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Attempt number 2 on trying to go to the cinema like I wanted to last weekend
This time work isn't the issue but my own head ;-; I get myself all excited to go do things but then it actually comes to it and I freeze. Like come on silly lil pup brain go do the fun thing!
#i like to pretend i dont have a huge issue with leaving the house but oh heck i do#i have an hour till i was planning to leave#got to convince myself and actually get ready in that time#also have a crisis on what to wear#do i go more comfy/androgynous or more cute#but im just going to shop a lil and the cinema i should just be comfy right?#none of it is that deep but it is 😩#i hate the rats that live in my brain that fight with each other over crap like this#i wish my dogs were lap dog size so i could sneak em in with me#reeee#soz if you read all this lol i venting
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there is not enough femslash in batcest circles. the girls deserve to be just as weird about each other as the boys are. if BruDick gets to be weird father/son/brothers/lovers/friends/rivals/soulmates then it is only fair that Babs/Cass get to be mother/daughter/sisters/lovers too. Something about that deep intrinsic but undefinable love that is born out of trauma, especially if you consider Cass not knowing what healthy love looks like in the first place. i think it's fun and deserves just as much fandom content.
besides that, you can get even more niche with rarepairs like Helena/Steph. Huntress/Spoiler: Blunt Trauma is already a fantastic comic and even though it's their only real canon interaction it has so much potential. very comparable to TimJay in how Helena tries to get Steph to understand her morals and the corruption you could play with it.
batman: huntress/spoiler: blunt trauma (1998)
that comic also highlights on how both Steph and Helena are outcasts of the Batfamily and don't have the approval of Bruce to be doing what they do in "his city". I think there's so much Potential in Helena taking Steph under her wing because Bruce won't let her in and it becomes a weird codependent toxic sapphic mess. I think the protectiveness Helena feels over Steph from the get-go is so clear and the way she wants to look out for Steph, wants to make sure Steph understands the real world? I love them. Helena should be allowed to steal Steph, actually. I think it'd be fun.
there are a lot of other possibilities too like Babs/Steph or even getting weird with Helena Bertinelli/Helena Wayne and the existential question of "is it selfcest or not." But these two specifically live in my head rent-free, especially Helena/Steph and one day I'll convince everyone else to ship it too.
#batcest#necrotic festerings#how do i tag ships that are almost non-existent#helena bertinelli x stephanie brown#cassandra cain x barbara gordon#as resident huntress fan my answer to the is helena w/helena b selfcest depends entirely on which version of helena wayne you're using.#pre-crisis!helena wayne/pre-flashpoint!helena bertinelli? yes i agrue is selfcest adjacent at least#because helena bertinelli was meant to be an adaptation of helena wayne#if it's jsa (2022)!helena wayne then it's *not* selfcest because they co-exist in the same universe#and according to current lore helena wayne was named after bertinelli and took the name huntress in her honor#which is a *choice* for sure but that's a different post#i still think shipping them is super fun in a “don't meet your heroes” sort of way with helena wayne time travelling#and then potentially running into bertinelli and realizing she's not what wayne thought she was and it being weird toxic shit#as for new-52 helena wayne. i do not acknowledge her and will not comment.#*god* I hate new-52 huntress.#(imo it would be selfcest tho bc they tried to make helena wayne a bertinelli clone. so. there's that.)#i'm going to write a helena/steph fic some day and none of you bitches can stop me#yeah yeah we have stephcass but y'all have sanitized the fuck out of that to convince yourselves it's not batcest and that made it boring.#and helena/babs is neat and all but i prefer helena/zinda when it comes to BoP ships#i should've included panels for cass/babs but it's been a while since i read batgirl (2000) so none immediately came to mind#i have a *lot* more helena/steph thoughts but no braincell to word them. know i will talk about them again.#they got one whole comic and now i won't let them go#also cass/helena is fun for combating morals and the complicated batgirl mantle#cass wears the batgirl suit *helena* made y'all think i can't make that romantic bc i can and will#if we have robin pile then give me batgirl pile#babs/helena/steph/cass hell throw in bette too.
