#ah yes a cisgender heterosexual male

[cryptydz]

gojo in s2e9 had no right to be so fine oml

i rewound that one part w the heavy shaky breathing like five times i CANTTT

"need a hand?" yes inside of me please

"this is where youre weak, right?" im definitely weak for you

what do those hoes have that i dont

really the entirety of s2 father is fathering dEAR L O R D

"you crying?" G O D D A M N i was, in fact, sobbing

[animeengineer]

“We’ve never been the party that was about checking boxes or identity politics,”

Are you sure about that though

“Cisgender”, “heterosexual”, “white”, “Protestant Christian”, and “male” are the ones y’all like checked

And I, as a University of Texas employee, had to sit through a whole anti-DEI training session that was like the prejudiced mirror to Title IX training.

“but the difference is we have women that are qualified to be chairs, …”

Ah, yes, love the implication that when the Democrats picked a woman to run a committee, she wasn’t qualified.

Republicans have already named who they intend to take over each committee, but it won't be official until all members are sworn in on Jan. 3. So, Republicans can make changes before then and ensure there is some female representation in the assignments, but doing so would admit they need more diversity, equity and inclusion.

“It’s unfortunate,” Rep. Nicole Malliotakis (R-N.Y.) told Bloomberg. She's currently an assistant whip and on the Ways and Means Committee.

“We’ve never been the party that was about checking boxes or identity politics, but the difference is we have women that are qualified to be chairs, and I don’t know why there wasn’t one who was able to become a chairperson of a committee," she added.

The only woman who sought a chair post was Rep. Ann Wagner (R-MO). She lost to Rep. Brian Mast (R-FL).

[bananitryithegoatman]

Although I never were that much masculine and always fell somewhere from in-between to feminine in case of presentation I always, since I was s kindergarten, felt deep connection to highly feminine male character, while also never feeling the same towards female characters.

As a kid experiencing this form of attraction I was highly offended by the idea that it was in any form related to how girls felt towards boys. I was certain that it was different, that it wasn't just a crush. I looked up to these character, obsessed over them not just as if I fell in love, but I felt that I wanted to -be- the essence of them. I rejected heterosexuality, I rejected the idea of it before even learning what it is.

I always felt attracted to and drawn to transgender and genderqueer characteristics in people.

Once learning more about anatomy I would sit and wonder how quirky it would've if "biological characteristics" of male and female would be switched up.

I was fascinated by that idea.

I held deep interest in make up, but never got to fulfill my interest before age of seventeen, besides few awkward attempts, although everyone was encouraging me to do so.

I felt like doing make up, or trying to look pretty at all would be seen as a confirmation of what they expected of me, as if they would look and nod "Ah, yes, that suppose that it's a girl". So even while drawn to make up I never allowed it.

Make up wasn't angering me, the potential perception of me as a girl did.

At the age of eight, not knowing what gender is, what transgender people are I dreamed of being that beautiful young man in heels, confident with his red lipstick, meant to be an offensive gay joke, something that other kid of my age felt repulsed by or laughed at.

I wasn't interested in any boy typical hobbies. Cars, building, sport, anything that was considered masculine bored me. But I simulated that interest trying to signal others that there is something wrong with the way they see me, to crash their perception of me, for YEARS.

I'm telling this bit of my life because I am TIRED that for you to be a "Successful verified transsexual" you are still expected to fit cisgender narrative which you don't fit in by the whole nature of your transgenderism.

I am a man, a trans man not because I wasn't like other girls in cause of what I was doing or wanted, not because I wanted to separate myself from their interests or because my interest were somehow inherently different from theirs, but because I wasn't a girl and I felt wrong being perceived as such.

My make up, my manerism my gestures is not something that make me a woman but something that signals that I'm a man.

[fairy-serigala]

"they're STRAIGHT" the fandom cries before posting pictures of two of the fruitiest anime characters out there

how you look at EITHER of these idiots and their dumbass theatrics and think "ah yes that is a cisgendered, heterosexual man who's an alpha male and really likes to fuck them chicks" is beyond me

[noahtkane]

TASK FIVE – GETTING TO KNOW YOU

BASIC INFORMATION

FULL NAME: Noah Thomas Kane (born Noah Ferreira Macedo) PRONUNCIATION: No-Ah Tho-mas Kain MEANING: Noah - "Rest, Repose”, Thomas - “Twin” REASONING: Named after Yannick Noah, her mother favourite, and after his paternal grandfather Thomas, after his mother left him at his doorstep NICKNAME(S): Noah, No’ PREFERRED NAME(S): Noah BIRTH DATE: January 7, 1987 
AGE: 35 ZODIAC: Capricorn GENDER: Cisgender male PRONOUNS: He/him
 ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Biromantic
 SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Heterosexual
 NATIONALITY: American, British (dual citizenship)
 ETHNICITY: Mixed race (Afro-Brazilian, Caucasian) 
 CURRENT LOCATION: Eureka, CA (Downtown) 
LIVING CONDITIONS: Upper Middle Class, Loft Apartment TITLE(S): Le Cordon Bleu Grand Diplôme®, combining Diplôme de Cuisine & Diplôme de Pâtisserie, International Bartending & Mixology Certification

BACKGROUND

BIRTH PLACE: Pacific Palisades, Los Angeles, CA, USA HOMETOWN: Pacific Palisades, Los Angeles, CA, USA 
SOCIAL CLASS: Upper Class
 EDUCATION LEVEL: Le Cordon Bleu in Los Angeles, USA, & Paris, France 
FATHER: William Kane MOTHER: Jasmin Ferreira Macedo SIBLING(S): older half-siblings on his father’s side, estranged BIRTH ORDER: Noah is the youngest, by far CHILDREN: None
 PET(S): None OTHER IMPORTANT RELATIVES: None PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS: Quite a few 
ARRESTS?: None
 PRISON TIME?: None

