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z-spy · 1 year
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and i call alex polyam but then i look at him and he is ready to kill whole universe only for her and then i think no way he isn't monogamous- but man is actually monogamous for all the twenty five people he is in love with
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calsvoid · 5 months
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sebastian smythe convinced he’s fully aromantic at 15 vs him turning 16 and discovering that love at first sight isn’t as bullshit as he thinks it is
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aq2003 · 1 year
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there comes a beautiful time in life where i have to ask myselg th question, "did i accidentally project too hard onto the character that i only relate to a little bit and in doing so hugely missed this one entire aspect/interpretation of the characters . am i stupid"
#ARE THEY STUPID!#dr who#this is about ten specifically his relationship w martha lmao#m being so serious i genuinely did not. see the 'ten was on purpose leading martha on to make her think her feelings were requited' angle#until going out into the wild and reading the tumblr posts. like i genuinely did not. at ALLLLLL. its like a brick hitting my head#bc the ENTIRE time s3 ten came off to me as 'doing stuff w no romantic intent behind it but would consistently get misinterpreted as such'#cuz IIIIIIIII have done this. IIIIIIII have run into this problem before. and it sucks so incredibly bad.#i actually do want to think my og interpretation still holds water cuz like. well i could gather all the evidence but#first one that comes 2 mind would be him going 'it's like when you fancy someone + they dont know you exist' to martha. in episode TWELVE#two routes; either ten is needlessly cruel and callous even after a season's worth of building up trust and friendship w her#or he is on super 'i dont think she has feelings for me and this is a very unhappy coincidence of a line' cocaine#Or the 'she fancied me' line in s4 to donna. either he is disregarding all the good and positive impact she did him. or the fact that this#went over his head the whole time made him look back on that time w discomfort <- I DID THIS. I MIGHT HAVE BEEN PROJECTING#THIS ONTO HIM. AM I STUPID.?.?????#you know how mikage rgu can either be read as an incel or a gay man lost so completely in the sauce#ten is like in this same ballpark. i think. of 'emotionally manipulative and disrespects women' or 'aroacespec and missed the cues'#funniest possible options to pick from. ten my brother how did you set yourself up like this#absolutely not denying that he was toxic and unhealthy during s3 in like 500 ways btw. but well. ths is the one concwpt that#flew over my head. so completely. and i can kind of see it now but i also still find it hard to incorporate into my belief system#bc its like. brother I'M aroace and missed the cues too lol#tangential note we can trace many problems down to a writer's room filled w white people not giving#martha's character the respect/agency she deserves for the existing narrative she has. bc they pulled this w mickey too both in series 1+2#if they wanted to portray ten as manipulative then him and martha should've been given more screentime#together where martha (or anyone else) calls him the FUCK out on this. and ten would need to suffer narrative consequences of doing smth#as fucked up as that rather than his happy stable dynamic he has w donna. if they wanted to portray him as oblivious then marthas character#shouldn't have constantly been boiled down to an unrequited crush (particularly her dialogue in the s3 finale - there's a LOT more reasons#why she would choose to leave/why their dynamic was unhealthy besides ten not returning her feelings)#if you read all these tags you may be entitled 2 financial compensation#ten and martha#aspec doc tag
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kanameows · 2 months
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onesidedradiostatic · 7 months
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Alastor being AroAce has personally made me so happy. The fact that he's AroAce and just thinking about it makes me smile. I felt so seen when Rosie made that "ace in the hole" joke. I literally paused the episode to squeal over how Alastor's sexuality to be explicitly referenced the show. Viewers who had/have no idea that Alastor is AroAce probably took the joke another way or went right over their heads, but I feel like everyone who knew Alastor's orientation went "that's cause he's Asexual, ha!"
