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probably my most powerful interpersonal communication hack is to, whenever possible, ask either/or questions rather than yes/no questions
for example, when chatting with coworkers, i’ll often ask if they have any fun weekend plans. but let’s be real - we all feel like friendless losers when someone asks that question and we go “uhhhhh… no.” so instead, i phrase it as “so, do you have anything fun planned over the weekend, or are you just going to enjoy having some time to relax?”
phrased like this, there’s rarely any awkwardness. you’ve presented two options & given both equally positive connotations, so your conversational partner has an automatic “out,” so to speak
but it works for higher stakes conversations too!!!! my mom was saying this weekend how she and her neighbor both like walking around the neighborhood & that she wanted to suggest they take a walk together sometime, but was worried about how to approach the conversation
so i said “how about you just say ‘i’ve noticed we both like taking walks! would you be interested in going for one together, or do you use walks for some precious alone time?’”
now Walking Neighbor has an automatic “get out of jail free card” if she wants to say no!!!! which means my mom doesn’t have to worry about the conversation being uncomfortable, because she’s set it up to go smoothly
either/or questions rather than yes/no questions. it is really like magic
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I-80 highway through Wyoming. nicknamed The Sisters, for the three sets of hills that create an optical illusion of the road rising into the sky
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Thinking of becoming a guy that thinks wolves are the most badass and aspirational animal, but about ants. Like wearing t-shirts about being loyal to my Queen and training to bench 5x my bodyweight. Studying ant warfare. Posting shit like this
#Ant photo by Alex Wild. Inspirational ant image by me.#In a sense‚ the Ant mindset is antithetical to those who follow the Wolf. The lone‚ individualist “alpha” inclinations simply do not apply.#The Ant values her work and her sisters. She is a humble worker and brave soldier. So small‚ yet so strong... Because she's never alone.#This post was a lie. I'm actually already this theoretical person.
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#girlblogging#just girly things#female manipulator#female hysteria#just girly posts#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#quotes#hate men#poem#poetry#quoteoftheday#female rage#manic pixie dream girl#coquette#lisbon sisters#lily rose depp#palo alto#i love old men#sweet little nymph#the feminine urge to#girl interrupted#cinnamon girl#lana del ray aka lizzy grant
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“Hey man please make something normal at craft night this time”
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"Lesbian Weddings" by Wendy Jill York
source: The Femme Mystique, edited by Lesléa Newman
#lesbian literature#lesbian#dyke#thatbutcharchivist#archived#lesbian books#lesbian history#lesbian photography#black lesbian#black femme lesbian#black femme#black butch lesbian#black butch#stud lesbian#i pray i am using the term stud appropriately here#will edit if not#author: lesléa newman#year: 1995#publisher: alyson publications inc.#the femme mystique#photographer: wendy jill york#black lesbian couple#black couple#the gal on the left looks a little like my sister tsega ... i miss her so much 😭😭😭#femme4butch#femme4stud#butch4femme#stud4femme#femme#butch
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I have delivered🫡
Based on my HC from… literally half a day ago blasting 600 strikes on repeat can do wonders apparently
#Odysseus turning Poseidon into sashimi#ares god of war#HES LOOKING OUT FOR HIS SISTER#odyseuss#epic the musical#epic musical#artists on tumblr#greek mythology#vengence saga
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#me and my sister#based on a text between me and my sister#the blank brothers#the blank sisters#the brothers#the sisters#meme
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rules for thee and not for me
#sorry the t/rf thing was like an actual roach infestation so I made a new post and deleted the old one and turned off reblogs#but I didn't want you to be without the og comic so here you go guys#nice fresh and clean#old tags ->#funnies#btw you're allowed to watch the silly sisters and the giggle brothers just keep your morals consistent istg#its very embarrassing when you criticize someone for enjoying something from a problematic creator#whilst openly being a fan of another thing with an awful creator and defending them because you like that thing#really weird hill to die on
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creds: @beautifuiprincessdisorder
#girlblog#coquette#just girly things#girlblogging#this is a girlblog#pink#girl interupted syndrome#lana del rey#this is what makes us girls#lisbon sisters#the virgin suicides#esoteric#im just a girl#just girly thoughts#just girly posts#girl interrupted syndrome
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every shade of pink,Silk bows,fall leaves,layers of frills 🧸☕🍂˚ ༘ ೀ⋆。˚
#coney island queen#dollette#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#sparkle jump rope queen#vintage americana#coquette#lizzy grant#lana del rey#girlblogging#girlhood#this is what makes us girls#lana del ray aesthetic#may jailer sirens#the virgin suicides#lisbon sisters#girl interrupted#doll core#cinnamon girl
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one of the best ways i’ve found to combat that inherent depressive pessimism without veering into toxic positivity territory is simply the phrase “i’m open to the possibility”
this particularly works with anything negative i’ve forecasted. “i woke up feeling like shit today, so my day is gonna suck” isn’t a particularly helpful thought, but “it’s a great day to be alive!!!!!” feels hollow and insincere when i have a pounding headache & am running on three hours of sleep
instead i’ll tell myself, “i really don’t feel good right now, but i’m open to the possibility that coffee and breakfast might perk me up a bit.” or “i’m in a lot of pain today, but i’m open to the possibility that my workday might still have fun parts despite that”
sometimes, when your impulse is to slam the door on anything good, but you’re not exactly up to going out & hunting it down yourself, leaving the door open just a crack makes all the difference
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moons student
#where nightmare moon wins and shes twilights mentor instead#until twilight finds the old journal of the two sisters#and discovers that nightmare moon and the old sun princess ........ were SISTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#nightmare moon#twilight sparkle#my little pony friendship is magic#my little pony#mlp#mlp fim
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for some reason people really love my luna and celestia designs so i drew them again with some little changes :-) yay!
she doesnt know how to dance btw
#artists on tumblr#art#artwork#mlp#my artwork#my little pony#fanart#princess celestia#princess luna#royal sisters#lol lmao
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everytime i get dysphoria over my height, im quickly reminded of how freaking tall fromsoft women are, which instantly cures my ailment
#transgender#dark souls#elden ring#bloodborne#lady maria of the astral clocktower#malenia blade of miquella#sister friede#crossbreed priscilla#rellana#rennala queen of the full moon#gwynevere#fromsoft#alina-posting
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