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“I want gay things to happen to me now” I say, sitting at home being an unpleasant harridan with weird interests and very specific romantic tastes and life goals not common among my preferred dating demographic
#personal#area lesbian wants kids and a Victorian house that loves her too much and also is turned off by people who use slang too much#(memes excepted)#also not into clubbing or going to bars#also bitches about costume inaccuracy in period dramas on Movie Night#also almost 30 so you know. time is running out to actually HAVE said kids and also to be attractive#(standard not applicable to anyone but me re: attractiveness)#somehow still hopes to find love#(area lesbian is delusional)
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hexoween 2: gatekeeper of the underworld
#anthro art#furry art#cerberus#fashion art#artists on tumblr#hexoween#cerberus just needs a break after his shift as a security guard#he decides to go to a goth club#the bar is underworld themed. which bums him out#he’s definitely chained to his job#that’s the story behind this one#it’s fun to use neons sometimes#also cerberus is always referred to as “he” but there are 3 heads? lmao idk man#eyestrain#possibly who knows
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a taste
#only friends#only friends the series#ofts#mark pakin#papang phromphiriya#i am obsessed with how good papang is#trust me to read too much into it but to me he clearly has an idea who 30 sth year old Dan is#seemingly out of the dating scene since at least his graduation so doesn't know the current lingo#feeling a bit too old but also unsure how he likes being called old but hot#very charmed by this junior but not used anymore to getting butterflies in a club#lowkey knows that the boss thing might be a bit hmm...#(listen: i love that again the show doesn't give us a clear line of 'dan is a creep' because there is a lot of room for him to essentially#be a good option for nick as well as the possibility of accidentally acting unethical) especially within the community it is worth to#observe whether the power imbalance on its own speaks against the person#he's also a bit shy wondering whether this cute guy would actually be interested in him because he is sweet and obviously aquainted with#going to bars so surely he must have options#and mark is also so wonderful ;A; even before he spots boston you can see that there is still some heartbreak lingering#but also that he liked the kiss but it was a very different feel to boston#also: somehow papang in mlc and papang here kisses absolutely differently and it makes so much sense to me that he at this point in his#life would kiss like this?? idk how to explain it better#this show continues to bring out the best acting out of everyone#(to derail: maybe why i want the writing for top to be that he's still in the grey so badly because i think that is the kind of difficult#acting force is actually mastering in this series)
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this is like art therapy to me
#i was thinking 24h gyms could be a great place to feed as a siren predator type maybe on par with clubs or bars#also him hunting in really public places creates so many plot holes considering hes a celebrity missing person at least a gym is more lowke#like itll still come out eventually but not 3 days into him being a vampire#almost went on a rant about the circulatory system again i need to go back to drawing stuff for it#anyways diamila sneak. take your childe to work kind of day#i like the idea of elias working as like a hound or a scourge? idk lower ranks positions for the camarilla are so vague#especially since la is in a full on vampire civil every camarilla vampire has a 50/50 chance of becoming an accountant or a hitman#elias doesnt know how to multiply... be real#/elias#/diamila
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Thought I'd go give 2004 me--who was so stupefied at how the Yankees blew a three-game lead to get swept by the Red Sox in the ALCS that year (and was first radicalized by it probably)--some closure here now that I'm impartial to baseball 🧦
[Also ft the Anime Zakka store my friend recommended to me, the Riverway IPA I had at the Trillium Brewery I was *hoping* to stop at (see my new get from said anime shop), and the grub I stopped for at a local gay bar which was tasty (alas the delish fries were left unfinished)]
#ore no kao#boston#solo traveling#gay#club cafe had a great vibe to match the food! and also plenty of cute guys#(talked to one named Robb[y/ie] next to me at the bar--after 30mins probably of me eating/thinking he might want to talk lol#would be nice to know someone biblically before i go back to nyc 🤔)#[also i think the cute English guy and Coloradian from today at my hostel both leave tomorrow so ughhh maaaybe should've gotten an insta]#[maybe when i pop down for some pre-morning-jog coffee]#i took so many photos today between my sightseeing boat ride and the anime shop lmao#oh also it's cute how most of the city has that red sox spirit#the [noun]way bit is cute too
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i'm so tired of like not knowing how to be a person and connect with other people or make friends or interact in a way that feels like idk i'm on the same level as other people.
