#TransAutism

[radqueer-kitten]

Can we normalize finding some disorders cute?

I find my own tics cute at times. I have a tiny ‘meow’ tic lately, and I wish people wouldn’t pity me for it happening. I do have negative ones, but they’re not all bad.

And hey, my (Friend? Crush?) favorite guy Alex, he’s autistic. I find it adorable. He speaks very formally, but he’s been learning to use slang and speak casually. I love it, he’s adorable! :D

[permasilly]

TRANSAuDHD TiPS (from a cisAuDHD)

For all you TransAutisticADHD out there :3

SENSORY ISSUES

I personally use many types of aids for that such ad chewelry (jewelry made for chewing), fidget toys, specific clothing, weightened blankets, etc!

For the fidget toys, I personally carry around a side bag (themed of my special interests) full of many different kinds of fidget toys!

I also wear fidget kandi around :3

As for specific clothing try and wear the same clothing (especially if they are deemed as "comfy" by the general public) as MUCH as possible while still being clean. People will start to notice at some point

Also try selecting a few specifc groups of food to be deemed as "safe" and others to be deemed as "unsafe". Many of us autistics also have or were priorly diagnosed with ARFID so keep that in mind :)

On the topic of that, OVERSTIMULATION!!! As you may have heard EVERYONE goes through this so try and listen to your body more, and when you find out what overstim feels like to you, try and act out more openly frustrated and irritated at the slightest overstimulation!

BURNOUTS are also an inherent part of autism and ADHD, allistics and neurotypicals also go trought this but for us autistics it takes even longer to heal (around 3 to 5 years) so do what you will with that information :3

When I'm in a burnout I feel basically depressed and with no energy ever!

Also choose some textures, sounds, etc to be your triggers for sensory issues!

Also don't forget your headphones, and other things that cancel noises!

SOCIAL DEFICIT

i am really REALLY awkward irl

Try to change your mindset to take things as literally as possible ever

Stop being as interested in other people's lifes unless they are part of/your spin/hyperfix

Try to speak as fast as possible when excited and not to have a normal tone whenever you feel like it

Try to imitate a character's or someone's speech patterns if you can, that's common among autistic children specially

Don't have MANY (2 to 3 max) friends if you're looking for validation or a diagnosis

Don't talk much without referencing your spin (special interest)

If you also wanna change your mindset, try and think deeply and obsesses and research and ONLY care abouy your chosen spin/hyperfix

Adhd also makes the person have mental Hyperactivity which makes you thinks fast and with issues such as messy thinking

MORE TIPS

Bad sleeping habits such as insomnia are very commong among AuDHDers

Try to have someone help you with you bADLS and iADLS (basic/instrumental activities of daily life)

Research about autistic individuals experiences (tumblr is the best place I've seen)

Don't get upset if you ever slip, it's ok transition isn't linnear!

Any other questions send me an adk or a dm!!!!

[op0ssumlord]

Okay that’s fucking it!!!! If you are a “rad queer” or “transDID” “transautistic”, your identity is invalid!!! Like seriously wtf, why would you mock disorders and attempt to mimic them. You will never be “transtourettes” you are just an asshole! Stop mimicking the neurodiverse community!

And if you are “transabused, transmolested, transgroomed”, fuck you! That’s just fucked up in so many ways, don’t mock trauma! If I ever meet someone and I tell them I’ve been groomed and they respond “oh I get it I’m TRANSGROOMED” I will yell at you!

YOU ARE NOT VAILD, YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE WHO MOCKS SERIOUS TOPICS AND DISORDERS!

ALSO I AM “CISAUDHD” “CISGROOMED”AND MORE THIS IS HELLA OFFENSIVE

[thornantiradqueer]

This is for anyone doomscrolling this tag:

It's ok. These people will never be accepted into society. You don't have to keep looking at it. Eventually the shock factor will wear off and it'll just be disturbing and painful.

[married-to-google-translater]

Just because you have the privilege of being "CIS autistic" doesn't make me any less autistic.

TRANSAUTIC ARE REAL.

Maybe I didn't turn out to be autistic, but I can become one.

It's time for you to look in the mirror and admit your own privileges.

…

Damn… I don't know what to say. Never in my life has ANYONE told me that I am PRIVILEGED because I have autism.

Oh yeah, I'm privileged when I can't get a job or live "normally" because of autism… Or when I have trouble communicating with others because it feels like we're speaking a different language.

YOU CAN CHOOSE AUTISM.

I can NOT choose whether I am autistic or not. There is a difference that defines everything.

I have a lot more to say, but I can't... This stupidity is just too much...

[cannibalsmayhem]

LESRiAN.

Pt: Lesrian.

