#and i cant use it when its plugged in bc its so sensitive

[hunnicute]

i really love my tablet i wished it worked reliably :/

[ganondoodle]

serious question, are there ANY (wired) headsets made today anymore that have seperated plugs for audio and microphone??

usb ones always cause trouble and the only other ones i can find are those with combined audio+mic into one plug, which i dont have the ports on my PC for.............

i tried looking through adapters but the only ones i can find are those that combine seperate ones, id need the reverse (if thats even possible)

(visualization bc i feel like i am losing my sanity trying to explain what i mean, am i stupid? did i halluzinate the two jack/plug thing???? do only cheap garbage ones have this??? is that one of the gaming chair things??? like oh you want a GAMING headset- that means either combined or usb haHA???)

[destinyc1020]

having been on twitter myself and very recently left it, i would for sure agree that there's more timmy fans who come for tom, it escalated like mad over the past couple years. of course there's good timmy stans because i am friends with some of them, but it's so so strange how i think that among their fandom some have really made dunking on tom normal and acceptable. the proof of this can be seen when there's a hate tweet for tom made by a timmy stan, there are lots of likes on it from people within the timmy fandom. but on the flip side, when there's a rare tom fan hating on timmy, the tweet has less likes and more quote retweets calling them out or arguing in the comments. at least for toms fandom that seems to signal a less toxic fandom, i get the sense that most of the stans don't really care about the drama and just want to keep on vibing. i don't know what it is that those types of people who get so mean are big fans of timmy, it's certainly not a reflection on him since he's never encouraged that behavior. you're right destiny when you say he'd cringe if he knew what some of his fans say.

i don't know why timmy's fandom is like that, they shouldn't really be feeing insecure, but there's just a sect of his fans that really delight n dragging others down. it's really weird to me, i'm not sure if more of them are younger or cliqueish and that leads to the behavior or what. i'm glad that there's a really open discussion on this page about it bc it's one of the reasons i left twitter i was so done with the constant negativity on tom and also z from the normie dudebro side of twitter. there's a really nice supportive community on there for tz stans, but unfortunately it's just not the greatest for someone sensitive like me. something i've noticed, though, it is hard to stay away from twitter now!! i feel like i got so used to checking it that i almost have an 'itch' now that i'm off my account and deleted the app off my phone. i don't really want to call it an addiction but it feels pretty similar to it, i think the sense i'm getting from a lot of your anons is that people upset by twitter have got to step away from it. if you feel a compulsion to check it like i did, that's a big red flag that it would be a good idea to step away. another thing im glad of is tom speaking up about taking social media breaks. i truly cant imagine what it would be like to read such negative things about yourself or a loved one, so im glad he has the self awareness to step away. this is the longest anon message i've ever written but i love the thoughts you have on this kind of thing destiny, its good to see some honest talk about how fandoms can effect us. fandoms should be for fun so if yall arent having fun for sure reassess!

Thanks for your input Anon 😊

I honestly don't know much about Timmy's fandom tbh, so I can't really speak much on it, but just based on what some of you have said, it just seems to be a huge sense of insecurity on their end? 🤷🏾‍♀️

I mean, if you're solidly sure of your fave, and you think he's the best (or whatever), you won't feel the need to bring down OTHER actors. I keep saying this.

The fact that SOME (notice I said some) of his fans seem to need to put down Tom all the time just gives me the impression that they must view Tom as some kind of a threat. If they didn't, they wouldn't be behaving that way imo.🤷🏾‍♀️

That's my psychoanalysis for the day lol.

Re: Twitter...

Yea, if you're finding it difficult to quit ANYTHING, then technically it is an addiction.... whether you realize it or not. 👀 If you feel anxious or uneasy when you leave social media or delete the app after a few days, then yea, you're addicted lol 😆

You should be able to leave social media alone and feel completely FINE, and not feel like you're "missing out" on anything. You really should be able to live your life without being "plugged in" all the time. 👀

Jmho 🤷🏾‍♀️

I most definitely urge fans to just delete the app and take at least a week off and see how you feel! 🙏🏾 The great thing about this is that the longer you stay away from smthg, the less and less you will feel the urge to be on it.

