#ace culture is lesphobic

[demisexualmeansnormal]

Even Frollo has a fair dose of gay coding, in spite of the sexual frustration regarding Esmerelda.

Effeminate mannerisms

Delicate features

Ostensibly celibate cos Church (granted, in the novel, he's an Archdeacon, and it's been an open secret for centuries that many LGBT people entered the Church to deny their nature and avoid persecution)

Contrasts with the Manly Man of Phoebus, and to a lesser extent, Quasimodo, the heroes

It's subtle, especially compared to the rest of the above, and while he's not listed on TV Tropes' page for "The Sissy Villain", he certainly fits MUCH of that description (they even note that this kind of character is actually usually portrayed as "sexually ambiguous," but sometimes is even written as hetero).

Happy Asexual Awareness Week

Also it seems that our colors are always associated with villains, why is that?

[demisexualmeansnormal]

I'm not going to play the silly games of homophobes like this little shithead.

You will be reported for harassment. Cos that's what this shit is: it's harassment.

[demisexualmeansnormal]

Comparing LGBTs to paedophiles is homophobia. jsyk

[pupgendrz]

ace culture is using the d slur yet denying your lesphobic, and making a post saying that het does not equal straight while also wondering why no you're getting accused of homophobia because youre an innocent smol ace who cares about realer things then the nasty homos uwu

jsjsuquuqowolala they only care about cake,That’s what they do! All except Roby, they good.

[demisexualmeansnormal]

[demisexualmeansnormal]

gay people: stripping characters of sexual and romantic agency is a common way of gay-coding.

aces: STOP STEALING OUR REPRESENTATION!

[demisexualmeansnormal]

@revengestark why not just admit that you hate lesbians? I mean, I'm not even a lesbian, so I literally have nothing to gain from noticing that Ace Tumblr and Acebook have hell of a hate-on for lesbians.

[demisexualmeansnormal]

Acebook and Ace Tumblr: we don't hate lesbians! UwU Why do you Really Evil Gays think we hate lesbians?!

Also Acebook and Ace Tumblr: TERFs are lesbians and lesbians are TERFs.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2071817703053595&id=2066702026898496

[demisexualmeansnormal]

Ace Tumblr: we deal with all kinds of shit! Like unwanted sexual advances! People have been killed for saying no to sex!!!

Literally EVERY other woman on the planet: you gremlins are aware that's literally just a misogyny problem and it's FAR from unique to asexuals, right?

Ace Tumblr: LA LA LALA!!! NOT LISTENING!!!!!

[demisexualmeansnormal]

They literally cannot go five minutes without screaming "acephobia" and being otherwise homophobic.

Tea time part of the reason it’s hard to create LGBT spaces for minors is because there is a common perception that we’re literally child predators. Like if a gay man were to try and make some sort of youth center for young boys the critiques would be relentless. There are probably people who would read that sentence and think those critiques are justified.

[demisexualmeansnormal]

@revengestark you're being incredibly hyperbolic, and when the original post you accused me of acting "ten years old" over was literally just screencaps of some of the rampant lesphobia that I, a non-lesbian (gay man) regularly see from the asexual community on this site and Facebook, coupled with one's of my adorably snarky comments and a tag "ace culture is lesphobic," that's... Not at all telling asexual people their identities are "invalid." That is literally so far off-topic to the meter act of calling out lesphobia on the Acenet that I think you're literally just looking for something to be upset about so you can stomp your feetsies and whine about "acephobia." My post had *literally nothing* to do with the validity of Asexual people, but everything to do with calling out that special blend of misogyny and homophobia known as lesphobia. Like... What is even wrong with you? At least half the time, you goobers throw the ball vaguest direction of what I'm actually talking about, but you're just... Are you even being for real, here?

[demisexualmeansnormal]

@madi-moons-ago That's a lesbian term, coined by lesbians, and appropriated by you people. You're weaponising it to justify including cis-het asexuals in LGBT spaces. That is abusive behavior. Check yourself.

[demisexualmeansnormal]

"Asexual heteromantic"

You're straight. You're just a straight person who's not really into sex.

You're straight, and you're upset that LGBT memes are not about you.

You keep whining and whining and whining about your now everyone is being mean, but here's the thing:

If a few people are calling you an asshole, maybe you've just run into a few assholes. If EVERYONE is calling you an asshole, maybe you're the asshole.

Not everything has to be about straight people.

By demanding a voice in LGBT spaces, as a cisgender heteromantic person, you're participating in the pervasive cultural homophobia in that you're expecting us to sit down and listen to yet another straight person talk about their experience -- which we see literally everywhere, even in LGBT spaces! My young man I'm cohabitating with, he wanted to leave a "gay night" this weekend because there were too many m-w couples grinding on the dance floor in what was supposed to be LGBT space -- even if both people in literally all those couples were bi-, they have literally every other dance club in the West to safely act like that in, have some fucking tact!

Even if I were to entertain the cockamamie notion of "all asexuals are entitled to LGBT spaces," there are still gay-ace, lesbian-ace, and bi/pan-ace -- so it still doesn't have to be about you! You don't have to have your own experience represented in every single thing, or be included in every single space to be "valid" -- and if you really feel like you need that? Go to fucking therapy. The DSM5 literally explicitly prevents asexuality from being diagnosed as a mental illness, so just go to counseling (and by the way, this the only time in history that asexuals have ever been in the DSM -- as soon as you people hit the mainstream radar, the mental health industry scrambled to protect you, LGBT people, on the other hand, we hit the mainstream radar, we were immediately pathologised).

tag urself, which one are u

[demisexualmeansnormal]

The fact that there are people in the LGBT community who care more about cis-het feelings than the actual safety of LGBT people... That's horrific.

“not including cishet aces and aros is exclusive and mean” i literally do not care

[demisexualmeansnormal]

Well, why not?!?!? Don't they know these goobers want to be oppressed?!?

Do you think the US Army should allow asexual recruits

I don’t know why they shouldn’t? :/ 

~Luna