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the Identity lacking knowledge of its identity
[fun alt repeating thing above & neat alt versions below]
#“understand whats going on behind my eyes” but different kinda#this is kinda shitty on purpose ?? kinda#idk im slapping soul with my own crisis he can deal with it/silly#bright lights#bright colors#i dont have a favorite guy™ but soul hits different yk#soul and its ideas of itself & his views on being whole need to be talked about more i swear#put that bitch under a microscope & study him cos lord knows he knows itself less than you would#also soul he/it my beloved. youre so close to being counted as canon in a way#chonny jash#chonnys charming chaos compendium#cj soul#-atlas art-#also if you cant tell [which you probably cant for all of it] the lyrics to Dream(OfC). NMtK & part of TSE are in there#also the necklace loose like the red noose from slys art#fun lil fact about my designs for HMSW:#Heart & Mind each have one of the drumsticks from the necklace. Both on opposites hands as a bracelet#gives a more them being halves vibes to me#soul has the left over chain that looks normal turning like as i said before over the course of Cacophony#lack of the drumsticks gives him the “if im not the main part then what am i?” yk#im not the “point” of the necklace so what is my purpose if any or smth#if that makes sense#but of course you couldnt wear the drumsticks as a necklace WITHOUT the necklace. a happier realization toward the end of Cacophony#And Whole has the whole thing together [ha whole]. “all good things come in threes” nd all#ty if you read all this btw & hi :D#ily/p
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Turtle reaction to teen draxum?
[I.D. Four panel comic. In the first panel, Leo holds up his phone with one hand and says "Hey D, what's up?" He is smiling, and with his other hand he makes the ASL sign for D. In the second panel, Donnie frowns at his own phone with an eyebrow lifted and signs "We have a situation going on." His free hand is lifted in the shape of the ASL sign for S. The third panel is a close up of Donnie's phone screen, showing Leo on the video call. Leo smiles with half lidded eyes, holding up a hand in the ASL sign for K, and says, "Really? What kind of situation?" Donnie responds, "Let me just show you." In the final panel, Donnie is shown from behind, holding out his phone so the front facing camera shows Teen Draxum, who has his hands on his head and a very worried expression. An ellipse comes from the phone, then Leo says "he got babied didn't he lmaoooo" End I.D.]
Well, Donnie and Leo know. Whether they do anything helpful or not is a different story lol. (Also, Leo is signing as he speaks, while Donnie just signs. It's fairly common for them to do that for video calls.)
@tmntaucompetition
#image described#rottmnt#rottmnt au#minor interference au#rottmnt leo#rottmnt donnie#rottmnt baron draxum#teen draxum#donatello hamato#leonardo hamato#rottmnt fanart#my art#rise of the tmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt competition#leo: wow a teen version of draxum is apparently having a crisis? what a loser lmao#he's not very sympathetic at this point lol#also i'm ignoring that technically leo doesn't know that draxum's been wearing a mask and wouldnt recognize him lol#didn't feel like explaining that
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Every week someone makes a post about how annoying it is that Dick Grayson fans don't acknowledge his flaws, and every week someone replies with an explanation that the flaws OP listed are entirely fanon and inconsistent with canon as it actually happened and at this point I have to assume that none of those explanations are ever going to stick because clearly some people just want the fanon to be true.
Anyway, I'm just putting this here for me to edit and add relevant-to-the-topic links later so I'll have them nicely at hand to read and sooth my frustrations when it gets real bad out there. (Echo chambers are good when we use them to drown out character mischaracterizing fanon.)
