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Sibling separation happens to 60-70% of foster kids.
#foster care#foster kids#Childhood trauma#Sibling separation#trauma#Parentification#Older siblings as maternal figures#Effects of foster care#social science#Social work#Attachment#Abusive parents#Neglectful parents#absent parents#Foster kid problems
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We are still waiting on new birth certificates, which is irritating for all the obvious reasons, but particularly because the kids really need new social security numbers (again, obvious reasons).
The kids are doing well overall. There is a degree of calmness now that the adoption has finalized, but perhaps not as much change overall as one would expect. I think the fact that we have already been a family for over half a decade made the transition more seamless (though not enough to outweigh the benefits that earlier permanency would have given the kids).
We have not had a visit since the adoption and the kids have not asked, beyond Greta asking once what the schedule would look like. We have one coming up this winter (provided parents follow through). I am curious to see what happens and dread the impact, but we’ll deal with that.
We get to see Henry a couple times a month. He’s walking all over, but is delayed otherwise. He’s the sweetest. Right now he sleeps over 4-6 nights a month. The kids love having him here and constantly beg for him to live with us for now. I’ve explained his goal and that it isn’t my choice. I hope I’m doing them more good than harm with the prolonged contact. I think I am. We’re taking lots of photos so they will have those as adults; I still think of them hopefully reconnecting one day. Henry was supposed to reunify before Christmas, but things happened and that’s currently on hold.
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Couple adopts 6 siblings separated while in foster care to keep them together in one loving forever home
Siblings in foster care are usually separated due to a lack of resources. There are not many homes that can accommodate large sibling groups and provide all their needs. This was what a set of six siblings in Tampa, Florida had to go through for three years. Luckily, a kind-hearted couple adopted them all so they could live together again. When Daniel and Dustin Johnson started dating, they both…
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#adopting children#adopting siblings#adoption#foster home#foster homes#new family#new parents#reunited#separated#sibling separation#siblings#siblings in different foster homes#two dads
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The emergency
A good number of members within the Justice League have children. Not all of those kids are biological or adopted but they are their kids nonetheless. Some of those kids are even old enough to be adult heroes of their own, but even then they are still their kids. And the other kids tend to take up heroism at a very young age to most people's chagrin. Although as shown by the original child hero, now going by Nightwing, it’s not as easy as telling the kids to stop.
It was learned through intense hardship that smothering the child heroes was just asking for trouble. Despite how much the older heroes wanted to stay close to their kids, it was seen as overbearing and a show of mistrust. They would act out with even less backup in retaliation, which would only bring even more stress.
So to satisfy the need for protection without stepping on any toes, two new emergency meeting signals were introduced.
One was for the kids to send off. Each one was gifted a small device that could be hidden in their person. The device had both a mic and a tracking chip that could be activated when they were in extreme danger. As soon as the device was active a signal would be sent to the league for an emergency distress signal with the details of who sent it. Due to an outcry from the kids, the device could not be activated by the guardian of the child. The mic and locator could only be activated from the device itself. It wasn’t nearly as protective as some of the more worried leaguers would like, but it was at least something.
The second signal was one that the leaguer with a kid in danger could activate. This signal could be activated with a single code into the communicators that every member owned. If the member who sent out the signal didn’t specify what kid was in danger, every member would receive a generalized notification of the emergency alert for one of the kids. This wasn’t ideal, but it was learned early on that the guardian of the child was often too distressed to make the code more complicated. It was best to leave it simple and answer questions at the emergency meeting.
Which was great in all, until someone who doesn’t have a child involved with heroics in their care sends off a general emergency.
In places all over the globe, an emergency meeting signal message was sent by Hal Jordan, one of the lanterns. He didn’t include what child was in danger in the signal, meaning that it could be any of the underaged heroes. And considering he didn’t have a child in his care, that made multiple members panic.
When was the last time they checked in with the kids in their care? Who was the one he was sending the code for? What happened to the child he had noticed was in danger? Why is he the one that noticed? Where were their kids? Who was in danger?
Because of the nebulous nature of the call, it didn’t take long for multiple heroes to find the nearest transport to the watchtower and tumble in. What they didn’t expect was the absolute haggard appearance of their friend. He was standing in the meeting room looking like the world had been destroyed before his very eyes. The way he sat without even cracking a sarcastic remark made multiple members pause.
“Hal?” Wonder Woman called, her face pinched in concern. “What has happened?”
The aforementioned member looked over who had already arrived before settling on her face. It was at that moment she knew that he was only looking so collected through willpower alone. This wasn’t just any child of the league, this was personal.
