#also it’s definitely autistic bf x adhd bf

[bunisher]

hate when i say i’m kinda getting back into frankpeter and people assume bc frank is going into mcu that it’s that version of spider-man. no, i’m picturing and have been picturing this thirty year old dork with a lot of insecurities worming his way into frank’s dead heart and stuttering when frank gives him the driest compliment ever. who doesn’t have a strict no kill role and understands frank’s loss because of gwen. who understands what it’s like to grieving and full of rage.

[weeb-polls-with-pip]

Autistic Anime Boys Prelims - Propaganda Division - Group 5

Propaganda:

Ame -

"Typical autistic childhood – doesn't want to go to school, doesn't talk a lot, his plans for the future are just to go to live as a wolf in the forest… He's basically a werewolf and I think werewolves are often autistic coded. Actually his whole family is autistic coded."

Floyd -

"Has no emotional regulation skills and will make it everyone's problem. Prone to mood swings and can get angry at the drop of a hat, but can also be so goofy, silly, and lovely. Sways side to side for that good good stim, and loves to squeeze others (with violent intent and affectionate intent). Who doesn't love a good pressure stim? His interest in things can be fleeting, and his motivation to do things can change as quickly as his mood. Spontaneous and feral extraordinaire."

Hibiki -

"he is canonically diagnosed with hyperacusis <3 my fav sensory issues guy (he's so relatable). also canonically pulled a bad bitch (uta) by being autistic."

Akira -

"He has a heartbreaking relationship with road racing and the memory of his dead mother, and while he is a major antagonist, he is given a lot of interesting looks into his internal logics that I personally find relatable as an autistic person. I also like how he expresses himself in unpleasant ways, but isn't always treated with disgust, its kind of refreshing."

Sang Woo -

"literally the first results on google is "sangwoo semantic error autistic." he loves routine + is extremely distressed by change in routine (contrasts w his ADHD-coded bf). very blunt/cannot read social clues which leads to some misunderstandings throughout the manhwa. he's very relatable to me as an autistic person but also as a queer man, and it's refreshing to see autistic characters being open with their sexuality/sexual life bc we're often displayed as asexual robots incapable of love (bad for lots of reasons haha). he's super cute generally and really grew on me throughout the series. definitely the best part of semantic error."

Douglas -

"Many other characters try to read into what he does and says, looking for deeper or different meanings but it's always revealed that he means exactly what he says every single time and the butt of the jokes is always the other characters for being dramatic and presumptuous, not Doug for being autistic. Also he's the mean autistic representation we deserve."

Scott -

"look at him. failboy autism. even more so than any previous version!"

Shinra -

"he's just like me forreal."

Soi -

"I mean come on, it’s Purson. He thinks he’s really good at talking to people but most of his conversations (at least at the start) are completely one sided. He just blurts out whatever he’s thinking and completely dominates the conversation (if you can call it that). I love him so much for it, I have a really hard time figuring out when I should just stop talking and let someone else have a turn and only tend to realize after he fact that I didn’t really let anyone else get a word in and feel really bad. But the way Purson communicates is never shown to be a bad thing it’s a bit awkward at times but that just how he is and the rest of the misfit class live him for it. I think I could go on all day about how wonderfully inclusive Iruma-Kun is it’s such a good series, also in my brain Balam, Kalego, Clara and Opera are on the 4 outer points of an x-y graph that represents the autism spectrum. Everyone else fills the blanks in between. His bloodline magic is ‘detection warding’ and for the first several arcs of the manga the rest of the class didn’t even know he was there."

Makoto -

"In one sentence: Katai considers the titular Komi-san a communication master. Katai looks like a brutal thug, but he's actually extremely shy. Shy enough that after missing a couple weeks of class, it takes him months to build up the confidence to go to school. Katai tries to make friends once he does go to school, but he can't hold a conversation and doesn't realize that his mumbled half-sentences and resting bastard face make it look like he's threatening people. He's also pretty bad at reading the room, which is why he interprets Komi's behavior as a communication master trying to guide him from afar rather than a kindred spirit also struggling to hold a conversation."

[soupbabe]

hii, im not sure if you have any experience for writing Billy Lenz but if you do could you do some general headcanons for billy x an autistic trans man s/o? (if you cant do billy then bubba sawyer will be alright i love him as well)

Billy Lenz with an Autistic! Trans! Boyfriend

If you ever wonder who I write for, my slasher masterlists offer an idea of who I write for !! Also I apologize for this being more centric on the autism side of this request<3

- You'll feel validated 100% of the time

- There was definitely some stalking pre-relationship, so like Billy definitely knows that you're trans

- There was probably some snooping too, finding any binders and/or hormones

- He's very curious about it !! Let him ask questions let him wear your binder for funsies

- There's so much praise omg

- His favorite name for you is Pretty Boy, but Handsome Piggy is a close 2nd <3

- I can only describe the stage of you two adapting to your autism as a trial and error era

- Billy is very loving to an overwhelming degree, the constant touch and raised voice can be a lot

- So you have to talk to him about it, giving him the cues when you start to feel overstimulated and want space

- While he has his slip ups, it's something he's actively working on! He just wants to make sure you're okay

- As someone who avoids eye contact, Billy can be your worst enemy /lh/j

- He loves staring at you, makes him so happy

- Got him mumbling about how pretty his boy is under his breath

- You and Billy are the ultimate form of autism bf x adhd bf

- Like !! Y'all accidentally mirror each other's stims all the time

- Sure it's a bit confusing for him at first because he tends to talk about Agnes a lot, but he soon gets giddy over it

- Let him kiss you let him kiss you let him kiss you

- 100% happy stims with you !! It's so infectious /pos

- You both ramble together all the time

- Billy listens, but he's very excitable and accidentally talks over you a lot

- He doesn't mind if you talk over him too, but if you tell him to be quiet he'll try

- omg he does wonders if you need compression

- While Billy's hugs could probably break someone, they're absolutely perfect for you <3

[w4t3rgun]

Some random, not asked for, headcanons for my fellow Idia x Cater shippers

Yes I'm making this cuz I love the ship dynamic of introvert x extrovert.

