#Supportive relationships

[aventurineswife]

I'm not sure about if I can request so imma just put it here. Lemme know if it's not gonna happen if it's not happening.

Dan heng, aventurine and Ratio helping their s/o study (let's let the boys wear megane pls, real glasses fr churin too X3c)

How they help with difficult questions, any snackies/drinks delivery boy and the fluffy affection after returning frm the exam hall

An excuse cuz I have ONE exam left and my single ahh self would love to see my fav boys being acts of servicey and physical

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“Through Every Question, You Have Me”

Tags: Dan Heng x Reader, Aventurine x Reader, Ratio x Reader, Fluff, Comfort, Supportive Relationships, Acts of Service, Study Sessions, Exam Stress Relief, Soft Domestic Moments, Glasses, Light Humor, Established Relationship.

Warnings: Mild exam-related stress (resolved with fluff and reassurance).

A/N: As someone with exams coming up, I present this to you ✨ I wish someone was as gentle as these men so they could teach me the basics of my subjects.😪💔

Dan Heng wasn’t one for grand gestures or motivational speeches, but when it came to helping you study, his presence was grounding. Seated across the table, wearing sleek, silver-rimmed glasses that framed his sharp eyes, he scanned your study materials with quiet focus. His calm demeanor was infectious, keeping you from panicking over the seemingly insurmountable pile of notes.

"Take a breath," he said softly, noticing the way your hand trembled as you tried to solve a difficult equation. "Let's break this into smaller steps."

He patiently guided you through the problem, his voice steady and reassuring. He never gave you the answer outright, always encouraging you to think critically. Occasionally, he’d add a small smile or a soft “You’re doing well.” which made your heart flutter.

When you started to get tired, Dan Heng slipped away, returning with a tray of snacks and tea. The small details, like the perfectly brewed tea and neatly cut fruit slices, reflected how much he cared. "You need to stay hydrated." he said, setting the tray down with gentle precision.

After the exam, you found Dan Heng waiting for you by the door, his usual stoicism softened by the faintest hint of a smile. "How was it?" he asked, taking your bag from you.

When you expressed your relief, his lips quirked upward. "You worked hard. You deserve to feel proud." As you walked back to the Express, he let his hand brush against yours, and when no one was looking, he gave your fingers a light squeeze, his subtle way of showing affection.

Aventurine lounged in the chair beside you, adjusting his round-rimmed glasses with a flourish. "Alright, darling," he said, his eyes glinting with mischief, "let’s turn this study session into a winning strategy."

He made everything feel like a game, complete with mini-rewards for getting questions right. “Answer this one, and you’ll get a kiss.” he teased, his grin playful but affectionate. When you stumbled on a tricky concept, his demeanor shifted, becoming surprisingly focused and thoughtful. He leaned in close, his voice low and soothing as he explained, turning your notes into a story that made everything easier to remember.

"See? You’re a natural!" he said, brushing a strand of hair from your face after you solved a problem on your own. He wasn’t above pampering you, either—he’d disappear into the kitchen and come back with snacks that looked like they belonged in a fancy café: tiny sandwiches, chocolates, and colorful drinks.

On exam day, Aventurine sent you off with an encouraging wink and a whispered “Knock 'em dead, love.” When you returned, drained but satisfied, he greeted you with open arms. “There’s my star pupil!” he said, spinning you around in celebration.

That evening, he drew you into his lap, gently massaging your shoulders. “Next time, let’s plan a proper celebration. You deserve it.” he murmured, pressing a kiss to your temple.

Ratio adjusted his golden-framed (granny looking ahh) glasses, the light catching on their lenses as he reviewed your study materials. "This is poorly organized," he said bluntly, though there was no malice in his tone. "We’ll restructure this first."

He created a meticulous study plan for you, complete with color-coded notes and scheduled breaks. Whenever you struggled with a concept, he patiently walked you through it, using analogies and diagrams that made even the most complicated topics feel approachable. His intellect was intimidating, but his care for you was evident in the way he explained things at your pace.

