#Tw transphopia

[the-jazzy-cool-cat]

You know People who say "people who critic JK Rowling need to grow up" dont understand that just because she has a tragic past and has trauma and depresion doesn't mean she has the right to hurt others.

That trans people are a minority, that they get murdered everday, that she is triying to take human beings rights away from them just because she disagrees with them.

They don't understand that she only has empathy for very epecific mental ilneses like depresion and eating disorders while claiming all other mental ilneses make you evil, even tho people who sufer from mental ilneses such as, bipolar disorder, schidsofrenia , pshycosis and many others are sufering every day , getting abused by their own family menbers and the hospitals they pot them in ( depending on the hospital, this only happend's sometimes, there very good hospitals out ther, this is not the norm), getting denied terapy and medication and killing themselfs bicause of it.

Or how she made big people out to be evil or gross and ugly when in the era the book publish fatphobia was already super serius, she probably caused a lot of plush size students tu be heavily bullied in meany schools with her books.

They don't understand that not everyone who critics someone is a " hater" who wants to see her fail, or that hates her for being human and making mistakes.

Whe want her to apologise and become a better person, but every time someone dares to say anything she did wrong, she just makes up excuses.

She just yells, "i don't care!!"

JK Rowling needs to grow the fuck up.

Just because you like Harry Potter doesn't mean you have to pretend the autor can do no wrong and that the books are perfect.

[fulltimegayjobactivated]

RULES TIME

Also counts for requests/asks

- Be nice and patient with me. i'm often quite busy

HEAVY TOPICS (example; SH)

TW me for any heavy ideas such as SH, suicide and more.

R@P3 AND SA

I won't write R@p3 or SA cause it makes me HELLA uncomfortable (please respect that). I will block if I get any request of asking me to write it, but I guess mentioning it as in a character saying they got SA or R@p3d is tolerated for now. (+ the heavy topic rule)

HOMOPHONIA AND TRANSPHOPIA

I won't tolerate anything that contains homophonic, such as transphobic topics! Keep that in mind, or I block.

[pansapphicpositivity]

I feel like transphobic lesbians won't listen to you saying it's transphobic to say trans women can't be lesbians. Call it lesbophobic instead. Throw that shi r right back in their face.

[whereisash]

Hello guys! How are you? Good? That's great! I'm posting this today because I'm deactivating my account later, there are so many reasons why, and honestly, it's because I'm done. I feel like I've hurt so many people, and have made them feel like shit. Plus other problems of my own, I've been getting a ton of suicidal thoughts lately, my dad has been transphobic towards me and other people I support, and I feel like I'm trying so hard, but I fail every time. I really am trying to become a better person, I want to put a smile on my face and help everyone so they can smile, but it's tough, yk? Oh, it's my birthday soon, so that'll be fun...I guess, I still never said my age on this app, so I guess it's a guessing game for them, but it won't really matter. I don't want to hurt people, not anymore, so might as well deactivate my account. It was fun chatting with you guys, and meeting new friends... Though I don't really think anybody is really my friend.... This is a early goodbye.

[pansapphicpositivity]

Stay safe,y'all.

PSA:

everyone, especially trans lesbians and gay trans men, should be sure to block & report a blog that’s shown up here recently called “youre-not-passing” which reblogs mostly trans lesbian and gay trans men’s selfies with nothing but insults and deliberate misgendering. quite a few members of our community have already been targeted by the terf running the blog, along with their followers. please be on the lookout and be safe. if enough people report them, hopefully their blog will be removed, but in the meantime i advise you all to block the blog so that you’re not targeted, i also encourage everyone to reach out to those who have been targeted and make sure they’re okay and give them some love and validation. be safe y'all

[sun-kissed-star]

being mad doesn’t always excuse doing shitty things!! there are healthier coping mechanisms than just not being a decent human being! thanks for coming to my ted talk

[elidon00]

TW. Transphopia

Only in Finnish

Tälläinen tapahtui tänään ja halusin tännekin jakaa.

Aika paljon tulee aika paljon käytettyä tiktokkia ja siellä olevat suomalaiset osaavat kyllä olla ihan kamalia. Erehdyin ja yritin korjata kun joku kommentoi "Homous ei ole luonnollista." siitä lähti kunnon välttely mikä ei liikkunut mihinkään, eikä kukaan oppinut mitään uutta. Eli aivan täyttä ajan tuhlausta.

Tässä vaan pari kommenttia mitä tämä ihana ihminen vastasi minulle kun keskusteluun tuli aiheeksi transseksuaalit.

Sanoi, että transsukupuolisuus on mielenterveys ongelma ja kun linkkasin hänelle artikkelin missä tämä osoitetaan vääräksi hän ei sitä edes huomannut.

En enää jaksanut hänen kanssaan jutella kun ehdotti "ratkaisuksi" shokki terapiaa.

Oli tämä keskustelu aika puuduttava ja on kyllä hirveää miten inhottavia ihmiset osaa olla netissä.

[evilneo]

Maybe @afabist should have found the context instead of just butting in.

