#and i truly felt like i was dying
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to be honest with everybody I don't think I'm supposed to be here. I think I'm supposed to be somewhere else
#talking#when i was young i would play the same games over and over and i would think obsessively about what was beyond the area provided#i wanted so desperately to see the inside of the apartments in castelia city i would spend hours thinking about it#imagining what im missing#thinking with certainty there would be more to the game if i could just get to the points out of reach somehow#that same feeling of believing theres more out there but being locked out of it by some third party keeps happening#ill have dreams that feel infinitely more familiar and certain than the memories and experiences i have in real life#ill be gone for months only to wake up and learn none of it happened and it was just another product of my imagination#feels like im going nuts when i say i dont think the life im living is correct or accurate or. what word do i want#genuine? i dont feel like this is as real as it presents itself to be#i really dont know how to explain any of what im feeling without sounding like ive absolutely lost my mind. honestly maybe i have lost it#i just know that in my dreams the 'abnormal' events that occur feel infinitely more organic & real than the events that occur when im awake#like at some point in my childhood i fell into this parallel universe and nobody ever came to retrieve me so now this is how i live#all the surrealist media was right. i think im supposed to live somewhere more infinite and less. real? grounded?#i dont know. thinking about it makes my chest hurt#i dont know what the hell any of this is todays tag talk sort of got away from me and for that i applogize#ill toss it in the queue since ive been so chatty lately#saw this was still in the queue so im coming back to say i watched a movie about things like this#and i truly felt like i was dying#very fun
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i feel like a lot of people seem to forget that during idia's overblot flashback scene he says his life has been set in stone since he was born, and that it hurt how other kids would get asked what they want to be when they grow up but nobody would ever ask him that. and he says he always just wanted to be a normal kid, he just wanted to be a hero and go on adventures, he essentially just wanted to be free to be like everyone else. his trauma doesn't only come from ortho's death, it also comes from feeling completely and utterly trapped by STYX and the expectations his family's curse has placed on him for all of his life. from feeling like the things that he enjoys, the things he dreams of for his future, do not matter and never have. like he's all but completely alone in the world and the fictional media he loves is his only escape from it all. he literally wanted to go with the original ortho, to die, and his response upon being told that he loves the world too much to give up on it was along the lines of "who would ever love this rotten world?". ortho had to tell him that he still had a future ahead of him, because a very significant part of his issue is that he feels like he doesn't, or at least like he doesn't have the freedom to choose a future that he'll enjoy. with or without ortho, he's spent his whole life just feeling hopeless.
#idk where i was going with this post haha#but truly i do think people tend to act like all of idia's problems just come from ortho dying and that is so incorrect#i mean also ortho's death literally stems from All Of This to begin with#they both wanted to go on an adventure and have a bit of freedom but idia felt so trapped and so hopeless#that he thought the only way was for them to sneak out of the isle of woe on their own and then that led to tragedy#anyway now i've made myself sad :(#idia shroud#twisted wonderland