When you grew frustrated, he set down his pen and reached for your hand. "Take a moment," he said, his eyes softening. "You’re capable. Let’s not rush this."

During breaks, Ratio would prepare light snacks, carefully balancing nutrition and taste. He always made sure you were comfortable, adjusting the lighting or fetching a blanket if the room got too cold. “Your focus will improve with proper rest.” he reminded you, his voice firm but kind.

After your exam, Ratio waited for you at home, standing by the door with his arms crossed. “You’re back,” he said, his expression unreadable at first. But as you recounted the exam, his lips curved into a small, approving smile.

“Well done,” he said, brushing a hand over your hair. That evening, he surprised you by drawing you into a rare embrace, holding you close as he murmured, “I’m proud of you. You’ve earned this moment.”

Gonna cry the moment someone genuinely says they're proud of me for something I actually did good in and not to try to cheer me up 😕💔

Also I hc that ratio probably feels uncomfortable with physical touches or affection and doesn't do well with it but maybe overtime, he's slow and subtle like idk how to explain AHHHH (I'm not even a big fan of his 😭)

[roxygen22]

HEYY CAN I REQUEST ANYTHING WITH BEAUTIFUK BOY AND THANK YOU I REALLY LOVE YOUR WRITING

Thanks for the love, Anon!

Decision

Nic reflects on a fluffy, domestic moment, inspired by this list by @creativepromptsforwriting

We are always one decision away from a completely different life. The decision to use. The decision to stay sober. But the best decision I have ever made is standing next to me, drying the dishes as I wash them in the home we have made together for the family we have made together.

She is my lifeline. My tether to reality on the really rough days. My life partner and mother of my children. I fall in love with the way she dances in the kitchen when she thinks I'm not looking. The way she looks up at me and smiles, shaking her head as she wipes paint off of our daughter's face and hands (again). The way she tirelessly gives of herself, staying up late to sew costumes for our son's play, and never asks for anything in return. She is our rock.

She accidentally bumps into me, interrupting my internal musing. "Oops, pardon me, handsome." She looks up at me, batting her eyelashes. "Come here often? Can't say I've seen you around these parts before," she teases in a fake old Western movie accent.

I love the way her smile reaches her eyes. The way she keeps things light and fun. The embodiment of pure sunshine.

"No, ma'am. I'm new in town. I hardly ever do the dishes, so I'm told," I retort playfully in character.

"Well, I could show you around, if you'd like."

Unable to resist any longer, I lean down to kiss her, only to be met with heckling from our own kids who tried to sneak in behind us for a snack.

"Eww, gross!" they shout, mimicking retching sounds.

I break away to laugh and spare them from further embarrassment, but she throws her arms around my neck and pulls me down, peppering my face with kisses and exaggerated "mwah" noises to get even more of a rise out of them.

As the kids run out of the room, she looks up at me again, cheeks flushed and out of breath from laughing at her own shenanigans. I set my hands on her hips and pull her closer to stare into her eyes, amazed at just how lucky I am.

But that's the thing - I'm not. Every day is a decision. Every day is intentional. Every day I choose her. I choose us. This is the life I want.

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Masterlist

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[fonkeloog]

Market

The market is the same as it always is. Crowded, busy, loud and quite frankly too much.

Sirius can feel his control slipping, and when the girl behind the stall asks him if he wants anything else he realises his words have once again escaped him. He quickly shakes his head, and grabs his wallet to pay. As he looks up to see the amount, the girl is smiling at him. He hands her the money, and grabs his bag. He needs to find moony and get the hell out of here.

Finding Remus is easy enough. The townspeople all liked him, so he just had to look for the biggest clutter of old ladies.

Taking a deep breath, Sirius moves through the people to get to his partner. He curses his inability to be a normal person, and hopes his apologetic look is enough to prevent angry people.

