#This ask seriously means so much to me

[diligentskyrider]

Tell me more about Amaya and Nakano relationship plz 🥺

OMG MY FIRST REAL ASK!!! AND ABOUT MY SPECIAL GUYS AS WELL!!!! Feel free to get context for them in the pinned fic on my page (They're Danganronpa ocs)! SO BASICALLY!! From the start Nakano is just this grounding point for Amaya as she has to navigate the first probably 2 trials. He encourages her to do her best and backs her up no matter what. She on the other hand, usually has to reel him in bc he's super optimistic and also a *little* stupid. So they balance each other out Really Well! I feel like Amaya caught feelings for him first (this is my die on this hill canon ship) but was SO SCARED of loosing him after watching 2-4 of her classmates die in front of her. Especially for the people who end up being executed she blames herself for their deaths, and she can't fathom someone as sweet and kind as Nakano would ever be able to love someone who leads people to their deaths. So she pushes the feelings away, says that he's too good for her and she'll break his heart if she gets closer. The thing is though is that Nakano doesn't see it that way AT ALL. While Amaya has kind of a 'low and slow' build up to her feelings, Nakano's kind of hit him all at once like a semi and he tries so hard to be cool about it but it doesn't last long before he's confessing his feelings to her over a cup of coffee he'd long since memorized how she likes. She tries to tell him that she'll only end up hurting him, that all she does is hurt people but he doesn't care. The way he sees it there's a good chance he's gonna get hurt one way or another trapped in the killing game, he's no stranger to getting hurt, and being able to have even a moment of her love would be worth eons of pain. THEY JUST. AUUGH. I can't say anything else to avoid spoilers for the rest of the series but they do get together and fall in love <3 I also call them straight passing also bc although I do hc Amaya as cishet, I think Nakano is bi and definitely NOT cis but doesn't care that much about labels <3 Im sorry this got so long I'm just!! So happy somebody asked THANK YOU SO MUCH

[loves2spwge]

they just want to be one...

commissions @jolyonvane did for me where i asked if he could please please please make stan look as desperate and exhausted as he usually does but is being kept together by all his love for his sbf kyle

[carouselunique]

They had a bit of a chance encounter on a day where Blueblood was dealing with something that was very difficult and was so caught up in his emotions he didn’t even care that he was in the garden getting grass stans on his coat and Ditzy, with her natural impulse to cheer ponies up, didn’t even notice or care that she was flying into the palace gardens when she saw someone sat in the rain.

At first he was definitely going to call the castle guards to come apprehend this strange filly with the odd eyes who was intruding when this was the last moment he’d want to entertain any desperate debutantes, however she surprised him by not fawning or anything, not even caring about his status, just putting one of her fluffy wings up and asking if he needed somepony to lend an ear.

“Don’t let my eyes fool you, my ears work just fine!”

She was incredibly disarming and while he didn’t reveal everything about why he was upset, he found himself talking about his feelings to her. And she made such cheerful remarks, and was very comforting. In the end, he felt better and she came to check on him the next day, even sharing a blueberry muffin with him. He remarked that he’d never seen her around before, and that he wouldn’t mind terribly seeing her more often.

The rest, as they say, is history.

[adhdandcomics]

perhaps the most important question i’ve ever asked:

does anyone have tips for people trying to stop being chronically late to everything in the world that aren’t weirdly judgmental and aggressive or flat out lies

[r0semultiverse]

Hey Digital Extremes, why are you limiting our play style to only one romance? Thought this game was about player choice. Let us choose to have the gameplay option of polyamory! 💕

There should also be a platonic New Years night option too that involves no romance for those not comfortable with it!

[pencilscratchins]

your art style is so significant that whenever i see one of your pieces, i instantly know it's from you, even if i don't know anything else about it and i think that's very cool! Absolutely love your stuff, have a nice day ✨

this is going to make me cry, thank you so much. this is genuinely one of the nicest compliments i’ve ever gotten

[capricioussun]

Just wanna say?! Though I never check consistently I am Always thinking about UF Papyrus Monday. I think 'man, is it Monday yet? I wanna see my guy...' and then get so busy with work come monday!!! So :) thank you for everything ig

Aaa that's so sweet of you to say!!! And also so real, he is Always on my mind as well ✌️😔

^ I'm showing him all the nice comments and things ppl have said about him, he is surprised and a little overwhelmed!