OCCUPATION & INCOME

PRIMARY SOURCE OF INCOME: Beijinho Doce (own restaurant) SECONDARY SOURCE OF INCOME: Trust Fund APPROXIMATE AMOUNT PER YEAR: >100k per year
 CONTENT WITH THEIR JOB (OR LACK THERE OF): Exceptionally content
 PAST JOB(S): Internships at various restaurants around the world, “Carpe Diem” Food Truck in Downtown LA 
SPENDING HABITS: Occasional splurging
 MOST VALUABLE POSSESSION: One of Joël Robuchon’s Recipe Books

SKILLS & ABILITIES

PHYSICAL STRENGTH: Moderately strong OFFENSE: No formal training DEFENSE: No formal training SPEED: On the faster side
 INTELLIGENCE: Highly intelligent ACCURACY: High 
AGILITY: High
 STAMINA: Quite good
 TEAMWORK: Thrives within teams, more of a leader than a follower 
TALENTS: Combining unusual flavours to make the most exceptional food creations SHORTCOMINGS: Expects perfection from his team, impatient LANGUAGE(S) SPOKEN: English, Spanish, Portuguese DRIVE: Yes JUMP-STAR A CAR: No CHANGE A FLAT TIRE: No
 RIDE A BICYCLE: Yes
 SWIM: Yes
 PLAY AN INSTRUMENT: Yes, Guitar 
PLAY CHESS: No
 BRAID HAIR: No TIE A TIE: Yes
 PICK A LOCK: Yes

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE & CHARACTERISTICS

FACE CLAIM: Alfred Lewis Enoch EYE COLOR: Dark Brown HAIR COLOR: Black HAIR TYPE/STYLE: Short, curly 
GLASSES/CONTACTS: No DOMINANT HAND: Left
 HEIGHT: 193 cm (6’4’')
 WEIGHT: 81 kg (179 lbs)
 BUILD: Lean, athletic
 EXERCISE HABITS: Regular - running, swimming, biking, gym workouts SKIN TONE: Dark TATTOOS: None PIERCINGS: None 
MARKS/SCARS: Small cutting scars on fingers, mostly right hand 
NOTABLE FEATURES: Dimples
 USUAL EXPRESSION: Lopsided grin (ergo dimples!)
 CLOTHING STYLE: Crisp chef’s uniform and apron at work, casual style at home
 JEWELRY: Omega Seamaster watch, a graduation gift from his family ALLERGIES: None BODY TEMPERATURE: Normal
 DIET: Varied PHYSICAL AILMENTS: None

PSYCHOLOGY

MORAL ALIGNMENT: Chaotic Good
 TEMPERAMENT: Sanguine
 ELEMENT: Water PRIMARY INTELLIGENCE TYPE: Logical, interpersonal
 APPROXIMATE IQ: 140
 MENTAL CONDITIONS/DISORDERS: None
 SOCIABILITY: Highly sociable and outgoing
 EMOTIONAL STABILITY: Stable, since he doesn’t often share his private emotions with anyone 
DRUG USE: Previous, during Paris stay ALCOHOL USE: Occasional
 PRONE TO VIOLENCE?: No

MANNERISMS

SPEECH STYLE: Even and measured ACCENT: British 
QUIRKS: Lifting an eyebrow HOBBIES: Cooking, playing music, reading, star gazing, basketball 
HABITS: Often gets lost 
NERVOUS TICKS: Strumming fingers on a surface DRIVES/MOTIVATIONS: Professional success, philantrophy, people’s culinary happiness POSITIVE TRAITS: Funny, kind, generous, cheerful, caring, witty, compassionate, independent, outgoing, open-minded NEGATIVE TRAITS: Impatient, stubborn, perfectionist, blunt, vain SENSE OF HUMOR: Goofy, punny 
DO THEY CURSE OFTEN?: Often enough

FAVORITES

ACTIVITY: Basketball 
ANIMAL: Black Panther BEVERAGE: Craft Beer 
BOOK: Donna Leon’s Commissario Brunetti Franchise CELEBRITY: Helena Bonham Carter COLOR: Ocean Blue 
DESIGNER: Ermenegildo Zegna FOOD: Ceviche 
FLOWER: Orchids 
MODE OF TRANSPORTATION: Mountainbike MOVIE: Ratatouille 
MUSICAL ARTIST: Libertines, Nirvana, The Ramones, The Kooks, Foo Fighters, Red Hot Child Peppers QUOTE/SAYING: "Food is the most prolific language of Love." SCENERY: Pacific Ocean SCENT: Citrus SPORT: Basketball, Ice Hockey, Football (aka Soccer) SPORTS TEAM: LA Lakers 
TELEVISION SHOW: Psych WEATHER: Warm Summer Days VACATION DESTINATION: Nice, France

ATTITUDES

GREATEST DREAM: Opening a fully funded place for homeless and less fortunate people 
GREATEST FEAR: Getting left behind MOST AT EASE WHEN: In the kitchen and around friends 
LEAST AT EASE WHEN: Around his father’s family WORST POSSIBLE THING THAT COULD HAPPEN: Failure of his restaurant BIGGEST ACHIEVEMENT: Opening his very own restaurant BIGGEST REGRET: Not staying more in touch with Sinead, his former nanny 
MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT: Mixing up sugar and salt during an exam after a night out partying in Paris BIGGEST SECRET: Nothing he’d want to reveal TOP PRIORITIES: Leaving the world a better place

[normal-thoughts-official]

It literally angers me so much that not one person thought "isn't it a little off that a black teacher would threaten a latino student with the police?" like yes there are black people that would do that but is also has a lot of implications that pixelberry just,, decided to pretend weren't there ? Or even worse ? Pretend it was definitely the most "moral" choice like wtf