Hey, thanks for talking me out of contacting a terf, I feel better now 💕

I’m glad! ❤️

[pansapphicpositivity]

Alright, let's get one thing clear. Bi lesbians,or any m-spec lesbians, are vaild. I don't wanna hear any "TERFs created the term to invalidate trans women and cis lesbians who date them," bs. It's used by many people who feel just saying lesbian or bi or pan etc. describes them. And it isn't transphobic because most bi lesbians I've seen are in no way,shape,or form transphobic. Also, anyone who wants to can use the split-attraction model. Not just a-spec people, though they can do that too.

[orgnsdchaos]

Remember, terfs arent trying to convince trans people that all the transphobic shit they spew is right. They're trying to get you to debate them in public spaces so that uninformed cis people can overhear and then the terfs can pull the "Look at this horrible TRANS ACTIVIST harrasing me just because i said BIOLOGY IS REAL. Aren't I the reasonable one here being attacked by the big bad transgenders!"

Dont try to debate terfs on the validity of peoples existence. Call them out for what they are (transphobic and misogynistic shitheads) and hit that block button

we need to stop treating terfs like misguided feminists and start treating them like the dudes in tf2 voice chat who try to have a moral debate with you when you tell em not to say the n word. like these people are not well intentioned they dont want social progress they want to be able to call people trannies with impunity and thats basically it, radical feminist "theory" is a joke stop taking it seriously and trying to refute it with Facts And Logic

[pansapphicpositivity]

POC,fat people, and trans people have been wrong by this community. Because they aren't considered palatable to our oppressors. Fuck that noise and actually defend these people, cowards.

[orgnsdchaos]

And if we're talking about transphobia in harry potter, one of the villians, Rita Skeeter, is a woman whos defining features are (All of these quotes are constantly repeated in the books) "A square jaw, obviously fake hair, too much makeup and LARGE, MASCULINE HANDS." You know, most of the features terfs like to use to "spot" trans women.

And if that wasnt enough, Rita spends most of her time magically disgusing herself to sneak into hogwarts and spy on the students. Including watching hermione in bed in hospital and (i may be wrong about this i cant be bothered to find my old harry potter books rn and check) SPYING ON HER IN THE GIRLS BATHROOM.

(Also she acts quite predatory to harry but i couldn't find a place to fit that in)

So yeah, pretty TERF-y

(Feel free to answer this on your main blog if you want the funny hedgehog blog to focus on the funny hedgehog) is Harry Potter really that bad on reread? Sure, JK Rowling is a terf, but do those themes really show up that much in the books?

This is a series where they spend several books discussing elf slavery and whether or not it's okay because actually they like being slaves, and sure Dobby being freed was framed as the objectively correct thing at the time but actually he's just a weirdo who doesn't like being a slave, the rest like it, and Hermione is being a stupid bitch for advocating for elf rights when they don't even WANT rights because they LOVE being slaves, and also Dumbledore owns elf slaves of his own who make all the food for Hogwarts but let's not think about that too much because Dumbledore is a nice old grandpa who we all love and also eventually kind of a stand in for the Christian God, and then Harry is forced to inherent an elf slave of his own who he personally hates and keeps spouting Wizard Nazi shit and even though he absolutely does not want to own a slave he just, never thinks to free his personal elf slave, and then the last line in the entire series before the epilogue is Harry thinking about asking his slave to fetch him a sandwich

They are, in fact, that bad

[pansapphicpositivity]

M-spec people are always caught in the middle. Both sides say the same thing,"Pick one already,you're just being greedy." "You're jus straight and want attention." "Um,actually, he's gay,so don't be surprised when he leaves you." "I would never date you cause you'll miss *insert gender here* and leave me."

Trans and non-binary folks are always caught in the middle. "You just want to be trendy." "You're actually just a lesbian."" That's not a real gender." "Trans lesbians are just straight men invading women's spaces."

A-spec people are always caught in the middle."You don't belong here, you just want attention." "Their actually straight." "Aro people are predatory." "It's ok to not want sex, but don't call an orientation." "Demisexuals and demiromantics are just " regular" people. "

God, love the hypocrisy.

[pansapphicpositivity]

Hi, why is everyone so cute? ok thats not really why im here, im pan and trans and my freind told me "your like the most cotroveral person ever since your pan and trans" like i got really hurt by that so i was wondering is that panphobic/transphobic?

It can be seen as such if it was used to make you feel bad about your panness and transness, but even if it weren't panphobic/transphobic, if it makes you uncomfortable, tell your friend to not make such statements, if you feel safe doing so.

[pansapphicpositivity]

I'm questioning and I tried looking for things that could help me figure out my identity but I only found transphobic and enbyphobic comments...

You wanna dm me so we can talk about it?

[pansapphicpositivity]

It's the Polish anon again... My parents are watching the news and I can't handle all of the homophobic and transphobic things they say in TV... I feel horrible, I'm really just one step from losing my mind, I can't handle this anymore... Maybe I'm in the wrong here, maybe I'm just stupid and I really am less than human for being queer... I'm sorry for bothering you with this...

Anon, you are not bothering me. And you are far from lesser. You're important. And fuck the people on the television.