#adopteeissues

[jaymme68]

I have to say.. I look an awful lot like my Biological Mother right here. She might can deny me but she can't deny that. 😁. At least she's beautiful. #adopted #Adopteeissues #adultadoptee #adoptionblogger #adoption #adopt #pledge (at Montgomery Mad House) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3NtmdXA9np/?igshid=jtf677haac9x

[adopteethoughts]

Even when things are right, we still feel lost. Even when surrounded by people who cares for us, we still feel empty. Even when others tell us how much they care, we still doubt their words. We try to find someone or something to fill the void, but there is always going to be a scar inside us.

[keeponpretending6277]

Ok so I'm going to write this because I think it's important I note this. Today I am angry, that's what this feeling is, anger. I'm angry that I still fantasise of a different life. I'm angry that I will never get to experience a 'normal' Christmas/Birthday or any type of family occasion again where I'm not plagued with conflicting, self destructive emotions. I'm angry that you can live your lives without me in them. I'm angry that your decisions mean that right now mentally and physically I am suffering. I'm angry that I have to check my feelings constantly to reassure myself that I'm allowed to feel them. After all this I'm even angry that you're making me feel angry and I don't know if this feeling will ever go away.

[jaymme68]

My latest Blog on Adoption... I hope you will read it. I appreciate all feedback. https://jaimemontgomery.com/f/why-cant-we-talk-about-it #Adoption #Adopteeissues #Detachment #Rejection #Pain https://www.instagram.com/p/B2wrW2rgSx3/?igshid=19yts8wz7lfjz

[adopteethoughts]

I Support Abortion

I support abortion. I’m not inhuman to think it’s okay to take away an unborn life. I just think that if a mother can’t be there for their child or give a child all the love he/she deserves, then don’t bother giving birth to them. You’re not giving them a chance to live but a chance to suffer in pain, one much greater and unfixable.

[adopteethoughts]

Many who were adopted as an infant often developed separation trauma leading to their constant fear of rejection or abandonment. 

[adopteethoughts]

There's always a reminder that they are different from the family round them.

[adopteethoughts]

Due to the loss of their most intimate connection (mother), many adoptees develop a coping mechanism that protects themselves from possibly experiencing the feeling of loss again. 

[adopteethoughts]

We are constantly trying to adapt to our environment hoping to fit into the group because we don’t truly know who we are.

[adopteethoughts]

Deep down we just wanted to love our adoptive family but it just wasn’t the same. We don’t know and can’t understand that kind of love. I don’t think we ever really will.