Apart, you didn't use any pronouns for me (which was really nice of you <3) but I thought it was easier to tell you, also ahahahshjs my friend has almost the same trouble as you like she is agender but uses any or all pronouns, except she's black and amab and they're very typically(?) handsome so when she used to say "any pronouns" people always went he/him and just being treated as a man, so to cisociety: she/they only to trans people any pronouns (which was funny because they I thought I was cis so I stopped using he/him as a good ally except they told me "that doesn't apply to you though??" me: "but I'm cis??" friend: "I will let you figure this out")

Also part 2 I LOVE PLAYING AS A MALE MC WHEN THE STORY IS AGGRESSIVELY HETEROSEXUAL FEMALE MC

I love it!!! Like I played open heart (don't judge) and the story is sooooo made to be a female mc akskjsjd

literally like u can tell there isnt a single writer of color in that team, there are so many pretty obvious racial implications that just. completely went over their heads. like oh my god. the way that both mr cooper AND principal flores are black/brown and BOTH threatened him with police over absolutely NOTHING like. kill <3

(dont get me started on flores lmao that bitch is the antithesis of a real school director i wanna die)

also im ur friend in that scenario rip udbdjd i can smell baby queers from a mile away and half of the time i assume ppl know theyre queer so i casually mention them being trans/bi/ace/etc and theyre like "what do you mean? im a cistraight heterosexual cisgender cis straight hetero" and im like ah. u think that huh

(shoutout to my friends reading this that were immediately assigned trans by me on sight and had a gender crisis and now are out <3 ily)

also, unfortunately, i have.... also played open heart.... twice. in my defense tho, u cant have a character be like "i am driven by community, all that matters to me is that, also im a huge self sacrificial idiot with no braincells, also i suck at flirting" AND be brazilian and expect me to NOT fall in love with him. books 2 and 3 are a scam and never happened as far as im concerned because the butchering of rafa's character is real but i love him and i would do anything for him

and honestly my flaming take is that open heart 1 is a decent book? itll never be good because any book that pushes mr sexual harrassment down ur throats cant possibly be good and ethan is THE shittiest LI of all time but it has a good plot and i like the obvious anticapitalist undertones and the discussion of how profit-driven mentality ruins healthcare. i also like how ur previous choices come back in the finale and u get to see ur patients again, its pretty nice. and every character feels like they have more or less of an arc that is left somewhat resolved (except for aurora who only gets to shine in the later books, which is a shame because i adored her from day one), so i think it's honestly a well written book. i also played with a male MC (dr bus down with cis my beloved. yes i named him that. ask me about my MCs names <3) and i liked it. i didnt feel like it was super hetero cuz honestly rafa and MC had pretty gay vibes, like the shitty flirting was so gay <3 and rafa in general, like.. community? self sacrifice? gay. sorry sir i diagnose u with homo. and also trans. because i can <3 (and also like. rafa has TITS like im sorry theres no getting around it, those are TIDDIES ma'am, not to mention that WAIST like lol. sorry pixelberry ur completely unrealistic male body means hes trans now <3)

so yeah i have. an embarrassing love for open heart. but anyone who follows me already knows i have bad taste, so

[drshslocreviews]

oc review — amai umehara , shsl chocolatier

my first ever review on this blog! my feedback with be written in bold to distinguish from the creator, @danganronpa-lux.

fair disclaimer: these are my own opinions and research. don’t take my words personally. i give suggestions to help shape the character, and you in no way, shape, or form need to accommodate these suggestions to fit my feedback. these are opinions, so don’t come after me to defend yourself.

with that, let’s begin! our character today is amai umehara, the super high school level chocolatier!

Name: Amai Umehara

-“Amai” means “sweet” in Japanese and “Umehara” means “plum field” in Japanese. I was aiming for some sweet-sounding name because he’s a, well, chocolatier.

here’s the issue: as someone who’s learning japanese and has relatives there, i can say with confidence that amai is a very rare first name, especially for a person who’s masculine. amai is hailed as a japanese name by several white suburban mums, but not so much in japan.

if you want something that conveys something similar and is masculine, a suggestion of mine would be ichigo, which means strawberry and is masculine depending on the kanji. kurumi means walnut, and mikuri means chestnut, and both could fit. kyou mean peach and an means apricot.

other than that, umehara is a unique last name but i would expect to find it in japan since it makes sense!

Appearance: He has Auburn hair that he styles as this(http://chloebritchford.wixsite.com/chloebritchfordfmp/blank-1, the 5th picture, just imagine that with bangs). He wears a chef’s uniform and a tiny chef’s hat. He also wears a red apron. He’s 167cm tall and weighs 62.5kg.

167cm is rather short, but the average height in japan is 171cm so it’s not absurd and it fits the range. 62.5kg is also an ideal weight, with the range being 56kg - 70kg. 

however, the outfit amai wears is similar to hanamura’s outfit from what i’m hearing, so i would try to look into that and try to make it distinctively different. maybe make him wear a baking apron over some other garb. the apron definitely fits, so i would say keep that, but maybe try to change what he wears it over.

Gender: Straight Male

straight isn’t just gender, the term would be cisgender male. straight means cisgender and heterosexual/romantic. you just need to change the term to cisgender.

Super High School Level: Chocolatier Age: 17

i have nothing much to say! the shsl chocolatier is a relatively more common talent, but not so much that i would discourage you from using it.

Backstory:

-His family owned a chocolate shop that was passed down onto hundreds of generations. All of the family members knew how to make chocolate, so Amai naturally took an interest to chocolate-making.

our modern day chocolate was invented in 1847, so the familial practices is not too far-fetched. it checks out!

