#all yizhan au pairs are valid
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520 gu wei x chen yu video / source: ę³”čēę°“č¢
#yizhan#bjyx#no yizhan au pairing makes me more feral than chenwei š„¹š„¹š„°š„°#i swear wdym this is not a real show???????#the trope of younger puppy police officer and older strict but actually somft doctor is soooooooo š¤¤š¤¤š¤¤š¤¤#chenwei#chenwei szd#all yizhan au pairs are valid
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If this scene was real š„ŗšš„°š #weiwuxianlanwangji #foryou #shorts #xiaozha...
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May the drama gods allow them to work together again
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chenwei my loves š¤š¤š¤
"What do you know?" āā "He doesn't remember me"
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love your hot takes! was wondering if you could give your two cents on shipping/rpf in relation to idol culture, how more often than not these pairings are subtly if not overtly used as a marketing tool etc. Iām all for freedom of expression / fandom consumption as long as the fourth wall is respected but given recent developments in c-ent I feel like weāre treading on thinner and thinner ice....
EDIT you asked for my two cents and i gave u my entire bank account. nice
ok i wasnāt sure how to answer this tbh without possibly getting attacked but i have a pretty strong opinion of rpf/shipping and how people take it to the extremes and i talked to oomf who validated me so here i go
tldr i mean people can take part in shipping/rpf if they want to and if they keep it lowkey but thereās a boundary as to how far shipping/rpf can go and there are too many instances of where people insert rpf/shipping in places that are unacceptable and this goes for all real ppl pairingsĀ
iām not meaning to offend anyone, and in no way are my opinions discriminatory, but also, if youāre someone whoās gonna make HUGE stretches regarding to celebrities and push your favorite ships in totally unrelated things, maybe you should step back and think about how your actions can affect your favorite people
and iām totally stealing this from oomf, but hereās a thought: Ā if you ask yourself Ā 'if i met this person irl, would i feel embarassed if they looked me in the eyes and i read this out loud to them' and if the answer is 'i would look like a pervert stalker' then like........maybe don't do what youāre doing? Ā
pls respect ur faves is all n donāt make them uncomfortable ! ! and also pls donāt fetishize same sex relationships !
anyway
ok so let me start by saying iām a seventeen stan and when i was 15-16 y/o i shipped svt members, read rpf, etc, but never really was into overanalyzing every touch or gaze. i obviously enjoyed my favorite pairings interact and i read romantic fics about them. i wasnāt really into reading smut because for me, personally, fics using the membersā names and personalities even in au kinda made smut feel like visualizing the members in a sexual context and i felt like i was crossing a fan boundary, like, would my idol be comfortable with me seeing them in a sexual context with another member they tell us they consider as friends/brothers/sisters? or just in general, would they be comfortable with me thinking of them sexually? but hey, if it was a good fic i would just skip over the smut because good fics are good fics. now idk if itās because iām older, or other changes? i donāt really do romantic shipping or read rpf, i stick to reading fics about fictional characters because thatās what makes me comfortable (like if i ever rb two membersā interactions on my main, i stick to just tagging the members instead of their ship name, same goes on here for real people) and i still very much am uncomfortable w/ real people smut literature and art, but thatās just me
ok you see shipping a lot in idol culture because idols are in groups and members spend a good 90% of their time together, so whatever cute interactions you seeĀ kinda lead to people shipping two (or more ig) members. i never really thought about idol shipping culture from a marketing perspective, so i asked some of my friends, and one of them made a really good point about how some ships are more popular than others, and these interactions on shows and stuff might be a strategic/marketing tactic to lure in new fans because of theĀ āshipsā being cute. i donāt know how true this actually is, but it kinda made sense. for example, in svt, mingyu x wonwoo is a super popular ship, compared to ships like the8 x vernon which no one ever talks about, even though we know that all the members love each other equally and wholeheartedly. so yeah, there probably is a subtle pushing of certain ships in order to gain momentum in attracting more fans to the group