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#i had posted this everywhere and it occurred to me that i hadnt on tumblr. which seems like a crime#keith kogane#vld keith#vld lance#vld fanart#lance mcclain#voltron#klance#can i rant for a bit#grabs the microphone Id like to thank this huge step on my voltron healing journey to my mom#who said 'oh its that show that made you cry in frustration! the kitties!'#and i said 'yes mother i was 15'#i dont think ive ever felt so. like. bullied? i dont wanna say ridiculed but#by a shows' producer#not since fucking BBC SHERLOCK#and i dont mean oh of course it wasnt gonna be canon. Of cours it wasnt I dont mean that#what i didnt need was getting baited left and right#the show milked the shit out of. lets be real here. young queer kids and then turned around and pointed and laughed when they gained hope on#their silly red blue ship to get canon#bc lets be real if anything queer was gonna happen. ambiguous non binary pidge was already there#two skinny attractive teen boys is like low hanging fruit. diet rep#but it wasnt even abt that. at least i truly never thought klance was srly gonna b canon. i HOPED. but like. i never shipped 4 canon anyway#i LIKED voltron. i loved lotor. i had always been a multishipper allur//ce was rkly cute i couldve dug that#if they hadnt spent the last season looking miserable AND THEN DYING#tf u mean our female lead died TF U MEAN THE LATINO MC BECAME A FARMER? w the forever marks of his dead gf on his face? Are you joking rn???#anyway. hit me up for more voltron opinions i got tons#(mic drop)
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#i canāt find a good close up picture of ten n his cage š <ā things iād never thought iād type out š#sorry yesterday i felt like i was dying so i couldnāt truly appreciate all the pictures n videos but today i CAN hear it callin š«”#wayv#.txt
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survived my 9 hour shift from hell and got a jinyoung pc in the mail ā¦ the lord may taketh away but also giveth !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#ngl peeps when i made that last text post i was truly down in the dumps ā¦ post lunch break no blood sugar no caffeine i felt like dying#al.txt
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Do you know what the absolute worst thing about Jem Will and Tessa is? They really only had a few months of all three of them being together in the grand scheme of things. They all lived long lives, Jem and Tessa especially, but they only really had all three of them as themselves together for a few scant months, and those months were fraught with danger and miscommunication. They were never able to love each other fully and openly as three full people together and that is the worst thing that has ever been taken from us I think.
#sure jem was around during will and tessas family life#but he wasnt fully himself#and he couldnt feel for them what they felt for him#and they grieved him because rhey DID lose him#they couldnt be loved him by like they wanted NEEDED#the way they loved him#they couldnt BE with him#and when jem comes back will is long gone#they can be happy together but theyre still missing a part of their hearts#like i just never realized that we never really had truly happy and together herongraystairs#those few months will was struggling with his curse to hurt tessa to protect her from how much he loved her and she was sure to love him#and jem was ill and dying the whole time#and of course they were in danger. the whole plotline was going on so there was no laying about and being happy together#ARGHHHH#tid reread#tsc#tid#herongraystairs#wessa#jessa#tessa gray#jem carstairs#will herondale#the infernal devices
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It may sound weird but I like how short yet impactful Riko's role is in the story.
Objectively, we only spent a very short time with her. So, did Gojo and Geto.
Riko only has barebones of a characterization with no proper arc to speak of.
We know she's only a fourteen year old orphan lovingly raised by her maid. She felt isolated by her specialness and had long convinced herself that she was okay to be assimilated into Tengen.
We know that she loved her friends. She loved Kuroi. She loved having fun at the beach - that one special carefree day at Okinawa stripped her of her own lies about being alright with dying.
We know she was a girl who chose to live at the last second before the end.
Those are the only things we know about her. Too little of a glimpse to truly know and judge her but they were no less meaningful.
Riko Amanai is a fourteen year old girl. She loves her sole family and friends. She wanted to live. That was all the reason Gojo and Geto needed to lay their own lives to protect her. No more. No less.
Riko Amanai was a fourteen year old girl in a story about sorcery. Her role is pitifully short and her background is at best murky. However, we understand, without question, that she deserved more - could have offered more. She wanted to live just as we wanted her to live. No more. No less.
