#and not being able to see his actions separately from Jimmy’s so he’s feeling guilty for what Jimmy has done

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You brought up a lot of good points but one you mentioned and I always see being forgotten is Anya’s perspective on what she wants done.

When she asks Curly what he would’ve done it’s not accusatory or her reacting to badly to already empty promises but almost a genuine plea. She wants to know what he would’ve done and I think that was his biggest missed chance to actually provide support for her and possibly come up with a plan with her that made her feel more secure and not anxious enough to tell Jimmy so soon. Her telling him was a very real act of desperation in my mind. Hoping that he’d have some epiphany or realize the gravity of his actions and be reasonable. With a guy like Jimmy that is very far fetched but you can’t expect her to not want to be hopeful or have the best judgment in such a state of distress.

Everyone immediately assumes Anya wants the biggest punishment and the most consequences for Jimmy in those moments. No one ever asks what Anya actually wanted to be done outside of wanting to be heard and understood. Everyone assumes what she wanted to be done has something to do with the locks and med bay, with the gun or Curly physically confronting Jimmy. It’s all solely based on the discussions and arguments of what he could’ve done but again those conversations always forget those solutions are not realistic for what the setting and story are trying to comment on on so many different scales. It’s making her desires linked directly with Curly’s actions and I think that misses so much on the discussion for her.

She never asks for locks but comments on them. She hides the gun because she can also understand why Curly would not want her or any crew member to have unfettered access to it, but she also knows she can’t let Jimmy have access to it by leaving it in place. Discussing what Anya wants solely through the physical blocks that could be provided misses out on what she wanted on a social factor, a very big aspect of the game. She wanted to be heard and I feel like people aren’t hearing her when they solely talk about her desires under a lense of just needing protection.

It’s harsh to say, but the assault already occurred, there’s no act Curly could’ve taken to nullify that fact and I think people lump that together in the whole conversation, which also takes the blame and responsibility of that action off of Jimmy entirely. The one concrete want and desire from Anya we have is wanting to be understood. Her comments and questions are all subtle ways to have the others, mainly Curly, to get where she’s coming from without directly having to say it. She doesn’t just want to have to tell him every time but have those little details be seen. She likely knows he can’t magically add locks to the room, but she wants him to understand her concerns on why there aren’t any in the first place. She wants him to get why Jimmy’s comments make her so uncomfortable but he doesn’t, not to the extent he needs to. He tries to keep them seperate but the act feels hollow cause he doesn’t understand exactly why it’s such a relief for her.

I think Anya just wanted Curly to get it more than anything else. Even if he did all what people say he could’ve it would always be a hollow feeling for Anya if he didn’t understand why it was an issue for her in the first place and that’s a big thing people miss in the conversation. It’s not just caring about her concerns, which he shows he does, but seeing where they stem from. Maybe she did want the authorities involved, maybe she did want Jimmy dead. None of that would feel good if Curly was just following along with it and that’s a big point of the dead pixel. He doesn’t get why it’s a problem for her but accepts it as a problem. That not getting it is a damning factor for him and the rest of the crew in the end.

Anya and Curly to me are two characters that get each other but also don’t understand each other. They have similar sentiments but they go about things in such different ways they are like tragic but good fun house mirrors to each other. To not know but understand. To understand but not know. People treat aspects of the game as if things are spelled out for the characters when they aren’t even spelled out for us. That’s part of the commentary and I wish people understood how much of that is part of Anya’s character motivations.

Really like the recent analysis. I know I speak of curly in a more defensive way than most but I generally try to get the point you made across at the end of the day with my analyses on him and his behaviors.

People love to lock analyses around Curly solely based on what he could’ve done as a physical action and have this avoidance to acknowledging the realistic barriers at play when it comes to those solutions. It’s. The game tries to treat the pre-crash section as if they are grounded in social and organizational realities. So the what if he did this questions about the situation always fall short when the real answer is he either couldn’t or it wasn’t an actual viable option. But then when they talk about what he actually did do it’s surrounded by such bad faith interpretations that his actions were completely intentional or still not affected by outside sources. He’s a very much “road to hell is paved with good intentions” character. He cared too much and that’s a big part of his problem.

There’s such a “perfect victim or nothing” mindset in the fandom where people can’t admit that there are no such things as perfect victims but that also shouldn’t mean that even if there were it would absolve them of the mistakes they made. People want to moralize every action of every character that they don’t realize that some actions are done without any specific morale factor. People just do things, like you said. People assumed failed intentions immediately flip the thought process behind them “he meant to do good but bad happened, he must be bad” and that just is not how people work. It’s how perceptions work but only of the observer.

It’s such a sensitive topic because, yes, you are supposed to be frustrated, even mad, at what Curly didn’t do, but you have to acknowledge the fact these were good intentioned acts even if that good intent did jack squat in the end. That his responses are human and it’s supposed to be uncomfortable and hurt that they were realistic faults of his.

He enabled his friend and it ended bad for everyone including him. No one really tries to argue this fact but everyone seems to think it has to be tied to the morale dilemma and not certain human natures and social factors.

This is all to ask, why do you personally lean towards thinking Curly wouldn’t turn Jimmy in? Are you speaking in the short term of realizing how bad he got or long-term/overall? I feel like he could but it would not be easy and no matter the necessity he’d always have this guilt at feeling bad for doing it.

Ah yes Curly the most imperfect human man character.

Yep yep yep absolutely, people love to assign morality onto characters and call them good or bad and diminishing the depth and nuance of Mouthwashing, filling discussions with bad-faith interpretations or speculating on inconcrete understandings of the incomplete, intentionally vague, context. I adore Mouthwashing to no end for having this oppressive suffocating and constant atmosphere surrounding everything in the game. Really shows off that the environment festers, no one well-meaning guy could create a happy ending with individual actions alone because it's all systematic.

To elaborate from your question tho, at the point Curly was in (if Anya wasn't pregnant scenario), definitely no don't think so (would depend on Anya a too on whether or not she would go to the authorities outside). Curly knew Jimmy was a danger, and I do believe that subconsciously Anya's report to him on Jimmy gnaws at him, but not vividly enough. I want to point out a moment where Anya tells him about the pregnancy, he begins asking "Who would you-", then he's nudged by Anya that she told him and he should know who it is, and he does, instantly saying he's known him a long time and will talk to him. That moment of, for a second not connecting that Jimmy is the assaulter responsible just makes me drag my palm across my face for how much of a man (derogatory) Curly acted like for one dialogue line. Like he just 'forgot' for a brief moment that Jimmy harassed Anya prior? Granted, he instantly believes and takes Anya seriously, immediately dropping the search for the gun he was on in that scene, realizing the severity of the situation and of Jimmy. We also don't know what Anya has told him specifically, how long ago it happened, etc. but the 'implications' of the scene make me believe Jimmy's known sexual harassment on the ship slipped Curly's mind due to him being more invested in "the bigger picture" of Jimmy, not latching onto a harmful and a very serious fucking trivia fact about Jimmy because of his perception of who his friend is as a whole (and with his foggy sleep-deprived mind at the moment), 'losing a needle in a haystack' with how much unknown history Curly and Jimmy shared, so to say.

Maaaybe in some other circumstances, like if Jimmy didn't crash the ship or smth long term I could see him doing it, it would take a lot effort like you said, no matter the necessity. We will never know. If we're going into speculation and imaginary scenarios though, if Anya HERSELF were to try and get justice, Curly would be backing her up undoubtedly (still not disconnecting himself from Jimmy though and feeling guilt on his behalf). But that's all suppositions from my reading of the characters.

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