also iām gonna be using wonwoo and mingyu as examples but iām not targetting anyone or anything, just hypothetical situations w/ an idol ship that i noticed to affect the members because how out-of-control SOME stans are
so as i said in my tldr, i donāt really mind romantic shipping, as long as itās 1) lowkey 2) not pushed in places that it doesnāt belong and 3) not mentioned among the members
keeping it lowkey- pushing ships in everyoneās faces gets annoying. sometimes fans just want to enjoy idolsā content as they give it to us and frankly, itās a little offputting when youāre trying to watch something or enjoy something and hoards of fans are fangirling over a gaze or a touch between 2 members. keep it on your private acct, or in a group chat, not in the youtube comment section of the video. but still, men and women are allowed to touch each other and show affection without it being romantic, and i feel like shipping culture kinda invalidates the platonic relationship. like unless a pairing is confirmed to be dating, why even bother with overanalyzing these gazes or touches. and no, itās not homophobic for non-rpf fans to be annoyed, because sometimes fans just want to see the members as they portray themselves to be rather than finding a deeper (and unconfirmed) meaning behind every small thing. fans being like ābro itās just the touch of two hands itās not that deepā is not the same thing as fans going āewww iāmā not supporting them if theyāre not straightā . and sometimes i feel like people try to twist non-rpfers words and call them homophobic if theyāre not for shipping when sometimes people donāt wanna romantically visualize 2 people if theyāre an unconfirmed couple. how can you use lgbt struggles, which is an issue in society, to fight against people who simply donāt do rpf?? how are you use that as a weapon and for what ??? (also a good amount of people who do this are lgbt fetishizers who arenāt lgbt themselves bye i said it) why canāt we all jus be friends dudes
ok but if youāre against your idols dating someone of the same gender, thatās homophobic and you needa get that checked
but thatās different from treating two members as friends rather than bfs
but this being lowkey concept applies to any pairing, straight or gay, just keep it lowkey dudes. (like for ex we see yibo and meng meiqi shippers, which also doesnāt make sense to me because itās based off of literal crumbs but ok) itās ok to be rpfer or non-rpfer as long as youāre respecting the idols and keeping their best interests in mind
respect ur faves pls
not pushed in places that it doesnāt belong- people need to stop bringing up ships and pairings in randomass places. for example, if wonwoo is doing a interview, with mingyu being nowhere in sight, and heās talking about his hobbies and interests without ever mentioning mingyu, whatās the need to bring up mingyu?? people do it and itās so... weird? like wonwoo can do things without being constantly associated mingyu? one of my BIGGEST pet peeves is when shippers make these ships such a HUGE part of a membersā identitiy, when the members are doing so much w/ their lives? like no, not every move wonwoo makes, and every breath he takes is related to mingyu, but people still wanna have the audacity to mention mingyu in something completely unrelated? whatās your point?
RESPECT UR FAVES
not mentioned among the members in an uncomfy manner- like if youāre interacting with a real person, why are you gonna bring up a ship theyāre included in when you have so many other things to talk about?? like ok itās one thing to ask someone on a livestreamĀ āhey this event you guys did on xxxx show was funny, whatās the tea behind thatā but itās not okay to just mention a ship with no relation and no context to the situation. again, this counts as rpf-ers and shippers attributing a single ship to an idolās identity much more than what it actually counts as. no, wonwoo is not 70% made of mingyu lover and vice versa. we actually saw this between mingyu and wonwoo as people kept pushing meanie (the ship) to their faces, and we saw (andĀ still see) a much more decreased amount of interaction between them compared to them predebut, because shippers couldnāt stay in their lane. so yes, out-of-control shipping DOES affect idols and can be harmful to their relationships if you donāt control it
^ so yāall see why i feel so strongly about this, because it literally can affect these idolsā relationships on screen
JUST RESPECT UR FAVES
again, this applies for any pairing of any sexuality, iām just using wonwoo x mingyu as an example because itās something i saw when i was into rpf. i love both mingyu and wonwoo and they are wholesome together. i have friends who ship them and iām completely ok with that because they do it without posing any harm to the members, but some people just need to take a chill pill and a seat and calm down ????
