#and i dont want to argue/debate about it

[lavenderjiang]

there's a vision related kaeya theory going around (mainly on tiktok) that i don't disagree with, but that like 90% of the people talking about are misinterpreting/representing just enough that they become wrong and its painful, cos like theyre almost understanding what the meaning of the change was, but are then going in totally the wrong direction with it for the sake of angst...

[doloneia]

hector “you can speak better than that polydamas the only true bird is patriotism” of troy and teucer “i heard of a stupid loser and he looked exactly like you and yknow what youre the same guy do i need to be more obvious” son of telamon are my favorite cousins of all time like wow zingers really do run in the family dont they

[cheriboms]

doctober day 23: nostalgia

fact: doc has a saxophone in his garage in both 1955 and 1985, with seemingly no ties to his scientific pursuits. hypothesis: theres some sentimental reason, maybe he played (plays?) it as a hobby since and/or prior to 1955...? conclusion: they def had at least one jam session

[[ proof of my claims >:0 ]]

[finedinereception]

the ethical implications of netnavis never fail to flatten me. like hi yes heres my new ai. its capable of thinking and feelings and forming emotional connections and falling in love and basically is just a digital human. you own them. also you can make them beat each other up for fun. they feel pain btw.

[lunas-treehouse]

If you are a person who shits on classic disney princesses read this

you are embarrassing yourself. most the shit youve said isnt true.

cinderella wasnt "waiting for a man" she was raised in an abusive household by a step mother who veiwed her as less and made her act as a maid.

aurora being asleep most her movie isnt her fault. she was cursed.

snow white was an abused girl who was happy to be with the dwarves and even happier to get her prince i dont know why thats considered terrible. wouldnt you be overjoyed if someone took you to live in a whole ass castle???

ariel was a curious girl who loved to learn about humans. she was as much as an anthropologist as she could be in her situation. and her dad literally DESTROYED all her special possessions in front of her only for ursula to use her distress to manipulate her. she wanted to be human- getting derek was a bonus.

you dont shit on anna for ending up with kristoff in the end do you? you dont shit on belle for loving the beast [unless its that stockholme syndrome debate]. i dont see you guys talking about real disney princess issues like pochahontus in general or the fact tiana was a frog most of her movie adding to the trend of poc being animals in disney movies.

and a lot of you just love the villains- proclaiming theyre better than the protagonists and theyre innicent.

ursula manipulated a vulnerable teenage girl and then tried to kill her and derek along with many others who were on that ship.

malefacent cursed a fuckin baby.

hades was creepy as hell to meg and literally owned her.

jafars a fucking creep who perved on a 16 year old girl.

like- you can totally enjoy them as villains its why disney villains are looked to as this like expectations for villains almost, but dont act like theyre good people or theyre better than the protagonist they hurt. especially when youre JUST mocking the princesses- that shit reeks of victim blaming and mysoginy.

grow up. being kind and persevering like the disney princesses do will always be better than treating people like shit like the disney villains do.

[angelkittycore]

maybe forming an entire pride movement behind self diagnosing and highly controversial disorders that can land people in prison or on the sex offender registry is where society started to go wrong.

[mcybree]

man I wanna get in fh related fandom discourse but in like a quiet way where we all go around and directly share notes with one another. maybe a power point presentation is involved

[wall-eye]

grown man coworker keeps talking about how homework shouldnt exist and "they have me for 8 hours, and they didnt manage to teach me? they failed" which like. first off you told me you failed math three times cause you couldnt understand negatives. second off, in highschool you have 7 classes. and a lunch. and passing periods. teachers have less than an hour with you. if youre resistant to learning from them in the first place, an hour isnt going to do shit for you. i dont like homework as a concept either but you are not in school anymore and your arguement for it is flawed anyway

[autisticlee]

the whole "you shouldn't identify as X, don't form an identity when you can't/don't know yet, you're too young, what if/you might change your mind!" etc etc. it's so silly when you think about it. what's wrong with changing your mind anyway? why did we all decide that gender/sexuality identity has to be static and can never change? why did we decide that it's a bad thing to change? because the old generation tells us change is bad? because they (mostly conservatives) want to conserve "the good old days/the way things are supposed to be" in their minds???

WHO CARES if someone says they're gay then realizes 5 years later they're bi. WHO CARES if someone says they're a girl and realizes after trying it out they're not. let people explore who they are until they figure it out even if they go through every lable available to them! maybe none fit and they make up their own! who cares! who cares if they change it every year for the rest of their lives! humans change. that's the only constant about us! why is it a bad thing, even taboo, to accept change and exploration within sexuality and gender specifically?

there's always so much shame that comes with someone realizing they were wrong, changing as a person, or discovering something new about themselves. i've seen people afraid to explore themselves more or afraid to talk about a change in identity, for fear of the queer community pushing back on them the same way they're afraid to come out to the cishets in their life who are trans/homophobic. that's just not fair that their own community can become hostile towards them, too. being in a closet within a bigger closet essentially. everyone is always told to figure it all out first before claiming an identity, because then you're locked in it for life, apparently. you can't change your mind after that. why though? what's the point of that really? why can't we embrace fluidity a bit more? why can't we accept that humans do change all the time? why is making and trying to prove that these identities are static/unchanging/innate the only way to validate them? why can't they just, I don't know, BE VALID. without reason. why must we jump through hoops to be valid when we should just automatically be valid because we are human. stop letting the cishets gatekeep everything, leading to us gatekeeping each other!

