#and its not like im unfollowing bc i hate anybody and even if i do unfollow it doesnt make us not friends no more or doesnt mean we cant

[softbinu]

hello !! i’m currently unfollowing some blogs as my dash is filled with way too much stuff and sometimes astro content or content that i want to see just gets hidden among them so yea. If i end up unfollowing any mutuals i hope u dont feel bad or take a wrong meaning :( not unfollowing any of u bc i hate u or anything like that ! So pls feel free to come talk anytime or hmu even if i do end up unfollowing and breaking the “mutual”-ness hjhjh

[datleggy]

So one thing that bothers me with some buddie fics is when they have trans buck, and it’s not bc I’m transphobic (I am trans). I think it’s more that I feel like a lot of fics do it so they can have some form of “straight sex” even though that’s probably not the case. Or it feels kind of like they’re glorifying being trans. Like I love trans representation, makes us feel seen, but there’s just something uncomfortable about it being used in fics as some sort of plot or for smut.

i’m drunk so i probably shouldn’t even put my two cents in soooo if anybody else wants to comment on this feel free. no trans hate or u will be blocked and reported real hard. 

altho i will say i’m one of those ppl who’s like yea whatever, as long as its tagged appropriately fuckin write/draw whatever u please, u know?

if im not into it/it makes me uncomfortable or even at times maybe triggers me (domestic abuse stuff fucks me UP) i just block it/unfollow or whatever

BUT with that said, i also think the same when it comes to ppl being able to talk about things that trigger them or make them uncomfortable or they just plain don’t like, like, fuckin GO OFF.

[latinalesbi]

Could see Sherri popping up in the diluted fake Fosters spin off. Teri? No I think she’s done. Unfollowing Bradley,Peter,Cierra and Maia on twitter. Woah! Im really not sure she’s even filming this little 3 parter they’re doing tbh. We’ve heard nothing so far, photos, table reads. I really hope she is because regardless of our feelings about how its all turned out it will be probably the last time we see them as a couple. The 3 part will be a precursor to the spinoff, their involvement minimal.

Well we knew she unfollowed immediately after the announcement dropped. Just not sure when it happened, before or after the announcement. I am pretty sure she’d be in the 3 part finale but then I am sure she’ll be done, unless they offer her directing. I don’t expect many pictures because there has to be a lot of tension on that set. I do agree that I don’t believe Joanna that they will be a focus.

Peter, Brad and Joanna are slaves to Freeform and do their bidding. They will want to use Stef and Lena to setup their lame spin off.

Anonymous said:                                                                      When Tess talked to Stef at prom about her having feelings for her back then and that seeing her again and living next door helped her realize she's possibly gay , was she saying that she's gay bc she still has feelings for Stef or bc she's come to terms with herself ?

That’s a good question. I got the feeling that she was saying that she never came to terms with the feelings she had for Stef. And now being faced with Stef, she’s forced to face those feelings and whether that plays a part in why her marriage is failing. Now, what isn’t clear because either the acting wasn’t up to par or the wring was absolute crap is whether she still feels something for Stef. I didn’t get that feeling from what I saw on that screen but I have no idea if I was supposed to get that. It was confusing for me with Stef why she wanted Tess to admit she liked her and why she’s still tripping about it. I know they will attempt to tie it up together next episode but this story hasn’t been clear at all. Why isn’t Lena jealous over all this concern? It makes no sense.

Anonymous said:                                                                      Aaron is going to be in the spin off. Attending that panel confirms it for me. I really hoped that was the last we’d see of him as I can’t stand the character. Callie should be on her own, she’s at her most tolerable like that and with her mom’s. As if they wouldn’t be on her to get her college applications in. But oh no that would be a boring family scene let’s return to Brandon in bed with Grace that will get the ratings in and up! Bull!             

Yeah one of the young actors could be Aaron, ximena. That way they can continue to say look we have queer youth. Who cares? I liked the old lesbians. That wasn’t on my screen. I don’t believe that ratings go up when Brandon is naked. Sorry. They think that, but they will learn that what made The Fosters special was the moms and without it it will be another meaningless progressive turd.        

Anonymous said:                                                                      I’m not on twitter but has anybody asked whether Sherri and Teri were even asked to this Freeform summit? If not Peter and Bradley should be honest... yeah we’re starting to phase the moms out but ep 18 you’ll get five mins to satisfy all you annoying Stef and Lena fans! Urgh!!! Didn’t watch any of the summit but were the moms mentioned?

I asked but you can better believe that they ignored me. And you hit the nail on the head. Yeah, we hate the moms but you better be on your knees thankful for episode 18. I didn’t watch it either so I have no idea if they were mentioned. I don’t expect so.

Anonymous said:                                                                      Has any of the creators gone into detail re the decision for this crap spinoff? I mean we know Bradley and Peter are behind it but has Joanna for example said anything? Did they seriously push for a final season and got told a big no or was it mutual between them and Freeform. Still feel pissed that Bradley was telling viewers to tweet Freeform for another season. I wish Sherri would come out and give her views, maybe it will all be revealed once it’s over what really went on. Shady shady!!!!!!!             

They act like this was the only way to continue telling their progressive stories. I don’t think Freeform wanted The Fosters, but I do think a season 6 would have been possible if they hadn’t sold out the Fosters back in October for a spin off without the moms. Joanna stopped tweeting October 1st around the time I believe the inked dried on that spin off contract. She didn’t tweet till the new year basically. Sherri will never speak ill. Remember that Sherri once said that Teri said the things that people only thought and could never say aloud. I respect that. I believe they continued to hope that somehow Freeform would renew the fosters despite having the Spin Off approved. As if Freeform would renew the old biddies without the young actors. Come on, they killed it.

 Anonymous said:                                                                      Smthg strange I noticed prior to the announcement of the cancellation which made me so mad. In Intouch magazine (which is a lot of garbage I know however..) A source said Teri Polo was a diva and has a bad attitude on set! This got me so mad. Google it, it’s a couple of lines but how dare they!! Pressreader has it. All has not been well on that set for a few months that’s for sure. IMO the biggest diva has always been Maia, always thought it. Whoever their source was/is shame on them!  

I wondered what the point of that was, at the time I thought maybe it was a result of Teri obviously avoiding media. However, I am sure now that was a network leak, perhaps because Teri was holding out for money, directing or perhaps equal pay for cast. Who knows? Or maybe just because Teri probably spoke her mind and called the Network out for the disrespect of her talent. And it has been an insult. THey are the leads but for the last 2 years, they’ve been shut out of promotion, photo shoots, etc. Sherri is the kindest person in the world, the most genuine person and I know she would never use the word diva for Teri.