#jujutsu kaisen#riko amanai#i just like what was been done here#the suddenness and pointlessness of her death just highlights her tragedy#i think the entire point of her dying so quickly (contrasting junpei who lasted longer not that it's better) was the unfairness of it#we feel upset how we didn't get to see more of her and i think that just shows how well done her role is#she is a young girl at the cusp of truly living#we wanted to see that and so do geto and gojo#but she was taken away - just like that#whatever we felt as the audience: shock-fury-sorrow-disappointment#those emotions must be exactly what geto and gojo felt just a million times worse#junpei's death was a drawn out merciless torture while amanai's was a quick senseless one#but both deaths just send the same message: it's unfair and cruel for children to die before they could even truly live#reasons and methods do not matter - robbing kids of the life and future they deserve will always be a tragedy
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i have a weird relationship with weight because i hated eating more than anything the moment i was ready for solids ( i hate chewing with my entire life always have & will ) which made me underweight for most of my life ( to this day ) & during late primary-middle school this made me actively suicidal because i felt like something was wrong with my sex because i just was not developing whatsoever prompting me to have a years long phase of trying to gain weight in any way i could ( #EPICFAIL by the way ) & i was already insecure but i felt seriously so unforgivably ugly after bullying not just at school but by adults of my entourage. but then i did in my late 15s which prompted the pendulum to swing in the other direction & suddenly i FREAKED OUT & thought well being skinny is pretty much all i have & know myself to be & clearly it is not going to last forever so i Better preserve it i was delusional about how skinny i thought i was actually i look stumpy & weird i have to prove myself. But now i am normal again kind of
#also i used to get beaten to finish my food nearly daily & it would take me forever to do that like literally hours with no exaggeration#just made me hate eating even more. now my technique is eating as fast as possible before i even realize how overwhelming#the sensory experience is & i can just be done with it VS the pain&dread of eating slowly -> disgust of Everything+hyperawareness#eating tightens my muscles like i hate it so fucking much catching the food putting it in my mouth CHEWING swallowing#what a damn chore#so i always liked cheese it was my āsafe foodā pretty much the only thing i liked#i even hated the foods autists usually like like fries & fried chicken meatballs ETC. HATED.#i was/am more of a soup & turning all my food into varieties of Slop kind of girl nothing hard for me please...#i experienced middle school during the like āÆThick era of the world which was honestly a good thing like for The Populace#but i felt like killing myself because i felt like an unforgivable fugly genetic failure & people did not hesitate to let me know#anyway either way i would be unhappy caus if i did gain weight during puberty i would have a meltdown about all the Changes#so i feel content for the time being about only losing the fat in my face & getting age appropriate wrinkles really#trying to enjoy the privilege of thinness while i have it because it will not last forever 0_0 but that should not matter anyway...#the privilege of thinness: being way uglier than others & constantly looking like a gibbon dying of disease + no energy or strength ever#JK people are much MUCH nicer to thin people & they do things for me on account of looking physically incapable so um yay i guess#light at the end of the tunnel that is very significant in the grand scheme of things socially. āÆCountingMyBlessings#also i was raised on āÆHAES tumblr from 2014-2018 i truly believed in that & was so damn envious i was not curvy & beautiful LOL#so i never hated overweight people really i think for the most part the SJW tumblr values stuck with me#but now i know it depends on your base frame & genetics & there is no guarantee to what you choose to do (naturally) acceptance is peace#sorry for the gigantic Arse post i just needed to get that off my chest for a long time. not on here specifically just in general#oh & i am a āÆGrignoteuse but grignoter (grazing) is different from eating in my mind&body#& my insecurity was not a result of wanting to fit in really but kind of in the sense that i wanted people to stop berating me for my looks#like body wise only & also not understanding why every other girl looked like a girl blossoming into a woman#& i looked like i was transitioning to Malnourished (unsexed) Ape made worse by bein GNC.& like the need for control later on & erthang ETC
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Me: I haven't had a period in over a year, I wonder what that could be
Mom and Sibling: Probably PCOS
Me: What's that?
Mom: Extra testosterone in your body, so your uterus thinks you don't need a period
Me: *whispers* Free HRT
#im not complaining about it. sometimes i forget im supposed to have a period#when i had it it was so painful i felt like i was dying ao truly im not sad it went away#occasionally i get concerned but then i remember that i hated my period and i live not having it#so if i die i die#i just liked that my first thought was 'free hrt'#can you imagine i was going to pay for that and inject it?#then a few years later my body decided to do it for free? no needle required??#im living the fucking dream
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would love to have a day i donāt wake up completely miserable
#between immediately going back into working back to back 12 hour shifts#and not really sleeping at night and going through vyvanse withdrawal iām truly the queen of misery right now#at least besides the fatigue and raspy voice i feel okay physically a few weeks ago i felt like i was actually dying so that is something
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i need someone to explain platonic love to me like im a robot
what does it feel like to love? what does it feel like to be loved?