Special shout out in particular to @/fluo-skeletons for starting it all by wishing a happy uf papyrus monday randomly in that one server, if it weren't for that I would probably...well, I'd still draw uf papyrus too much but there wouldn't be an established schedule that we can celebrate together <3

[carlyraejepsans]

Gotta say, I was not expecting you to repost under(her)tail fanart

every time i meet someone on my brainwave (and age range lol) i eventually introduce them to that comic and then watch them progressively lose their mind. it's misogynistic, disgustingly cissexist, grossly tasteless and simultaneously grotesque to the point of being un-erotic. most absurd piece of failed pornography i have ever witnessed. its existence alone is an insult to everything i stand for.

it's also one of the most well executed UT parodies i have ever witnessed.

[aimervee]

Woo, hi Aimer! Thought I’d send an ask to hand you imaginary choccy milk, because you’re epic!

For real though, I just wanted to say that you’re a really talented artist like so many other people on here, and seeing your art always never forgets to make me smile a lot whenever it pops into my feed when I open Tumblr. :]

(I’m suffering over the extreme adorableness of Piper & Clementine, HHHHEEEEELLLLPPPP)

Keep being awesome and good luck with anything you have going on at the moment, wishing you the best! :D

WAAUAUGHGH THANK YOU SO MUCH 💖💖💖💖💖

[yourgamemasterthewhiterabbit]

Both my parents actually suffer from HORRID emotional dysregulation and are prone to snapping and going into rages. My sister is the same way tbh. I am now realizing this is why they are constantly baffled by the question of whether or not I am mad at them.

I don't have external meltdowns.

I could. I don't let it happen.

I keep my rage on the inside and stay pretty quiet about it. It's just as strong as theirs [physically shaking nose bleed from high blood pressure kind of bad], but like as a kid I saw how terrifying it was to be around [dad breaking dishes, mom putting our lawn chairs into walls] and I just internalized that I wasn't going to wear that anger on the outside.

So my mother genuinely cannot tell if I am just being quiet or if I am silently hearing the dial-up noises of pure rage. This has lead her to both making strong and confident statements like "You are a pacifist who would never hurt a fly U.U" but also acting like I am secretly dangerous maybe... It's because she has never seen me snap.

She knows what her temper is like [throwing chairs through walls], she knows what my father's temper is like [pick up child and toss out door], and she can tell I am being tested, but she doesn't know what happens when I snap or where that breaking point is.

Her -perhaps unhinged- solution to this, my whole life, has been to do things that should obviously enrage me or shut me down completely, like ignoring important boundaries, repeatedly, punishing me for expressing emotions or needs at all, etc... And then to constantly ask me if I am angry with her when I get too quiet [right after near directly telling me to shut up].

It has occurred to me now, they have never once seen me lose my temper, so they literally just can't tell if I am angry at them. My sister is easy, my mother fights and screams with my sister constantly, my mother understands this. My mother doesn't have any grasp of feelings or boundaries that are not screamed at her [apparently, and I fear my sister is the same way]. Her and my sister are close despite constant fucking fighting because they understand each other.

They are trying to get me to engage the same way and it is not working. I realize now that this has been hard for them.

I was so successfully taught to suppress my emotions, by being punished for any outburst, that rage quiet looks the same as any other kind of quiet from the outside. To them anyway.

I did tell her. For the record. I used my words. I did tell her very calmly that my response to rage, in order to avoid doing the things that terrified me as a child, was to simply leave [the autistic urge to GTFO]. When a situation or person causes too much of the dial-up rage noise, I simply extract myself from that situation, up to and including never speaking to a person again. I explained this calmly. I explained it calmly 100 times and I explained that I explain myself calmly as my rage response 1-5 [also pretty much every other negative emotion tbh], and I told her that what came next was me simply opting out and fucking off. I told her this. I couldn't understand why she never took me seriously, or why she never fucking understood.

I couldn't understand what made her like this.

But it's the same problem I have with everyone else multiplied by a factor of 10.

If I am explaining myself calmly, they can't understand that it's actually serious or that I am actually upset. ESPECIALLY because they read me as "female" and women "aren't that rational" so if I am not screaming and crying about something, which I never do, people assume I can't be upset and it isn't serious.

And then after having my boundaries ignored too many times despite having calmly explained how and why it's a problem [shaking inside or not]... I leave. I leave and everyone gets upset like this is unexpected behaviour, even though I told them 50 times that is how I would respond if they kept doing *the thing.*

And for neurotypical people especially, they are expecting there to be a disconnect between what someone says they need or feel and what their actually boundaries and feelings are, and they expect the latter to be demonstrated with emotions. Telling them bluntly you do not function that way somehow never helps?