-However, tragedy struck his family. His parents got killed because of a car crash when he was 14, leaving his sickly older brother Chai to run the shop.

ah yes, my favourite, the dead parents trope. car crashes are lethal, but the chances of dying from a car crash compared to getting injured is very broad. 1.25 million people die from car crashes every year, but 20 - 50 million people are only injured. that makes the chances that one parent died about 0.25% - 6.25%, which lowers to a 0.13% - 3.13% chance if you include the likelihood of both parents. needless to say, the chances are rare.

i’ll at least give a break since it was later on life, but if his parents died only three years ago, it should definitely be reflected on amai himself. he’s probably still grieving, so if you wish to keep this, any issues touching parents should make him emotional.

-To make matters worse, people were losing interest in handmade chocolates, making him and Chai struggle to remain in business.

-That’s when he was sent to Solera Rehabilitation Center. Chai visited his little brother a lot despite Chai himself also being sick.

i’m combining these two comments together since they’re brief.

the chocolate industry is booming. handmade chocolates are no exception to that. i know for sure that a handmade chocolate shop near me quickly goes out of sale when it opens its doors in the spring. chocolate is an industry that’s probably never gonna die out, so i don���t see why the family business would be going out of business.

as for amai being put in a rehabilitation centre, i would like a little bit more explanation as to why. is he sick like chai? was amai willing to go to it or did he resent it? things such as that nature.

-When he turned 17, the invitation to Academia Lux came. At first, he didn’t want to go because going to Academia Lux meant leaving his sickly older brother(Chai) behind. However, Chai assured him that he would be fine without his little brother, making Amai reluctantly leave to Academia Lux. Likes: Vanila Ice Cream, his older brother Chai Dislikes: Seafood

overall, i wouldn’t say the oc is bad, but the backstory has a few inconsistencies or vague parts that need to be elaborated upon. in my opinion? a 7/10– if you improve the backstory a little bit, then this oc definitely has potential!

[theswordofpens]

Get to Know Me Tag/Tag Game!

I was tagged in two tag games by @orphicodysseywrites and I didn't get to properly answer them, so I'll be combining both of them into one post! Without further ado, let's go!

1.) Nickname(s): Six Twelve (as in 6:12), V-man (that's because people couldn't spell or pronounce my last name), Captain America (my English professor named me that last semester because I wore Cap stuff on the first day), Superman (that's my work nickname), The Flash (I was/kinda am fast at running a mile), Jay (this is an alternate nickname a close friend of mine calls me), and Pooh Bear (this is because I used to love watching Winnie the Pooh as a small child).

2.) Gender: Cisgender Male.

3.) Astrological Sign(s): Scorpio is my sun sign, Virgo is my Rising/Ascendant sign, and Cancer is my moon sign (idk what any of that means of how it applies to me, but hey there it is!).

4.) Height: 5'11", but I like to feel like I'm 6'0".

5.) Sexuality: Heterosexual (but I'm a huge supporter of the LGBTQIA+ community).

6.) Hogwarts House: I'm a Ravenclaw, and it really shows in my actions. 😅

7.) Favorite Musician(s): Okay, so there's entirely too many to list here, so I'll just say all the artists on my writing playlist. (Go check it out on my blog!) I'll also go with my favorite modern musician and say Mayer Hawthorne, because the dude's music is legendary! (Also check this dude out!)

8.) Last Thing Googled: This one's because I'm A.) Into D&D, if you guys didn't know that before and B.) My friends and I on a writing Discord server are thinking about starting a game! But the answer to this is - "How would you make a Spartan in D&D 5e?"

9.) Following: 2,742.....that doesn't make me look bad, does it? 😅

10.) Followers: 859 followers. Not bad for a guy from the same city he's always lived in!

11.) Favorite Animal: The African Lion, and here's a little story to go with this. One of my life goals was to come face-to-face with a Lion and stare into its eyes. Earlier this year, I went to my city's zoo and we walked over to the African exhibit. The male lion was staring in my direction and since they have a thick glass plate up, I slowly walked over and kneeled down before him to stare into his face. Now, I know what you're thinking- "Joshua, don't stare into a predator's eyes! Especially not Lions, they'll kill you!" Oddly enough, when I did this, the Lion was very calm. He didn't growl, roar, or riddle his fur. He just stared right on back at me. And it was a really touching moment for me. The animal was very majestic, in all honesty. (Sorry, I got a little sidetracked!)

12.) Where Am I From: I'm from the state of California in the USA. Born and raised, never left at all.

13.) Song Stuck In My Head: Mayer Hawthorne's newest song "The Game." I'm telling you, guys, go check him out! He's incredible!

14.) Dream Trip: I would love to take an old muscle car and drive up the I-1 all along the coastline of California, hitting up every beach along the way while we sing along to every song on my playlist. (I've been told I have an old soul, alright?)

15.) When & Why I Created This Account: Well, I had been on Tumblr for a while before this account, but due to some personal problems I had to delete it. I created this account back in February, and I created it because I want to stay connected to my fellow writers, poets and artists.

16.) Do I Get Asks: (Okay, I'm jot gonna lie to y'all - I legit thought this was asking if I get ass XD in which case, the answer's no) UHH, I do but I'm always open for more! You guys can even tag me in ask posts and games you find and I'll answer them!

17.) Amount of Sleep I Get: Ah yes, the great phenomenon of sleep. It just so happens that this does not occur in young college students in North America, specifically in the United States. XD I'm not sure, about 5-7, on average?

18.) Lucky Number(s): 7 & 9.

19.) Wearing: Gym Shorts (Because it's hot outside, y'all).

20.) Dream Job: That's why I'm in college! I'm studying to be an Archaeologist, and I'm making strides to try and get my book published so I can be an author and an Archaeologist!

21.) Instruments: I can sorta (?) play violin, though I really need to get better at it.

22.) English & Partial Spanish (I'm currently working on second one).

23.) Favorite Songs: This is just like the musicians question! My answer's very similar to that one as well. To name just one of my many favorites, it would be "Corsican Rosé" by Mayer Hawthorne.