#im dying inside because i dont know how to know if im loveless#so often i discover a new feeling that i thought id felt before and realized i hadnt#like hunger and what it feels like to truly miss someone#but what does love feel like?#is it just 'wow i like this thing/person A LOT' or is it something deeper?#loveless#love#aplatonic#aromantic#asexual#tagging those in hopes someone with an answer sees this
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Touya apologizing to Shoto? Touya-nii would never.
All jokes aside Iām running back to the Touya-nii universe after this ending because I amā¦ not a fan of it. š I thought I had prepared myself mentally for whatever Hori had in store but now that Iām seeing it for myself I just feel even more angry for Touya. It doesnāt feel like justice for him.
HAHAHA literally exactly what i said too, yes!!!!! heās shouting weaaaaak! at canon touya, and while his voice is strong and harsh and stone cold, his eyes are glazed with the thinnest layer of tearsāso thin you can only see them when the light catches on his eyes juuust right.
no i completely agree. i talked about it a little bit here but yeah, iām really upset with the way everything is being handled. it just feels so insanely disrespectful. i could write you a whole essay on how upset i am and why iām so upset but i am just so tired of talking about it LMAO ugh ._. well, at least we got shaggy-haired touya :( who looks exactly like my touya-nii does :( if nothing else, thatās one positive from this chapter!!
#i spent like#ALL of thursday just ranting to my friends about this chapter#i'm rly rly upset with how this is being handled#i wanted touya to die because i felt like it was the best ending to his story (so if he IS actually dying i'm happy abt that)#but hori's going about it in the worst way possible ://#like it's so disrespectful TO THE CHARACTER you know what i mean???#it feels like it spits in the face of everything touya's been through in his entire life#now he's literally fucking trapped#he can't move he can't get away he can't do ANYTHING but sit there as they talk at him#his autonomy has been completely robbed from him#they preserved him from the battlefield and are prolonging his inevitable death just so THEY can talk to him like#it's beyond selfish#ugh see look i'm going off#i told u i could write an essay LMAOOO#anyway ._. i'm sorry we're getting this ending#it's better than touya living or touya being reconstructed (truly my biggest fear) but yeah ._.#sending so much love your way sweetpea#this sucks!!!!#staple chan#clari gets mail
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I completely forgot what I was actually going to write, and I debated putting it on my personal blog, but I figured it's a drawing I put (some) effort into so it should probably go on the art blog. Either way, I realized a bit ago that I"ve actually drawn myself properly before.