so i completely understand that shipping/rpf serves as a creative outlet for lgbt+ folks and thatās completely fine, inspiration, love, cool cool cool. just donāt be so pushy about small interactions especially directly to idols. and as for rpf-ers, donāt let rpf give you a reason to start fetishizing same-sex relationships, that shits weird and problematic...pls
again, if you ask yourselfĀ 'if i met this person irl, would i feel embarassed if they looked me in the eyes and i read this out loud to them' and if the answer is 'i would look like a pervert stalker' then like........maybe don't do what youāre doing?Ā Ā
lol so this is why iām much more comfortable w/ fictional shipping, because these people donāt exist in the real world and donāt have actual lives and relationships to protectĀ
just respect ur faves omg and weāll be fine
āgiven recent developments in c-entā and me being a yibo stan and you sending me this strongly leads me to believe youāre referring to out of control bjyx cpf (yizhan shippers)Ā LOL
i donāt follow much c-ent besides xnine, uniq, r1se, and sometimes unine and the nine percent members, and honestly im not too into the fan culture so i dont follow ships there? so iāll focus on. this ship
to be completely honest, shipping for idol groups makes some sense to me because idol group members are with each other most of the time, thatās literally their job
shipping actors who havenāt confirmed that theyāre dating/no proof doesnāt really make sense to me at all--they work on one project together, and theyāre off to their next., with or without each other . we donāt know if they keep in contact every day, much less if theyāre into each other, but each to their own! my opinions and takes arenāt perfect and as long as youāre respecting your faves, it is ok~
ok so iāll start of with saying: obviously, i love yibo. i love xiao zhan. theyāre cute nd wholesome and evidently had good times together and learned a lot from each other regarding acting and being in the industry and just developing as people together. good for them, we love character development. amazing
is pushing bjyx a marketing tactic? most definitely yeah by tencent thanks tencent. i think you can see this through the amount of bts videos there are with just bjyx in comparison to other bts videos/interviews, even though there are many more important characters apart from wwx and lwj in cql, we donāt see as much side cast interactions as bjyx, and if we do, there arenāt that many w/ other cast members and yibo and xiao zhan?? relatively speaking
so yeah i think pushing this yibo x xiao zhan thing definitely was a tactic to further the momentum that wangxian was already having to attract stans, and it worked. like i LOVE watching yibo and xiao zhan bts videos because they are two goofs. love them. love my boys. love their camaraderie. and if people wanna ship, then go ship. cool! just be casual pls
i think where this becomes a problem is when people start projecting wangxianās relationship onto yibo and xiao zhan because...the latter are real people. yibo and xiao zhan =/= wangxian !!!!!! (ok first of all yibo is a gremlin how can he be the wang in wangxian in real life)Ā what wyb and xz show us in videos is nowhere near what wangxian is hJKNDJNWD and i see so many people just equate the two pairings...nooo... and combining everything mxtx writes about wangxian in the novel and projecting that onto wyb and xz...i donāt think thatās the move dudes they have their own lives theyāre not wangxian
my BIGGEST pet peeve is when people wholly credit wybās development as an actor and as a person to xz and vice versa. i cannot tell you how many times i see posts sayingĀ āwyb brought xz out of his shellā and vice versa and things likeĀ āxz looks like heās having much more fun than he is when heās with xnine, theyāre soulmatesā and etc
both wyb and xz have had years of industry experience before getting to know each other. theyāve gone through some of the lowest points of their careers before even getting to know each other well, and theyāve both found Their People in the industry before finding each other. to say that wyb brought xz out of his shell in a summerās worth of filming based on some bts videos is just so unfair to the bonds xz has made with his other colleagues and xnineĀ members and the accomplishments heās had before cql. same with wyb and his career prior to cql. and his uniq members, his ttxs bros, and all his other colleagues. these 2 have gone through some shit with their idol groups and itās just not fair for cpfs to erase the significance of their career prior to cql to support and find a leverage for their shipping. iām not saying all cpfs do this, but there isĀ a Good Amount That Do and it pisses fans like me off
they are not each others saviours bye
