#abusive ex talk

[monsterqueers]

Im just really annoyed about how people just fucking hate it when the kids they were jealous of and hated in school for not also getting bad grades also report being fucking traumatized by the school system.

Yeah sorry school traumatizes everyone, even the 'ex-gifted kids' you fucking hate because god forbid someone wasnt exploited and overworked the same way you were.

Sorry a group of predominately neurodiverse people experiencing burnout and how their upbringing of being only valued for their academic performance totally fucked their ability to function in the real world dare talk about this pain where you can see.

Its not being privileged and ~humblebragging~ to report emotional neglect from your parents centered around you having to get perfect grades to receive any scrap of love.

Wishing violence on them for talking about it and finding each other isn't cute either.

And because these people need it stated extra clear

This post is NOT saying other groups of people 'had it less bad'. This is about a specific phenomenon of vitriol towards a oft neurodiverse group of people commiserating about how they were screwed over by the system under the label 'gifted kid' NOT whatever else you are imagining im saying. <3

[bluepandadraws-log]

The stuff that's been happening in the vtuber fan sphere and the digital circus sphere today is genuinely so fuckin' hilarious bruh, Imagine being punched in the face three times, and then Pomni Digital Circus comes along and give your bruised and battered mug a small smooch and all is right in the world

[sammygender]

“can we not it’s like reminiscing about an abusive relationship” in response to sam agreeing with her that he gets what lucifer’s capable of - yeah rowena gets it

[angellic-critique]

Reminder that this is the level of drag 'representation' angel dust gives :/

This is bottom of the barrel feminization towards drag performing arts :/

And since helluva boss fans are only do passive as to read everything at surface level only here is the Spitting definition of drag queens/kings

At no point is it intrinsically all about just sexual performance or sexual drive, it can be a factor or a small portion but it is not just a large generalization as much as people are trying to make drag performing seem to be.

Drag is an art form. It is a statement. It is a person of beauty and the love and appreciation of fashion and expression!

Angel Dust is the complete opposite of sex workers or drag performers at all! If AD is supposed to resemble the theme of abuse in industry [something she already failed to portray with fizzerolli] and the toll that sex workers and addicts within the industry for that matter, we have no clue how he will act in Hazbin but the sneak peek of him in leather gives me no hope if the implication is that he will purely be centered around valentinos abuse. Considering someone on the team ship's and actively adores the ship that is Angel x Valentino

How can you claim to support sex workers while actively seeing them as purely fetishism gay yaoi bait THAT YOU ACTIVELY MERCHANDISE AS """SEXY""":/

There is nothing to angel dust besides the appeal of a feminine man being sexually abused.

[pynkhues]

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Oh my gosh, okay okay okay, anon, I've had a few wines after a friend popped by unexpectedly, sorry in advance, but she's gone now so hear me out, haha. I'm putting my crime scene investigations hat on and I can tell you after watching the scene *mumbles indecipherably* times, Lestat has at least two visible bites in the scene on his throat, not one. We all tend to look at the one on the left, but he actually has one lower on the right too.

I feel like I'm presenting evidence in a court of law right now, haha, but I've lightened the cap a bit, so hopefully you can see the one we're all normally talking about on the left here, but then, on the right, you get a hint of blood? (And you can actuall see it in that gifset too)

And when he tilts his head towards Claudia, oh! There it is! Second bite:

Which brings me back to the scene itself, and I hear you, I think maybe it was meant to be the upper left bite scarring there, BUT I'll also counter with the very fun (to me, haha) argument that the first bite we saw through the window was actually a different bite entirely given Louis seemed to go for the join of Lestat's neck and shoulder, which in the aftermath scene, would be covered by his shirt.

In other words, I think Louis bit him more than once, and I want to have been a fly on the wall in the make up team's meeting as they decided when and where to place the bites / bruises / wounding.

But anyway, YES, I love on soooo many levels that the show broadcasts that they have insane sex in Lestat's lover's house, probably break her bed, given the bruising, only for Louis to immediately take Lestat home and declare it's time, after five years, for a family meeting? Deranged behaviour! And he's there smelling at the very least like the Mississippi River and clearly glowed up from vampire / soulmate blood after years recovering on a strict animal diet, and Lestat's there looking well fucked and fed on, and their daughter is forced to just sit there and act like this is Completely Fine. A resentment probably aggravated by the fact that we know Louis threw Lestat's coffin out the window, so presumably they're sharing one tonight! She deserved to murder them both so many times over, but honestly never more so than this night!

[eat-a-dicker]

stolas cheating on stella doesn't mean he's a bad person, stolas cheating on stella is a bad thing because as two high class rich people enforcing the rules of an oppressive society goes, stella obviously cares about those rules and regulations and is angry about the social indignity of being cheated on. stolas, as someone participating as a part of the violent regime, should have recognized that this was going to happen and instead blew her off as a stupid dumb harpie (because she is) and didn't expect her to actualize her threats into violence because he thought very little of her.