I'm not going to go too much into details, but I'm finally going on t in two days (ish) if everything goes well after actively trying to achieve that for a couple of years at this point, and I wanted to actually try to draw myself for once before then. I've never really been able to draw myself in the first place for the longest time, mostly because of gender dysphoria etc. but also because I suck at drawing humans lmao
I tried to stay as accurate to my appearance as possible but it still ended up being a bit more cartoony than I'd like because I seriously need to practice drawing humans/poses, but the outfit and expression are fairly accurate
#I don't even know what to tag this at tbh it's a stylised version of me lmao#whdlshdwldjs#the last three weeks have all felt like that one 'elevator music but it keeps getting faster' video :skull:#if I don't yell about this to anyone I will implode#I carried my backpack like that all the time but then I got back problems so now I don't as often#it only truly hit me how much of a resting angry face I had until I had to stare at myself for several minutes for the referencing#I originally had my hair dyed partly green but the dye faded after a few weeks :pensive:#my art#?.??#4ce.txt
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will always have to begrudgingly remember (and hate the fact) that one must find joy in the small things in life, and live in the present
#rn itās playing animal crossing every day and watching bobās burgers every wednesday#i do have things to look forward to even if they seem far away (and often are)#at the end of april we have a caravan holiday#and yeah itās only barely march rn#but at least itās something#more recently tho iām planning on dying my hair blonde and going shopping#trying to become human again and come back to life so to speak#bc i havenāt felt very much like a person lately and iām trying my hardest to get back to normal#but if i relapse iāll just have to work through it#truly iāve been redoing my course in mental health 101 and regressing quite a bit#but itās fine#iām working through it#idk iām like dipping in and out of here rn#but anyone is free to come hang out by way of asks or you can folllow my insta or whatever you want#i think maybe i need also retake a course in friendship#bc i havenāt been a very good friend lately and those people know who they are#but i love all my friends dearly <3#and anyone is always welcome to come make friends with me#i love chatting to people so come say hi!#and i wanna rekindle things with the friends i already have#rn iām just a lil car going down a road very very slowly and i need to be careful about things#itās such an obvious thing: youāre a human being with only one body and mind and you have to take care of it#but sometimes that can be hard#and thatās okay#anyways please donāt be shy about talking to me i donāt bite! iām just relearning how to be a person and that includes talking to ppl#but iād still love to talk to you!#anyways catch you on the flipside i guess (or whenever i happen to be active on here imao)#gwen rambles#gwenposting
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Posts about bpd need to stop being so damn relatable to me š¤Ø
#listen im not saying i must have bpd cuz of a bunch of relatable tumblr posts dont clutch your pearls on me#but hm im starting to get suspicious ajsjk#just been spending these past few months really digging into my deeply repressed memories and emotions and i keep discovering more and more#fucked up shit lol like first its being forced to acknowledge that i have a bit more than some āminor traumaā#and that ive actually just been like horribly abused like. my entire life and still am š#then it was like really trying to think about myself and what ive done to cope with abuse and like ive constructed an entire person#to just live as whenever im in the abusive situations and when i was removed from the situation for the first time ever#i had like a huge crash a huge crisis i both functioned way better than everyone said i would like suspiciously better#but also way worse at the same time#i could handle all the responsibilities of living alone i never once felt scared or homesick i was clean i was efficient i used money wisely#but i also felt like i was dying and i couldnt function when my persona dropped#cuz i didnt need to be that person anymore i could finally be me but then like. who even is me ive never gotten to find out#i dont know basic ways to behave i still have no clue how to exist or what i truly want vs what i pretended to want#its all completely muddled and its hard to explain that i cant tell whats genuine with me and whats fake#cuz ive been forced to live the fake shit my entire life you know? ive had to and i had to accept it#ive never gotten to make any of my own actual decisions and at the same time i have to decide everything for everyone else#im the parent of my parents but never was the child and the child is still there asking for attention but no one is there#then you know i had to return to the abuse and so its like i did get to taste freedom but not for long and i spent all my time in that#crisis mode so it wasnt exactly a fun filled time but being back here is much worse than before cuz now i know whats happening#and how i have to perform and its like how do i discover anything about myself in this kinda environment and no one understands the turmoil#the reason why something simple like wearing different shoes is so impossible for me#its just a horrible environment to be in i am in hell constantly ive no clue whats happening and im very obsessive over everything#aaaaghhhhhhh help girl help lol
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spent most of today laying on the porch in the sun while trying to identify birds. and i think that was a good choice
#my week has been so so much#truly my heart might explode if Things keep Happening#at least i managed to successfully set boundaries yesterday even tho i felt like i was dying#do NOT get in a situationship w someone more than decade older than you (DONT FUCKING WORRY ABOUT IT)#<- maybe that was too much abt my life lately however i think itās funny#also has NOTHING to do w me answering āopen relationship of sortsā on the tag game. btw. as in.. thats Not who i was talking abt LMAO#ANYWAY who wants to hear abt the birds i saw and heard today :3#š
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