#aceing-on-the-cake

[poguelands]

CRUSH by ETHEL CAIN

he looks like he works with his hands, and smells like Marlboro Reds it makes me so, uh, and I can't get enough of it

[genderfluid-culture-iss]

Hey, this is gonna be a generalized asking for advice ask, for you or anyone honestly.

So I'm genderfluid, specifically I lean more towards transmasc in general or neutral, but I do experience a full spectrum and so I do lean femme at times as well. I'm the only one of my friends who's gender shifts, most of my trans friends have more of a binary or at least a stable gender, so I figured asking other genderfluid people for their experiences or advice on going on hormones as a genderfluid person.

I've avoided taking hormones or doing any kind of medical gender affirming because my gender shifts pretty regularly and hormones are pretty constant and permanent, but I've noticed that I'm much more generalized towards transmasc and neutral end of things, so I've been considering it again.

Most of my concerns lie more in the worry that if I do start on hormones, because my gender does shift, that dysphoria will be higher if my physical forms shifts (like with facial hair for example) when I present as more femme or even neutral realmed than the dysphoria I get currently when I'm feeling incredibly masc because I have a small enough chest I can do things like bind very easily, but I will never not have dysphoria when in those more masc states even binding, because I appear very feminine in general physically. I'm short, I've got a really high pitched voice, I am not boxy in any manner, etc.

So I guess idk, I'm looking for maybe advice, maybe experiences from genderfluid people who do go on hormones and how they deal with the new dysphoria that might arise from that, or even transfems specifically who deal with the kind of dysphoria you experience when you physically present more masculine but feel much more femme.

I haven’t taken hormones (I also lean heavily toward masc, usually) but I’ve been wanting to.

But honestly, if you think it would help with dysphoria, do it. If you find yourself constantly like “Damn, I wish (trait) was more masc.” then do it.

because even if, say, you start feeling fem and thus dysphoric again, you can always use makeup and things (or whatever you associate with “fem”)

also, voice training helps a lot. But your throat might be sore when you start off.

what’s most important is feeling comfortable MOST of the time. Honestly, in my opinion, it’s impossible to be comfortable 100%—that’s just a price to pay with being genderfluid.

if anyone would like to add onto this—especially those who have taken hormones—it would be greatly appreciated!

[spnsabrielbang]

Wingman

─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Author & Artist ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ @cas---2y5 & @aceing-on-the-cake ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Rated ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Explicit - 18+ ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Word count ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ 12,283 words (94.5 minute read) ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Warnings ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ No Major Warnings Apply ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Tags ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Gabriel in the Men of Letters Bunker (Supernatural), Sex in the Men of Letters Bunker (Supernatural), Voyeurism, Crossdressing Kink, Gabriel Wears Panties (Supernatural), Wing Kink, Sam Winchester Has a Wing Kink, improper use of wing oil, Masturbation, Vaginal Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Creampie, Panty Kink ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Characters ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Gabriel, Sam Winchester, background Original Characters ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Relationships ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Gabrie l/ Sam Winchester, brief Gabriel / Original Female Character(s)

─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Excerpt ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─

Gabriel knew he should just say yes, that he should leave well enough alone. But Sam was looking at him with such curiosity, such hope, that the words came out before he could stop them. “Well, technically it's possible, but that spell ain’t gonna cut it.” “So what will?” “The only way you can see an angel’s wings is by doin’ the horizontal tango.”

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[dont-open-dead-inside-25]

*places pet picture there*

CRYING im in love. thank you

[maro-inku]

I find it curious, as an ace person that there is a joke related to cakes because my hobby is baking and pastries.

I should have taken it as some sign about me long time ago 😅

[queerrambles]

Hey, this is gonna be a generalized asking for advice ask, for you or anyone honestly.

So I'm genderfluid, specifically I lean more towards transmasc in general or neutral, but I do experience a full spectrum and so I do lean femme at times as well. I'm the only one of my friends who's gender shifts, most of my trans friends have more of a binary or at least a stable gender, so I figured asking other genderfluid people for their experiences or advice on going on hormones as a genderfluid person.

I've avoided taking hormones or doing any kind of medical gender affirming because my gender shifts pretty regularly and hormones are pretty constant and permanent, but I've noticed that I'm much more generalized towards transmasc and neutral end of things, so I've been considering it again.

Most of my concerns lie more in the worry that if I do start on hormones, because my gender does shift, that dysphoria will be higher if my physical forms shifts (like with facial hair for example) when I present as more femme or even neutral realmed than the dysphoria I get currently when I'm feeling incredibly masc because I have a small enough chest I can do things like bind very easily, but I will never not have dysphoria when in those more masc states even binding, because I appear very feminine in general physically. I'm short, I've got a really high pitched voice, I am not boxy in any manner, etc.

So I guess idk, I'm looking for maybe advice, maybe experiences from genderfluid people who do go on hormones and how they deal with the new dysphoria that might arise from that, or even transfems specifically who deal with the kind of dysphoria you experience when you physically present more masculine but feel much more femme.

Hey!

So, while I am a transmasc genderfluid person myself, I've never actually been on hormones, though I've certainly wanted that. However, I'll share what I've personally been considering for myself, and maybe it will be helpful to you.

Something I would consider is going on a pretty small dose of T. This is called microdosing. Many people who microdose are nonbinary and have the goal of looking more androgynous. This could be helpful because someone who looks androgynous can still take steps in their presentation to look more masculine or feminine. This method can still have effects that could cause dysphoria for when you have a more fem gender, though, so I would do some research into this.