Even in the past Alastor's own sexuality made me wonder about my own and think "huh..am I like him?" when it comes to sex and romance. Now I feel more confident in who I am, and I'm happy that Alastor is a character that helped me be more comfortable in who I am. When it was confirmed to be Aromantic too along with still being 100% Asexual, that made me unbelievably happy and I didn't know why at first. I also love how a lot of fans, including the Hazbin Hotel team, fully respect Alastor's identity and how everyone here also respects the fuck out of his identity (and agree the best thing about RadioStatic is that it's completely one sided with Vox being pathetically in love)
I'm definitely somewhere on the aspectrum(s) and I can say with confidence that Alastor helped me discover that about myself. Happy Aromantic Week everyone!
FR the ace in the hole comment made me like so unbelievably excited. like it's such a small thing but it's also like so rare to find a media where it's acknowledged verbally in the media itself??? I'd started questioning being on the aroacespec before I started hazbin but I can definitely relate to fictional aro characters helping/kickstarting the questioning!! very glad alastor's helped for you!!! happy aro week :D
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fallenrain40 · 3 months
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AVM RELATIONSHIP HEADCANON TIME these are literally all just based on random feelings I get from them. TSC and Red: so I imagine Red and TSC are both aroace and don't do relationships, but they both care very strongly for their friends. Blue and Yellow: they are just together. they are gay. I love them both sm. yes its cause of those captions in that one video saying "I ship it". but also like they just work SO WELL TOGETHER whenever they are paired up they get along really well and don't really have any problems, like they both naturally understand each other and communicate rlly well. It just makes me very happy. And also just the way Yellow takes Blue's hand in that one ep and just HHNNGG I love it sm. I actually don't think they've ever fought like in the sense where they were mad at each other- and I definitely wouldn't want to see them to. Although I CAN also see them as friends, they'd be like. Very affectionate and super close friends if so. I also imagine these two are probably like... the two least likely to start a fight with someone. Green and Purple: I love these two so much, maybe even more than Yellow and Blue. Green is definitely the closest to Purple out of the gang, but I'm not sure whether I see them as platonic or romantic though. Like they could totally be either and I'd be 100% cool with it. I like to see them as QPRs. It makes me very happy seeing lots of people ship them cause even if theirs isn't a QPR, it still works as one. They both adore music. Green loves drama and sad backstories and Purple has THE sad backstory of all time so imo they get along very well. Like I just imagine Purple probably feels like nobody would like them cause of everything that's happened, they feel broken and then Green just comes along and is like. Hey. You are so cool. And Purple is liek "what omg they like me even tho im a mess???" n is probably very happy about that. And I bet Green loves the attention from Purple too. That new short with Green and Purple is everything to me. He's tryin to impress them rahh. I also imagine Purple being aroacespec? They are also both gay bc I say so. (also getting sidetracked here but King Orange/Mango is also aroace to me hehe.) I wanted to write more like how I think red is the second closest (/platonic) to purple after green and how I could see green being QPRs with other characters as well (namely red and blue) but omg my laptop's on 7% and i havent eaten in like 8 hours so yeah. I will add onto this later.
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avsies123 · 2 months
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chaos-and-sparkles · 4 months
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I yearn to talk about my Dracula!Holmes au, and the universe has seen fit to give me free will and internet access, so talk i shall.
Listen. Hear me out just hear me out.
We literally have Johnathan motherfucking Harker whose written POV we read Dracula from for like a solid half of the book, right. Well, no more, he's John Watson now babeyyy, a retired army man now gainfully employed as a lawyer who's off overseas to act as estate agent to the strange and eccentric client who has expressed interest in moving to foggy London... Count Holmes! [insert jazz hands]
Instead of being Evil(tm) and plotting to take over London or whatever, my guy is just Autistic. Also riddled with ADHD and in desperate need of some enrichment in he goddamn enclosure. He will also in fact be trans, because. Of course. Vampirism as a metaphor for queerness and the social ostracization that follows as a punishment and having inherently queer narratives intertwined in them etc etc... anyhow! Count Sherlock Holmes, vampire detective!!!
(I do also want him to be aroace, or aroacespec at least, but I'm willing to negotiate for the Johnlock and the Johnlock alone.)
