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buddiebeginz · 4 months ago

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Heads up Buddie fandom some of the B*mmy stans are actively searching for our posts and tweets to leave harassing comments. When this happens the best thing you can do is block them. They’re looking for attention and they're trying to rile us up and mostly they're worried about their ship. If they weren’t they wouldn’t care this much that we don’t like their ship or what our opinions are. Think about how little we’re going to give a sh*t about them once Buddie is canon. They know their ship is on borrowed time, if Lou even comes back at all. The main reason they’re attacking us is because we represent the biggest threat to their ship and that’s Eddie and Buddie.

Don’t let whatever bs they try to throw at you upset you or make you doubt the fact that Buddie is happening. They can call us delusional as much as they want but they are seeing a version of a relationship that just doesn’t exist. They can try to say the same about us but we have 6 going on 7 years of development between Buck and Eddie. And while Buddie's relationship hasn't canonically moved into the realm of romantic yet they are definitely written has having a much deeper bond than just best friends. This is especially true when you compare them to Hen/Chim or Maddie/Josh or Athena/Hen, etc. None of those friendships behave the way Buddie ever has.

When I say B/T shippers are only seeing what they want to see it's because they have built that relationship up to be something way more serious than it is without any proof to back that up. Buck is literally only dating T*mmy they're not even in a committed relationship at this point and that was only reconfirmed more by that deleted scene. There is a part of them that has to look at everything that happened in s7, that deleted scene (which they originally thought was going to be Henren's seal of approval for the rs), Lou's radio silence and the SWAT rumours and they have to be worried. They might try to put on this front of certainty that their ship is endgame but it's clear from how defensive they get that they know it doesn't look good for their ship.

We honestly need to just ignore that part of fandom and keep spreading the love for Buddie. B*mmy fandom is simply a loud minority and there's no reason that fandom should be getting as much attention on social media as it sometimes does. We need to keep showing that there is still a huge active fan base for Buddie.

I know that since season 7 ended without any serious development for Buddie and Buck still with T*mmy a lot of you are worried Buddie might never happen and I get that. I was ready to give up on the show all together after season 6 but I'm telling you I've never been more certain than I am now that Buddie is happening. It's the most logical direction for these characters and it's where everything is telling us the story is going.

Remember that s7 was heavily focused on Bathena, Henren, and Buddie. For as much as B*mmy's act like their ship is so important (even constantly comparing it to the other main couples) that relationship has had very little development and screen time and even less pr. Which you'd think given how big Buck's coming out was they would have had tons but they didn't. They only even did one joint interview with Oliver and Lou and that was right at the end and they barely even talked about B/T. Meanwhile Ryan and Oliver did a bunch of interviews together and nearly every interview and article mentioned Buddie.

We need to stop looking at B/T as a threat to our ship because it's really not. I hate Buck in that relationship and I don't like T*mmy at all and the worst part has been the fans of that ship but T*mmy is only here to serve a purpose. He was there to be Buck's first male love interest and help Buck realize he could explore that part of himself. He's not here to be the great love of Buck's life. To be the person who gets Buck better than anyone else. That position has already been filled.

#buddie #911 buddie #buddie 911 #911!#anti bummy

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outrunningthedark · 7 months ago

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I truly don’t understand the mindset of some of these buddie shippers. I’ve never seen a group of fans demand so loudly that characters they supposedly enjoy, cheat. You want to damage the characters, sure do that. How many times does Oliver have to say buddie is entirely hypothetical situation at this point as they don’t want to do offensive stereotypes of BI people. Also, has no one noticed Ryan, besides one interview, not really getting involved, read the room people.

The more theories people come up with, the more we cannot deny that this stopped being just about a ship a long time ago. If it were just about ship, people would want the story to start in a way that encourages support from the GA (our biggest obstacle) instead of taking a shortcut just because we've waited long enough. (And let me reiterate that nobody forced any of us to stick around for this long. Keeping up with the story lines in hopes that a fanon ship will one day go canon is exactly how the PR team is able to dupe fans so easily even now.) If it were just about a ship, people would be able to accept and respect Oliver's and Ryan's takes on the situation each season instead of twisting their words to fit possible canon scenarios or completely dismissing something because "they have to say that". But this isn't about a ship anymore, not really. This is about being able to stick it to the fans of other shows who said they've been down the same road and know where it will end. This is about not feeling like they've wasted literal years of their life believing a fandom-wide headcanon that may never make it on screen. All that time for what? Nothing? (Almost like it's their first real fandom or something...) This is about getting Repressed Eddie for the "representation", sure, but also for the purpose of proving to the masses that Ryan was never hesitant about Buddie (despite what his own quotes say *at the moment*, along with his co-star's) and therefore was never "homophobic". (He's not, I agree.) This is about validation.

#anonymous #tina speaks

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lover-of-mine · 5 months ago

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Just saw a BT shipper say that BT is better because their are no stakes in Buddie getting together. They are already pretty much a couple (I'm not sure if they grasped the irony there). BT has potential for conflict, and that's better TV...... Coughs Christopher Coughs . I didn't really use to buy Chris as an idea of being Buddie hesitant because outside of Buck and Eddie, he's the biggest captain. But they just created the situation that would make Buddie freak out over messing up because of Chris.