24.) Random Fact: I'm currently collecting money for a treasure chest! But the coins and cashed used in the treasure are either foreign currency or rare American currency. So far it's looking pretty amazing!

25.) Aesthetic: Brown worn boots, dark blue Jeans, white undershirt, my seatbelt belt, red plaid shirt w/ rolled up sleeves, and a pair of aviator sunglasses!

Thank you so much again for tagging me, and please continue to do so if you're interested!

[migleefulmoments]

I'm a psych major - i seriously believe that the CC fandom is a cult - the hate they send is cult like mentality, they have something seriously wrong with them. Like mentally. I wouldn't be surprised if one of them got arrested for harassment of C or D or their partners.

Come off anon and chat with me...there is a lot to unpack and I won’t do it publicly.  

There is definite some mental health issues for in that fandom. I too keep wondering how far they will push it.  If not them, will some follower of theirs do something stupid because they are emboldened by the rhetoric that the ccc leaders spew? 

Whether the anons are real or the leaders of the ccc are sending anons to themselves-or it’s a combination of both- is unclear to me, what I do know is that the answers they are giving are consistently and purposefully misleading and often outright lies. 

Two recent examples of their outrageous lies; 

1. ANON::

“...have u seen naya say on the podcast that C was actually upset about santana's rant to kurt in that episode... because it was so real? it really makes u think that there was for sure one writer thay really did have it out for chris...

ajw720 answered:

That rant was 100% directed at C and it was divined by RM.  He is raging with jealousy towards C, he has everything, looks, talent, creativity, and D.  And things completely feel apart when RM realized C was genuine competition.  You realize Blainofsky was punishment to CC for acting out that past summer? He literally broke up the fan favorite couple on the show during the last season for revenge. And he despises C in particular. And that rant was not aimed at K/urt. It was aimed at C.  And I am glad N/aya commented on it, I can’t imagine how she felt being used on that manner.

FACT CHECK: 

Had she spent 2 minutes Googling this she would have realized that fact Brad Falchuk-not Ryan Murphy- wrote Jagged Little Tapestry thus invalidating her entire theory.

Everything she said about Ryan Murphy in this paragraph is simply her fantasy. Ryan is a very successful and powerful Hollywood writer, producer, and director. He is also gay and married with young children and Is a powerful LGBQT advocate.  His youngest son waged a 2-year battle with Neuroblastoma from 2016-2018. Neuroblastoma is a vicious form of childhood cancer that requires intense treatment. I used to be an pediatric oncology/bone marrow transplant nurse and this cancer and treatment is no joke. 

Ryan Murphy is very creative- he created and wrote episodes of Glee, 911, and  Nip/Tuck, AHS, ACS, and the upcoming The Politician. Check out his IMDB (X).  

He has won numerous awards and nurtured a lot of queer content including Pose which hired both LGBTQ actors and staff making it highly unlikely that he would closet a gay actor. 

She suggested Ryan is jealous of Chris because of his “looks” and  his relationship with Darren. There is nothing to suggest that Ryan is unhappy in his married, his attracted to much younger or is attracted to Chris and/ Darren.  Ryan called his husband, “His rock” in 2018 when talking about their son’s illness.  

Abby ignores  Ryan’s real life story, instead because it doesn’t fit her fanfiction character profile she created for Ryan.     

2. ANON: 

“....is it a known fact to the whole fandom that f/etusm/iarren is M/ia ?” (X)

chrisdarebashfulsmiles answered:

Hi, you know, i think (my opinion) that m/iarrens are ignoring purposely this fact. Like.. they have seen everything happening or showed here and decided to say “hey, you know? i don’t care”. Like they do with everything that is not part of the “D is straight” tale.

Let’s say that most of us have an idea about who the minions are (if they exists and i think i can tell you that maybe one is a real person)… but it’s irrelevant. 

The account still exists because, and believe me i don’t know how this is possible, the stans who follow that account are more “m/ia stans” (the ones that bother us on our blogs and in blogs dedicated to hate and mock us) than “D stans.  Let me tell you one thing: i speak with a good bunch of “m/iarren” that are D stans and we are on the same page, we worry for D. No talk of bullshit with them. Most of them understood that something wasn’t ok and they left their fandom, without becoming part of the cc one. Others are still here but more subtle and still respectful.

And I see why: because they want to understand what is wrong.

Anyway: D’s team gives her stuff, and this is one of the problem.

FACT CHECK:

In truth, there are very few “Mia stans” and a lot of “Darren stans”.  The CCCers refuse to listen to what their anons actually say. Instead they pigeon-hole people into categories based on their own needs and they need us to be unreasonable and obsessed with Mia rather than Darren for their self-righteous antics to work.   

Nobody that I am aware of is purposefully ignoring credible evidence that Darren is gay. None of us are looking at the “evidence “ and saying “hey, we don’t care”.  The fact is that very few people care if Darren is gay or straight and the “evidence” is nonsense. I have yet to year one thing that sounds credible. Anyone else? 

I did a very rudimentary look her claim that “The account still exists because, and believe me i don’t know how this is possible, the stans who follow that account are more “m/ia stans” than “D Stans”.  I sampled 280 Fetu/sMiarr/en followers: 

The vast majority were private accounts aka we cannot say why they are interested in the account.

4 or 0.1% called themselves Mi/arrens

10 or 3.5% listed Kl/aine or Gle/e in their profile

15 or 5.3% listen Darre/n or posted photos of him alone

1 or 0.03% was a Guns ‘N Hoses page DING DING DING we found the Mia Stan.   

Darren’s team gives her stuff? What exactly would Darren’s team need to give her? She is his wife. She goes everywhere with him. they own a home and bar together. 

Chrisdarebashfulsmiles had a rare moment of honestly when she said “Believe me I don’t know how this is possible”.  The truth is. it isn’t possible. it’s all made up.