Mina Harker here is of course the one and only Mary Morstan, although it is clearly a lavender marriage, because we aren't cowards in this household and so Mary gets to be gay with her Lucy equivalent here, just as god intended. I haven't decided who her Lucy equivalent will be yet but this au is still young (technically I've been going insane about it in my mind for like a month or two but whatever) and there's no reason we can't make up an OC for her Lucy.
John Watson, resident gay doctor lawyer, of course, is smart enough to realize the enigmatic Count Holmes' vampiric secret within like one adventure, but he sure is going to have a slow burn of realizing just how gay he is for said enigmatic Count Holmes. We, of course, get to witness this tooth rotting bullshit firsthand as we read his diary entries and some later letters to Mary.
And instead of being one long gothic horror narrative, it's just adventure of the week with your friendly neighborhood crime solving vampire, the various other mythical creatures who do said crimes, and Just Some Guy.
Just, every Sherlock Holmes adventure adapted into this au with other supernatural elements. The guy from the Red Headed League is a local villager being bamboozled by a leprechaun, the Silver Blaze thing is about a kelpie. Everyone including Sherlock was operating on the assumption that Irene Adler was a siren, but actually she was just a regular human, and instead of unlearning misogyny (bc I don't see trans vampire Sherlock living so long through changing times and society and being sexist), Sherlock has to learn not to underestimate the intelligence of humans.
Also, he's just really excited to have this new human, John, living in his castle. So curious, too, about humans, he has sequestered himself from them for such a long time and John seems like a very interesting one. He's probably the first friend Sherlock has had in a long time, too.
Also. Instead of being warded off or harmed by garlic, to Sherlock, garlic is just the vampire version of cocaine. He just gets high as fuck off garlic. Could live on the stuff. And the reason people think he's warded off by garlic is just because he was seen getting high off his ass, turning into a bat, and flying away in loop de loops upon consuming garlic one (1) time. And everyone thought it's his weakness. And he never bothered correcting them bc Why Would He. He's basically getting free cocaine left and right from villagers who are scared/wary of the supernatural Count Holmes and only go to him when there's no other option, and it's no bother to leave people he's not investigating alone.
I genuinely do think cocaine!garlic addicted Sherlock has so much comedic potential, it really is so beloved to me. Just imagine, if you will, an extremely put-upon John Watson caring for Batlock who has gotten high off his ass and refuses to stop flying into his own antique chandelier.
I was also thinking that it would be funny to have Mrs. Hudson and Mrs. Turner in place of Dracula's sexy vampire roommates or whatever those three were lmao (I couldn't think of a third character, sorry)
Also. Obviously. Van Helsing has got to be Moriarty, by virtue of opposition. I do think their whole deal has a lot of potential to be very funny and entertaining also. I am also considering it might be fun to have Lucy's other suitors be the Scotland Yarders, like Lestrade, Gregson and what have you, but that risks missing out on the very fun possible dynamic of "Sherlock being exasperated with the dumbass out of their depth Yarders he keeps helping" raised to like the hundredth degree so. I honestly would like people's thoughts on that.
Anyway so YES, Dracula au please and thank you. Maybe with endgame QPR Johnlock? Yes? Please? Queerplatonic husbands Johnlock is my shit.
In conclusion: THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK <3
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zizz-asdf-re-r-o-u · 7 months
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Headcanon time: Who might be on the aroace spectrum in a sex game?
I missed arospec week by... a few weeks lol. And hey look i'm making a Nukani headcanon post instead of a questionable theorizing analysis for once! If you have contributions for characters I don't have enough info on (especially Quincy), please add on!
Disclaimer: I'm aromantic but allosexual. For me, this means I experience sexual attraction, but not romantic attraction. In my local kink scene, I actually personally know several community members + friends who are asexual or aromantic or both, and some engage in sex while some don't. And lastly for demographic proof only, I'm in an unofficial discord server where some unspecified members are asexual, but they still play this porn game, so yes not everyone who plays this game are into romance or sex.
TLDR: someone can be asexual or aromantic or on the aroace spectrum and still have sex but that varies for everyone!