[harryfeatgaga]

hormzy anon😈

mayhaps its not necessarily after a show of h’s but maybe after the brits per se and you wore this stunning piece and your body just looks so good that stormzy j cant stop staring thinking how lucky harry is and harry runs into him and says “i see you looking at my wife. shes stunning isnt she” and stormzy is like lowkey nervous bc everyone knows how jealous harry can get so he just says “yeah youre a lucky man” and harry j has the devilish smirk and he responds “consider yourself the lucky one because i might just be interested in sharing her” and at this point both men are starting to get hard at the thought of you completely at their mercy but stormzy is still hesitant bc he doesn’t wanna overstep so he j responds “are you sure mate?” and harry nods w “between us, she’s already soaked at the thought of it” so its settled and he comes back to your house w you and harry tells you to strip then sit on the bed and you do bc youre his good girl and you cant even imagine the punishment if you misbehave so harry takes stormzy to your walk in closet and opens the drawer dedicated to your sex toys and tells him to pick and stormzys all “kinky huh?” and harry j smirks and says “you have no idea” so they come out w a spreader bar and handcuffs and you’re sitting on the edge of the bed completely naked and both men groan bc holy shit and harrys kissing you while stormzy watches and you notice him palming himself through his jeans so you beckon for him to come closer and you kiss him to and then harry decides to wamr you up so they both take turns eating you out and then uses the wetness dripping down your thighs to lube the princess plug and stick it in your ass and its a bigger one so j moan while your pussy clenches around stormzys tongue and harry j watches as stormzy finishes you off and fuck that man devours every last drop and he gets up and j kinda wipes his chin before standing next to harry who says “tastes good doesnt she?” “like fucking honey” and they cuff your hands and spread your legs on the bar and harry goes back in the closet and grabs a bunny vibrator and he turns it onto the highest setting and j leaves it in you and doesnt turn it off until you come again and then they take off the spreader and leave the handcuffs and stormzy lays on his back on the bed while harry comes behind you and slips the plug out and brings his cock to your folds and youre whining bc you’re starting to get a tas sensitive and once youve made harrys cock nice and wet he sticks the tip in your ass while stormzy sticks the tip of his cock in your pussy and you gasp as they bottom out and harry asks how it feels and you j respond w how good and full you feel and then they start to thrust in and out of you and god all you can do is moan out incoherent sentences like “so good” “so big, so so big”and theyre both praising you and degrading you like harry will say “such a good girl taking our cocks so well” but then say “such a fucking cockslut huh? just a toy for hs to get our dicks wet” and stormzy will do the same to like “such a good pussy, so fucking tight and wet. god harry can’t believe you kept her from me” hut the. agree w harry saying “just a whore for us. bet you like being choked too.” and then when you just moan even louder stormzy looks to harry for permission before tightening his hand around your throat and youre coming instantly but neither if them stop and theyre fucking you into another orgasm; choking you, taking your nipples in their mouth, ppinching them too and oh god you’re so fucking close and its so kuch but it feels so good and before you know it youre squirting all over them and you feel like youre fucking floating and the feeling of you coming around their cocks not once but twice has them both coming inside you and harry pulls out with stormzy and they lay you on the bed standing over you and harry j says “look how we drip out of her.” “fucking filthy”

OH MY GOD;L,FMNHYU3IEFHRUF HOLY MOTHERFG OGF GOD HELLOOHEBGFHUVI IM CLUTHING MY FAKE TARGET HARRY KNOCK OFF PEARLS HOLY SHITGNBHURIFKVL

[corvidshipping]

cliff texting hcs even though i should be in BED cause i have an 8 hour shift tomorrow

he did not have a phone for the longest time. remember the last time he was really in society was like, the late 80s, when the only phones around were the kind that plugged into your wall or cost a quarter to use, hes not exactly used to the thought of carrying that around with him, let alone a phone combined with a calculator, music player, computer, camera... hes kind of grandpa about it lmfao

he finally got a phone after vic got after him for never being able to contact him when he needed him and always having to call jane or larry to get to cliff, but it was like... a dinky little old-style razr.

he broke it almost immediately (it was a genuine accident. the phone was tiny and it has little keys and he has large, difficult to control robot hands)

he refused to get a phone again for a while after that (”if you really need to get in touch that bad you can call the house. not like i get out much anyway”)

larry said he should try getting a smartphone since those are bigger and easier to use, but yknow uh, robot hands make it kind of hard to use a touchscreen meant for humans

something something joke about nokias being indestructible and maybe thats what he needs if hes gonna destroy phones

i want to bee leaf that he finally gets a new one partially bc of possum. not entirely but i mean... ghost gf who depending on their mood may not be able to speak, may not be visible. sure, they use the whiteboard he got them, but... isnt it a bit more convenient (and tropey) to get a text from your ghost gf who lives in the attic?