Abby stuck her nose in to the conversation with this wisdom: 

ajw720

And a lot of the stans who refuse to accept it, need M because she is the only thing that makes d straight. And they know as soon as they start to question, they have to face reality

Um, no Abs, Mia is not the only thing that makes Darren straight. 

Darren is straight because he is a man who is sexually attracted to women....the very definition of “straight”.  

Darren has identified as straight for 9 years. 

Your confusion around his sexual orientation is simply your refusal to respect his word because you believe you know more than he does about his own feelings-however that isn’t a valid argument.    

His marriage to Mia is a personal decision to build a life with the woman he loves and has been in a relationship with for 9 years or so.

Let’s look at Darren’s own words over the years:  

2011 'Glee' Star Darren Criss Comes Out—As A Straight Guy!(X)

"I think it's more empowering to everybody, including myself, if I'm articulate about identifying myself as a straight male playing a gay character," the actor says in the Hollywood issue of Out magazine. "Ultimately, that's more powerful for both communities."

When Criss first got the role of Blaine, he admits that he wanted to deflect questions about his sexual orientation, giving reporters answers like, "It doesn't matter if I'm gay or straight." But he decided that it was better if he was just honest and straightforward. Besides, he explains, he owes a huge part of his identity to gay role models. 

2011 “Glee Star Darren Criss Dishes on Kissing Lea Michele & Losing Out To Cory Monteith (X)

I’ve been pretty overt about the fact that I am straight,” Darren told Billy and Kit. “I think it’s an important thing to be explicit about — not for my own sexuality, but just as a general statement that I am comfortable with my sexuality and very comfortable with the fact that I’m playing a strong gay character.”

I’ve been pretty overt about the fact that I am straight,” Darren told Billy and Kit. “I think it’s an important thing to be explicit about — not for my own sexuality, but just as a general statement that I am comfortable with my sexuality and very comfortable with the fact that I’m playing a strong gay character.”

2013 Cosmo Guy” Darren Criss On Glee’s New Chapter   (X)

Q: You're not gay; you just play gay on TV. Do you ever feel the need to assert your heterosexuality?

A: No. I know who I am. I feel bad for guys who have to flex their muscles. But hey, if that's the way to make yourself feel comfortable as a man—as long as it isn't antagonizing anybody��go for it. I'm okay with your getting a Miata to feel like a dude; just don't be a dick about it.

Darren Criss Will No Longer Play Gay Characters (X)

Darren Criss has decided that he will no longer play gay characters. Why? Because he doesn’t want to be a straight actor taking potential roles from actors who actually identify as gay, he said in a recent interview with Bustle.

“There are certain [queer] roles that I’ll see that are just wonderful,” he explained. “But I want to make sure I won’t be another straight boy taking a gay man’s role.”

2018 Darren Criss on Playing Serial Killer Andrew Cunanan in ACS: Versace and Passing as White  (X)

You’ve also played a lot of gay and queer characters. Has playing these parts informed how you think about your sexuality or gender? That’s a great question. God, we need like an hour. Sure, yes. Absolutely. It definitely has. I think being queer in general evokes more self-questioning than somebody who’s cisgender straight, because you really have to explore a lot of things about yourself that are meeting resistance on conventional social levels. So you have to go, “Okay, cool. Is this really how I feel?” There are questions that arise within yourself that doesn’t have to happen if you live in a hetero-normative universe. So in that sense, I think the journey of questioning oneself, which everybody does anyway — and should do— I admire that narrative. Even though I am not gay myself, or queer, I am a storyteller, and I love and appreciate the strength of character it takes for someone to get through that, whether it was difficult or not. I’ve been very blessed in my career with being allowed in the gay community. Again, as a cisgendered straight dude, that’s not lost on me. I don’t take that for granted. It’s been such a huge part of my life, even pre-Glee. I come from San Francisco doing theater, man. Like, I was raised by gay men. Not literally at home, but you know, as a young kid doing theater, my friends were these men and women in their 20s, driving me home and getting me dinner. These were my adult figures in my life, so unconsciously I’ve always had such affection for the life, whatever that means. So I guess inhabiting a gay voice is important to me because it’s a voice that I find inspiring. 

These are just two of the many lies the cc fandom tell their followers in order to manipulate them into believing the fantasies that means much to them.  

[ursawood]

i liked the part in gravity falls where ford says “ah yes i am a cisgendered heterosexual male” in the episode “dipper lost the game”

i really like the part where he cisgends

[mageknight14]

@caddeter

Dude, you are clearly off on your rocker.

First of all, you cunt, Dudeblade did make an apology post.  Second of all, you constantly harassed the guy because he voiced opinions that you didn’t like and refused to let him hear the end of it.  Third, if you’re going to link to the post where he apologized, you can’t claim he didn’t.  Forth, do I need to remind you that Knight of Bias did the exact same thing, and worse?

Dude, did you miss the part where I outright said “Dudeblade never apologized to ME?” Also, it still doesnt’t change the fact that he tried to use LGBT suicide rates as a GOTCHA towards RT. Like, that’s just fucked.

And buddy, in that link you posted, you outright said,

“Even if you apologized for it, guess what, it doesn’t matter.” So when Dudeblade wants me to drink bleach, that’s OK, but when KOB actually DOES apologize, that’s suddenly not?

All you’ve proven with that is that Rooster Teeth could commit murder and you would still jump to defend them.

Ah yes, because me calling an ass out for trying to use LGBT people for his own agenda is definitely me condoning murder. Makes total sense.

And yeah, if you’re still gonna hold that shit over KOB’s head, then I gonna hold the suicide bait AND the bleach post over Dudeblade’s head. Fair’s fair.

And before I can top this off, allow me to show you why your arguments are BS.

