#Romantic Orientations
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larkspur777 · 4 months ago
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The Librarians: Romantic Orientations
Eve – pan or bi Cassandra – confirmed pan/bi in both the show and this interview Jake – it’s complicated (see my other post: Is Jake Stone from The Librarians queer?) Ezekiel – at first I was getting aroace spectrum vibes from him but it seems he has a thing for pixie-like women with short hair such as Sylalandria and Cindy
In conclusion, everyone is pan/bi except Ezekiel who could still be on the aroace spectrum.
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burning-thistles-bt · 2 years ago
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Pride icon anon again, would you mind making a (no/minimal spoilers) list of the identities? I'll definitely do the suggested characters, but I'd love to do more than them. That even included the bad characters (including the likes of Thistlestar himself)
Here you go! This is ripped straight from our spreadsheet of the characters. No spoiler characters though!:
Firestar Bisexual
Sandstorm Bisexual
Lightningfur AroAce-spec Lesbian
Fury Lesbian
Copperleaf Demiromantic Panromantic
Dawncloud Graysexual
Creekflower Heterosexual
Oliver Heterosexual
Longtail Heterosexual
Airleap Transmasc Intersex Queer-Questioning
Cinderpelt Bisexual
Lizardflight Lesbian
Elderpaw Transfem Demigirl Lesbian
Mistlepaw Butch Lesbian
Cliffpaw Polyamorus Omnisexual
Snowpaw Heterosexual
Onewhisker Omnisexual
Frostfur (Comp) Omnisexual
Redtail Gay
Runningwind Gay
Lionheart Pansexual
Tigerstar Bisexual
Whitestorm Heterosexual
Brindleface Aromantic
Swiftbreeze Aromantic
Adderfang (Closeted) Femboy Heterosexual
Spottedleaf (Closeted) Lesbian
Thistlestar (Comp) Bisexual
Grasswhisker (Closeted) Asexual
Bubbles Genderfluid Trixic
Rocket Nonbinary Demiboy
Opal Nonbinary Demigirl
Oat Gay/Aromantic
Sootkit Transmasc
Ravenwing Demiromantic Gay
Barley Gay
Feathercloud Gay
Brackenfur Heterosexual
Sorrelkit Bisexual
Stormpaw Bisexual
Rowanpaw Trans Masc
Tawnypaw Heterosexual
Bramblepaw Demiromantic Demisexual
Tulippaw Gay
Missingheart Pansexual
Blossomtail Gay
Badgerfang Gay
Swampfur Bisexual
Lynxpaw Demiromantic Asexual
Cherryfur Abrosexual
Darkstripe Gay Bi-Curious Femboy
Graystripe Heterosexual/Gynesexual
Silverstream Heterosexual
Gremlin Bisexual Nonbinary She-cat
Scraps Pansexual
Night Pansexual
Storm Asexual Gay
Scourge Aromantic Nonbinary Tom
Tallpoppy Polyamorus Pansexual
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clanofjones · 2 years ago
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Warning: Rant Ahead
OK.
I'm aceflux (meaning I jump around on the asexual spectrum) so it is time that I give my own TedTalk to y'all.
I really, really, really (infinetly) hate having to explain asexuality, demisexuality, greysexuality, and being aceflux to virtually everyone but my IRL friends.
But you have all probably read a Tumblr rant on this already.
So I'll rant about the underappreciation of people who are homoromantic, biromantic, panromantic, omniromantic, aromantic, and just about all the other romance-oriented sexualities under the sun.
Lots of people don't know they exist. Hell, I didn't know these orientations existed until I did an art challenge last June for Pride. I did a little digging after the fact and discovered that there were all these romantic orientations that existed.
I was shell-shocked. At the time, I identified as strictly asexual, but within a few weeks (and a buttload of self-discovery) I felt that the labels of aromantic and asexual applied to me.
Over time, I realized that this was a midway point for me, and I am aceflux and omniromantic.
(If you already know what Omniromantic means, you can skip the bit in purple)
Omniromantic meaning I am romantically attracted to all genders, but gender plays a role in attraction, wheras with panromanticism, you are attracted to all genders without gender playing a role in your attraction to them.