(haha, spirit phone joke)

also, there is something to be said about technology (and animals!) being canonically just a little more sensitive to sensing possum than most humans (for example, because his eyes are basically cameras wired to his brain rather than human eyes, cliff can see possum’s physical form a little longer than most humans when they de-corporealize). so when theyre having trouble speaking, theres a chance that the phone might be better able to pick up on their voice than someones ears (i mean, hes got robot ears but... listen man)

also, this means they could use the touchscreen of the phone potentially even when theyre not corporeal enough to be able to lift a dry-erase pen

so anyway, back on topic. he finally gets a new phone because vic wont stop asking him about it and it makes things just a tad easier for the ghost in the house thats unreasonably attached to him. its a slightly outdated android, definitely not the newest model but still functional and can run modern software well. vic VERY pointedly gets him an extremely durable case, maybe something developed at STAR even. who knows

larry got him a stylus bc he is the only one who remembered that, yknow, robot fingers, touchscreen. larry probably has issues with touchscreens too given the bandages. it was very sweet of him

he is. SO bad at texting. just in general

either responds in 2 seconds or 2 days no in between. definitely at least partially hinges on how much he likes you

really cares about having peoples contact photos for some reason?

(i think hes afraid of not having enough photos of people if he loses them again 🥺)

despite the stylus, his texts still L.       ook l ik E thIs. even autocorrect cant help him now

its getting better over time, though

speaking of autocorrect, definitely gets irrationally mad at it. the amount of times rita has had to talk him out of smashing his phone...

lockscreen is definitely an old photo of him and clara he found in chiefs files :(

do NOT tell this man about the emoji keyboard, he will overuse the SHIT out of them and wont know what half of them mean

(he just misses being able to make facial expressions a lot, okay?)

his message history with jane is definitely like this:

homegirl just does not respond to his texts, ever. its ok though he literally leaves vic on read ALL. THE. TIME just to piss him off

his phone ringtone is LOUD AS FUCK cause he cant leave it on vibrate bc he literally cannot feel the vibrations

bonus self indulgent hc: literally responds to possums texts in like 5 seconds flat. answers on the second ring every time she calls, no matter where he is or what hes doing. has possibly even picked up the phone for them in the middle of a fight.

[1eos]

@younghosyunghoe

aquarius sun nd gemini moon............that’s too much air right off the bat wtf. nd then the aqua mercury.....johnny just be saying shit. like he hasn’t had a coherent thought since he was born nd he prolly be lying just bc. gemini moons lie not out of malice or anything its just that they have 199393939 ppl living inside of them nd can’t none of those ppl keep their stories straight. u ask johnny his favorite anything nd it changes everyday. his best friend in nct probably changes every 2 minutes. nd then to have all these placements that cnt commit. aquarius men would rather die than commit to literally anything, gemini moons cant even commit on an emotion but then he has a capricorn venus that are ALL ABT COMMITMENT. the contradictions..... johnny’s like yes i will cheat on you no i won’t but i will but i won’t but we’re gonna be together forever but not really but yes really. nd the leo mars...........no wonder he get mad when doyoung play w him too much!!!!! very sensitive ego. doyoung playfully says johnny was off beat during a performance nd johnny will remember it for 3 weeks nd demand an apology every other day.  smhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. 