#dick grayson#canon vs fanon#yes this is about 'dick was a bad brother to jason' yet again#😮💨#super problematic how dick didn't pack up his life & become a devoted big brother to the new son of a man who had already disowned dick#like in-universe he is respectfully supportive of the kid who's wearing his name and uniform#but he was also a 19 year old living in a different city and not given any indication that he was a member of bruce's family so...?#dc comics#this fanon tendency to try to cram nuclear family dynamics and angst onto relationships that do not fit that mold arghhh#add to that how real-world knowledge makes it extra ridiculous to act as if 'omg dick was such a jerk for not being there for jason!!!'#yes their interactions were minimal - I'm pretty sure that keeping dick as a titans character was the entire reason jason existed!#let's be real about jason: his character & what led to him being robin were completely different pre-crisis + his post-crisis run was brief#understandably there are 'flashback' stories to flesh out his time as robin. the worst of these disregard characterization from that time#but even with flashbacks the worst that canon actually shows would be that they weren't close? which...okay?#idk what kind of expectations some people have for the former-ward so sort of foster kid who was explicitly kicked out of bruce wayne's lif#apparently he should've 1) begged his former guardian to acknowledge him as family & 2) assumed the role of bestest big brother either way#i'd ask people to stop and really think about the 'family' structure that existed in this time period where they insist dick was the bad gu#but at this point it's clear that people who want him to be the bad guy truly don't care about why we think it's absurd#anyway i'll end this with a reminder of what I'm pretty sure were the ages etc of the parties involved:#jason (12) gotham. adopted son of bruce.#dick (19) nyc. former ward of bruce. fired from role as partner to batman.#bruce (30+) gotham. raised dick as his ward → fired dick as a partner → never indicated dick still had any place in his life → adopted jaso#oh so my tags just cutting off the final letter like that? i will not be correcting them 😡
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Bruce: Perfect. Now my second son can wear full-body armor and pants when he’s following me around in Gotham. // Dick Grayson: Hey Jason. You wanna be cool like your big brother :)
Honestly I buy that the real reason why Bruce was against Jason becoming Robin was purely the lack of protection and then dick just shows up out of no where not only telling jason he can be Robin but gifting him the exact same Robin outfit dick wore short shorts and all
#ask#Dick definitely knew what he was doing#Also#I do find it funny that post crisis tried to have the same cute wee#Dick gives Jason the Robin outfit moment#But bc of time line stuff#Jason was already Robin for like a year#And dick gives him the exact same outfit he is already wearing as robin#So um yeah I've combined these two instances to make my new head canon#That dick just likes gifting Jason the exact same Robin outfit every few months#Like yes I still support you being Robin#A bi yearly check up to see if Jason still can be Robin#(excuse to bug Jason about how many flips he's can do)#Randox-talore
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For the identity crisis AU, do you think their fashion sense changes any?
Oooooh, good question.
Well first off. Hunk's definitely wouldn't. This is because Hunk and Keith have exactly the same fashion sense. Seriously. Look at their outfits side by side. Cropped vests/jackets? Fingerless gloves? Boots? Belts with pouches? Literally the exact same fashion sense.
Lance probably wouldn't change much, but I think he'd develop more of a sense for comfort while still trying not to look like a slob. There's some part of him that wants to start wearing shorts, but he is not listening to that part of him. That's the devil talking. He would not look good in shorts, and he knows this. Stop trying to make him wear shorts, part of him that's Pidge.
Pidge gets a cropped jacket. She sees one at the market and she can't resist. It's got deep pockets- what more could a girl want? The fingerless gloves come after. Also when was anyone going to tell her how convenient having a belt with pouches was? She resists the urge to buy a headband, but it's there. She's not going to say that's the devil talking. That would be a rude thing to say about her friend.
Keith buys a non-cropped jacket and stops wearing the fingerless gloves. God himself could not force him to stop wearing his dad's old belt, though. Everyone's watching him like a hawk to see if he'll cut off the mullet but he just stops cutting his hair instead, which turns out to grow weirdly fast. He gets Allura to teach him how to braid it, which is a very weird bonding experience for her. She'll take it?
#identity crisis au#pidge's voice in lance's head: You like shorts. They're comfy and easy to wear.#lance: nope. nun-uh. not listening to you.#also lance: you know. it's a good thing I'm not totally myself right now or I think I would lose my mind over the revelation that Keith has#been purposefully giving himself that mullet this whole time#(allura is busy having a crisis over how soft and silky Keith's hair is. what is he DOING to it)#also the fact that hunk and keith have the exact same fashion sense is like. my favorite vld fun fact#it's so funny
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People are way to normal about Davrin
Hes a DALISH GREY WARDEN with a baby griffin in its ugly teenager stage voiced by Martin Manhunter.