“My nephew Danny has been captured,” He began, sending a wave of different emotions circling the room. “I’ve been trying to find where they took him for a week now and I can’t get any leads. I need your help.”
The unsaid questions and emotions were nearly palpable. Multiple members turned to one another or stared with a million questions. Nobody had known that Hal even had a nephew named Danny. Sure he mentioned someone named Jason at times, but he never indicated anything else. The fact that he hadn’t mentioned him or the fact that he��d been apparently searching for a week was strange.
“And why are you only telling us now? Why did you wait so long?” Superman asked, speaking up the question that was on multiple minds.
A fire of anger curled in Hal's eyes. It was fierce and protective. It was a mixture of appalment for being questioned on his decision and fury for the reasons why he had to do it in the first place. He stepped forward towards the center table, slamming his palms down and leaning into it.
“Because any person that goes against the group will be declared an enemy of the United States. I’ve already had my account and housing connected to Green Lantern seized,” He explained with a deceptively calm tone. “I also needed to make sure that they didn’t have any connections with the Justice League. They have their agents everywhere.”
Unsurprisingly, Batman appeared from the gathered heroes from seemingly nowhere. Despite the feud between the two of them, the Bat was completely zeroed in on the situation. While he had a decent amount of distrust in the lantern, mainly because of the parallax incident, he could tell that the man was genuine. And the Bat always did have a blind spot for children.
“Explain,” Was all Batman said, staring Hal down.
The lantern in question looked at him with a grim face. This was it. Now or never.
“They’re called the Ghost Investigation Ward, or GIW for short. They hunt down and either exterminate or experiment on anyone they deem ectocontaminated or a ghost,” Hal started to explain, his hand curling on the table in frustration. “My brother Jack faked his death and ran off to be with another woman. Those fucks deemed my nephew as ectocontaminated and tried to take him from his home. He ran from his family so that they couldn’t be arrested for knowingly harboring an ecto entity. Told me that he remembered my face from a photo his dad tried to hide in the attic and sought me out.”
If the fire in his eyes were any stronger, they would probably become physical and burn down the room. It was undeniable that Hal Jordan was understandably completely pissed off. This situation was terrible from down to the very root.
“I tried to hide him but they somehow found him anyway. Now my civilian name is being heavily monitored and Green Lantern is being hunted down,” He finished his explanation. “If you join me in this, be prepared to lose everything.”
This was so much worse than anyone could’ve predicted.
#dp x dc#dc x dp#danny phantom#ficlet#Hal Jordan#I hate using character tags lol#GIW doing what they do best#Also I did a bit of a dive on Hal#Found out he had siblings and one was named Jack?? and I was like ooooo#Like I wasn't planning on that connection but it became a thing anyway#I'd like to imagine that after Janice died Jack ran off without his kids and eventually met Maddie#He then tried to 'restart' his life#He acts like a fool to separate himself from his past#kinda like bruce and brucie#I just really wanted more Green Lantern and Danny Phantom crossover type stuff#I actually know very little about the Lanterns though lmao#So I don't feel confident doing a full fic#Anyone who wants to take this idea and run with it please do! I would love to see what y'all make of it :)
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obsessed with raph casually putting donnie aside
#and donnie's like#are you kidding me#they are so siblings#generally love their characterisation in the tottmnt series#it was a great idea to get each brother a separate place in the spotlight#similar to what rise did tbh#tales of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#tales of the tmnt#tottmnt#tmnt mutant mayhem#mutant mayhem#tmnt#teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt 2023#tmnt 2024#text post#personal#raph#donnie#tottmnt raph#tottmnt donnie#mutant mayhem raph#mutant mayhem donnie
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More Fallout oc stuff, been thinking about them a lot
#yeah they're siblings#just siblings separated by time and distance#collin wasn't in massachusettes when the bombs fell#he only came to the commonwealth recently#fallout 4#fo4#fallout#sunny rhodes#collin rhodes#fallout oc#fallout ghoul#fallout sole survivor#sole survivor#oc#original characters#my art#my drawings
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God is the system fucked up. it fails so many kids and families and dude I can’t tell you how much it hurts to see these kids going through this.
I am totally using this idea in my next and can’t believe I haven’t thought of foster care sirius before.
