#Wilbur is outed to be a domestic abuser and follows it up with a half-assed pr apology

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I love having to reformat my entire final art project for this semester because 1 (one) internet "soft boy" turns out to be a domestic abuser.

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RANT!! CW: WILBUR SOOT

so fucking upset about the bullshit that wilbur put shelby through

she deserves so much better and i hope she never has to be put into a situation like this again. fuck wilbur and his self centered apology. watch SHELBY’S VOD for more info

to make it clear: i do not support wilbur anymore, and i have removed all of his music and lovejoy’s music from spotify and anywhere else i followed or listened to them on. i enjoyed his content for a long time, and he was one of my biggest comfort streamers throughout covid and i always enjoyed his music, but i’m not going to support a domestic abuser. and his apology just- it wasn’t even a fucking apology. he didn’t talk about anything aside from the biting, and even then he didn’t bring up the fact that he ignored the safe word! there is so much shit that shelby put up with and he didn’t bother bringing it up so that he could get out a half assed apology to try and save his career.

stay safe everyone and take care of yourselves. i understand that wilbur and lovejoy may have been a comfort, but that’s not a reason to support a domestic abuser. i know i made a rant last night about how sad i am about not being able to just enjoy things, but i still have my morals and beliefs. Always support the victim before anything, even if it ends up being debunked. That isn’t to say that you should go harass the person who was accused, but just stop supporting them. stop interacting with their content. easier said than done, especially if they were a comfort or a hyperfixation, but there’s a point where you have to stop showing them support. i don’t have words to properly explain how im feeling, but im so upset and angry at wilbur. He hurt Sheby, and also many of his friends. that’s not the kind of person i want to support, or interact with.

take care of yourselves and don’t forget to take breaks from looking at this stuff, it can get overwhelming very quickly. it’s important to be educated but you won’t be able to learn much if you’re too overwhelmed to process it.