I am sometimes very hesitant to talk about my own identity. I identified as a gay/biromantic trans guy for like idk 8-10 years? transitioned and everything. then like a year or two ago, I realized/decided that doesn't fit right anymore. now i'm a nonbinary, but also kinda fluid, aroace person. sometimes I don't like to talk about that because of the stigma behind changing your gender/sexuality identities. but you know what. i'll talk about it anyway and people have to learn to accept it.

what were the consequences and bad parts about changing my mind/identity like that? none. absolutely none. (outside of people being weird about it for no reason) but the benefits are feeling more comfortable with myself, and that's no one else's business.

[angels-wisteria]

I’m going off tumblr for a bit, there’s a lot of tension and drama. I’m not being apart of that, see you guys in a bit

[arsenicflame]

hi i'm really interested in space lesbians! where are they, who are they? how can i see them? (shows, games, books?) also what are you most excited about in s2 of ofmd?

OH BOY OH BOY OH BOY

soooooo my space lesbian enthusiasm refers to 3 separate medias!! (it used to say gay space vikings bc that was an even more specific niche buuuut im way more into tihylttw these days s o) one day i am going to make a fuckin venn diagram of my girls because they all have so many similarities. (loki/sigyn and angela/sera are basically the same characters change my mind.)

this is about to get real long bc im unhinged about them <3 10/10 would talk about them all day if the communities were there

our first space lesbians are loki + sigyn from the bifrost incident! TBI is an album by the band the mechanisms which you can find wherever you listen to music (youtube here) its a norse mythology inspired rock/steampunk-esque album and it is SO GOOD- it takes place on a train in SPACE in the format of an incident investigation. its a story so you have to listen to the tracks in order :)

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next up! this is how you lose the time war- our lesbians in this are called red + blue because we have deconstructed this trope to its most basic format at this point :') its a short book, and you may be familiar with it as it went viral from a trigun fan tweet a few months back. (my url (and sewing blog url) are actually references to a quote from this book!) you can get it wherever you get books and id recc the audiobook if youre into that i am also in possession of the pdf if you wantto try before you buy.

tihylttw is a story told through the exchange of letters between two agents on opposite sides of a war- it usually gets described as enemies to lovers but id personally use rivals as i think it describes them better. the book is known for being incredibly poetic and sometimes pretentious in its writing and i just think its the most beautiful thing ever. lesbians do it better

honestly theres nothing i could say for tihylttw better than it could say for itself, i just adore the universe theyve built and i want to KNOW MORE. i love you and i love you and i want to find out what that means together

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saving the best for last is my girls angela + sera. the most of all time. nobody compares to them for me. they consume me

angela + sera are from marvel comics and you can find my complete reading list here, but if im talking about them positively, im usually talking about one of the titular Angela comics, and more often than not queen of hel.

honestly i love the angela comics so much that im making myself speechless trying to figure out where to start. Angela falls into the asgard side of marvel comics, though she is a lot more fluid in her affiliations, her whole thing being that she deals in deals- nothing for nothing everything has its price. she is at times described as emotionless and is generally quite a stoic character, especially around strangers. the major exception to this is her wife, sera. seras one of marvels few canon trans characters and i think she is just so wonderfully written. shes witty and cheeky and doesnt take shit from anyone, even when it gets her into trouble- and oh boy does sera find herself in some predicaments! the angela comics are often just as poetic as tihylttw for me, theyll drop an 'as long as you are with me, i am not afraid' and ill need to go smother myself in a pillow for a sec. in QOH they adopt a daughter who is Also a lesbian, shes an alternate version of leah of hel and i ALSO adore her.

im desperately trying to avoid plot points but god. the main arc is 21 issues of smooching Shakespearean space angels what more could you want?