ABSOLUTELY NO WATER AFKAJFFJKAKJFAKJFKKFAJ. AIR DOM W NO WATER? if he is not happy, hungry, or mad he has no idea what he is feeling istg. literally his only saving grace is that cap venus. like that one earth personal placement is keeping him from being the biggest flirty thot on the planet. johnny would flirt w fans nd get 4999 phone numbers but since cap venuses r picky he would only text 2 of them nd then drop them  later bc all aquarius men say that corny shit like ‘i dont like small talk let’s talk abt the state of the world’ 🗣SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!🗣 also one of his dominant planets is jupiter which is the planet of being big as hell which is funny considering how huge he is falkaklfalfka

not uranus being the second most dominant planet............certified weirdo. if u have a lot of aqua/uranus in ur chart ure just weird for the sake of being weird. johnny is a certified clown. like he’s literally that weird ass, loud ass uncle that u let hang w ur kids for a while but u cant trust him to discipline ur kids or anything. that gemini moon nd cap venus tho 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭 good luck w that. ugh i wish i knew his birth time bc when i plugged in his info using just the default 12 noon he could have a GEMINI RISING which i could sooooooo see but his moon would be in 12th house nd 👁👁 that is such a crazy placement bc that means he really would have no idea  what his emotions r doing but he would also be emotional 24/7 but also would try nd hide it. so bc of that he would try nd ignore his own emotions by taking care of everyone else. like imagine the insanity of a detached aqua sun w an emotional ass moon in 12th........... L. 

[autisticstarseed]

👐 Hand washing guide when you have sensory issues 👐

tbh. we shouldve been talking abt this a long time ago for many disabled ppls sake but ive put this post off for like a million years out of pure solidified fear of ableist harassment/kneejerk ignorance and also generalized cringe idiots but now that we got so much covid-19 fear and autistic ppl actually tend to have weaker immune systems than most people lets jump the shark;;;

i have autism and i physically struggle with washing my hands as often as i want to, having wet hands, drying them, the temperature difference, bad soap smells/textures, etc. are all genuinely painful. the good news is that ive dealt with water aversion shit since birth (its a common sensory issue), so ive had time to figure out alternatives and coping skills that still help reduce risk of disease and spreading it in ways that i can personally manage. (ie. not lazy or selfish or gross. genuinely putting more effort into this every day task than most other people would even think about. just disability lads) so heres the guide i have to offer if you’re in a similar boat, with some keypoints about hand hygiene and tips addressing the most common sensory struggles ive noticed with it;;;

1. hand sanitizer

i love hand sanitizer, i can get it in almost any scent i want and it dries down very very fast. the problem is; hand washing and hand sanitizer do different things. it only kills certain types of germs. which is all fine and dandy, but because of this, using only hand sanitizer wont actually keep you from catching or spreading many illnesses. so what its good for is times you cant wash your hands (out in public, sensory overload, no spoons, etc), thats fine, but it should not replace all hand washing if at all possible. it is supposedly effective to covid-19, but so little is currently known that it should not be considered your go to for this, and the only unanimous statement straight from the CDC is that hand washing works best at preventing its spread.

temperature - if you have trouble with it being too cold, conveniently keeping it in your pocket or closely against your body in some way warms it up and makes it much more comfortable. 

scent - they come in almost any scent you can imagine, but if you have trouble with strong scents, there are ‘scentless hand sanitizers’. they usually have a faint chemical smell, so if there are any testers available, you should check to make sure it can work for you before you buy it.

texture - if gel doesnt cut it, they also make foamy hand sanitizers and liquid sprays, but theyre harder to find and might be a little more pricey.

and remember; always buy hand sanitizer that says it contains AT LEAST 60% alcohol, the higher alcohol content the better, but try to keep track of how high it is and how much you apply it so you dont dry your skin out. and right now price gouging is pretty bad, so dont be surprised if you cant find any for a while, and dont buy any small bottle that costs over a couple dollars, its a rip off.