#i don't want to be alone but also i do not know how to make friends#or where to go to make friends#or how to have people want to have repeated interactions with me in a not required way#like i can make friends with my coworkers because we have to be together and then we get to know each other#how the fuck do i make people want to hang out in a more independent setting enough to get to know each other#i don't know#it fucking sucks#i went to this book club thing (for work but also independent of it) at the bar#and afterward everyone went and chatted at the bar and i just don't even know how to do that with strangers#i just sat with my two coworkers who know each other better and hang out outside of work#i mean like i know i'm a loser but it sucks having it underlined#and i'm so introverted and awkward and kinda socially anxious i just do not know how to put myself out there#like okay if there's a subject i already know we're both familiar with it's fine#but i have NO IDEA how to have cold conversations with new people#no idea at all#ugh
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just think this time tomorrow ill be publicly indecent in a spoons somewhere. i am so strong
#ONE MORE EXAM. WE CAN DO THIS. I WILL BE DONE IN LITERALLY LESS THAN 24 HOURS NOW#AND THEN THE NEXT EXAM SEASON ISNT UNTIL MAY. COME ON GIRL#we have such a fun plan for tomorrow though bc the consensus has just been 'we need to get fucking mangled after this exam'#like i havent been out-out in WEEKS the closest i came was the end of december for a hometown house party of all things#i didnt even go out for nye. let's all take a moment and consider the implications for someone like me NOT GOING OUT ON NYE#so i am OVERDUE a good night out and then on top of that ive had exams be SO fr#and also this is the first year where my main friendship group (i.e not my housemates but my actual social circle)#are ALL econ students like there's about five of us and we all do econ and yeah two of them ive been mates with since first year#(the girl is my best mate at uni and is always who im on about if i talk about a 'girl on my course' and the lad is the one i lived with#in first year and have kind of got a thing with now?) BUT THE OTHERS ARE NEW ADDITIONS AND THAT'S SO FUN#so we're ALL gonna tip out of that exam and then me and her are gonna go back to mine to get ready bc am i fuck doing make-up#before that exam. the STATES i have shown up in these past few days i think the invigilators are worried about me#and then we're meeting the lads at the pub and starting there and THEN going spoons bc it's me and the girl's tradition#(calling her just 'the girl' is so funny. woman 🫵) after exams to buy each other mystery shots at spoons and we HAVE to drink them#and then one of the lads really wants to go to a karaoke bar for some reason?? so that might be in my future#AND THEN we're going clubbing. im so ready. take me home vodka shots. the end is near please please please#hella goes to uni
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I'll be 100% real with you guys. Early 20s me would ABSOLUTELY be friends with this group. Maybe not like close friends, but party buddies? Hell yeah!
Ray is the reason you would never pay for a drink. He's an alcoholic and rich. Go to the club? He's bought a table and got bottle service. He's got a bottle with his name on it behind the counter of every bar in Bangkok and then some. You're drinking for free and you're drinking good shit, too. (He's also got the good drugs if you're into that)
Cheum is the reason you'd be blacked out drunk. You're like "no, I'm drunk, I should leave" and she'd be like "bitch one more shot" and then it's suddenly six shots later and you can't remember your name.
Boston IS the drama. He causes drama, he lives the drama, and then he tells you about it in excruciating detail the next morning while you're both sipping mimosas, trying to get rid of your hangover. (He will also tell you about his sexual encounters in vivid details and you'll never be able to look your classmates in the eyes again...except then you do)
Mew's the one that's always slightly too sober, but because of that, he'll sit there and listen to your drunk ramblings. He's also the one that remembers everything that happened so that you can be reminded of it the next day. (The most important friend, really, because otherwise you won't have stories to tell)
#only friends the series#ofts#i see everyone with their red flag analysis#and i love it#but honestly i watch this show#and remember myself in my party years#and i just KNOW they would have been a great time#as an added bonus#if i ever encountered nick#i would have been like#'babygirl you shouldn't have done that...'#'...but since you did already it would be a shame to let it go to waste. tell me more'#does this make me a red flag? maybe#but i have been told that im slightly unhinged#but also those party years...are just different#different standards different morals#i also think that everyone in the show is actually very...charming#like obviously they're not good people#but we get an inside view so we know what horrible stuff theyre doing#but if you just met them at a bar or a club without actually knowing them?#they'd each be charming in their own way#maybe i'll explain more in another post
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asking my college friends if they wanna do anything for my birthday and feeling nauseous 👍🏻
#not only does it feel so awful to be like. can we do things for me. that r convenient for me#when they almost never say yes normally lol. but these are also#the same friends who uh. well i spent my 21st birthday sobbing on a curb by myself. and that was the only birthday i spent w them lol#it’s . fine#like i’m gonna bake everything for it and then half of them won’t be able to show up anyways and it’ll suck but it always does so#none of them r gonna want to go clubbing or anything. MAYBE to a bar if i push real hard#and i don’t really have the apartment to host something fun.#ok i need to eat that’ll make me feel less awful.
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Also please tell me stories about what you did for your legal drinking age birthday because I’m curious and you all always make me feel better when you say normal things
#my family members all had wild 21sts and the one my cousin had haunts me and I wasn’t even there (obv)#like I just can’t stand the idea of going to a bar or a club but I also don’t have friends for a party and my parents don’t drink so 😭#I’ve like never been around alcohol or people who drink so I’m just terrified#autumn rambles#like I’m just hoping I make friends before my 21st and they make plans for me 😭
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GODDDDDDD i need a gay bar in this fucking place. there is not a single gay bar in town and i desperately need to go dancing and getting kissed by random drunk women.