alsoĀ āxz looks like heās having much more fun than he is when heās with xnine, theyāre soulmatesā, if you guys ever watch xnine videos, youāll know that xnine is Loud. with members like wu jiacheng and peng chuyue being so loud and extroverted, it kinda makes xiao zhan relatively quieter. but heās still a gremlin and troublemaker and itās not like he isnāt having fun. heās just louder w/ yibo because yibo is more introverted than xz. relationship dynamics are relative to the relationship cmon people !!!! this is basic knowledge !!!! anyway that was a side tangent but ya
but ya my point is, wyb and xz have their own careers and theyāre doing their own things now, and itās unnecessary to bring up xz in an unrelated wyb post/article and vice versa, and itās just so so unnecessary to link them in everything??? like i heard that cpfs prevented xz from keeping his nomination for an award because yibo wasnāt nominated so xz lost the nomination ./rolls eyes
anyway my point being, if you wanna ship them then go ahead! just do it normally and donāt bring up the ship in unrelated places (like other dramas, tv shows, etc where theyāre not together), donāt spam them with bjyx related things, donāt make weird stretches/connections?? the other day on twt i saw a twt about uniq wenhanās drama, where he was being referred to as xiao zhan (little zhan) in the drama (differentĀ Ā āxiaoā andĀ āzhanā characters than actor xzās name) and i saw cpfs go āomg theYRE CALLING HIM XIAO ZHAN??? IS THIS FATE ORā like no it isnt maam itās just a name stop reaching
ANYWAY UNNECESSARY SIDE RANTS BUT MY MAIN POINT is that people are allowed to be shippers and take part in rpf, but donāt make their identities ā____ās loverā, donāt look past their current and past achievements for the sake of your ship, donāt erase their relationships with other people for the sake of your ship, stop bringing your ship into things that are only related to one person/arenāt related to your ship, stop saying creepy things about your ship (if you think the ship people would be uncomfrotable with what you say about them you probably shouldnāt be saying it)
just. respect ur faves pls no matter who theyāre with ...just respect them ty
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yizhan au pairing wei ruolai x xiao chunsheng by: ēå
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shengyang x chen shuo short fmv by åæ«ä¹å°ē„ē¾”-
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Chen Yu x Gu Wei fan video // source ā¤ļøšš
#wdym this was not the drama that was aired?!!!#yizhan#bjyx#chenwei#all yizhan au pairs are valid#THE CHENWEI PROPAGANDA IS HERE#itās just so perfect šššš
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"In each parallel time and space, No matter how far away we are, we must be together." // "Time and space will rotate endlessly, and the beloved will meet again infinitely."
yizhan au video by -ē»¾ę š„
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the reason why xiao yu is late for dinner with dr gu // source: å±čæ
#look at this cutie xiao yu busy with his work#but dr gu is already waiting and hangry š¤š¤š¤š¤#yizhan#bjyx#all yizhan au pairs are valid#chenwei
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shiying x baili hongyi AU fan video by č„æęØå
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#OMG THIS IS THE SHIYING X BAILI AU OF MY DREAMS!!!!#people are so talented gdi! this fandom š„¹š„¹š„¹š„¹#what is this editing black magic šŖšŖšŖ#yizhan#bjyx#all yizhan au pairs are valid
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source: DestinyäøØååäøč
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chenwei fan video ālittle fool, i liked you first.ā by: ēå
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#the amount of giggling and happy feels that chenwei videos give meeeee AHHHHHHH IM SO INLOOOOOVE šššš#itās a crime that this is not a real drama#in my head ā their ship aesthetic is guns & stitches#chenwei#chenwei supremacy!!!!!#yizhan#bjyx#all yizhan au pairs are valid
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ādo not be afraid..ā
yizhan au pair ( ye mi x xiao sa ) // art by é«ē„å§å§äøē¬
#I AM OBSSESSED WITH THEM AND THIS IMAGERY SO PERFECT#bjyx#yizhan#all yizhan au pairs are valid#tw: blood
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yizhan au pairs edit for 9/5 by ę
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"No matter what time and space, my heart is moved by you" š¤
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chen yu x gu wei š¤ chen shuo x shengyang ; src: AmorĀ·åęę
#yizhan#bjyx#omggg chen shuo and shengyang! my precious boys!!!!! so innocent!!!!!!#that edit on the train š„¹š„¹š„¹š„¹ššš#all yizhan au pairs are valid
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hereās some sheng yang x chen shuo AU š«¶š¼
they are my current favorite! sunshine boys!
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#no but why do they fit so well together????#this is just an fmv but the chemistry?????#all yizhan au pairs are valid#yizhan#bjyx
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