Now that that's out of the way, here are my headcanon times! None of this is true or ever will be true due to the marketing of a porn harem game, but I think it's fun to headcanon! Feel free to disagree cause I know how people reacted to that "Is Aster trans" reddit post.
Speaking of Aster. I think he's also aroacespec! In his SR room 5, we got text narration ONE time that he gushed or orgasmed or something with a vague hot rod behind Eiden's back. But we've never seen Aster naked nor involve his genitals with another body in the 5 H scenes we have with him. And unlike EVERY other character, he’s only described to have orgasmed once. He also constantly talks down on morvay’s sexual habits, and while it’s a running gag that’s played for laughs, isn’t it possible Aster actually thinks this way? But is still willing to engage in sexy times with Morvay because they're essence creatures so that's how you exchange essence, and they’re basically an old married couple & deep down they do care about each other. And remember what I said about aromantic or asexual people who still engage in kink or sex.
Next, Karu my beloved chew toy. At the time I wrote Garu/Karu analysis part 1, I thought both of them were firmly allosexual but also presented some evidence someone could use to argue Karu might be demi or aroace or something else. But the more I think about it, the more I think yeah, he might be. Or he’s just a tsundere. I swear I'm not delusional and am a logical canon-based theory fan. (Btw, according to google searching, it is possible for different alters to have different sexualities, so this does not apply to Garu).
Quincy- I have never watched a Quincy intimacy room (including his SR & R cards that I have unlocked) but my vibes based off all the other story content with him makes me think he might be in the umbrella, so Grey-ace, Demi, etc. From what I’ve heard other people say, Quincy has had a lover in the past but currently only has sex if Eiden begs for it. This might fit into the definition of people who don't really care for sex themselves, but is interested in it for their partner. If anyone has Quincy cards and has more information, please let me know!
Huey: ok so we have almost no information on him. But he didn’t have sex with his clan members. He was definitely not romantically invested in any of his clan members nor do I recall him having hints of being sexually or romantically invested in anyone else, which does not equate aromantic or asexual but its still possible. And that’s all I got. Anyone got additional input?
Eiden: ah our beloved Eiden. Let’s ignore that in meta, he’s supposed to be the audience self insert (even though he’s the least self insert type MC ever) and therefore he is not going to “prioritize” one ship over another.
Anyways, so I am 100% sure he’s not asexual. BUUUUT he has not expressed romantic lovey dovey attraction to his clan members. More significantly, he does not seem to pick up MULTIPLE clan members’ romantic hints towards him. Yes in Fateful Aegis, Eiden says “I love you too” back to Yakumo, but it’s prefaced with something like Your grandparents love you and I love you too-ish, which to me indicates found family love. Kuya has said the Chinese/Japanese equivalent of “I love you” (“the moon is bright/the moonlight is beautiful tonight”) and that totally went over Eiden’s head. Dante & Edmond are also intensely crushing on Eiden… but they’re tsunderes so it’s probably gonna take forever to get across. The other members are different types of dedicated but open relationships rather than traditionally romantic relationships (except for Rei, who’s still getting there). And I think this is a great thing! All these varying relationship styles that are given the same weight & importance & Eiden has such appreciation & care for all of them, despite not providing traditionally romantic affection back.
Aromantic people can still love their friends & family! We’re not heartless emotionless creatures. We just may not experience or be able to comprehend romantic attraction. And i don’t think that’s a defect nor a bad thing.* And I think it’s especially cool when we compare Eiden’s bad hookup habits in the real world with how he has multiple regular partners that truly value him and a new found family in Klein. If he was aromantic this whole time, it’s kind of a positive perspective, isn’t it? Some aromantic people do experience “squishes”, which is a term for when we feel emotional desire for a platonic relationship. Obviously none of Eiden’s relationships are truly platonic due to the sexual element, but they all lack the romantic element from Eiden’s side.