2. hand washing 

so what does hand washing do thats better than sanitizer??? soap and water lift up the dirt and oils that are carrying the germs and actually wash them off, and not only that, it also gets rid of all the things sanitizer cant, such as dust/dirt, spores, chemicals, and the previously mentioned viruses that are harder to kill. ik to an outside perspective it might not seem that hard, but obviously when you have autism and these tasks are split down into bigger ordeals and sensory nightmares, it can feel impossible. 

soap - there are so many different kinds of soap! scentless soaps exist, and they very rarely have any lingering chemical smell! theres also soap for sensitive skin, and baby soap also works well for that issue. bar soaps can come in all different shapes and sizes, with many different ingredients and additives to choose from (independent soap makers are an amazing source for customized soap btw), and liquid soaps can be pure gel, frothy, mousse-y or even have tiny exfoliating or moisturizing beads in them if thats a sensory experience you enjoy. this is my number one rec for people struggling with hand washing bc of sensory issues;;; mix up the soap. finding one that gives you an okay or even a GOOD sensory experience can completely turn around an otherwise meltdown inducing task

temperature - this is the one thats always been hardest for me. cold water straight up hurts me, and our plumbing is Terrible, so the trick i have for slow pipes is to run the hot water on high as Soon as i get into the bathroom. leave it going and by the time you’re done there should be at least lukewarm water. if this still takes too long for you, try out the various sinks in your house, usually one is able to get hot water faster than the rest (for me its the kitchen sink) and that can become a designated station for you if need be.

texture - some ppl just hate water. if thats the case, it rly doesnt change much abt the process if you use less water, ie work the soap into a lather, and then only use as much as you need to rinse it off. you dont have to keep your hands under the whole time, the soap clings to the dirt, the water takes it off all together, as long as you scrub well and rinse till you see no suds, you’re good 

If it really comes down to it, a washcloth with water+soap, a disinfecting wipe, or even literally just a rinse with plain ol water is better than nothing, but the stream of water and act of rubbing the soap in is the most effective combo against disease. soap/disinfectant wipes and hand sanitizers are your second best option. if theres a time in your life where an issue is so disabling for you that you truly cant keep any of this up, rly the most important thing is to limit your direct physical contact with your face and commonly used objects as MUCH as possible until you can figure smth out. (you kno those old ladies that grab a wipe and open the doorknob with it between their hand and the knob? become that old lady) and if push comes to shove, if a safe and accepting therapy setting is something accessible to you, hygiene struggles are actually something many mental health professionals understand Very well and can help you cope with personally and directly, without shame.

3. hand drying

this is also. my personal hell. and what most people say is the hardest part of the sensory experience. but ya cant just walk around with wet hands right

towels - the obvious choice for most, but to me they actually dont dry enough. i always end up damp and with lint stuck to me. this kills the man. but hand towels do have some variety to them, you can find em with really long fibers or really short/flat, really fuzzy or really stiff, etc. sounds silly but its smth a lot of ppl dont think about that can change a lot. you can also try super absorbent towels (yes like a shamwow), and again baby bath towels are also an option if you want something gentle.

paper towels - yeah a little more wasteful and expensive, but imo much more absorbent. theyre also pretty thin so you can get between your fingers (MY BANE), and under your nails if you use a corner. 10/10

blow drying - ik this is the kind of shit you only see in like movie theaters and malls and they are definitely LOUD AS SHIT, but if you happen to have the money, and struggle more with Textures than Noise, ie a stream of warm air seems worth the sound, you Can actually find a small basic one of these items for your own home. 

4. public restrooms

everybody hates em!!! but you can make em more tolerable;;;

soap - bring your own! little travel soaps you can keep in your bag are a godsend for ppl with sensory issues, sensitive skin/allergies, and if you just prefer not sharing soap.

temperature - most public places i notice actually do get hot water pretty fast (like,,, too fast,,, like,,, it bur ns me) so if there are no faucets and its too hot or too cold, once again you can try different sinks and one might be more comfortable. if there are faucets i recommend grabbing a paper towel to turn it off, so you dont have to touch it again with your clean hands.

sound - WHY R AUTOMTIC FLUSH TOILETS SO FUCKEN LOUDD..... honestly if you have noise cancelling earmuffs or earplugs or w/e pop em in. if you dont have any of that i just literally plug my ears with my fingers when i stand up. if you struggle with the sound of the blow dryers, they almost always have paper towels as well, but its a great idea to carry something like that around in your bag with you just in case. if its really packed and people chattering is getting to you, sometimes the ‘family’ bathrooms are actually smaller and less full. if its bad enough and you feel comfortable asking, an employee might be able to direct you to a single stall bathroom or at least a different one than that.

and though its convenient, try not to use your sleeve to touch things like doorknobs, toilet handles, etc. instead use something disposable like a paper towel or wipe, bc the germs will simply transfer to your sleeve and still risk infecting you. 