My mother isn't just looking for normal yelling or a few tears to know I am serious, whether or not I do those either [I don't], she's looking for an explosion to know there's a problem at all.

Fucked if I know how she proceeds through life this way in general or if this is just her expectation of her own kids???

And I couldn't get why my mother couldn't read my emotions and didn't seem to think I have any. It's because she's testing for the rage limit to see where my 'actual' limit is instead of taking my word for it. Never the fuck mind that she could simply *not* test at my boundaries instead of letting me have them. Separate issue.

I couldn't figure out what made her *like this*

She's expecting me to throw a giant meltdown violent tantrum at people when I have 'actually' had enough. Maybe she got away with those being like 5'4" in another time, but I am the size of the average man, I do not get to have giant screaming rages, whether or not people perceive me consciously as a woman, and least of all because a lot of people -at least unconsciously- read me as 'masculine' or at least always "they guy" of the situation compared to all other women and some men [bigger stronger and more rational, more able to just absorb the damage and let it go so the less rational screaming/crying one doesn't have to be dealt with]. Even if it was in me to be willing to terrify people [usually never], there are such limited instances where it wouldn't just blow back on me. Potentially very dangerously.

I am going to be the quiet calm one. You are going to have to let me use my words, bitch.

So she kept ignoring my boundaries until I had to cut her out of my life, and she probably doesn't understand and probably thinks it feels sudden -after 36 long years of bullshit- abrupt and unfair.

But I told her hundreds of times.

I probably should have just screamed at her.

[jokerislandgirl32]

omg wild kratts selfshipper :D finding u made me rlly happy bc i loved the show as a child and still regularly use my wild kratts bed sheets 😭

Hi!!! Thank you for this sweet message!!!

Wild Kratts is such an amazing show! I did not become acquainted with it until adulthood, but it’s a show I would have loved to grow up with. I’m so glad you got to have that experience, and I’m touched that my selfship helps you connect with that in someway! I also think it’s so awesome that you have Wild Kratts bedsheets and still use them. Seriously… I wanna get some now 😂.

But…. yess, you have found me, an elusive Wild Kratts Selfshipper wandering free and in the wild of Tumblr (get it?)! I’ve been selfshipping with Zach Varmitech romantically since March 16th, 2021 (y’all I found the official date, repeat I found the official date!), and I have a platonic selfship with Gourmand (this could possibly become romantic too 🥰).

But Zach, my beloved Zachary…Zach means the world to me! He makes each of my days brighter, and I love him unconditionally. I could not imagine my life without him, and we are so happy together. Feel free to reach out with any questions about Ziolet at any time, and thank you so much for your support!

My man 😘

[esotericdivinity]

I don't think I should have to say this, but you can be anti-proship and anti-queerphobic at the same time, and if you don't think that's the case, you need to get your shit together. I don't respect anyone who thinks incest, pedophilia, rape, or anything ANYWHERE close to those lines is okay. But at the same time, I RESPECT AND SUPPORT MY FELLOW MEMBERS OF THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY. No one deserves to be prosecuted for what they like, until they start hurting others or themselves. That's just it. And I will stand by that so fucking firmly, always.

[timeausterrors]

i had the most infuriating interaction on twitter. so i want to have more productive and interesting conversations about homestuck now. tell me things you find unique or interesting with homestuck's writing/characters/themes etc! or tell me criticisms you have about it, its character choices or writing choices, etc! (pls dont come in to just say act 6 is bad or vriska did nothing wrong etc ! you can have those opinions but i want to spark conversations and debates around new and interesting topics or topics that don't get brought up as much!!) ALSO PLS NO HS2 i just want to talk about Homestuck as it is because i think there's still so much to dissect and explore!

[mizzyislost]

Ur rivulet design is so skrunkly can we see more of the fish

ok but only because you asked nicely

original image for the first one :)

[skumhuu]

Your art style is literally so pretty and I can't get enough of it!! I don't personally like dreammare stuff but I always look at everything you post just because it looks so nice, I want to EAT everything you draw

Thank you so much!!! 😭💖💖💖 you definitely don’t have to ship dreammare to be welcome here and vibe with me!! It’s people who don’t ship dreammare or like dark content but don’t harass me that I appreciate so much. Y’all the best

[dustykneed]

who’s your most favorite non Star Trek blorbo? :)

hilariously non-fandom (ish) but... mr john keating (dead poets society)! keating/mcallister is one of my favorite ships actually hahah. i know most people ship the boys but i guess i just made a beeline for the old married couple (as always xDD). i have this whole fix-it au for dps... 6k words of complete self indulgence and counting <333