(Anyways, Eiden won’t ever “reciprocate” romantic love because it’s a harem game, but shhhhh. Also to anyone who says it’s an Asian game and the characters aren’t going to say “I love you”…. Well in their newest intimacy rooms, both Kuya and Yakumo literally just did. Heck one of Forest Night Kuya’s sprite dialogues repeats that!)
So yeah, I hope you enjoyed this pointless headcanons!
*Speaking from my personal experience, I’ve have several sexual partners over time, but I never had the desire to date them or be romantically invested in them. And a weirdly telltale sign, that Jaidenanimation pointed out quite nicely, is that when she listened to romance songs she was like “wait that’s what people experience when they’re in love???” I’ve read a TON of romance and have heard a TON of love songs, but I cannot relate to any one of them. I literally have not felt any of those feelings. And when I have sexual partners, the horniness is definitely the forefront compared to any “falling in love” feelings. I did have what I now realize were several “squishes” in high school/college. What squishes feel like to me, are like “I wanna be your friend & you’re really cool & I cherish you! Like a lot! And also I don’t mind if you fucked me!” which emotionally feels different from “I’m in love with you!!!” (Which yeah i still don’t know what “in love” feels like, and I’m fine with not knowing!).
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punkeropercyjackson · 8 months
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I was a Percy Jackson kid not only in the sense of being a fan of the book series but also in the sense that i was exactly like Percy and this is why i have zero sympathy for Harry Potter kids who still like the series or 'Marauder's Era' or whatever they're calling it now to excuse not growing up to care about other people
I'm autistic.I showed blatant symptoms my whole life but everyone around me denied them to reduce me down to a 'gifted kid' or 'an idiot' depending on the situation and my relathionships with other kids were always either complex at best or nonstop bullying on their side at worst.I'm black and queer in every direction too(in the sense that i am both a man and a woman both in a non-cis way,into all genders and aroacespec).All this lead to a lot of feelings of otherness and anger but i never let that stop me from still being nice to almost everyone and getting into fights at school from standing up to bullies that a lot the time weren't even targeting me but other kids i didn't even really know.This is why Percy is my all time favorite character,because he was the first time i saw someone like me be the protagonist and i still see myself in him as much as i did back then
Harry Potter is none of that and i mean the whole franchise.SO MANY of the people in the series are perpetrators of toxicity and even corruption and there was a whole sorted house at Hogwarts set out to opress the minority metaphors that nobody ever bothered to try to disband,not even the oh so precious 'Chosen One',and that includes the fandom.'Slytherins are discrimated for being ambitious' genuinely felt like microaggression to me back when i was in the fandom because 'discrimation'?Really? They called people slurs,they assaulted them too,they were a literal wizard fascist breeding machine that SPECIFICALLY AIMED TO DO THAT and their founder was a believer in eugenics who tried to kill kids via giant snake plus extra effects over it.I actually felt in danger of my mental health whenever my poor trans and mentally disabled black kid ass had to read that decades running baloney on how white kids are victims of child abuse too because their parents taught them to not think of me and my people as,well,people instead of inherently so below them that i'm obliged to forgive them dehumaizing me because they 'actually more alike than either us think'
And the scariest part was the people of all ages across the fandom were talking how much they relate to them and wanna be like them and got super upset and cruel in actions when irl minorities were mean to them over it as if they weren't drooling over bigotry motivated abusers and taking it like a personal attack every time.At the risk of sounding corny:You weren't a 'troubled kid',you were just an asshole and now you're a grown up asshole who thinks hating Taylor Swift is misogyny and has 'obsessed with dead gay wizards from the 70s' in their bio and call yourself punk because you dress edgy and have attitude problems you call being fluent in sarcasm
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dustandshadows8 · 2 years
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Why I think Wednesday is demiromantic or greyromantic 
(None of this fan art is mine I found it on Pinterest so credits to the og artists your talent is incredible.)
First, of all for all you beautiful people who have forgotten or didn't know these two definitions, let's take a look:
A grey romantic person:
is a person with a romantic orientation that is somewhere between aromantic and romantic.