When Remus sees him, he immediately tells Marie, -the older woman who lives next-door and is quite fond of them both- that they'll catch up later. She pats his cheek and quickly gets to work herding her friends back to the stalls.

"Let's go, love." He says as he grabs Sirius' hand. No other words are spoken until they get home. Remus had made dinner, and told him about Marie's knee and the upcoming surgery she had planned.

They clear the table together and move to the living. As Remus moves to put on FRIENDS, Sirius taps his wrist three times. A smile forms on his boyfriend's face as he feels the touch.

"I love you too, pads. So much."

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[lightofraye]

hello there!!

are there any celebrity couples who you think have a really good, healthy, loving relationship? i know appearances can be deceiving and nobody ever really knows what's going on behind the scenes etc, but nevertheless. I'm partial to zendaya and tom holland though for an older couple, brad hall and julia louis-dreyfus met in college in the 80s!

Hi there!

That... is a damned good question.

I definitely agree about Zendaya and Tom Holland. Despite Tom's inability to keep MCU stuff secret, he did an excellent job in not talking about Zendaya for years. They definitely seem to have a healthy, supportive relationship.

Looking at long term, older couples, Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson seem to genuinely love each other. Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn seem to be as well.

Any of my followers have thoughts to add for this question?

[alandemoss]

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[themagicmusicman]

idk why but something that’s been on my mind loads today is how shitty parents who dont support their children transitioning are.

i think it goes without saying that this is a negative thing for adults to do to their kids, but thinking about it deeper, it really sucks. this might have been brought on by listening to an episode of a podcast about that critikal and sneako situation, and how the people on this podcast were talking about “should children be allowed to transition?”

i feel like for me personally, giving an answer to this is very easy. socially, yes, absolutely they should. medically, i think waiting until they’re 18 is the best choice. a lot of people would disagree with this but here’s my logic:

socially transitioning is harmless. there’s no irreversible change done to the body, so therefore i think it’s fine. social transitioning generally consists of changing your name, pronouns and how you present yourself (clothes, hair, etc).

think about it, are any of these things irreversible? you can always change your name or pronouns back to what they originally were, or to change them multiple times. if a child originally used she/her, then used he/him, and now wants to use she/her again, that’s a very doable thing. obviously it would be a difficult change for peers, friends, family and so on, but it’s a realistic thing that can be done.

same with wearing different clothes, or changing your hair. if someone cuts their hair and then decides they want it long again, they can just grow it out. same the other way; if someone grows their hair out long and then wants it short again, they can just cut it.

another option for people who are socially transitioning is things like binding, packing, tucking and padding. for trans males or individuals who want to look more masculine, binding is a great way to get a flatter looking chest. there are a lot of different options for it (commercial binders, binding tape, certain bras or shirts), and it can be dangerous is done in the wrong way, but theres a lot of online recourses to help bind safely (i’ll be linking a website at the end of this post where you can read about safe binding, packing, tucking and padding)

packing is another option for people who want to look more masc; again, with quite a few options, including diy packers and prosthetics. this can be as simple as a pair of socks shaped like a penis that you can put in your underwear to resemble a bulge.

as for the transfem options, im a lot less familiar with them, so again, see the link at the end to find out more. however, i do know theres are options such as tucking (positioning male genitals such as the penis and testes to make them less prominent) and padding (using undergarments to resemble boobs, can also be used for hips or ass)

my point is, there are so many ways to socially transition, and they’re all safe and reversible if need be. why as a parent would you want to take this away from your own child?

it isn’t hurting anyone, be it the child or other people, and it makes the child themselves more comfortable and happy with who they are, even if it is for a small amount of time. surely that’s more important than your own beliefs?

once they are 18, they have the choice to get surgery or hormones if they choose to, and that’s fine in my opinion. i think it is a good idea to first see a medical professional or psychiatrist (although i think that’s something people have to do before medically transitioning in most countries) but it’s their choice at that point.

