"radfem leaning" just say you hate trans people with your whole chest and save yourself the self-delusion, jackass
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some of you will really look at a group of people who regularly refer to each other as siblings and have close relationships with each other and are literally genetically identical and go “but it’s not incest because there’s so many of them!” girl there are a great many royals in europe and yet that is very much still incest.
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thinking about how difficult it must have been for Rachel Fawcette [Hamilton] to leave her firstborn behind in order to safely remove herself from Lavien's house. how much it must have eaten her up inside and how there was nothing she could do because her husband owned her and he owned their son and he owned everything that was hers and if she stayed, there's no telling what could have happened to her. And she lost her firstborn son over it, fuck the rest of everything she lost and how people treated her, she had no claims to her son who clearly grew up to resent her for what she, if we think critically for a moment and look at the context and the subtext and hey, let's face it, the TEXT, likely had to do. how women were constantly pitted in the most volatile of situations in those days and how she did the difficult thing and saved herself.
but yeah sure let's reduce her to Whore because that is so much more impactful through a modern lens, like sure let's give her disgusting husband, and every other fucking man throughout history, the glory of successfully making the women they hurt out to be cheating whores. let's tell her son's story by calling his mother a whore every other fuckin song. let's act like "son of a whore" at the end of all things is more of an insult to him than it is to his mother, the so-called whore who clearly had it so bad at Lavien's that she fucking left. do we not realize that by reducing her to that, we let Johann Michael Lavien fucking WIN? i'm sick. so fucking sick to my stomach I hate it here
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so deeply uncomfortable right now listening to my roommate (who is not a trans man) talking about how it’s wrong to “let” trans men use certain labels for their identity.
this, of course, being the same roommate who implied that i should put myself in physical danger by going into the men’s room because me being in the women’s room might make someone feel weird.
i should be asleep right now but i’m so furious listening to this. out of all the people in this dorm full of trans people, this is who i have to live with.
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For the non trannies out there i would just like to let you know-- pls do not tell any trans person in your life, especially someone you just met and have not confirmed the pronouns/identity of, that they're "unclockable". I got told, first, that i was a lesbian last night, because i have pink & orange hair & was wearing a pink crop top💀 & when i corrected the person they were like "oh haha you just are very lesbian coded, and with it being pride month yk!" & i was just like ??? "I rly don't know cause i'm not a lesbian?" & they did not know how to take that
They then said "omg i mean this in the best way possible, you're unclockable" & i was like "i am transmasc so......" bc i was dressed very fem and wearing makeup and shit & they got close to my face and were like "😀still! You know!" & i just stood there because,,,, what??? & then they said "i love your mustache!" & i was just like bro,,,, what is going on in this conversation rn,,,,,,
being unclockable isn't something that some of us wanna be! like-- i am a transmasc genderqueer person but i consider myself more of a genderfucker, so to tell me that i pass as a cis woman,,,, when you already assumed i'm a lesbian before asking literally anything about my identity and i corrected you to let you know that you were wrong,,,,, and before even properly introducing yourself?
Shit's fucked up, ESPECIALLY because they say they're genderfluid ! (i cannot claim that their identity is anything else bc i do not live in their brain but i also do not know their pronouns or anything because i was told by other people that they're genderfluid)
Anyways! Celebrate pride by telling the trans people in your life that you love them and appreciate them, and maybe by doing some activism or some shit that actually benefits them instead of being a dipshit :^)
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