent seriously. i feel like i get super wary of possibly receiving invalidating responses. but at the same time, it's kind of exhausting. sometimes i think abt whether im the one who is too picky abt the response i hope to get and thus just sabotage myself regarding receiving support, but like. i generally dont feel safe enough to vent abt stuff unless i know i can launch long ass rants and not get invalidated, but also... ngl, the length of those rants also usually make me wary of the other person finally snapping and accuse me of only complaining without attempting to remedy the issue. but it's really, really exhausting. i wish i can just vent freely without my defensive walls anticipating invalidating responses, but unfortunately that's my reality. i only have the courage to vent abt general stuff like this instead of the specific problems im dealing with, simply because in abstract vents ppl can just sympathize, while in more specific vents... lots of ppl immediately go to problem solving mode? and for some reason my request to only be heard, not given advice... usually get disregarded under the guise of caring for me? while they go on and ignore the part of my vent where i told them i already did what they're suggesting me to do?

also, tbh the main point i'm venting about is the exhaustion of not being able to find the ideal person to vent to (even though i do know my criteria for ideal vent person is... quite a lot). i'm wary of getting invalidated, but not being able to vent is also exhausting. also, as u can see... my way of venting is so all over the place that most ppl wont be able to comprehend what im talking abt, which can hurt a lot esp when im feeling shper vulnerable. so when im vulnerable i tend to not interact with ppl

Hi anon,

I'm sorry about what you've been through. It can definitely be hard to vent when the problem is either too personal to share, requires a lot of context, the person you vent to gives bad advice even if they've been in a similar situation, or doesn't consider your values. It makes sense to find it exhausting to have many experiences of people mishandling what you want to get off your chest.

Unfortunately I don't think many people in general realize that not everyone is asking for advice when they vent about something, and it's important for them to listen for a question like "What can I do about this?" as a cue to give advice. Many people may not have experience or education about giving advice and actively listening which could explain why some have made dismissive comments towards you like "life isn't easy". It's hard because even the people who you could say are dedicated to listening and responding to vents (therapists) aren't perfect and can dispense advice unsolicited, despite their training. So please know that it's valid to feel wary of venting, not knowing how someone might respond.

We try to pay close attention to what someone is asking of us, whether it's support, advice, validation, or if they just want to vent. When it's the latter, I try to avoid advice as much as possible and just focus on active listening and validation. I hope that I could help make you feel heard, and please know that we're here if you need anything.

-Bun

[rosiehrs]

you can be the mon to my sam 🫶 i tried but i def can’t tell if i passed, but thankfully my teacher drops the lowest test grade so my grade should be okay. and we have two more tests and the semester ends in like two weeks plus finals, gonna kay em ess 😭 i would like a kiss if i pass tho 😚🩷

HDHAHDHSH dw i believe ure gonna do well, b! as long as u try ur best and work hard, that's all u can really do, i'll be cheering u on and shi🤭🤭 but don't overwork urself n know when to take breaks fr

it should be u get a kiss if I pass bcs then u'd never get a kiss🤭🤭

[thestudyfeels]

If you're tired, read this. Please.

Hey, amigo.

It's hard, isn't it?

I know. Sometimes, it's painful too.

Sometimes you really wanna give up, throw the books, hide in a corner and never take any action again.

I understand. I really do.

But I'm not here to collaborate on the pity party. I'm not going to join in on the groaning challenge, or complain about how hard it is.

First, get this though. It is hard. I won't lie. It is worth groaning upon. Maybe one or two pity parties are affordable too.

Yet, there's a pact we've make together, and I'd like to remind you of it, before we talk further. New here? We call it the Shush Pact.

Don't do it. Don't complain. Don't whine. Don't give in so easily. Don't.

Go ahead. Make the pact. Now.

Go on! Do it.

Tell yourself, today's hard. Tiring. But, I won't give in to this. Nor will I complain and moan about it, and waste my energy. Not today, Amelia! Today's not that day.

Done?

Sure?

Okay. Let's go.

If you're tired.

If you're tired, exhausted of the hustle, and almost at your breaking point, I want you to remember how MUCH this means to you.

I don't know what’s driving you nuts. Maybe it's a math problem you just can't crack. The presentation due next week that isn't up to the mark. Maybe it's 3 gigantic books you have to read up on before your next theology class. Perhaps your business has come at a standstill, and you can't get it to grow. Or maybe you hate your job, and have finally, bravely, taken the step to work the 6 hours after you come home on building the art portfolio of your dreams, because in your heart, you've always been an artist. Maybe you're juggling three jobs and working late nights to save enough money to catch the dream bus.

I don't know. But I do know that it means a lot to you.

I know how passionate you're about this, and how much it means to you.

And yet, you're tired.

You're tired of it!

You're tired of studying so much. You're tired of DMing every business in town, to have none reply back. You're tired of working so much, handling so much, and you feel like you haven't had a break since you were a kid. You're tired of the pressure, you're tired of the hustle and you just… wanna quit.

Don't.

Please.

It's hard to be positive in this dark, numb time and you're starting to work mechanically, questioning your existence with every hour, but I have to make you understand! You're worth this! You're so worthy of this, my love.

Please don't quit.

Don't give up. It's hard, but seal those lips, and trust your gut. I know you can make it. You've worked so hard for this! You've struggled so much, invested in so many weeks of work, and right now, at your breaking point, I want you to realise that you're worthy. Of getting that grade, that degree, finding a job you love, your crazy ambitions of opening a flower shop… everything! All of it!

You deserve the world.

Listen to me. Open your ear and listen: you're tired, yes. But here's the truth. You're not done yet.

You've got so much to prove to yourself. So many identities to identify yourself with. Exams to slay, jobs to get, money to make, dreams to build, people to meet and love to spread.

Listen. There's more to this. There's more to YOU.

Don't give up now.

Not today.

You're not done yet.

Tiredness will pass, and I want you to just try pushing through this. Just try. You'll see you're so capable of winning and it'll blow your mind when you look back and realise the strength you truly possessed because you were able to push through.

Winning is your blood. It's your oxygen.

Tiredness is a toxic. A poison. You're not tired, you just think you are. When the human brain says it's done, it's actually got 70% more to give.

Don't forget. Your legacy awaits. If this truly means everything to you, if you've already put in hundreds of hours of work into this, PUSH THROUGH! You've got to, because your future self deserves a better life! Don't let them tell you that you need a break. A Hawaii vacation. They'll say you're getting nowhere and urge you to take a break.

You and me, we both know you don't need one. You just needed a reminder of your capabilities.

And I've given you that now.

Just remember, you're not done yet.

So fuck tiredness.

Go win.