Always emotional about foster care kid!Sirius but rn especially about a Sirius in the foster care system who is about to age out of it. All his families failed him and sent him back relatively shortly after starting to take care of him. And he's so used to rejection. His grades are still stellar, but his programm doesn't have enough reach to help him as best they can, and are also a bit over him by that point. Idk there are so many ways to go with this au, but I also love to torture the poor guy
#sirius#sirius black#foster care#foster kids#Sibling separation#wait but imagine#sirius gets taken into care#Reggie is left though#sirius ages out of the system#Then goes back to get his younger brother#im literally opening an doc to right now#I’m a Bio kid with adopted syblings#adopted siblings#adopted au#foster care au#bio kid#foster syblings#regulus black#walburga black#walburga's a+ parenting#orion black#sirius orion black#sirius o black
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Meme Prompt 12
#dcxdp#dpxdc#prompts#meme#memes#hydra phantom siblings#They were fuckin around with magic & runes & accidentally got summoned as a hydra & are Commiting to the Bit#Yes they do still have separate forms but they can also now pull a Fusion#They think it's hilarious & also like Big Dragon Form is FUN#They're not Ghost King but they Are technically a Gatekeeper#Tim deserves a lil magic as a treat & a big trio of dragon friends#This is also how he befriends Damian#Damian has connected the dots (he hasn't): I knew there had to be a reason behind the name of Drake!#Damian kicking down the door to Jason's safehouse: AKHI IVE FIGURED IT OUT-#Probably also helps that Tim is so used to sword fights going on that he blocks Damian's initial attack from habit alone#Dan knows zweihanders & halberds while Danny knows odachis and katanas & Ellie knows Guns (& knives)
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FREDDIE FOX and OLIVIA COOKE as GWAYNE and ALICENT HIGHTOWER ↳ HOUSE OF THE DRAGON S02E06 'Smallfolk'
#hotdedit#hotdcentral#dailyhotdgifs#gameofthronesdaily#asoiafsnet#welighttheway#alicenthightoweredit#gwaynehightoweredit#househightoweredit#hotd#house of the dragon#alicent hightower#gwayne hightower#hotd spoilers#mine*#when youre siblings but youre strangers but youre allies but youre rivals for your father's affections but youre parents#to the same young man and one of you is begging for any kind of connection to him but also to you because you were separated at a young age#and right now your father is MIA and you only have each other
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i think that if kabru saw that “laios meeting falin for the first time” strip he’d be sobbing uncontrollably
#feels like it is SO fundamental to understanding laios on a deep level#idk something about not expecting ‘common sense’ from babies#something about how he is so deeply laios. maybe im just projecting#but that comic resonates with me SO hard#the lack of expression (taking her in) and the way he looks up for permission#and by that time his father already knows? that hes looking for permission to leave. he doesnt say it. he just looks.#and then! he runs to his kitty! and whispers like its a secret! hes a big brother now kitty!#and he whispers to the chickens! he’s got a little sister chickens! shes called falin doggies!#to see laios as an adult and to know he cares for his sister is par for the course#to see that he was enamored with her the second he met her and told all of his friends is just. fuck#they tell you many times in the series that these siblings care for each other above ALL ELSE#like knowing that all people die is separate from knowing there is no reality for either of them that doesnt contain their sibling#im going insane over the touden siblings#but i think kabru would go through these same motions and cry idk#dunmeshi#labru#if you squint#kabru of utaya#laios touden#falin touden#dungeon meshi#bumblysdumbly
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UNO Game! Vote for them HERE @tmntbestsibscompetiton
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#tmntbestsibscomp#true colors au#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rise of the tmnt#v draws stuff#rottmnt leo#rottmnt leonardo#tmnt 2018#tmnt#rottmnt donnie#rottmnt donatello#rottmnt raph#rottmnt raphael#rottmnt mikey#rottmnt michelangelo#tc au#tmnt best siblings competition#leonardo#michelangelo#raphael#donatello#rottmtn separated au#separated au#rise leo#rise donnie#rise raph#rise mikey
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So I named TLP after the book The Little Prince because I went to a French school so we read that book constantly so I thought it would be funny if I made little drawings of TLP Donnie if I had named au after different French books I read as a kid!
It was hard to think of some that were actually French and not just translations lol turns out a lot of the books that I thought were French were really just English books with French translations :P
#my art#tmnt#tmnt 2018#2018 tmnt#tmnt 2k18#2k18 tmnt#rottmnt#rottmnt Donnie#rottmnt donatello#tmnt donnie#tmnt donatello#tlp au#the little prince separated au#I might do more of these#but I have to search through my mind palace and remember what books I liked#I read Melusine#and also that comic series about those two siblings#I think one was name Max?#i mostly read books with the pink spine#which were books that were like for the CM2s to read#but I can’t remember what those books were called#I also read W.I.T.C.H. which is apparently and English thing and not a French thing
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Old (and somewhat less old) doodles of the SM au protags being silly
#pokemon#pokemon sun and moon#SM PMD AU#hau#I really need to come up with names for the main two so I can properly tag em#theyre supposed to be separate characters from selene and elio so I can’t call them those names without it being confusing </3#anyway dont worry guys they love each other I prommy (siblings)
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More art requests from the bird app !!!! This could be seen as a sequel to my yoo siblings comic
#yoo siblings save me......#requesting mee#<- MY NEW ART REQUEST TAG YEAHH!!!!! you can ask on tumblr too :33#i might make a separate post for that later but idk#the app is still a bird to me idc#orv#omniscient reader's viewpoint#orv fanart#mee's orv art#yoo mia#yoo joonghyuk#yoo siblings
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I’m done pretending you’re my sister, you’re not. You killed her. I’m not gonna let you stain her memory anymore.