5. schedule

the number one suggestion is to wash your hands literally as often as possible during a time like this but like. even for allistic/nt/abled/ ppl thats just not always an attainable schedule so the Best times to wash your hands are;;;

after using the bathroom - the most important time and generally the easiest to get used to. its smth you have to do multiple times a day that already has a schedule, and if you were to forget or go into sensory overload its usually immediately accessible as soon as you can. as i mentioned earlier, if you need help remembering, you can turn the water on when you first get in and leave it going.

the doctors - ANY KIND of health facility should be avoided right now unless really necessary, places where sick people would frequent is the quickest way to get sick but like. ya rly cant help it sometimes right. you cant stop dealing with your own illnesses just bc theres another one floating around. so, this is time to go apeshit on the handwashing. if your health issue involves coughing and sneezing, ask for a face mask. bring a scarf in case they dont have any, its not as great but better than nothing. otherwise, you honestly dont need it, face masks are more for these people bc they keep germs in better than out. whether you’re worried abt getting sick or infecting others, this is a time to use hand sanitizer, avoid physical contact like shaking hands [autistic cheering], and when you first arrive and right before you go to leave are the most important times to remember to wash your hands. 

preparing food - not as commonly spoken about, but also easy to work into a schedule. i personally dont care unless its food for somebody else or if im going to be putting my hands on it a lot, but if thats the case, a lot of the time thats produce you already want to wash in the sink, so you can kill two birds with one stone there. dont just get the germs off your own hands, get em off the fruits and veggies before you eat em. carpool

after grocery shopping - not very common. most ppl just slap some sanitizer/a wipe on there or dont think abt it at all, but if you just got home from walmart thats a great time to wash. you just touched a bunch of items other people touched, including the cart, money/credit cards, and all the products people will pick up and put back, so its prime germ time babey. But again, sanitizer or a wipe will help if its all you can manage after a trip out like that.

before self care - also uncommon. ppl always say ‘dont touch your face’ and ‘apply this product with clean hands’, and what they mean is that one of the fastest ways germs get into your system is through your mouth, nose, eyes and ears. if you’re simply washing your face theres not as much concern, but applying a mask, moisturizer, makeup, etc. should all be done after a gentle rinse of your hands (and face). very hard to get into the schedule of, but if you consider it a Part of your ‘self care’ or use a special fun cleanser, it can stick a little easier.

6. stim items

STIM ITEMS!! if you have stim items, its a good idea to clean them regularly, but even moreso during an outbreak like this.

rubber/plastic - if it goes in your mouth, hot water (not hot enough to melt!) and dish soap, if it doesnt, look up how to safely make a diluted bleach solution.

silicone - silicone is usually dish washer safe.

fabric - if its light, add bleach to the washing machine, if its colored, you can use white vinegar or hydrogen peroxide which are less likely to discolor any dyes. lysol detergent is also super great. small items you’re worried about losing, or items with details/loose parts, you can usually wash inside of a sealed pillow case. 

‘squishies’ - for ‘mochi’ squishies aka the rubbery ones, soap and water + some dusted baby powder or corn starch (optional) to keep it from grabbing lint for a while. for foam squishies, they can rarely be deep cleaned without the risk of growing mold or taking paint off, but a disinfecting wipe every now and then should keep it clean for a while.

slime - cant be disinfected, sorry. also a breeding ground for mold if you arent careful, so its always best to cycle through these quickly.

technology - cant really be completely sterilized, but there are many places to get sprays and cleaning wipes for the devices you use that can at least keep the areas your hands frequently touch a little cleaner.