We should all be holding onto our asses hyped about him
#eren.txt#i see that most likely ghilain'nain vallaslin#who likely created the first darkspawn#the cycles... the drama#not even mention how prevalent solas will be#and how much beef he has with grey wardens and dalish esp non mage elves#im so so ready for a crisis of faith#and also because he doesnt wear any grey warden armor#i think he abandoned the order too#in the midst of the grey warden civil war??#ughhh he has like#so much potential#just sitting there !! and the game isnt out!!#also we have TWO blights going on#will he sacrifice himself?? will he refuse too?#whats his relationship with the order like?#why does he have a baby griffin?#monster hunter? did he join the grey wardens willingly or did he get tainted?#what clan is he from?#datv#datv speculation
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Excited to announce I think I'm officially an adult now (just turned off the lights in my room and had a sobbing meltdown at work)
#besties it is not going great this week!!!#have maybe gotten 3 good nights of sleep in the past 2 weeks and there's always some new fucking thing being put on me at work#or constant changes in my schedule which i have an annoyingly hard time with still#like covid forced me to get way better at being adaptable but my brain still Hates It#and tit is starting to become less of a escapism tool and more of a stressor bc my show's coming up#and i dont know what to fucking wear or say or bring or do for my pics#and also ive never in my life traveled to a big city and gone to an event alone and im sure itll be fine but its scary for me#AND ALSO the fucking election is coming up and thats happening the week of my tit show#which is sooooo bad for me like just the worst possible timing#esp if god forbid things are looking very bad by that friday like i will probably have a full mental health crisis if trump wins#i just need to like get through to thanksgiving and have a good outcome for the election and maybe i can catch my fucking breath man
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#military surplus store trip 2 days ago#I got a very pink cowboy hat despite questioning everything about how I present myself. it was Calling to me#multiple people loved it and when I got home and put it on my 3 yo sister stopped in her tracks and said 'wow... you're soo pretty'#that has never happened before#so I Guess the pink cowboy hat will be a Special Fashion Thing#despite the little existential crisis it gives me every time I think about being a pink cowboy hat girl#which is a bit ridiculous but there you go.#I was so secretly dedicated to looking either vaguely emo (<333) or cuttingly defensively professional for a long time#that the idea of being COWBOY-aligned (CONSERVATIVE IDOLS UGH) and not only that but PINK (feminine??? >:O) really did not appeal#but it looks GOOD on me and... sigh. I don't have to make people know my personality by my clothes. I can just wear what I WANT to#and I really do LIKE the pink cowboy hat!! it's silly and awesome and goes clink and it's a COWBOY HAT man!!!#I get to be BOTH pink cowboy AND every other thing I am. I can still be CoolTM. I can still be completely myself.#those who love me will understand me. those who don't... don't have to understand me.#goodness gracious that was a lot of soul-searching over a HAT#I also got very very tough Army jungle combat boots#I am expecting them last well >:D and they make me feel SO POWERFUL#Robin processes emotions on main#I Guess XD#I only meant to tell y'all about my cool new items I swear
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Mankai Store Presents: Spring Troupe’s Itaru Chigasaki limited polaroid set for sale this Valentine’s only! Buy your copy now and get a chance to win a date with him!
happy valentine’s day to this loser (fondly)
#a3!#itaru chigasaki#I may not be getting his SSR but I have this#I haven’t done a proper piece of him for months#and it shows cause I was confused with his hair color :((#my numbah one <3#this is basically what I would be selling if I decide to open a merch store#Polaroids u can slip into your wallet so u can look at them for strength ✊🏼#can u tell I had fun with the stickers#Itaru be like: I can be ur angel and I can be ur devil#Mr heartbreaker right there#went thru a crisis when I did the second one#idk what I was thinking when I did that#also saw that shirt flying around socmed and was like itaru would be forced to wear that for sales#ever arts#done with all my wips omggg#now I’m free to do shtposts HAHHA
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LOVED your Sleeping Arrangements fic, it hit every single spot. I didn't even know I needed wholesome OT4 fluff until I read it but it turned out it was just what my soul was craving. Honestly my head's spinning a bit with so much incredible content to catch up on today lmfao but I just felt like leaving you a comment. Love your style so very much and always look forward to your posts, Dungeon Anon here, it's a pleasure 😘
Thank you so much! I do very much look forward to seeing your inspiration sprinkling about my dashboard but my ability with the spicy means that anything remotely so requires several weeks work whereas last night's was written as a fever dream. I'm working on a much longer and hopefully filthier addition but given I'm prone to needing a giggle and walk around every time someone gets their ass rimmed or choked into climax, it does take a while! I always appreciate when someone takes the time to say they enjoyed my nonsense.