They especially made Buck so central in his life this season that yes in a sense I could see him not trusting his dad, and believe me that's a trope I always hated. Personally I could see him being hesitant, and please have him give both the shovel talk. But I picture more a feelings realization than a huge step back because maybe Chris is even on his way home. And so much pining!!! I need angsty pining made better because we, as the audience, know they know. Ryan and Oliver chemistry will play that so perfectly.

Anyways. Stakes?? Seriously?? We have the biggest one of all on our side.

Okay, I made a whole post on Chris abandonment issues and why I think he's gonna freak out when buddie gets together, and after the finale I'm a firm believer that he would have problems with them because Chris has no reason to believe Buck and Eddie would fall in love with each other so he has no reason to process that already and hope for it, but Buck and Eddie are terrible in relationships. No stakes? Those two are a disaster who are super weird about each other and navigating the switch from being best friends to dating is complicated enough without dealing with the way they work together and they have a child already. What do you mean no stakes?????????

Also love that they agree Buck and Eddie are basically a couple already but don't see the irony of the statement. Like, babes??????

#like?#911 #anon 😌#i really need a tag for asks #spy network

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kennyomegasweave · 9 months ago

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Shipper Tag Game

I was tagged by @foralleternityidiot! Thank you!

1. What ship were you completely obsessed with when you were a teenager, but now you don't care anymore? Christian/Sean from Nip/Tuck. Letting them go was the first step in me trying to free myself from the demon that is Ryan Murphy and his shows.

2. Which ship would you consider your first one? Eric/Jack from Boy Meets World. I shipped them before I even knew what shipping was. You couldn't tell me shit about them and you still can't. They were, are, and always will be in love. You will never change my mind.

3. Your first fanfic belonged to which couple? So I didn't get into fic until WAY late, like 2008. Which is weird cause I was on message boards and in so many LJ comms, but I just didn't read it. Keeping that in mind, it was Phlochte. I'm not proud but I'm not as embarrassed as I should be. If you knew anything about those two back then, you'd get it okay. lol

4. Do you remember the first couple you saw a fanart over? I don't actually. I still don't seek out fanart, so I'm not surprised I don't remember the first one I saw.

5. Did you ever get into ship discourse? I still have anti-delena and anti-stydia tags on old posts on this account sooo...lol. But I was never in the inbox, messages, comments, or posts of people who actually liked those ships! People just came to me to fight when I would post my hate posts on my own account.

6. Did you used to have any no-otp or have it currently? The previous answer answers that, lol. But I don't have any currently. I've hit the point where if I love a ship that's not happening and/or I hate the main pairing, I tend to just peace out. I only ever had NOTPs cause I wouldn't quit shows, but now I'll drop them. I keep up with my faves through gifsets with no need to actually watch the show.

7. Who were the couple in the last fanfic you read? WangXian. I finished the show in four days and read all five books in five days. I have been OBSESSED for like a month.

8. Currently, do you have any OTPs? I will never not have OTPs, lol. Current: CaptainKeen, CharlieBabe, NorthSonic, KhemThongthai, WangXian, Buddie All time favorites: Stelena, Scallison, Matt/Elektra, Amy/Rory, Ian/Mickey, Spashley, TeamWin, PalmNueng, PrapaiSky, Brittana, Pacey/Joey, DeanCas, Graham/Megan, Amy/Lucy Diamond, Webgott

9. Is there any couple that, to this day, you are extremely mad about not getting together? Of course. I have more noncanon ships than canon since gay ships really just weren't happening back in the day. I also have several ships that got together but broke up, which I think also answers this question. The biggest will always be Shane/Carmen. It's been 18 years since Shane left Carmen at the altar and I'm still mad.

10. Is there any ship you used to dislike but now you think they are kind of interesting? I'm watching Playboyy and I didn't give a shit about AobPuen and I didn't really care about PromNont but now I'm invested in them both. AobPuen got me in literally one episode. PromNont became intriguing when Prom gave Nont the gun and then it's just built from there.

11. Do you have any ship that, in the past, was considered normal but now you would be cancelled over? I watched and loved Love Syndrome III in 2023 so obviously I have hella ships from the past that would get me cancelled. I regret nothing.

12. What was your favorite crack ship? I honestly think I've only ever had one crack ship and that was ChanBig and it went from laughing online to "I am fully pretending this was actually happening and Chan and Big are fucking in the sky now, thank you, god bless" in record time.

13. Who is the couple you read more fanfics of? This isn't a fair question since a lot of my ships just don't have fic written about them. But I'm currently all up in WangXian fic.

14. What most of your ships usually have in common? I tend to like ships that are ~unhealthy~ ~toxic~ and ~problematic~. No regerts.

15. What do you absolutely hate in a ship? Just not talking to each other. I don't need them to agree, sometimes even on anything, but they have to talk. I don't care if they yell, fight, punch each other, whatever, as long as they talk. I don't like miscommunication because of that either. Because if you're actually talking, there's not miscommunication.

Tagging the last five people in my notifications: @theflagscene, @loudspeakeer, @beaucadeau, @bunnakit, @deepbutdazzlingdarkness Feel free to do it or not, no pressure! It's all for fun! <3

#about me #this was fun #but I love filling out stuff like this #takes me back to myspace bulletin days #I always loved filling out those

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