#and I’m like nah not today

[sarasa-cat]

Feeling a bit better today so hopefully cold #2 isn’t much more than a brief annoyance involving a bad sore throat and painfully clogged ears (thank you cowboy pilot).

Still, I have decided to take a slow day just to be certain and to give my body rest.

Pastry and single origin coffee time with killer views (urban skyline and ocean) while I do calming things on my iPad mini.

Haunting all my other familiar haunts can wait a day. Right now, I just want A/C and luxurious comfort.

[atopvisenyashill]

“why would elaena marry a dornishman when they’re nasty evil people who murdered her poor innocent brother daeron”

maybe because once elaena grew up she realized that there were better ways of bringing dorne into the realm than violent conquest, and that daeron got the death he deserved from not just a nobility that is valid for fearing subjugation from valyria but also a smallfolk sick and tired of these people showing up every few decades to set their principality on fire, and put aside any anti dornish sentiments she may or may not have harbored as a child to see the way her family had directly attributed to their suffering, eventually even falling in love with and marrying a dornish man??

also, considering daeron ii attempts a type of proto-reparations act in bringing dorne into the kingdom, it’s not out of the realm of possibility that someone as intelligent as elaena would recognize the inherent racism in the targaryen conquest of dorne and especially considering the very loud anti-dornish, deeply anti intellectual faction in the blackfyre rebellions, realized they wouldn’t be kind or understanding of an intelligent woman like herself and had no interest in herself or her daughters (of which she had four!!) getting shoved back into the maidenvault again?

like, daeron i is on some andrew jackson manifest destiny shit, and if it makes me an asshole for thinking “god i wish someone had merked jackson before he genocided & displaced my ancestors, good on the dornish for realizing you can’t negotiate with imperialists” than i am perfectly comfortable being considered an asshole right next to my girl elaena.

[retrogradedreaming]

Swetr

[joelsbloodyhands]

Guys…dare I say, I came home from shopping today to find my very single fifty-something year old neighbour actually looking rather attractive and I’m terrified that I even think that. Wtf.

[littlexdeaths]

OKAY GUYS I NEED HELP

[finalpam8000]

What’s a birthday without the clown?

[n3ptun3e]

the fact that my ask box doesn’t show up in my profile so the only way to send me something is through the website or opening tumblr in a notebook and EVEN SO a proshipper made sure to go through all the work to come on my ask box (anonymous as always) to reaffirm itachi and shisui is a thing lmao imma not post it on here since it’s really disgusting, but i’m actually feeling quite flattered for all the work you guys are putting into this lol. i’ll just answer one thing, itachi and shisui are from the same clan and we can see how most uchiha look alike…just connect the dots and try to think a little will ya? they are at least distant cousins, and even so, their cannon relationship is of brothers, shisui literally tells itachi to see him as an older brother, if you don’t see anything wrong with that….well honestly it wouldn’t surprise me since y’all had your minds fried by porn and are so chronically online that you can’t even think about your own morals🤭

[heyclickadee]

Okay, but what if there’s some small aspect of the collective consciousness of the force that took one look at Crosshair and decided he was such a miserable wet cat of a man that he wasn’t allowed to die? Not as a reward, and not as a punishment, but simply because they decided that he’s their blorbo and he’s so pathetic they want to see if he can ever turn things around.

(I don’t think that’s a thing—there’s theories I take as fact (Tech’s alive), theories I think are likely but not certain, theories that could be true but probably aren’t, crack theories, and then this, which falls into the category of “shit I made up for fun and jokey things”)

[jilliam]

There’s this one tiktoker who made a few viral videos talking about relationships I’ve noticed in a few of her videos she mentions feeling like she is being blamed by these men for her relationships ending/other party losing interest or feelings, which I can kind of relate to but also not really

Like in general I am pretty sensitive to blame/criticism, and can sometimes feel like I’m being blamed/criticized for something when really the other person is just voicing a frustration (think ‘damn the laundry isn’t done yet’ but I hear ‘you’re lazy/dumb for not starting laundry earlier’)

But that’s generally not the case for me in dating I guess, like whenever I’m dating someone new and they told me that they didn’t want to continue seeing me or that they lost interest in me, I’ve always kind of seen it as a ~them problem, like the other party is telling me a fact about themself. I never internalized their reasoning as something that was my fault or that they were blaming me for losing feelings, maybe because I think of myself as a generally authentic(👁️) person and so it’s not like I have any regrets about my behavior or what I could have done differently

(unlike the laundry example, where I clearly see how I could’ve started laundry earlier)

[ishipmutualrespect]

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[luvbinnies]

My first day back to school and I was there for almost ten hours 💀

[apathyfairy]

i always said that once i stop caring what other people think about me it’s over for you bitches and it’s finally happened i’m literally untouchable

[ghost-proofbaby]

tattoo day! i’ll probably be MIA the entire day for the most part. maybe i’ll post photos of the sleeve. who knows.

[klienearschlock]

ripping my eyes out rn

[rosicheeks]

Hey can someone do me a solid and get me out of my fucking bed? You have permission to do whatever you need to. By any means necessary. Take my blankets off? Of course. Wanna throw some water on me? Go for it. Strangle me until I’m unconscious? Cool.

[picture-of-a-fish]

Tbh being closeted trans is kinda cool if you think about it right. Like sure you know me but watch out for my alter ego that comes out at night! She is tired as hell and hot as fuck