Everyone worked so hard the couple of days and I know that @monstersinthecosmos @desertfangs @apoptoses and @hekateinhell have all put up incredible fics to gorge on for strength and inspiration so I know that exactly what you mean. I feel so blessed by all the fantastic content coming out 🥺
#dungeon anon#answered#and after yesterday we might have to go into the great sexuality crisis (vc) addition#because the concept of exploring what it means to wear different clothes to denote different identity aspects never gets old#especially as things shift over time periods#i hace also decided it takes (3) people minimum to keep up with Armand's drive for sex love snd affection#so there's that#vc
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when thinking about trans hcs in tpn the concept of gracefield’s strictly gendered dress code being trans-inclusive is a bit funny. emma and don both hated being forced to wear skirts because they were ‘girls’ and emma wasn’t able to stop wearing them until after the escape but don just said ‘actually i’m not a girl’ and they were like ‘oh shit ok’ and he just didnt have to wear them anymore
#skye's ramblings#watch this 7-8 year-old game the system with this simple trick (social transition)#need to dump my trans don hcs at some point. hes so dear to me#emma would be so so happy for don once he cameout. she'd try to help him out before they figured it out too#emma tries to give don a haircut when he mentions not liking his hair it goes about at well as you'd expect <3#they put on the bunker uniforms n stare at eachother for a second before going HEY WE MATCH AGAIN!!! besties ever to me <3#and ilike emma presenting more androgynously while also still finding joy in small fem stuff like the collar ribbons n mujikas necklace#its so much better when youre able to make that choice yourself youknow <3 emma none gender left girl#also ray growing his hair out and wearing skirts <3 (<- what would have happened if they werent cowards)#love the different ways this series defies and criticizes gender roles but we were still robbed of this. give that emo boy a gender crisis
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ootd features the words "black dress" in its lyrics and people are like oh! this is a reference to another group's song, "black dress"!
i'm unwell.
#shrimp thoughts#also 'you people just Don't Understand' part 2: apparently there will be Part Two. just like with gee idle's allergy and queen/card#which. lol. apparently 'when allergy came out people were shocked because the it was basically 'if you're ugly tough shit just get a#surgery' but once queen/card came out everything was clear!' and like. how was it clear. what was clear.#one song is 'boo hoo i'm so ugly i hate looking at myself in the mirror and no one likes me i should get plastic surgery'#and the other is like 'ya hoo i'm so hot and sexy i'm like these two western celebrities!!!! i'm so cool i'm twerking on the runway'#kp/op kinda sucks balls in that it's like.... musical equivalent of tjlc crossed with marvel. it's basic ass pop made to sell except with a#faux deep garnish. and sometimes the garnish stands on its own! like if you take guerrilla it's clear that there's actually no deeper or#more detailed philosophy behind it. it's not really n.o where the 'rebellion' was actually supposed to be against something concrete#it's like. we want to feel! we don't want... not to feel! but the sound and visuals are strong enough that you don't mind it#like fuck yeah the lads are staging a revolution now! and now they're outlaws in a western! sort of! and now it's alice in wonderland!#but v often the companies actively make use of the fact that kp/op stans will obsessively look for Depth and Serious Themes in their#cultural reset slaying sotys. a girl looks at a butterfly? oh the song is about having an identity crisis like in that one poem about a guy#dreaming about being a butterfly. it's actually very deep and you can see it was all planned because there was a little butterfly icon#above the tracklist. and the fans get so attached to their headcanons theories and interpretations that they don't stop for a second#to check if there was anything in the 'text' in the first place#remember that one magritte post? this is also how kp/op stans interpret things. she wears a blue dress here and blue is the color of summer#and summer is when you have holidays and don't have to go to school! so by this blue dress she's trying to say that you should love#yourself and strive to be the best version of yourself by embracing your hobbies and extracurricular interests. this is so genius 😭
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there's a new coworker who's genuinely so hot that it made me doubt if I am fully a lesbian LMAO
#it's like. unfair#he could totally be like. a trans masc butch in terms of presentation/style but I'm 98% sure he's a queer cis guy#either way. What The Fuckkkkkk#he wears his uniform shirt unbuttoned wayyyy down almost past his chest with a little gold necklace and he wears dangly earrings and. yeah#my (also a lesbian) partner worked with him briefly and gushed about him later so we're having the same crisis over the same guy lmfao
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ok crying break is over. now I need to get over this fast bc I have somewhere to be soon but I'm still pissed off bc I know my bf is gonna come by and just fix the screw thing in less than a minute which is gonna make me feel like shit even more
#sorry for broadcasting my crisis lol my two pathetic boards are staring at me like 'wow you're leaving 🥺?'#also there's carboard everywhere in my apt and Im so tired I dont want to go to my dance class i have to shower before#and i wont be able to eat before. also i left all my stuff at my bf's place so what am I gonna wear I have no sportswear here#ANYWAYS. onto better things thursday sometimes you cant do things and thats life and you have to get over it no shame in needing help
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