#Transfemme

[zerosuitsammi3]

I should be allowed to dress like this all the time 🤭🤭🤭

[genderqueerdykes]

people who think that transfems are inherently "unsafe" around transmascs and that transmascs are a "threat" to transfems:

are t4t transhet transfems a joke to you?

are t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasc family members a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasculine children a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasculine friends a joke to you?

you HAVE to acknowledge we exist. you can't keep pretending we don't.

i don't know how else to break it to you that there are many, many transfems who love transmascs for a lot of different reasons, but if you seriously can't take a second to consider how you're hurting a ton of transfems by shitting on transmascs, i really have no other words for you. care about the transfems who love transmascs. we exist. stop pretending we don't. we are out here and and the transmascs we love don't deserve to feel like shit. it doesn't empower transfems to make them and the transmascs they love feel like shit. stop this.

[stellawilsonx]

Get her drilled😍❤

She told me, I'm still fermenting with the scent of your ecstasy after your night that tore everything in my body apart.

[yourdailyqueer]

Karen Ulane (deceased)

Gender: Transgender woman

Sexuality: N/A

DOB: 10 December 1941 

RIP: 22 May 1989

Ethnicity: White - American

Occupation: Airline pilot

Note: The case Ulane v. Eastern Airlines became the federal legal precedent for transsexual legal status under the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

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[genderqueerdykes]

i really feel for you, anon. i feel the exact same way. you are not the only person dealing with this right now. you deserve to be heard, too. just because you acknowledge the struggles of trans men doesn't mean you don't care about the struggles of trans women. just because you care about trans men doesn't mean you hate trans women. anyone who tells you that is a raging transphobe, themselves, and you don't have to listen to them. remember that people shutting you down for being transmasc is still trans(andro)phobic no matter what and it's not an okay thing to do. ever. period

im so exhausted by having to perfectly word what im trying to say or else i get told i hate trans women. I love trans women. I do everything in my power to fight for trans women. Whenever I fuck up and call a transfem by masc words (dude, bro, and man are a part of my vocabulary and I see them as gender neutral when used casually however i KNOW a lot of people dont), i correct myself and do everything I can not to do it again. When a trans woman talks to me about her struggles, I listen. I just wish sometimes that I was treated the same way. Of course, most transfems are wonderful people but a lot of the transandrophobic abuse I've recieved comes from transfems. And of course some transmascs are fucking awful, but like. when I get upset about the transphobia i face, more often than not im told to sit down and shut up because trans women have it worse

sorry if this comes off as transmisogynist, im really trying my best to explain what's happening

You definitely don't sound transmisogynistic Anon, that's not the impression I'm getting from you. I can definetly get where you're coming from, as I've had more than my fair share of bad experiences with trans women.

My best advice is to just ignore someone who doesn't treat you with respect and calls you names for honest mistakes.

[werethropy]

"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?

Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.

[zerosuitsammi3]

Cleavy and squeezy >;3

[genderqueerdykes]

ive actually seen a lot of transfem separatists try and say that t4t is ONLY for trans women. i dont know if thats still a popular hot take, though.

talk about being absolutely full of yourself. how selfish does one have to be so petty that they think the term "trans4trans" is for them and only them. i've seen it, too, and that's not how it works. nobody owns t4t. also "transfem separatist" is the most embarrassing thing i've ever heard. i don't call things cringy, but that's a serious contender.

tell that to all of the t4t transhet transfems, i'm sure they'll be overjoyed to hear it. tell that to all of the t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems, i'm sure they'll be over the moon. i'm sure they'd be thrilled to be invalidated by other transfems. i'm sure that won't hurt them at all!

transfems separatists, get real. all you're doing is hurting other transfems. care about transfems other than your goddamn self, the trans community doesn't revolve around you. the word "trans" doesn't mean "transfem" and that's it. you're being selfish as fuck and it's not helping other transfems, literally all you're doing is throwing other transfems under the bus for the sake of being an edgy asshole who wants to suck up to the rad fems who hate you and literally want you to die the most violent death humanly possible. who are you helping, here? because it's not other transfems.

[chaoticrei]

Like/reblog if you think that you don't need to medically transition to be transgender

[hungdykes]

Twitter: @spoogyoogie

[a-thread-of-green]

I've spent the last two weeks speedrunning coming out as a trans woman to my coworkers, extended family, and the assorted friends I'd collected through Facebook and I've been shocked and overwhelmed by how enthusiastically supportive cis women have been in particular. After doomscrolling through TERF shit for the past year, I'd become convinced that cis women tended towards distrust of trans women, with a significant percentage actively vitriolic. But, time and time again, I've received effusive praise from the cis women I come out to. Not just progressive women either: Christian Facebook-moms from Texas have been enormously supportive. I've gotten some support from cis men too, but nothing nearly as passionate, and they've been the source of all the awkward avoidance or disgusted looks I've experienced. It makes complete sense: cis women generally like being women, and most of them like it a lot, so why wouldn't they celebrate somebody else becoming like them? This really drives home how dishonest TERFism is: they present themselves as the voice of women, but really they're just a regressive minority, distorting the issues to lead people away from their inclination towards love and acceptance.

[sir-dyke-genderpunk]

[virtualgirladv]

Hey young transfems (either age or transition progress) just because someone is nice to you or gives you gifts does not mean you have to engage in sexual things with them. If you 100% definitely want to then go ahead but if you're uncomfortable or unsure or flat out wouldn't if it weren't for the attention given then just say no.