Lesrian its term for Lesbians that likes men.

Pt: If you dont like us, just block! Feel free to ask for more information about the label.

Pt: DNI: Truscum, heavy religius, dahlia/winter, antiradqueer, anti transids, anti paras, anti muds, anti mspec, anti endos, anti profic, hypoharmful, non-good faith, anti cosang, anti therian, otherkin (etc), terfs, anti xenogenders or xenoids, pro-harrasment of any type, anti kink, anti agere/petre.

[transidiotloli]

Transautim symbol, made by Tenshi:D

[foliage-446]

made a pony town transautism flag pony :3

[honeydew-wecantwo]

i know people talk about how they as transid people don't fit the stereotype that a lot of anti-radqueer people put us in, but shoutout to the people who do!

shoutout to white to asian transracial people! shoutout to asian transracial people who love cutesy aesthetics! shoutout to people who's transids are mostly just cosmetic and change constantly! shoutout to transracial people who are most comfortable as a handful of races other than just one! shoutout to people who's transid identities are intrinsically connected to their kinks and fetishes! shoutout to transautistic people who found their identity through tiktok! shoutout to people who found their transids through pathological lying! and shoutout to any who've i've missed!

you're not any less transx than the rest of us because you fall into a stereotype. you're valid, and i love you.

[littlemelonberry]

i love my trans-neuro siblings!

i love you trans-autistic people!

i love you trans-adhd people!

i love you trans-ocd people!

i love you trans-npd people!

i love you trans-bpd people!

i love you trans-did people!

i love you trans-osdd people!

i love you trans-synesthesia people!

i love you trans-neuro people i haven't even thought of yet! /genuine

you aren't "appropriating'' anything. you aren't being disrespectful. take it from a cis-neuro with a lot of trauma around not being "normal enough" - i love that you wanna be like me! i love that you want my neuro stuff! i love that you see such identity and belonging and beauty in my disorders!!!

[xx-lun4c3st-xx]

Hey quick question, can someone give me examples of Radqueers?? ive been scrolling through the tag and i don’t understand, and i really want to because i dont wanna be seen as hateful

specifically i don’t understand “trace” people, im a POC myself and it seems a bit insensitive…to me atleast but i dont wanna judge because i want to identify as a trans woman except im AFAB and trans girls have told me its insensitive to them

so i understand on that level how it would feel to be invalidated for a less conventional identity, i just want to understand.

also, does xenogenders count as radqueer? like imma need a list of umbrella terms that are radqueer

[permasilly]

Sorry if it's silly but I REALLY wanna make a transAutistic or transAuDHD tips post from a level 2 HSN cisAuDHDer :3 might post anytime soon (≧ヮ≦)

[druvjelly]

tips to all my transautistic peeps!

Get all the vaccines! The more vaccines the better. MMR, COVID, polio, smallpox. All of them

follow holistic healing blogs where parents try to cure their cisautistic child by going on a heavy metal detox, and do the opposite.

when school starts! I recommend watching TikTok’s about the autistic kid in the back of the classroom. They will give you a perfect perspective on how to be seen as autistic by people around you.

[guitars035]

Friendly reminder that if you're transautistic, you're not autistic. You're an attention seeking piece of trash who clearly didn't get enough attention as a child <3

[cannibalsmayhem]

𐂂 TRANSAUTISM. 𐂂

a transautism alt flag.

Pt: If you dont like us, just block! Feel free to ask for more information about the label.

Pt: DNI: Truscum, heavy religius, dahlia/winter, antiradqueer, anti transids, anti paras, anti muds, anti mspec, anti endos, anti profic, hypoharmful, non-good faith, anti cosang, anti therian, otherkin (etc), terfs, anti xenogenders or xenoids, pro-harrasment of any type, anti kink, anti agere/petre.

[jordan-in-paradise]

How can I be trans autistic?

I already have ADHD but I wish I was autistic

I’m assuing you are looking for tips :3 (if im wrong, send another ask that is more specific qwq)

But to be transautistic, just say that you’re transautistic, it’s as easy as that.

And here are some tips

find a special interest! find one thing you find interesting and obsess over it! research everything about it, buy things related to it, etc.

stay away from strange textures, doing everything in your power to stay away from them

be picky with food!

ignore any and all social cues

use tone tags and be confused with posts without them

stick to a small group of people

stim!!! shake your hands, twist your head, whistle, sing, bounce your leg, twist your hair, fidget with things, jump around, and anything else you can think of!

learn random facts about your special interest and share them at random times

wear headphones around! (and decorate them if you’d like ^^)

stay away from loud noises, as you would want to avoid overstimulation

either be nonverbal, semi-verbal, or hyperverbal!

I hope these help :3