before then, help your child accept themselves for who they are by using their preferred name or pronouns, helping get them the clothes, prosthetics or haircut they want, and just supporting them in their decisions.

have a great day yall, and remember :

Trans rights are human rights 🏳️‍⚧️

[kelzebub]

Chapters: 2/2 Fandom: Zombies Run! Rating: Not Rated Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Runner Five & Sam Yao Characters: Runner Five, Sam Yao, Maxine Myers, Peter Lynne, Jody Marsh, Paula Cohen, Sara Myers Cohen Yao Additional Tags: Supportive Relationships, Hurt/Comfort, Angst with a Happy Ending, Angst and Fluff, Trauma Recovery Summary:

Companion piece to Home Again, can be read first/on its own. The immediate aftermath of s5m40, from Five's perspective.

Chapter 2 - contains graphic description of Sam’s injuries, and potentially disturbing violent thoughts on Five’s part. Five doesn’t know how to help Sam recover from what’s happened.

[peacemore-springs]

Vietnamese Zodiac & Tet

A 1972 birth is associated with the Year of the Rat in Vietnamese culture.

Tet, or Tet Nguyen Dan, is the Vietnamese Lunar New Year celebration. It has been celebrated for thousands of years. Its origins trace back to ancient times before the Chinese occupation of Vietnam.

2025 will be celebrated from January 28 to February 3. The main day, Tet Nguyen Dan, falls on January 29, 2025.

Interestingly... the Rat is believed to have good compatibility with certain other zodiac signs. For example, it is thought to get along well with the Dragon and the Monkey. They are said to form a harmonious and supportive relationship. Conversely, the Rat may have challenges with the Horse, as their personalities can clash.

2025 will be the Year of the Snake in the Vietnamese zodiac.

[mswild1]

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[brainwerksllc]

Living with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can feel overwhelming,  but creating safe spaces tailored to the needs of those with OCD can  significantly enhance their quality of life. Effective mental health treatment in Orange Park, Florida,  goes beyond therapy sessions; it’s about building environments that  reduce triggers and provide emotional support, allowing individuals to  feel secure and in control of their mental health journey.

[all-about-parenting]

The Hidden Trauma: How Parental Abandonment Shapes Children's Lives

Parental abandonment can be a devastating experience for children, leaving deep emotional and psychological scars that may persist into adulthood. When a parent walks away, whether physically or emotionally, the child is left to cope with a range of complex feelings and challenges. This blog explores the profound impact of parental abandonment on children and offers insights into the ways it can shape their lives.

Understanding Parental Abandonment

Parental abandonment occurs when a parent intentionally leaves their child without adequate care, support, or communication. This can happen due to various reasons, including separation, divorce, substance abuse, or personal choice. Regardless of the cause, the absence of a parent creates a void in a child's life that can lead to significant emotional turmoil.

Emotional Impact

Children who experience parental abandonment often struggle with feelings of rejection and unworthiness. The absence of a parent can lead them to internalize the idea that they are not lovable or valuable. This can manifest as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. The impact of parental abandonment on children is profound, as it can affect their ability to form healthy relationships and trust others.

Behavioral Consequences

Abandonment can also lead to behavioral issues. Children may act out as a way to express their pain and confusion. They might engage in risky behaviors, such as substance abuse or delinquency, as a form of escapism or to gain attention. Additionally, they may have difficulty following rules and maintaining stable relationships, both of which can hinder their development and future prospects.

Academic and Social Challenges

The emotional and behavioral effects of parental abandonment often extend to academic performance and social interactions. Children who feel abandoned may struggle to concentrate in school, leading to poor academic outcomes. They may also have difficulty forming and maintaining friendships, as trust and stability have been disrupted in their lives. The lack of parental guidance and support can further exacerbate these issues, making it harder for them to navigate social situations.