For example, a gray-romantic may:  -Experience romantic attraction but not very often.  -Experience romantic attraction, but not desire romantic relationships.  -Desire relationships which are not quite platonic and not quite romantic.
A demiromantic person:
is a person who cannot feel a romantic attraction to someone until a strong emotional connection is established. The emotional connection can be any number of things from a prolonged talking stage to a sexual relationship turning to more. It depends on the case and all people are different on how they feel emotional connections with others.
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At the beginning of the show Wednesday says that she does not have any interest in being like her Mother and falling in love and getting married. (Just like to say the proud aroacespec positivity I got form hearing those words...)
First of all this indicates that Wednesday does not consider herself a allo person, she has romantic feelings and has decided to never act on them or she has never experienced romantic attraction before (demiromantic/greyromatic?).
However as the show progresses we can see her form what can be interpreted as romantic bonds with two people.
(And will be by a wider straight/cis/allo audience who might not understand the aroacespec coding in the show.)
But, more importantly, she also forms a possibly stronger platonic bond with Enid.
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Wednesday's relationship with Enid progresses in a healthy way. They get to know each other. At the beginning of their relationship they have a tape across the floor which nether of them cross, even at the end when Enid thinks he's saying goodbye for ever she does not hug Wednesday because she knows she doesn't like it. They respect each others boundaries.
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Across the show we see their friendship deepen and Wednesday begin to more openly return Enid's affections.
One of the most important things to take from this is the speed of, said, progression.
It takes the whole show for Wednesday to be comfortable enough to hug Enid, which shows he level of trust she has gained for her new friend. She doesn't even accept affection from her family.
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And, just as importantly, there is still room for a lot of growth in their relationship.
How does this tie into the grey/demiromantic theory?
Well, as Enid and Eugene are the only two people who Wednesday willingly calls her friends (correct me if I'm wrong my memory is shit) and Enid is the (potential?) romantic interest in the situation, she has obviously formed an emotional connection with her and only after she has formed an emotional connection will she allow Enid to hug her.
It ties pretty perfectly into the Demi category.
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Now we have to address something else.
The boys.
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First of all, especially as an ace (maybe grey or Demiromatic?) person myself, the relationships with both of them seem very rushed and forced.
It seems to me, that she only uses them to find information about the case. The whole show, everything, even the kiss all looked like a ploy for information.
After she suspects Xaviour she turns on him pretty quick. Would she do that if she really cares about him? And she has no problems with being against Tyler in the final.
All through the show her interactions with them are abrupt and harsh, she often forgets about them to continue her investigations, she frequently appears to have no regard to their feelings.
Why would she treat them so badly if she cared about them?
And why would her reserved personality allow her to progress two relationships so fast?
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So how does the grey/demiromanticism link into these situations?
It's her extreme awkward and unusual reactions and treatment of both guys that leads me to think that a) she doesn't romantically like ether of them and b) she truly doesn't know how to interact with someone she has a crush on.
Sometime, when your feelings have deepened from some previous emotional connection, it is a lot easier to ignore them.
And Wednesday has never formed such a connection before Enid.
How would she know how to act and show romantic affection?
The stuff you see on T.V looks stupid. People meet each other, go on cute dates, have an mis-communication, get back together, kiss in the rain.
Where is the realism in that? Where is the emotional bonding the inability to understand emotions? The questioning of feelings?
Is this just how allo relationships are portrayed in the media or do people really just know if they like someone, that easily?
I genuinely don't know if some people just know if they like someone without months of questioning.
And Wednesday probably wouldn't ether.
Which is why she tries to make her relationship so like that, quick and easy, even though the emotions (that I'm assuming allos manage to feel after like two weeks or something) aren't there. Instead it's just the words and actions without any feelings.
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So, it's the build up of her and Enid's relationship, her reactions to the boys advances especially in the cliche development of their relationships that feels so forced that and doesn't suit her personality at all that leads me to think that Wednesday is ether grey or demiromantic.
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As for the ace part in both.
Maybe I'm just self projecting. But does that girl really appear allo to you?