And yes, also because this ship is underrated.

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Where to start...

Both aroace spec and/or both autistic and ADHD.

They definitely ramble about their special interests while other listens

Probably jokily call each other Discord kittens.

(I will not take questions for that.)

But also

PVZ GW2 duo players?? Like they team up to fight the Zombies

Also Project Sekai and Genshin Impact players.

Like I see them just hanging out and playing one of the games

Cater probably practices the Project Sekai songs in his club and then shows Idia how well he did it.

Idia 100% finds hacks and "good places" to wish for good characters.

CATER DEFINITELY ACCIDENTALLY DID BENNETT C6 AND LEFT IDIA DISAPPOINTED BUT LAUGHING A BIT. SHUSH.

What do you mean Cater and Idia don't cosplay Hari Koo and Gaeun Lee, Mizuki and Kanade, Bennett and Razor or Yae Miko and Raiden

They would.

All the cosplay photos are on both of their Magicams.

THE MORE THE CATERS, THE MORE PLAYERS

Their nicknames are probably cringy. Or basic.

Basic like "Diamond", "Player 2", etc.

But also

They watch anime

Like shitty ones whenever they're upset or sad.

Also they definitely got upset when HaRI DOESN'T END UP WITH GAEUN. (The Haunted House: The Secret of the 'Ghost Ball')

YES I'M ALSO UPSET BY THAT

THE BF'S WERE UNNECESSARY.

THE LOOK THEY GAVE EACH OTHER IS NOT STRAIGHT AT ALL.

anyways-

The English dub of Welcome to Demon School Iruma-kun made them die.

Ortho happy that his bro is with someone :)

Sam and Max binge watching and playing.

They did NOT cry.

Shut up.

No one is sure how they are together

But they are

Somehow.

WE FELL IN LOVE IN OCTOBER-

They did.

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#5

so, i think, im pretty sure? im Autistic. I looked at the DSM-5, highlighted my traits. Looked at camoflauging tactics, or ways afab Autistic people often mask, highlighted my ways. Looked at differences in AFAB Autistic people, higlighted my things. Ive had these traite since I was a lot younger (im only 15 so like, since at least 4-5 is when i remember). Ive always been "weird", n it was like everyone else always has the directions, and i was the only one without. N then, some tiktoks about underdiagnosed ASD in women caught my interesttt.

i have a therapist! that i can ask to get professionally diagnoseddd. but i dont,, wanna do thattt. bc i dont want my mom to immensely refuse the fact that i might be. And ik the rest of my family will too. Like she did for 2 years until my previous therapist called her ass out, and i started failing school this year- also, i dont feel comfortable enough to tell my new therapist yet, i think im gonna wait a bit. a few more sessions? maybe til im 17-18.

So for now, im just gonna self diagnose, like i did for ADHD for 2 years, before i finally got officially diagnosed. bc idek if i want that on my records bc ik,, ppl can fuck me over bc ik if i get that diagnosis,, n ik a fuck ton of stuff is gonna changeee. and im not ready for that

(If you have any links n sites for me to do more research, pls feel free to send me some or reply!! im still kinda feelin bad about this so,, more confirmation before i go to my psychologist would help:)

9 notes • Posted 2021-04-24 20:40:54 GMT

#4

i dont like a lot of my adhd (well tbh mostly the rapid mood swings and rsd)

but the intense happiness is nice:) idk if it's the fact that im just,, happy,, or bc i think bc im so happy if i was with another person id be sharing that happiness.

but it's nice to hear one part of a song that makes you see stars or rewinding something over and over again bc it just makes you giggle that much. or because that was the best book youve ever read and now you have to go on a research high. or how that video was s o good you just have to do a little dance and maybe some vocal stims bc how could you not.

sometimes it gets too much,, bc it can feel like it's bursting out. it's s o intense it might be nervewracking. not painful, but yeah uncomfortable. your heart is so full and your chest is about to burst from how happy you are.

but for the most part,, i like it:)

10 notes • Posted 2021-06-21 12:20:23 GMT

#3

I just wanna be able to lock my door pls,,, it just makes me feel safe. can't i even do that? please?

11 notes • Posted 2021-07-14 13:56:41 GMT

#2

i would love to see more Autisic BF x ADHD GF n itd be Flint Lockwood and Sam Sparks pls and thank you

theres so much stuff n stories there- Ah they make me so happyy

29 notes • Posted 2021-04-17 13:27:28 GMT

#1

so my solution for my internalized ableism category: is it laziness (tho im trying not to use that word anymore w myself) or executive dysfunction?

ive decided,, if i can do it rn, i just dont feel like doing it, but i still need to so i will.

if i cannot do it, it is executive dysfunction. if i have tried, and i just cant and feel intense frustration, anxiety, and possibly exhausted, it's executive dysfunction

yes ik this is exactly the definition of executive dysfunction but it's only now clicking w me and im only now getting over it so shhhhhh alsjsjahsgsgdhgs

36 notes • Posted 2021-05-01 02:21:00 GMT

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