This was still a very important period of my life and self-discovery journey in general because I was very new to the LGBTQIA+ community, and wasn't half as aware of other orientations as I am now. However, this is an example of how underappreciated and underrepresented these romantic orientations are.
You can chalk it up to my seemingly one-track mind, but it's also due to the apparent static-ness that I was aware of. I thought that if you were asexual, you were either aromantic or heteroromantic. (I think that's the term)
I wasn't aware of the aceflux orientation until about two-three months ago. I was only made aware of it when I saw it on a social media account, I googled it, and I had a big-brain idea moment. Aside from that euphoria you get when you identify with an orientation, I also wondered, "If aceflux exists, then there has to be more romantic-specific orientation as well, right?"
Obviously, I was successful, but I also want to raise awareness of the existence of these orientations in case it helps anyone else :>
If you read this all the way through, you deserve this:
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Dang. Ron Swanson's proud. Noice.
This has been my TedTalk.
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larkspur777 · 4 months ago
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Is Jake Stone from The Librarians queer?
This isn’t something I’ve seen anyone else mention but that whole arc about him having to hide a part of himself from his dad felt a lot like a queer metaphor to me. His interest in women seems genuine but I think it’s possible he could be pan/bi. There was also that interesting speech in Rule of Three about how no one beat him up for liking poetry because he wore his “costume.” So who knows, maybe this is a case of comp het. Jake grew up in a southern state (Oklahoma) where there was probably a lot of homophobia.
Jake’s dad: “Unless they’re handing out degrees for digging holes and chasing women, you ain’t much of an expert on anything, son.” And also. “Only thing he could wrap his head around is a football playbook.”
That’s the version of Jake that his dad knows. The version that digs holes and chases women and likes football. But that’s not the real Jake, or at least, not all of him. Jake didn’t want anyone back home to know the side of him that likes art and poetry and literature. Dead Poets Society has been thought to have a queer metaphor in a similar sense. JAKE EVEN MAKES A DPS REFERENCE IN SEASON 3.
There’s also THIS quote that Jake said. Which was about something else but I just think it’s funny he was talking about metaphors.
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genderqueerdykes · 8 months ago
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is bullying, abusing and chasing aromantic and asexual people out of the community actually helping anyone? is it helping trans people get binders or breastforms, or find surgeons, or connect with other trans people? is it helping mspec people figure out that being attracted to multiple genders is normal and okay? is it helping lesbians and gays find each other? is it helping intersex people learn more about their conditions?
it's not. it's not helping anyone else get the resources, support and help they need. all it's doing is denying a huge chunk of the community their right to have the same things we have and want. it's not helping a single soul. it's not making it easier for anyone else to get what they need by removing these groups of people, because as queers, we all have different needs. we are here to help each other. the point of community is to help.
if you refuse to help one or two specific types of members of your own community, you are prejudiced and you are the one being disruptive to the unity and functionality of the queer community. you are the one causing problems- not the aromantics, asexuals and other aspectrum people.
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radiomogai · 1 month ago
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[PT: Sherbet Queerplatonic. End PT]
@daybreakthing
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Sherbet Queerplatonic
I made this flag a long time ago and posted it on my old account (maisy-the-trans-mouse, it still exists but I don’t use it at all) but since I’ve updated the meaning behind it a little bit with the help of some really cool peeps in a server I want to post it again.
Sherbet Queerplatonic(relationship) is a soft type of queerplatonic attraction/relantionship, like an aspec version of being in love (specifically for arospecs). A sherbet qpr is when you love and adore your qpp(s) so much and you’re just so soft when you think about your them!! It’s very intimate in an emotional way and it’s just overall very sweet! 
A sherbet aro could also refer to an aromantic/demiromantic/greyromantic person who wants to be in a (possibly committed & long-term) romantic relationship. 
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Colour meanings;
pastel reddish orange - that warm feeling you get when you talk/spend time with your qpp(s) 
 pastel yellow - soft platonic love 
 white - unfiltered and pure admiration for your qpp(s) pastel
 turquoise -  friendship, emotional balance and serenity
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lonelyzarquon · 8 months ago
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areyouthisidentity-polls · 1 year ago
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Are you...