[scritterthing]

so this is my batshit fucking crazy ex who emotionally manipulated me and romanticized being a lesbian to be in a relationship with me so I could be a placeholder for his ex who he’s parasocial toward, and cheated on me with him the SECOND he came back after I stayed with him for a year and a half, spent weeks stopping him from literally killing himself, and did everything I could to help him move on. and then called me a pathetic excuse of a person who thrives off of hate when I told his boyfriends other partner he was cheating. and the first time I sobbed to him on call over not wanting him to kill himself or cut me off, he laughed at me.

same guy who admitted to self shipping his 15 year old x men oc with wolverine to cope with trauma, and how much it helped. Arlo. are you forgetting that you are not only a homestuck fan in general, BUT YOU ARE AN AVID TEREZI x VRISKA ENJOYER. Same guy who came up with the idea that my oc fucks dead animals and thought it was the funniest shit ever. Same guy who fawned over my necrophile oc who keeps his wife in a fucking freezer. I cannot take him seriously. Same guy who would rant about fiction elitists who thought fiction shouldn’t be “problematic” too. In fact, it was all he ever fucking talked about. He defended “problematic” fiction CONSTANTLY. suddenly he has a saint complex. shipping fictional characters is so wrong, but sending real gore to CSA victims on the internet is ok. where does dawg draw the line. in my server, he would relentlessly joke about r*ping people and their alters, but indulging in dark fiction is so disgusting and terrible. yea ok bud. sure have a lot to say about mushroom girl, let’s talk about you. you’ve encouraged kids to h*rm themselves countless times, driven children to question literal suicide because you bullied them so bad. You’re a sick piece of shit.

[tolerateit]

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[cervinae-canine]

is it fair to call people like this "hack writers" if the only way they find a relationship interesting is when it involves pedophilia, incest, cannibalism or necrophilia?

[mikonawa]

Astarion being so clearly repulsed by sex is so important to his character and I wish more people would recognize that.

his body is finally his and having sex isn't what he wants to do now that he has his freedom.

[kvetchinglyneurotic]

My hot take is that it should have been Rebecca, not Ted, who talked to Jamie about his father in 3x11. Here are my reasons:

1. So much of Rebecca's arc is about recovering from an abusive relationship while her abuser is still, somewhat unavoidably, part of her life. Her experience with Rupert and Jamie's experience with his father aren't identical, but she knows better than anyone else at Richmond how it feels to have someone like that turn up at her place of work, and how stressful their planned encounters are, even when they're just in the same large stadium and don't need to directly interact.

2. As the owner of the club, Rebecca almost certainly knows what happened at Wembley, and she's not only well-placed to make practical arrangements like getting James banned from the match (since none of them knew he wouldn't be there) but also, as of 3x10, has come to terms with with her relationship with Rupert — both the good parts and the many, many bad parts — in a way that enables her to interact with him when necessary without massive emotional distress, while also keeping very firm boundaries in place. Basically, she, unlike Ted, could offer advice based on relevant personal experience.

3. Jamie could finally find out that Ted didn't have him sent back to Man City — while it would be nice for Ted to say it, Rebecca is better placed to give the full story, and she and Jamie have a lot in common when it comes to expressing their hurt in a way that leaves a lot of collateral damage.

4. Explains why they're hugging in the finale.

[mwolf0epsilon]

It might be the trauma, it might be my want to be compassionate. But sometimes I really wish I didn't just let myself get to a point of misery where what I feel or think doesn't matter in the grand scheme of showing support to someone who's never going to really understand how awful they are to me. Blood relation and all.

[pallaspally]

Some days are so hard. Theyre exhausting, theyre long, and they feel like they have it in for you. I know they pass. I know none of this is going to seem as bad a month from now, but im not living a month from now. Im living today, and today fucking sucks. So im going to end today early and get one step closer to a month from now when it seems not so bad.

[sammygender]

when you actually start to think about it s13 is fucking insane. why did the writers decide to make sam raise lucifer’s son. not that i’m complaining i love it it causes clinical derangement in me but like. what the fuck. where do they come up with this stuff

[pwurrz]

no actually i think people should be allowed to mourn a large part of their childhood while also being able to talk about how they aren’t supporting an abuser’s actions by feeling grief over their passing.

i think people should have the right to talk about the complexities of human emotions and acknowledge that difficult feelings, especially grief, are never black and white without being accused of being an abuse apologist OR being accused of being a heartless monster with no compassion.

[rxttenfish]

i understand why OP turned reblogs off but yeah. yeah thats just entirely it isn't it.