#Taylor Swift Matty Healy

[jeremysknoxes]

the only matty i will tolerate

[isle-sehnsucht]

"Tell me with whom you associate, and I will tell you who you are." Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Now I won't be speaking on the Islamophobic, antisemitism, or other accusations because I am not well versed on those. Other people are welcomed to highlight and educate the populous on those.

Up until three days ago, I was blissfully unaware of the abuse porn website Mr. Healy apparently adores and frequents. I'm horrified and not to be hyperbolic, a bit traumatized that men not only enjoy such disgusting material but are also allowed to do so publicly. This speaks volumes to me on the privilege white women have to ignore and condone such actions as throughout the last few days I've seen how many seem perplexed that his actions and comments are garnering such distain. It is frankly inhuman to ask people of colour why they are hurt that a man is LITERALLY orgasming to women being brutalized.

And if it is a joke, are we okay with a man joking about the abuse of women, especially marginalized women? Women who likely are not aware of what they are signing up for and are only doing so because they are so vulnerable that it seems like the only way to feed themselves or their children? That's funny?

As to why Miss Swift is embroiled in this unfortunate situation. Continuing to be so publicly connected with him after learning about his actions is where I'm having difficulty with the situation. The inaction denotes callous indifference. His action by watching or joking about watching women being brutalized trivializes and dehumanizes women, especially and specifically women of colour. By standing by his side either as his fling/girlfriend or as a fan defending his action you are condoning that. And it is not something I will forget.

I'm protecting myself and standing up for what I believe in. I don't care if it makes you uncomfortable. I know writing this insignificant post on tumblr won't change the world, but this is me saying that I won't be silent on situation that I think are wrong. If no one else is going to say women like me matter then I am.

I can't just post this and move on. Whether that is shifting the focus of my degree, volunteering, donating, or a mix, I can't stop thinking about the actual real life women who are being victimized in Mr. Healy's joke. So I guess that's one good thing to come out of an otherwise unpleasant experience.

[theonlydrewboo]

Taylor Swift and Matty Healy leaked text messages.

[baby-girl-aaron-dessner]

Someone on tiktok wrote their first impression on But Daddy I Love Him and I couldn’t agree more with it:

“My first thought upon hearing this song is that all the white girls dating racists are about to be insufferable.”

[lapisthelovely]

it’ll be really funny if taylor and matty break up in like a week and all the swiftie discourse was for nothing. taylor swift is not a nazi you dumbasses she has the right to date shitty people and she’s never claimed to be a role model. celebrities are never going to be perfect people and they make mistakes like the rest of us. i love taylor swift dosent mean i always support her choices especially the people she dates (including joe but that’s a post for another day) let’s enjoy her music the same like normal well adjusted people

[charlotlie]

why are y’all crying screaming begging while defending taylor swift’s choice of dating matty healy against people who stop supporting her because of this, like damn… it’s okay for people to stop supporting her when they figure out she’s actively dating and supporting a known racist?

like 😭😭

it’s not that crazy, actually. she’s supporting a racist? must mean she doesn’t care a lot about anti-racist activism. must mean she’s not really an ally to people of color. to see her not supporting a marginalized community you are a part of or an ally too might kinda change your opinion of her.

even if you’re not being actively spouting racist bullshit, if you’re fine with others doing it and even condone it, you’ve lost all my respect.

[super-cosmic-library]

So, Taylor Swift can take criticism when it comes to Lana Del Rey’s lack of noticeable involvement in the first release of “Snow on the Beach,” but not when it comes to her racist, anti sematic arm candy? Girl, get your priorities in check. 

[septaylorsversion]

I think when taylor dedicated cardigan to matty healy on stage, she meant especially "and when I felt like I was an old cardigan under someone’s bed you put me on and said I was your favorite” part🫠

[pippa-fitz-amobi]

I dont even know what to say

[1975-to-1989]

Ironically I had both these guys as hyperfixations before the dating rumours but they have made it easier to compile the interest into one place lmao

[ilovebylersblog]

taylor and matty healy…. NOOOOO🥲

[jeremysknoxes]

Tay Tay and 🐀 Healy broke up?

[isle-sehnsucht]

Matty Healy and Taylor Swift deserve each other (Derogatory)

[lapisthelovely]

i’d kill someone for taylor swift to do pop punk avril lavigne style album. heck even a rock album. i don’t like matty, but if they are making music together i know it’s gonna be amazing

[lapisthelovely]

i genuinely have no clue how to feel about matty someone tell me what my emotions should be

every day we inch closer to the inevitable release of taylor's "all the haters are throwing shade at my relationship but I don't care" music about matty and for that reason I live in fear

[always-rolling-my-eyes]

I can’t help but be reminded of this right now 👀