Really?
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hehekubus · 1 year
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In a way q!etoiles is so aroacespec, and it's so good because he's obviously not the the stereotype of like "aroace who hates sex gets grossed out by love" Or "emotionally distant" Like he beats all that while still being so aroacespec to me
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korkietism · 6 months
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Jumin!! Jumin Han!! Horrible guy. I think he needs a serious reality check and a change in behaviour. Here’s my Jumin redesign because I must do my own rewrite. (Not a ton of changes tbh. Mostly to things I find icky or I think I’d like better lol)
He’s fucked up and has chronic issues because me too. His hair is slightly longer, he’s still obsessive but this time we don’t go ‘omg daddy’ instead MC is like ‘dude stop /srs’
He probably gets treatment following the whole Elizabeth III debacle. Because uh… not a normal reaction to losing your cat. Yeah. Also I feel like MC’s relationships in my rewrite will be more exploring whoever they’re pursuing. Like instead of seeing the characters as attractive it’s moreso exploring their issues. Mostly because Jumin needs to build a support system, Jaehee needs to marry a woman and leave Jumin because he’s not good for her! He’s a bad boss! They need a neutral friendship and he needs to learn some boundaries.
Essentially rich autistic boy who has no emotional maturity because he doesn’t know how to properly cope with his feelings and was never taught how because his parents are both useless and his skill development works differently than others.
He has good traits too. I just like criticizing him because he’s human and I know he can do better.
He’s very kind believe it or not. He doesn’t know how to show it but he really cares for people. He isn’t as much of a stuck up prick as he seems. He is just really blunt. He’s learning to harness that into positivity.
He embraces that embroidery grind. He needs more hobbies. I’m thinking he embroiders a little patch of Elizabeth III for 7O7. He treasures it forever.
He’s queer but takes a really long time to figure it out. He thought he was gay for awhile because he doesn’t trust women (thanks dad.) though soon realized he’s bi. He’s aroacespec. Romantic feelings are few and far between for him and he’s only ever developed them like once. He’s not too into sex but he likes kink and is happy to please his partner. Relationships are difficult for him but he gets by.
His favourite colour is purple and he has a cat spin. He’s pretty easy to shop for.
He follows an extremely specific morning and night routine and if they’re interrupted or stopped somehow he will shut down.
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cytheus · 3 months
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love that i dipped and then suddenly a bunch of people liked my chred (? idk what red x chuck is called, sorry, shred me to pieces in replies)) post. never thought people actually liked that ship actually. anyway i kind of fell out of my angry birds hyperfixation, but i’ll drop a few headcanons anyway:
Red: he’s totally bisexual, Probably like, greyromantic allosexual, i need arospec allo rep so bad. and he’s totally the guy to just be like “fuck around and find out” when it comes to gender. he does not care when it comes to gender labels. whatever floats your boat (any and all pronouns. even none. even neopronouns/xenopronouns))
Chuck: definitely some trans guy. he’s trying his absolute best. and he’s killin it. he’s also very bisexual, and aroacespec for sure. he’s so real for this (he/him))
Stella: ok this is where i probably get absolutely flamed but this girl is lesbian. do you get me. she’s so girlflux lesbian asexual. sorry guys it’s just so real to me. she’s just a girl that likes. nonmen <3 (she/it/they))
Jay, Jake and Jim: iAdmit i had to search up their names. But. these guys are so. aroace genderfluid to me. i cant describe it. either that or theyre completely oblivious to the existence of the lgbtq community. i dont know what else to say (he/they, they/them, he/it))
Bomb: absolutely agender. sorry. i originally thought to myself a while back “he’s super cinthean and asexual” but. i have a feeling this guy just does not care for labels. he doesn’t really know, but labels dont define him. he doesnt want to live labelled in a certain way. he’s free and living for it (he/she/they))
Matilda: pangender and omniromantic. i dont think i’ll apologise for this one. she just is. its always been something ive thought about and i’m probably going to be flamed for this one as well. but who cares. (any pronouns or mirror pronouns))
okay. that’s my few headcanons. eat up my measly 3 followers hahaha okay i will return soon perhaps . when i remember in 2 months time that i still owe you headcanons
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theflipsidebrothers · 4 months
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Intro post for the blog!