He has harassed users because they had headcannons, headcannons, that a character was trans.

http://newtoadprince.tumblr.com/post/162762839267/knightofbalance-13-trans-aoi

 "sigh … Look, just because a character doesn’t abide by strict gender looks and personality doesn’t mean they’re trans or anything. The confidence issue probably comes from the fact that Aoi lost her parents at a young age and the closest thing she has to a parent now is restricting her freedom. The depression si because she can’t make true connections with people due to her brother’s position which causes people to suck up to her to get an eays job as well as the inherent stress from having a famous relative. If Aoi was trans, why is her VR form, the one she can customize, hyper feminine? Her deck is hyper feminine? Her attitude as Blue Angel is hyper feminine. It doesn’t add up and it feels like you’re hijacking a character for your own wants and desires. ""Okay…wouldn’t that make Aoi, a genetic female, a trans man? Because Aoi is in fact genetically female.""“denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity does not correspond with the gender assigned to them at birth.“ Like that? The basic definition that Aoi outright defies? By acting liekk and identifying with her assigned gender at birth? Yeah, okay there is very little trans representation in media…that has no impact on objective observation. 

And it doesn’t matter. And that’s what I heard about there being a gay character before that person started attacking the fans. And I heard that about gay relationships before that person accused a bisexual of being a homophobe. It’s not hurting anyone now because the illusion is still in place and the more you indulge the illusion, the more reliant you become on it and the more destructive you’ll be when the illusion is inevitably shattered, just like all of them. I’m trying to make sure this doesn’t go to shit in an instant.""But she isn’t genetically or assigned MALE. 

Aoi is assigned as a female, she is referred to as a female as Aoi, she looks like a girl, she is treated as a girl: You’re just wrong there. Just because she doesn’t look like she has boobs doesn’t make her a dude: her facial structure and body structure shows she’s genetically and assigned FEMALE. (As proven here: http://yugioh.wikia.com/wiki/Aoi_Zaizen) This is not up for debate: It’s a FACT. And this is exactly what I said would happen: Your illusion is cracking so you’re lashing out and calling me a bigot and ignorant. Next you’ll go into calling me a homophobe and talk about how I am harassing you and slandering you when you were the one who called me a bigot and ignorant while ignoring facts. After that you’ll transfer this to anyone who calls Aoi a regular girl and demand they call her as a trans girl or else. Then you’ll call anyone who doesn’t agree with you a transphobe and a “cishet” even if they are gay or trans themselves because you can’t possibly process that.

  "This isn’t about LGBT people, I’m friend with LGBT people who have gay ships and therefore gay headcanons but they acknowledge the facts of canon and don’t obsess themsleves like you do and those people do, some of whom are actually cishets themselves. My friend that I mentioned before wasn’t projecting his sexuality on to the characters, he was projecting his parental problems onto them. This is only about people who over obsess about their headcanons and their ships to a dangerous degree, like you are approaching: i’m just shattering the illusion before that happens. I’d say that if you can separate yourself from Aoi and still headcanon her as trans I’d be fine but considering your attitude, I think that’s impossible. P.S. How do you know I’m heterosexual or cisgender? I could be gay, bisexual, asexual or demisexual and I could very well be agender or transgender. You just called me that because I opposed you: Just like I said would happen."

Wow, look at all that harassment. The absolute monster.

He has defended a group of genocidal white supremacists, using a right he tries to oppress.

Are you talking about how he says that Neo-Nazis have the right to freedom of speech...and then should also deal with the consequences coming with free speech? Meaning, people can call them out on that shit?

Because if you really think he actually supports Nazis, then you’re a fucking moron.

He has equated a real life group meant for no other purpose than to ensure actual equality with a terrorist group bent on supremacy

You mean, equate the asshats who cause violence and murder for the sake of their own of their own political agenda with the asshats who cause violence and murder for the sake of their own political agenda?

Wow, what a monster.

claimed that racism was ‘morally grey’ while murder under the exact same circumstances wasn’t!  

You mean that post where he was like:

“Morally grey doesn’t mean I approve of it: it just means I’m neutral until I understand the things surrounding the event.”

And

“Take” implies intent to kill. Willfully getting into a car and running someone over is far different than someone running in front of your car. And even then: There should have been ways to avoid it. If you run someone over because you were drunk driving: you shouldn’t have been driving drunk. If a person died because you were going too fast: You should have been slowing the fuck down. And if there wasn’t any way to stop it: Well, that’s life. Even then: You need to be careful to not let that happen ever again.”

Buddy, when are you gonna stop with this shit?

He tried to argue that pedophilia is okay!

Buddy, he  fucking HATES  pedophilia. Like he really does.

He has claimed that the LGBT community doesn’t deserve representation because a few of them were mean to him, ignoring what the straights and white and men have done over the years to those groups, guess they don’t deserve representation, RIGHT!?

If by LGBT community, you mean the radical assholes who attack the writers and crew members for not making their ship canon.

I mean, it’s not like he actually supports the LGBT community- OH, WAIT!

 He has done everything to paint himself as one of the most deplorable human beings in history, exemplifying everything wrong with humanity,

Buddy, if you really think KOB is up there with Hitler, then you’re clearly off of your fucking rocker.

#magecunt #you deserve every terrible thing that happens to you #if the human race died tomorrow #the world would be a better place

Try not to cut yourself on that edge, buddy.

