#SelfImage

[bittercarrion]

[melancholicdesire]

Are you concerned about image? Or are you concerned about genuine? I hope that you place your intentions towards the light in someone's eyes, the accidental smile on someone's face that comes with ease and softness, the power you have to fill up a heart even just a little bit in the darkest moments, the stories that a person's hands speak.. the little things that can make someone remember what makes them whole and why they are here at all, that little ritual you do with those near you, the power of words that can tell someone the most beautiful truth if you use them in that way, the small actions that people attempt to show you they care even when they are terrified and have no idea what they are doing, the way another soul tries to intertwine with yours and doesn't let go because they believe in this, the scars along someone's skin that tells all of their survival and the delicate intimacy of them displaying them to you after making it as far as they have.

I hope you notice. I really hope you notice. ♡

[gethogwashed]

Self-Control

[marcrocke]

I'm not British, but love the article about me!

[marisdinh]

Week 8: Are Beauty Filters Really Harmless? A Balanced Look at AR and Self-Image.

Augmented reality (AR) filters have become a huge part of social media platforms like Instagram and Snapchat. For many people, filters are a fun and creative way to add a little flair to their photos. Who doesn’t love a cute bunny ears filter or a funny face distortion, right? Sometimes, filters are just for laughs, creating moments of joy for ourselves and others. Some people even feel more comfortable posting with a filter, especially if they’re not feeling confident about their appearance.

But there’s another side to this. Beauty filters often push one specific beauty standard: perfect skin, large eyes, a slim face, and a high nose bridge. This can make people feel like they’re only “beautiful” if they match these features. In fact, this trend has even led to something called “Snapchat dysmorphia.” In the past, patients would bring in photos of celebrities when they visited cosmetic surgeons, but now, many are bringing filtered photos of themselves, hoping to make those digital features permanent (Rajanala, Maymone & Vashi 2018). This shift shows just how deeply these filters can affect the way we see ourselves.

Studies have also shown that frequent Snapchat filter users, especially younger people, are more likely to feel dissatisfied with their real appearance, even though they know filters aren’t real (Burnell, Kurup & Underwood 2021). This creates a kind of "comparison loop"—the more they use filters to “improve” their image, the less satisfied they feel, leading them to rely even more on filters. It’s a powerful example of how beauty filters can lock us into a cycle of unrealistic standards.

In my opinion, filters aren’t all bad. They can boost confidence, spark creativity, and let us play around with different styles without actually changing our appearance. Many people use filters just to feel a bit more comfortable in their photos, and that’s completely okay.

But we also need to remember that beauty isn’t limited to these virtual standards. Using filters can be a fun, creative tool, but it shouldn’t define how we see ourselves. In the end, it’s important to be mindful of how these virtual beauty ideals affect our mental health and self-worth. Instead of letting filters decide our value, let’s use them consciously—as a tool for creativity, not as a measure of confidence or beauty. Let’s keep social media a place where we can freely express ourselves without being bound by any digital standards.

References

Miller, T & McIntyre, L 2022, From surgery to Cyborgs: a thematic analysis of popular media commentary on Instagram filters.

Rajanala, A, Maymone, M & Vashi, N 2018, Selfies—living in the era of filtered photographs, JAMA Facial Plastic Surgery.

Burnell, K, Kurup, A & Underwood, J 2021, Snapchat lenses and body image concerns.

[femalelore]

In a world obsessed with perfection, she stands before the mirror, a canvas marred by society's relentless brushstrokes. Each alteration, a painful reminder of the standards imposed upon her, chiseling away at her essence. Her body, a battleground where beauty is measured in inches and flaws are unforgivable sins. She endures the whispers, the judgments, the unspoken demands to conform.

Beneath the surface, her spirit fights to breathe, suffocated by the weight of expectations. The scars, both visible and hidden, tell a story of resilience and silent suffering. She navigates a world where her worth is dictated by appearances, where her voice is often drowned out by the cacophony of sexism.

Yet, in the quiet moments, she finds strength. In the reflection of her eyes, she sees the flicker of defiance, a reminder that her true beauty lies not in perfection, but in her unyielding spirit. She is more than the sum of her parts, more than the labels and judgments cast upon her. She is a testament to the enduring power of the human soul, a beacon of hope in a world that often forgets to see beyond the surface.

[cerev1ty]

Managing and Living with Body Dysmorphic Disorder

Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) can distort one’s self-image and lead to significant distress. Understanding and managing BDD is crucial for improving quality of life. Our article provides insights into symptoms, causes, and treatment options.

[biographiness]

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[katz2013love]

Body Dismorphia

Do you ever feel like you don’t know who/ what others see when they actually look at you? or have you ever wondered “what do I really truly look like?” Well I do! You would think that by now at my ripe “mature” age of fifty five, an age some would refer to as a “grown up” or “middle-aged”, that I would, at least have this answer!  Nope. I had imagined and hoped one day that this little girl,…

[bdknopp]

LOVE YOURSELF…

“if you don’t love yourself, nobody will. Not only that, you won’t be good at loving anyone else. Loving starts with the self.” ― Wayne Dyer Wayne Dyer was a celebrated and respected self-help author, motivational speaker, and spiritual teacher who inspired millions with his teachings on personal growth and self-actualization. This quote emphasizes the importance of self-love as the foundation…

[voiceofanoutlier]

Blind spots.

Man more resembles the image of an iceberg than the image of a god, with most of his mind submerged in the unknown subconsciousness and only the surface of his body is visible to his eyes. Like an iceberg, man is a partly known yet mostly unknown being. Even the image of his own face would’ve been unknown if it wasn’t for the help of reflection. The physiological position of the eyes made it…

[lizloveswords]

It's like everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Always. All the time. That story makes you what you are. We build ourselves out of that story.

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Patrick Rothfuss, The Name of the Wind