#and so loving

[greg-montgomery]

okay okay hear me out-

Hotch is KING at helping when your overstimulated🙏🙏 like okay cus when I'm overstimulated sometimes I need a big like bear hug and Hotch is so good at bear hugs I just know it 🥺🥺🥺🫂🫂 and he deff always has snacks on him as a dad

OMG AND AND HED GIVE YOU HIS JACKET- in overstimulated situations or not like he will never hesistaye to give you his jacket if your cold, or it's raining or something even if he has nothing else 🥹🥹🥹

YES YES YES!!!

he’s a profiler and he loves you!! so naturally he can always tell when you’re not okay. so he’s also always aware when you’re overstimulated! and he knows exactly what to do about it!!

bear hugs!!! oh you know he’s a pro at this. he pulls you into his arms and you can just get lost in them 🥺🥺🥺 he squeezes you and helps you ground yourself. hide away from the world no matter where you are 🥺 you can focus on listening to his heartbeat and on your breathing. his voice is also so calming 🥺

and the snacks!! absolutely!! he knows your favs and you already know he has them all in stock!! you’ll never catch this man lacking.

and ofc he is the biggest gentleman so he makes sure to always offer you his jacket if needed - even if you refuse and say you’re okay 🤭 he knows you!!

[likeafairytale]

― E.A. Bucchianeri, Brushstrokes of a Gadfly,

[monkie-brainriot]

How Macaque's dependency could have affected His and Wukong's relationship

following this post

I think that the past Macaque might have depended on Wukong as his only support, or his biggest source of support.

And of course Relying solely on one person as your sole support can result in various consequences:

Dependency: Mac's emotional well-being and sense of security might have been intricately linked to Wukong's presence and support. When Wukong failed to provide that support due to his own struggles (when he failed and faced punishment), it could have triggered feelings of abandonment, frustration, and even panic in Mac.

Loss of Emotional Anchor: Wukong served as Mac's emotional anchor, and when that anchor is suddenly unavailable, it can lead to a sense of emotional disorientation. Macaque might not have developed the skills to manage his emotions and challenges independently, and this loss of stability could contribute to his anger and blame towards Wukong.

Feelings of Betrayal or Neglect: Macaque might interpret Wukong's pursuit of his goals that might lead to the inability to provide the same level of support as a form of betrayal or neglect. From Mac's perspective, he might feel that he sacrificed his own aspirations to be there for Wukong, but it's not the same the other way around.

Frustration and Vulnerability: The frustration and vulnerability Macaque is experiencing due to Wukong's absence as his primary support could be channeled into blaming him for the current situation in the Mountain Scene. Macaque might not have the emotional tools to cope with his feelings. Also He tends to suppress his own concerns and desires, which eventually leads to built-up resentment that explodes later when he finally loses his support - Wukong.

This's unhealthy for both of them. Not only does it put a burden on the other person, but also when the other person crumbles (as humans often do), your only support crumbles too. You can't maintain a sound mind to be there for them because you're left trying to cope with the loss of support.

The other person slips up (as most humans do), they crumble, and thus your support crumbles. So they're the reason for your current lack of support. It's THEIR FAULT. (Note: This is one of Macaque's reasons because the situation is complex, but I want to highlight this aspect as it's often not discussed how Mac's dependency played a part in his behavior.)

All of this added to Macaque failing to cope and leaving Wukong when he needs him the most.

[spacedoutamazon]

This cat 😭💕

[jotunvali02]

'Resting with Prussia' - Counting Sheep Volume 2

[queenfinehair]

I feel weird today so here's a photo of what's helping me stay calm and collected

[billskaarsgard]

Andrew Garfield talks to Elmo about grief and the passing of his mother

[apollos-boyfriend]

i’m gonna cry it’s raining right now and i just passed by a family where both parents were without an umbrella but their kid who couldn’t have been older than like 3-4 was proudly holding this GIANT umbrella whose diameter was as tall (if not taller) as the kid. both the parents were getting absolutely drenched but u could tell the kid was just so happy to have an “adult” task and carry the umbrella themselves and i think that sacrifice is what love is all about

[stillgotscars]

this part of stevie nicks’ interview with rolling stone is taking me out

[whiteshipnightjar]

Zoozve, my beloved

[nerdy-arty]

Venezuelan Miku!!

[fuzzyfuryland]

MEET👇👇👇

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[thecorrupter123]

Sydney Sweeny in Euphoria S2:E01