@knightofbalance-13

[kyaevus]

Pride Month Questionare

Not sure if you guys want to know, but here!! What is your sexuality? - Demi-Sexual, Pan-Romantic, Poly-Amorous what gender do you identify as? - Genderfluid (Demigirl to Demiboy) how long have you been aware of your sexuality/gender? - Looking back, I've know since I was little, but I only really came out to myself in the 8th grade. So about 4 ish years ago. do you have any preferences? - I do, actually! On a scale of 1-10 (one being the girliest girl and 10 being the most macho of men) I find I like a solid 5, but I'm fine with a 4 or a 6. I like people similar to myself, those who kind of fluctuate. share a positive memory about coming out! - when I came out as not-cis to my friends, they loved me and supported me through 3-4 different names! (Heather, my birth name, then Joey, Haelyn, and Finally Kylen) how do you feel about pride month? - I wish more people supported it and knew about it : ( I also wish I could celebrate it with my family do you participate in pride related events? any other events? - I try to participate in Glesn's day of silence when I can, and I would like to go the a pride parade at some point. how do you feel about lgbtq roles in media? - I feel like they can get repetitive, but have gotten much better lately! I mostly watch anime, and I'm seeing more and more of the bigger animes getting good, non-judged LGBTQ roles! do you feel pride in who you are? - I do. Every once in a while, I wish I was straight, wish I was Cis Gendered, just so that I would be /that/ family member, but I've made a new family out of people I don't have blood relation to, and they have helped me immensely. who has been your supportive idols in your self discovery? - hmm... I'm not 100% sure what this question is asking, but I think I would have to say my group of friends. tell us about your first crush? - my first crush was on my elementary school best friend, and I developed it in second grade. She was my ride to church ✌︎('ω'✌︎ ) At the time it just felt wrong and I passed it off as a friend love. (I was a baptist Christian at the time, and I knew girls couldn't love girls) what sort of advice to have you lgbtq teens? - "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" and "curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back". Your blood family may not be your real family (in a sense if who supports you) and thats okay. It hurts, it sucks, but its better to find people who love you for you than to struggle to get the love of those who want you to change. As for the second quote, don't be afraid to change you're labeling if you feel it needs to be changed. I've gone through several changes and so have my friends. Also, never let anyone tell you what you are, or that you have to have a label/can't or shouldn't use labels. Do whats most comfortable for you. have you come out to friends and family? - yes. My friends graced me with smiles, patience, and open arms, and my family continues to outcast me, disrespect my identity, and call my queerness a choice. They did not kick me out, but they silently hope this is just a phase I'll grow out of. how do you feel about the term “coming out” ? - I wish it didn't need to exist. Love is love is love is love and who you love shouldn't have to be some grand fiasco of "oh yeah, btw I'm not 'normal'" do you believe there is a “closet” to come out of? - yes, Its created by ignorance and hatred and sometimes its safer to remain inside. any tips on coming out? - please, PLEASE, don't be pressured into it. And if you're going to be in danger, please stay safe. My biggest tip is come out to your self fully, or find a trusted friend to come out to and talk through it until you can come out to your self. Once you've done that, and you've accepted yourself, then its easier when others don't accept you. It doesn't hurt less, but you don't doubt yourself so much. what’s your biggest pet peeve when it comes to lgbtq characterization in media? - LACK OF IT. Or when it does appear, they feel like they have to hide/they get weird looks/ they need to come out/ their the gayist more rainbow mofo's you've ever seen. Like, stop with the stereotypes for petes sake! what’s your favorite parts of lgbtq characterization in media? - when its not stereotypical what did your teachers say about the lgbtqa community in school? - they didn't, really. I was never taught about LGBTQ until I educated myself. do you practice safe sex with the same gender? Yes! Always! Safe sex is applicable to any type of couple! what’s an absolute turn off for you in the opposite/same gender? - Over masculinity/masculinity problems. Or being controlling. My Ex had serious Masculinity issues, and it led to him copying men he saw on TV and our relationship going to places it should have. If a potential partner is demanding of me, its a huge red flag in my brain. what’s an absolute turn on for you in the opposite/same gender? - Taller than me. And being gently protective. I'm kind of finicky and panic when I don't have control of a situation, so when someone else can have patience with me and help me calm down or male decisions its a huge thumbs up. how do you feel about lgbtq clubs/apps/websites? - Yes? Good? I've only been on one and my experience wasn't great, but i'm sure that there is lots of good ones? how do you feel about the term “queer” ? - I love it. I use it to describe myself when I don't want to explain my chosen labels to people. how does you country view the lgbtq community? - I live in the US so It varies. i feel like people are generally acceptive. favorite lgbtq actor/actress? - hooooo boi, I'm not good at this. Neil Patrick O'Harris? Yes? I like him, he is good? any tips for heterosexual and/or cisgender people on how to handle lgbtq events/news? - participate! Be an ally! If you're understanding and you take the time to learn, then you'll be fine! I 100% believe that straight is a totally valid sexuality as well as being cis gendered is 100% valid!!! And don't forget, allies have their own flag, Its a black and white striped flag with a rainbow triangle in the middle! what’s the most annoying question you have ever gotten? - theres several: - if you're pansexual does that mean you're attracted to pans? - isn't demi-sexual just like.... everyone? (Or replace "everyone" with "normal people") - are you into threesomes? (In regaurds to Pan and Poly) - isn't that just Bi?/Soooo.... you're bi./Ah, Bisexual, right? - why are you gay? - Comments: - i'm going to keep calling you (x) cause thats what I know. - *messes up pronouns* oh, sorry, i've just known you as this for so long that its really hard to change but I'm trying my best but its hard and you should really understand that ... - teacher: *sees new name written on a random piece of paper* whats this? Me: oh, ah, nothing Teach: should i call you this? Me: oh, ah, sure. *later, I raise my hand to answer a question* Teach: *pointing to me* *infront of the whole class* heather- I mean, Haelyn- Ah, Hal! Oh wait, Joey, thats it! Whats the answer? (Yes that actually happened.) how do you feel about receiving questions about your sexuality/gender? I love answering questions, but only when the person asking is willing to learn and willing to have an open mind! Thank you all so so much for reading! I love you and if you have any questions, feel free to PM me! <3 stay fabulous -Ky