(through sera & angela we get a lot of heven lore and honestly that could be its whole own thing for me im SO fascinated.)

my girls are currently in comic hell, i am praying they will get something good soon 🙏🙏

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and what am i most excited about for season 2? can i just say izzy? can i just say anne + mary? dude im so ready for some lesbians you have no idea actually you probably have a very good idea if you made it this far down. im incredibly excited to be seeing izzy get a favourable arc this season, im really hoping to see him develop relationships with everyone else, see him grapple with feelings around ed (actually im really hoping he chooses not to forgive ed. for growth) im excited to see whats gonna go down with his leg, im excited to see wtf is going on w ed + stede because i have no idea what the continuity is at the moment, im just excited!!!!!! i honestly dont think theres anything im not excited about everything looks so good so far

[yuri-for-businesswomen]

with total respect i think you are missing the point of the cheerleading critiques. i don’t totally agree with OP of that post, especially regarding self esteem, but the social/emotional/physical benefits of cheerleading for the girls that take part are patently not the same as other sports like hockey or soccer where the emphasis is sport-first, not appearance first, and the original purpose is not cheering on boys and men. cheerleading IS highly sexualized, and to me is little better than beauty pageants in terms of priming girls to be pretty display objects and sideshows, leading to pretty major body image concerns. the self esteem gained from it is similar imo to self esteem from being great at makeup. of course there is skill and dedication involved, but that doesn’t mean we have to pretend it’s positive for girls and women overall or that we can’t be strongly critical of it. i’m surprised at how strongly you feel the need to defend it.

you are not criticising the sexualised aspect of it, you are questioning the overall sport and now you say it cant be positive for women and its all about looks and „little better than beauty pageants“. how is that not insulting to actual athletes? and i think body issues are also found in other sports such as ballet.

people who argue like you are the ones who reduce cheerleading to its looks and completely dismiss the athleticism of it which you do right now by saying being proud of being a good cheerleader is the same as being proud of being good with makeup.

have you ever stood on or held up a pyramid with two levels and 15 people in it? some of these girls and women have circus level acrobacy levels. do you say the same things about background dancers?

and i said it seems misogynistic because you are completely devaluing this whole female dominated sport because you dont like the costumes and how some of it is practiced.

constructive criticism would have been something like, i think they should get less revealing uniforms, quit the makeup and focus on competitions instead of the cheering element. but thats not what any of you did. the first post i reacted to proposed all women in cheerleading lack self esteem and called cheerleading „dystopian“. thats a judgement

[wierdfanficwriter]

I’m not even an academic but this is weirdly relatable

people who don't know anything about academics: man y'all are stuffy and boring what's up with that? actual academics: *too busy fist-fighting each other over the beryllium problem or the existence of a dentistry profession in ancient egypt to reply*

[snekdood]

theres lots of things i could do but being a political commentator or debate guy isnt it sdjsdvhjf

[im-a-goat-in-disguise]

if it's more Christian than right wing (and you havent revealed yourself to be otherwise) you mayyy gain some more traction by finding the basis for some of your socialism within The Beatitudes. just a suggestion!

It's equivalent parts Christian to Conservative. Generally speaking, I grind against them on both political and religious issues, but use their stance on whichever I'm not talking about to support what I am talking about, generally resulting in catch-22s for them.

[thebrokenvibes]

I never said you used only She/Her for Gerard Way? I don't even think my reblog even brings up she/her pronouns at all. Or at least that's not how I thought it reads written down. So I'm sorry if the context there got lost through text, or if the way I worded it implied anything directed towards you. Unless you're talking about someone else and using my reblog to refer to them?

I was just providing context related to the tweet you used. As like I said, I feel like it's important context to bring up a direct statement of pronoun preference. And like I said I didn't have the order or what was said in-between. So thank you for the further context, it's appreciated to know the order in which they were made.

Now to make note for a statement you made above, the full set of four doesn't say Gerard doesn't want people to use she/her. In fact she/her isn't even brought up anywhere in that 4 tweet grouping. Just that they "have always preferred he/they" and that people can use whatever.

Which, like I originally said, usually means they prefer he/they. I didn't say someone saying the prefer he/they means they exclusively use that set. (I'm also not trying to be mean or undermine anyone's statement I just want how I, personally, saw that statement to be understood.)

(not directed at le-freaknasty) I also want to clarify for anyone else reading this, usually doesn't mean every single one nor does it mean always. Hence why I didn't say someone saying "I prefer he/they" always means they use only he/they.

I also am unsure where the last part of your statement comes from in regards to my statement, I never directly stated anything about gender identity. Only pronouns, which aren't indicative of what someone identifies as, and only are indicative of what someone wants to be referred to with. Unless the other tweet you linked mentions pronouns as well, which I can't see because, again, I don't use Twitter and thus don't have access to it(it prompts me to log in to view whatever tweet is linked). Or I suppose, you could also be speaking to others in that last part and not me, which is also possible.

In any case, sorry about the confusion. I just wanted to clarify why I said what I did, and give you a genuine response to what you said.

I am bad at callout posts because generally they suck but seriously can we stop using she/her for Gerard and acting like they’re a trans woman when he’s not. What the fuck happened to boys can wear skirts and makeup because it’s all just clothes and makeup without gender. Gerard’s stated pronouns are he/they and that is that. That’s all you need to know and it’s high time yall started actually respecting his pronouns.

[please reblog this one]