This is a roleplay blog for Dom and Valk from Phighting, the flipside brothers! This blog is ran by fictionkin of both Dom and Valk so heres some base rules!
No nsfw. why would you be nsfw about two real dudes who don't want that
Violence is allowed, though we obviously do not encourage it
no proship/conship, we've seen the horrors and don't want to see them again
try not to compare us to each other, we aren't here to have people argue who's the better brother we're just here to be here
Mods blogs!
Dom: @one-idiot-one-braincell
Valk: @ghost-van / @dynamiteghost
some info about Dom and Valk under the cut
Dom info:
uses he/they/caw pronouns
Abrosexual and objectum
The younger brother, but also the taller brother, very very protective of his older brother. you do NOT want to know what they'd do to guard caws sibling
Concerned about the time Valk outran like 7 nurses when he was 14, Ignoring the time he kept ripping ivs out trying to get to his brother and grandpa
same as Valk, no stranger to hospitals, is practically a resident there
Has Autism and pretty bad anxiety and probably a bit of PTSD got tested for autism and anxiety
'Dom' is a stage name, his real name is Megaphone, prefers to be called Dom by most people, if he knows you you can call him Mega
never beating the crow allegations, because caw's a crow hybrid
Valk info:
uses he/they pronouns
cupioromantic & lithromantic, asexual, tbh just aroacespec in general
he’s the older brother.. however, he is obviously not the taller one. that doesn’t stop them from being incredibly protective of their little brother, though.
VERY proud of that one time he outran like 7 nurses in the hospital when he was 14
speaking of which, he is no stranger to hospitals
probably has ADHD &/or autism &/or anxiety &/or PTSD, but refuses to get tested for any of them due to Reasons.
‘Valk’ is a stage name, & their real name is Microphone. however, they prefer to be called Valk by most people, especially strangers.
the allegations are true…… i am a Melanie Martinez fan.. & i do relate to a lot of her songs way too much………… (edit: okay maybe i’m not a fan anymore.. but i still relate way too much HELP ME)
it’s funny that he’s a dove hybrid/subspecies when he’s aroacespec
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jinxed-sinner · 5 months
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Taking a break from drawing art of my paladin D&D OC that's making me cry to point out things that people treat as canon but aren't actually canon (as of 4/15/24)
Alastor's sex- and romance-repulsed - The only indication of this is his reaction to Angel's advances and he reacts in the same way EVERYONE reacts, because Angel's advances are shown to violate literally everyone's boundaries (Vaggie even refers to this as Angel sexually harassing the staff). This can be seen with Alastor, Husk, and Sir Pentious. Alastor doesn't like being touched at all and this is made abundantly clear throughout the show. As someone who is sex-repulsed and aroacespec, a single canon instance (two if you count the pilot) of Alastor being repulsed specifically by Angel's advances doesn't mean he's sex-repulsed, it means Angel's advances violate his boundaries. (An alternative reading would be that he's just not interested, since the one instance of him being made uncomfortable by Angel's advances in the main series is him saying "Never going to happen." That still wouldn't mean he's sex-repulsed.) I'm not trying to say you can't headcanon that he is sex- and romance-repulsed but stop acting like it's canon that he is
Velvette doesn't want to work with Val and Vox and will break free from them at some point - Did the people saying this watch Scrambled Eggs. Did you see Respectless. You know she works with Val on love potions right. You saw how she interacted with Vox and Val during their part of Finale right. You realize the fact that she's complicit in their actions is barely subtext right.
Adam created the Exorcists - This is implied but never confirmed. I usually see this brought up as an argument against Guitarspear but thought I'd point it out anyway
I can't think of anything else right now but these are the main ones that irritate me (especially the first one). Anyway gonna go do some writing and take a break from drawing sad art of my silly paladin boyo
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