If anyone else has any advice, please add it in a comment or reblog! I'm also interested to see what other people recommend.

[bored-boring-and-tired]

ALL THREE AT ONCE LETS GO

[I.D. three screenshots of the tags for asexual, aromantic and aroace all gradient highlighted and marked with the trending topic symbol. End I.D.] (thank you @lemondoddle for the id!!)

edit:

KEEP TAGGING THIS ‼️ the tags aren’t trending anymore so keep tagging it if you rb ‼️ (let’s make it to valentine’s day!)

edit 2:

asexual and aroace are trending again yall! but aromantic still isn’t trending so keep!! tagging!!

EDIT 3:

THEYRE ALL TRENDING AGAIN GOOD WORK YALL ITS NOT VALENTINE’S DAY IN MY TIMEZONE YET BUT HAPPY ARO/ACE/AROACE VALENTINES DAY WE DID IT ‼️ (still keep tagging though, don’t want to let them stop trending before valentine’s day is over) (or ever 👀)

edit 4:

i’m adding valentine’s day tag because. let’s invade that tag with this

EDIT 5 (and 6) (edit 6 is the image ids):

CAKE AND GARLIC BREAD FOR EVERYONE

[I.D. a beige-frosted one-tier espresso cake with caramel-colored drips on top along with nine swirls the same color as the rest of the cake around the top border. each swirl has a single espresso bean on top of it, and the cake itself has espresso beans surrounding it. End I.D.]

[I.D. half of a baguette in the form of garlic bread with a garnish of parsley or another garnish of that sort on top. the half is cut in six equal slices. in the top left corner, there are a few short ends of a plant sticking out, and the bottom right corner contains a section of the other half of garlic bread. End I.D.]

EDIT 7:

ITS VALENTINES DAY AND THEYRE STILL TRENDING HELL YEAHHHHHH

EDIT 8:

NUMBER THREE TRENDING?? TUMBLR IS THE BEST

[I.D. a screenshot of the tumblr trending tags list, showing third place as aromantic, trending with “#asexual” and “#aroace” in the same category. the background is a desaturated brownish-red, and the “3” is written in black text within a red circle. the rest of the text is white. End I.D.]

EDIT 9:

WERE MOVING UP ‼️ #2 ‼️

[I.D. a screenshot of the tumblr trending tags list, showing second place as aromantic, trending with “#asexual” and “#aroace” in the same category. the background is a desaturated yellow, and the “2” is written in black text within a yellow-orange circle. the rest of the text is white. End I.D.]

[retrogamingblog2]

“Mom’s Homemade Cake” from Animal Crossing

[cutebroccoli]

Dear bot hunters,

have a little break from hunting and enjoy this cake I made a while ago. I don't have a pic of the last garlic bread I made, so cake it is 🖤🩶🤍💜

Good luck and stay safe 💚

[theacecouple]

Happy Ace Week! We've got our cake and we're ready to dig in!

Learn more about the history and significance of cake in the Asexual community in Courtney's article for Bon Appetit!

[cosmicrhetoric]

my personal fave "luffy holds a mirror up to someone's soul" moments. aka the whole point i think

[genderfluid-culture-iss]

Does anyone else's gender/sexuality seem to change based on the relationship they're in? Like if dating a woman I think of myself more in terms of womanhood even while still participating and acting masc and I usually start to identify as purely sapphic instead of bi, and if I date someone masc/a man I usually end up like doing the opposite and almost strictly identifying as a gay man, and I naturally think of myself more strictly in terms of masculine, especially in my head. Idk, is this something others experience?

I’ve done this too. I had a 3 year long relationship with my (now ex) girlfriend (who was a cis woman) and I identified heavily as a woman (was originally cis when with her but later identified as genderfluid while with her) and still felt mostly female.

after we broke up (I’m single currently) I began to slide into a more masc side. Now it changes just whenever.

[spnsabrielbang]

Click Click Pose

─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Author & Artist ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ @samanddean76 + @masoena & @aceing-on-the-cake ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Rated ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Mature Audiences ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Word count ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ 6,104 words (47 minute read) ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Warnings ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ No Major Warnings Apply ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Tags ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Alternate Universe - Human, Model Gabriel, Photographer Sam Winchester, Falling In Love, First Meetings, First Kiss, First Time, Frottage, Love, Picnics, Sweet, Happy ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Characters ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Gabriel (Supernatural), Sam Winchester ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Relationships ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Gabriel / Sam Winchester

─ ⋅ ⋅ ─ Summary ─ ⋅ ⋅ ─

Gabriel was trying to make a name for himself that didn't include his prolific history as a top-rated porn star. He'd been able to break into a successful television show, Dr. Sexy M.D. But his life was forever changed when he walked onto the set for his latest photo shoot and met the man of his dreams. Sam watched the transformation from a kind, courteous, and unassuming actor into a full-fledged sex god. But he could see through the cracks to the shy man that was carefully hidden underneath the bravado. The only question was, would he be able to convince Gabriel to take a chance and be the man he was always destined to be?

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[dont-open-dead-inside-25]

Daily allotment of doggo photos

so precious 😭

will you give them some pets for me?

[niabarnat]

someones got a sweet tooth :3

(aka molars cake)

[daily-grian]

born day