#me and my friends are talking about a trip to [big city 4 hours away] to go to the big mall and the science museum#i'll see if we can set it up to be sometime after february so my brother can go into bars#i've also had several men visibly consider me as a viable option so. genderwise you WISH you were me#anyways#you know who should be at the club? me.
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I’m such a “never want to leave the house” and “I want to go home” person.
#I yearn to be home#in my bed#if I’m not in my room I’m probably wishing I was in my room#sometimes I want to go out#but as soon as I leave I kinda want to be home again#also sometimes home is a good book#I’ll be out at a bar asking myself if I should just go sit down and read#but then I don’t#like why can’t I just read in the club#me at the party trying not to look edgy and pretentious as I sit alone with me book#…
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“damn why have you never been to the club?” the club is not wheelchair accessible. the club food and drink selection is abysmal if you don’t want or can’t have alcohol. the club has flashing and pulsing lights that can trigger seizures. the club dj has terrible volume control and I don’t want hearing damage. I’m autistic.
#ra speaks#shitpost#accessibility#but also like. there is not a single wheelchair accessible bar in my town. I can’t just ‘go out for a night on the town’ without weighing#the cost of being on my feet/in pain the whole time#and obviously I’m not saying no club should ever have flashing lights or loud music#but the fact that there isn’t a ‘fun’ clubbing option that is seizure/sensory safe is. kinda sucky.
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I think it's funny how like every other time I say I'm gonna take nice fursuit pics I always forget or they turn out a little wacky, anyways I've got what, 2 hangouts a house party and a club that I'm driving like 5 people to this weekend? I sure as heck hope I get some nice fursuit pics
#club kava bar saaaame thing#in my on the road era fr fr#have I finished that book? No. Have I finally gone to my brothers bar that Jack went to? Also no.#I still gotta go to wyomings frontier days I want the full kerouac experience yknow
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Despite being raised online and spending all my time on this website, I'm not really cut out for an online environment, at least for social purposes. Was looking at online book clubs since all the ones near me are for fiction I'm not that interested in, and I found some but then the thought of sitting on a zoom call for this felt unbearable.
#id rather do a discord than that lol#the thing is im also picky about what i want to read#funnily enough an actual book club near me that id be most interested in is meeting for a book i own#buuuuut they meet at a bar like thats their whole schtick#they were actually the horror book club i ended up going to a meeting for and it happened to be their last one fjdjdk#now its more genre which is fine and id read that but like i said. bar.#and its also on thursdays which i work#technically i could make it but rides and stuff yknow ugh
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i'm begging my uni to stop making every fucking student social activity something where you have to walk around a bunch if you are a slow walker who cannot help it they literally want you dead
#i try to walk as fast as i humanly can. which i shouldn't bc it hurts and makes me dizzy. and i'm still slower than everyone else#last week we divided into groups and had to walk to checkpoints around the city to do tasks#i had a friend in my group who knows abt my issues and they walked slower with me which was nice. everyone else walked like 10 20 meters#ahead and it was fucking embarrassing bc for every checkpoint they had to wait for me#and i felt bad my friend couldn't talk to anyone else in the group bc they were zooming way ahead of us and i'm the one who couldn't keep up#and like. they didn't know my body's fucked. but these are people i do not know well at all and maybe i don't wanna disclose my medical#history to everyone i interact with#and like this event wasn't mandatory. i could've skipped it#but it's every fucking time#most nights we end up going to a bar and to these people “walking distance” is like a half an hour. and they walk fast#i can never keep up#i don't reallu enjoy bars either and i don't drink but you just kinda have to endure to socialize. some days i can't handle it tho#this week there's another checkpoint type activity. i know i shouldn't. i know i'm gonna slow everyone down#but i got specifically asked and invited to be a part of a team. i can't remember the last time that happened#also we're doing a group costume and mine includes platform heels on the streets of a very old city i am so cooked#my friend is nice tho. they know the basic lore and check up on me a bunch which always catches me off guard 😭#i'm used to pushing through and also used to people not really taking my shit into consideration so i don't know how to respond sometimes#2 people in the group know the issues and i just sent the gc a “sorry in advance i can't walk very fast” so like what else is there to do#only accessibility info we're ever given is if it's wheelchair accessible. and that's good. like you should do that. but it kinda ends there#like how much walking is there. where are the stops. are there places to sit.#i love having to either push through or be excluded disabilities are awesome#been in soooo much pain lately and have to take breaks walking uphill. functional body#i live in an area where everything. literally everything. is uphill one way or another. so as you can imagine it's going great#also “you have to endure to socialize” as if i don't end up hovering around my friend like a lost puppy with separation anxiety anyway#the group costume is winx club. btw
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