Then stop me. ‘Cause no matter what I do, I just can’t seem to die.
#Arcane#League of Legends#arcaneedit#animationedit#loledit#Vi#Jinx#*mine#oh wait you hear that sound??#yeah that's just the sound of my heart shattering into a MILLION PIECES#ugh they're the most tragic pair of siblings ever...#also goddamn the animation in this series always go so f*cking hARD!!!#like these slow motion shots really amplifies the raw emotions behind the fight between Vi and Jinx#like it hurts so baddd but it also hurts so goooood y'know??#i know they can never possibly return to the way they were before...#but please... please stop fighting 😭😭#just let each other go... and live your separate lives without constantly being at each other's throats
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At some point, the amount of younger generation heroes in the Justice League gets bigger and bigger every year. It's kind of a bittersweet thing for all the mentors in the League: they are so, so proud of the people their kids and former protegees have grown up to become, but at the same time, it's always a bit hard seeing them grow up.
In any case, they are all a good addition to the League. Many of them have worked together in teams before, and have the whole teamwork-aspect of the League down a lot better than the older members had when they first joined. Batman and Green Arrow especially couldn't seem to contain their pride in their kids, and no one could really blame them for it. After all, both Nightwing and Red Arrow were exceptional fighters with a lot of experience in both teamwork and leadership under their belts, on top of being just really good people. Nightwing and Red Arrow seemed proud of each other as well, after all the hardships they had gotten through during their childhood and early adulthood. One of their oldest and bestest friends, they called each other often, even if the other was not there to hear it.
So it was a bit alarming to see them arguing at the corner of the room in the Watchtower, at least for Hal.
"I was there first!" Nightwing hissed at Red Arrow.
"So what?" Red Arrow hissed back. "This is important to me and you know it!"
"Are they okay?" He quietly asked Wally, who was leaning on the wall. Wally was also their old friend, Hal knew that. He would know if it was something bad.
"Yeah", Wally whispered back. "They just had a run-in with the Red Hood earlier."
The Red Hood? Hal thought that he remembered that name. A Gotham-based Rogue, of that he was pretty sure.
"I guess it didn't go well?"
"I guess not. Nightwing and Red Arrow both had a fight with him recently."
Hal looked at Nightwing and Red Arrow again, who were now hissing something about the other one ruined the whole thing for the other.
"I see." Hal knew how these things went. A rogue or villain wronged you, and you wanted to fight them and bring them to justice by yourself. "Let me guess, both of them wanted to catch the Red Hood, and with the both of them trying to do it, he managed to give both of them the slip?" It happened to even the best of team mates every once in a while.
Wally's face did a series of very rapid expressions, ones that Hal, even with all of his years of dealing with a speedster, could not quite catch.
Still, Hal thought that momentarily, Wally looked like he wanted to laugh.
"Something like that", Wally ended up saying. He definitely sounded like he knew something that Hal didn't.
Hal didn't get the time to ask, because Nightwing and Red Arrow were getting louder with their argument, enough so that Batman and Green Arrow saw it fit to come in and separate the two.
"Can't you two just apologise?" Green Arrow asked.
"I am trying! Nightwing just had to block me with his huge stupid a-"
"Excuse me-!"
Green Arrow and Batman gave each other disturbingly identical tired looks, and that was enough to send Wally laughing, and in the middle of all of it, Hal was trying to decide whether he wanted to know or not.
#behind the scenes: Jason had separate arguments with both Roy and Dick that for once weren't even remotely his fault#and now he is being petty in how he wants his apology#Jason has made only Lian's favorite foods for the entire week and declined helping Dick in wrangling any of their siblings#they're a bit desperate#Wally is watching all of this unfold and laughing at their misery#Bruce and Oliver are exhausted#dc#dcu#Dick Grayson#Roy Harper#Hal Jordan#Oliver Queen#Wally West#Batman#Green Arrow#Jason Todd#jayroy
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