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A-spec, or the a spectrum, is an umbrella term that encompasses both the asexual and aromantic spectrums and the many sexual and romantic orientations that are part of them.
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avenpt · 1 year ago
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Romantic Orienations
We realize there are an infinite number of romantic orientations, so we apologize if we've left yours off! Please select Other and let us know how you identify. :)
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noballoonsinspace · 9 months ago
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felt like I was forgetting something about tomorrow but then I remembered oh yeah kind of a big day how could I forget
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Happy Dracula eve!!!
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chaoticrei · 4 months ago
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So, I'm genderqueer, I use any pronouns, I have a preferred name, I want to be born a girl 60% of the time, we could say that I'm trans right? Not a trans girl, because I don't identify as and because my gender is fluid. But I am trans. Can I say that I am T4T? I love trans people, and being surrounded by them makes me feel accepted. I feel ill at ease when I'm around cis people, they make me feel uncomfortable with my gender identity, and that's why I want a trans partner. It's not mandatory ofc, it's just a preference, but my question is: can I say that I'm T4T?
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avenpt · 1 year ago
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Sexual and romantic orientations can be fluid. Perhaps when you were younger, you had crushes/romantic attraction, but now, you feel that you're aromantic. That's totally valid. It happens! Same goes for sexuality and being allo/ace-spec. Nothing wrong with that at all. Embrace the fluidity!
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sygneth · 7 months ago
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Things are starting to get awkward hehe
Part 5 of of Holmes' collage adventures
Chapter 1: part 1 - part 2 - part 3 - part 4 - part 5 - part 6 Masterpost (Index) AO3
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radyo-kabaw · 1 month ago
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THE LEGEND OF TINAMNAN GABE
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-as recorded in Negros Oriental and Siquijor Island: Legends, Beliefs and Folkways (ed. Caridad Aldecoa-Rodriguez)
I changed Eyo's name because the nature of legends and folktales is that when you retell it, you end up leaving your own fingerprints on it. altho the real reason I changed his name is that I have an idea for a longer story that spans a few centuries that starts with this legend, but I need to do some more research before I really get into it, so for now this is just a standalone comic bc I really like this story :)
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queerliblib · 4 months ago
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do you have books about trans men of color? Written by trans men? Asking cause I can never find books with trans people in them, let alone written by them, and it's especially hard to find books about & by trans men, especially trans moc. (Also, I've never once seen a book about a straight trans man, which idk I always feel nervous asking about cause "erm straight ppl can't be queer" or whatever but I want to see some trans het and T4T books)
Anyways, sorry for the bother but I need some new books to read and I've decided to be self indulgent this time around
oh please don’t apologize, you should absolutely be self-indulgent! these (as far as our research shows) all have trans moc main characters and are primarily by trans moc (with a few non-binary authors of color)
Freedom House by KB Brookins (poetry)
Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas (YA)
Black on Both Sides: A racial history of trans identity by C. Riley Snorton (non-fiction)
We See Each Other by Tre’vell Anderson
Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender (YA)
The Passing Playbook by Issac Fitzsimons (YA)
& here are a few more titles from our wishlists that we hope to buy in the future, just to give you a few more ideas
Pretty by KB Brookins (memoir)
Outside the XY by Bklyn Boihood (anthology)
Boys Run the Riot by Keito Gaku (manga)
The Thirty Names of Night by Zeyn Joukhadar (adult fic)
as for trans het or t4t, caveat that the authors & characters here aren’t necessarily POC but I wanted to still give you a few options!
A Lady for a Duke by Alexis Hall (trans femme)
Chef’s Choice by TJ Alexander (t4t)
A Shot in the Dark by Victoria Lee (trans masc)
Stay Gold by Tolby McSmith (trans masc)
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bones-ivy-breath · 2 years ago
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There is nothing mysterious or natural about authority. It is formed, irradiated, disseminated; it is instrumental, it is persuasive; it has status, it establishes canons of taste and value; it is virtually indistinguishable from certain ideas it signifies as true, and from traditions, perceptions, and judgments it forms, transmits, reproduces. Above all, authority can, indeed must, be analyzed.
Orientalism by Edward Said
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