Long-Term Psychological Effects

The impact of parental abandonment on children can have long-term psychological effects. As they grow into adulthood, individuals who experienced abandonment may have difficulties with intimacy and commitment in relationships. They may also struggle with ongoing feelings of inadequacy and fear of abandonment. Therapy and counseling can help address these deep-seated issues, but the healing process can be lengthy and challenging.

Coping Mechanisms and Resilience

Despite the significant challenges posed by parental abandonment, many children develop resilience and find ways to cope with their experiences. Supportive relationships with other family members, friends, or mentors can provide the stability and love that was missing from the absent parent. Engaging in positive activities, such as sports, arts, or community service, can also help children build confidence and self-worth.

Conclusion

The impact of parental abandonment on children is a complex and multifaceted issue that can have lasting consequences. From emotional and behavioral struggles to academic and social challenges, the absence of a parent leaves a profound mark on a child's life. However, with the right support and coping mechanisms, children can overcome these challenges and lead fulfilling lives. It's crucial for caregivers, educators, and mental health professionals to understand and address the unique needs of these children to help them heal and thrive.

[aventurineswife]

PLATONIC HCS FOR READER WHO TREATS LINGYANG LIKE FAMILY/LITTLE SIBLING? 🥺🙏

Family isn't about blood; it's about who’s there to stand up for you

Tags: Lingyang x Reader, Platonic, Headcanons, Sibling like bond, Protective Reader, Fluff, Supportive Relationship, Wholesome Dynamics.

A/N: PROTECT THIS BABY AT ALL COST!! 😕🫶💖

You’re always watching out for him, ready to step in whenever he needs a hand or someone to defend him. Lingyang knows he can rely on you like a safe, steady presence in his life.

You frequently ask if he’s eaten, if he’s getting enough sleep, and if he’s been taking breaks from his work. Lingyang might get a little embarrassed, but he secretly appreciates the care.

Whether it’s his studies, hobbies, or new interests, you’re his #1 cheerleader. You’re always hyping him up, reminding him of his potential whenever he has doubts.

You’ll surprise him with his favorite snacks or meals, especially when he’s too busy or stressed to think about taking care of himself. “Here, you need a break! Eat this!”

You have a collection of affectionate, silly nicknames for him, even if they make him roll his eyes a bit. He doesn’t admit it, but he secretly loves the playful teasing.

If he’s ever feeling down or stressed, you’re right there to listen, offering words of encouragement or just a shoulder to lean on. You’re his safe space.

You plan little outings or adventures for the two of you—whether it’s going to the park, trying a new place to eat, or finding cool things to do. Lingyang looks forward to these little escapes with you.

You love teasing him about little things, just enough to get a laugh or a smile. You know he’s good-natured and can handle your humor, which adds to the sibling-like bond.

Big or small, you make a point to celebrate Lingyang’s accomplishments, showing him just how proud you are of him and giving him that extra boost of confidence.

Whether he’s dealing with a difficult situation or simply wants to chat, you’re there for him without question. Lingyang may not say it often, but he feels genuinely grateful to have someone who treats him like family.

You and Lingyang have a bunch of inside jokes and subtle signals to communicate in crowded rooms or during serious situations. It always brings a smile to his face, knowing you share these little quirks together.

You’ll occasionally surprise him with little things that remind you of him—a cool keychain, a cozy scarf, or a quirky notebook—just to show you’re thinking of him and know what he’d like.

You can’t help but ruffle his hair or give him random hugs, especially if he seems stressed or tired. Even if he pretends to be annoyed, he softens up and secretly appreciates the affection.

[mydayswithtarotbystella]

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[magentasnail]

long distance

[peachtacular-home-health-care]

In pursuing the best healthcare experience, fostering genuine connections between caregivers and individuals with disabilities is paramount. Caregivers play a pivotal role in enhancing the quality of life for those with disabilities, offering medical assistance and companionship beyond the clinical setting.

[roz-ani]

Making Alastor and Rosie friends in canon and then having them pose like that was such a power move