BUT of course if your item comes with instructions on how to wash it, always follow that instead. this is just a general idea.

and as a final note;;; disabled ppl should not feel guilty or dirty for struggling with this. like. man idc abt ur cringe feels or your ignorant blame or your lack of understanding/sympathy for what goes into these tasks for us. if u dont wanna get our struggles and sensitivities when we’re working twice as hard on functioning tasks which personal ease you take for granted, thats on you. @ disabled people if you struggle with maintaining the same standard of hygiene as nts you arent gross or bad fucking person, you’re disabled and by definition that means your level of functioning will be different, and you deserve sympathy. its just that germs dont discriminate, they wanna cause problems for everybody involved (especially you!!!), so Anything you can manage is Great and if anything from this post can help make it a little easier for people in any way, i feel its absolutely necessary to talk about with respect and dignity. people with autism/adhd/sensory processing disorder/similar neurodivergencies/literally anybody else this could benefit, pls feel free to add on any tips you might have or send me questions. let disabled ppl help disabled ppl do our personal bests

[faireatoi]

3. 14. 17. 23. 43. 45. 46.

3. Have you gone out in public wearing an anal plug or vibrator device?

s: No, sadly;;; it’s one of those thing that i would conceptually love, but the risk of being like… caught in a Bad way… :s idk if i’d ever rlly try it w/o a lot of prompting.

b: n o id like the idea of it but i literally cannot even wear a tampon ???? sfjkdh theyre too big for me? even one finger - n my fingers are tiny - can’t even fit so....no sdjkfh

14. Has someone ever written a  love letter, song or poem for you?

s: Mmm, yeah. I try to forget it exists.

b: my first gf writes poems n sdhfkj i still have the little poems she wrote after we first kissed ;; n the thing she made me for valentines. im ?? rlly soft i fsdkjh even though we dont really talk i still just like looking back at it and remembering. she’s super talented n i love her writing ;;;

17. State 8 facts about your body:

s: Uhm… idk, rlly? I mean… I’m rlly tall? Nd just like… generally big? I have broad shoulders nd wide hips nd just… yeah. It’s not ever been super great for my self-esteem, so I don’t tend to talk about it a lot. Uhm… I’m really pale too? Like the lightest shade of make-up doesn’t work for me depending on the brand, and I can use baby-powder as make-up without affecting anything. But! Plus side, I bruise really easily, which… as you all know…. /coughs. I’m also generally very sensitive? Like in random places – my neck, my upper back, the tops of my thighs? It’s weird. I think that’s 8??? Ye.

b: im really tiny like..im 5′1 n barely 100 lbs n my pinky is sfkdjhj 2 inches? im just..Tiny like sarah freaked out when she found out i can fit size 0 sfdkjh. my shoulders slope at different angles too n its not Noticeable but its skjfdh god. also i may have a cyst in my wrist. im still able to fit shirts from middle school and shirts that were big on me in elementary can fit now. im also like..not sensitive at All sexually but to everything else like little sounds and things in the corners of my eyes im hypersensitive to. speaking of sensitive i also get turned on rlly easily which sarah thinks is adorable but i think is just annoying sfjdkh..i did fencing in high school so my thighs are still rlly muscled n Also i have a tiny beauty mark like jongs blingspot which i :’) heckin lov 

23. Random thing that turns you on?

s: People’s voices. Like… people with a specific tone of voice, I’m… wow, yeah, Pls.

b: petnames......baby boy...daddys baby boy..........................................um also when people are dommy but even just subtly? like im kind of rlly a brat n if someone said like ‘tell me anyway’ when i said not telling i just...guh

43. What one piece of advice about sex would you offer the virgin you?

s: Lmao, don’t lose it to the person you lost it to? Uhm… generally just… it’s okay to wait? And to enjoy yourself. You don’t have to rush.

b: based on what ive already done..dont just do it bc you can, esp since youve only known her for like 3 days. also don’t..get so emotionally involved but dont worry bc just bc she doesnt like you like you like her doesnt mean you cant be friends

45. During sex, what instantly turns you off?

s: Uhm… idk…. I mean, it depends on the moment? But generally like… I don’t do well with anything that reminds me of my ex, so like… the last time I had to literally safeword out of a scene was because of a guro-esque comment that my dom at the time made jokingly and I immediately went ‘Nope. Sorry, I know you didn’t mean it but literally Nope.”

b: being bitten. just...no

46. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

s: I mean…. they could have chilled on the Good Southern Baptist Christian Values like….. a lot. Nd that one time they tried to put my in a psych ward for having a gf….. coulda done w/o that one, lmao.

b: maybe Not having a mom that snoops through everything or that is every types of phobic there can be..just a more supportive n nice mom in general damb