#Noxqueer

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Noxqueer 🌙🫧

Noxqueer is a blankqueer term that describes one's beliefs on Shipcourse, Paraphiles & Contact, Mogai & Transx, Radqueer and Syscourse.

Noxqueer's first addendum can be found here. (The first addendum covers Alterhumanity, Intersexism and Transandrophobia)

CW for relevant discussions related to the above topics such as Grooming and Trauma.

Shipcourse

(Tldr; Complex stance on Proshipping)

Noxqueer's stance on Proshipping is that Proshipping is a useful coping mechanism for people struggling with paraphilias however, fiction does in fact affect reality and can affect young children's minds negatively. Noxqueer believes that Proshipping should be kept either private or simply not a community as that makes room for Predators (Pro-C Paras & Bad Actors) to take advantage of minors and other vulnerable people. It's similar to posting your triggers or other personal information to the internet.

Paraphiles & Contact

(Tldr; Anti-Contact for big 3, Neutral-Contact otherwise, Pro-Recovery, Anti-Forced Recovery)

Noxqueer's stance on Paraphiles is that Paraphilias are often caused by trauma and/or forms of abuse. Noxqueer promotes recovery however will not force it on unwilling Paraphiles. Paraphiles are not Predators purely for their Paraphilias and are people deserving of nuance and kindness.

Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Contact on bodily minors, bodily animals and bodily corpses. Children, animals and dead bodies cannot consent. Noxqueer is Neutral-Contact on bodily adults, bodily humans and bodily alive people. Alterhumans can consent, assuming that they are bodily an adult and alive.

Mogai & Transx

(Tldr; Pro-Mogai, Anti-TransIDs, Pro-TransID alternatives, Anti-Transharmful & Transharmed, Anti Conabuse)

Noxqueer is Pro-Mogai including neopronouns, xenogenders, multigender labels, altersex labels, "contradictory" labels (Eg. Lesboy) and just generally any label as long as it is good faith.

Noxqueer is Neutral-Transx but is Anti-TransIDs and Pro-Alternatives. Noxqueer recognizes both atypical dysphoria and atypical euphoria and promotes the use of TransID alternatives such as Desirdae, Dissomei and Intusui. Noxqueer is Anti-TransIDs because the community and use of TransIDs are harmful such as transharmed & transharmful and trace, transabled. These can be incredibly harmful to people and is often fetishistic (Towards races and disabilities) or glorifying harmful behaviors (Such as grooming).

Radqueer

(Tldr; Anti-Radqueer, Anti-Conabuse, Pro-Recovery, Anti-Forced Recovery)

Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Radqueer as it's space promotes harmful behaviors as mentioned above in the Transx section. As TransIDs are seen as mainly Radqueer, it is often Radqueers who are perpetrating fetishization of disabilities and races and glorification of grooming and abuse. Noxqueer is Pro-Recovery for Radqueers and encourages them to leave the Radqueer community and take time to recover and take care of themselves. However, like with Paraphiles, Noxqueer does not believe in forced recovery. Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Conabuse, @anti-rq-gumi has a masterlist on how Conabuse is harmful and can be found here.

Syscourse

(Tldr; Pro-Endo, Neutral-Polymind, Anti-Harrassment)

Noxqueer is Pro-Endo including all system origins (Willogenic, Stressgenic, Neurogenic, etc.). Noxqueer recognises that Endogenic systems are not claiming to have a CDD such as DID or OSDD. Traumagenic systems and Endogenic systems are both ways of experiencing plurality, even if they vary quite a lot. Noxqueer also recognizes Mixedgenic and Multigenic systems as well as non-disordered Traumagenic systems.

Noxqueer is Neutral-Polymind but is firmly Anti-Harrassment against Polyminds and anyone in general.

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"Thought Crimes" do not exist! You should not be judged by your thoughts, urges or feelings, only on your actions and intentions!

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BYI & DNI

Stances

We are Noxqueer, that describes our stances on most things. If you disagree with these stances feel free not to interact or block! /gen /nf

Pro c harmful paras, Radqueers, Anti endos, sysmeds, intersexists, radfems (Including trans radfems), gender essentialists (including agab essentialists) DNI!!

If you use the H slur or the R slur we WILL block you. We also do not appreciate the term "DSD", the TME/TMA binary, any gender binary or any identity binary (Nature does not draw in straight lines).

System related

We have an even mix of introjects and brainmade headmates (4 brainmade, 1 fictive, 2 factives, 2 fogtives & 7 dormant members)

Almost all of us are alterhuman in some way! We also tend to have a lot of kintypes and may discover new ones regularly!

We are a multigenic system who are primarily traumagenic but also identify as stressgenic, neurogenic and very lightly willogenic!

We use the labels hydraconcious, sleep-conscious, specutien and proxy system to describe our plural experience!

We use headmate, system and collective terminology, please do not call us 'alters' or 'parts'.

We also use we/us and I/me alternatively!

Our system has insys relationships and is largely polyamorous and uses both the Split Attraction Model and Quadrants to explain and categorize our relationships.

If you don't like any of our systems members just don't interact with them. We do not tolerate harassment.

DNI if you are a Felix/Pewdiepie introject or kin or a Wilbur soot Introject or kin (We don't hate you for your existence, it just makes us uncomfortable due to exomemories and for Wilbur specifically, we had a Wilbur introject who was very problematic and caused a lot of trauma for the system)

Do not bring up the previous host, they are dormant and if you find out their name, do not mention it. If you do we will block.

Do not call Sean "Jack" and vice versa. Not only is it confusing but it makes either of them uncomfortable

We are not comfortable with flirting (Aside from Amara)

The body related

We are bodily 18! Anyone below 15 yrs old DNI please :)

The body is intersex (PCOS) and has POTS. Several of our headmates are also intersex internally but may be different variations of intersex!

We experience psychosis including hallucinations (Auditory, visual and olfactory), delusions (paranoid & gradiose), paranoia & hypervigilance, isolation and lack in motivation. Stress and stressful events worsen our symptoms.

We are largely self diagnosed when it comes to ASD & BPD however it has roots in our family's medical history coming from relatives and immediate family including the body's parents. However we are NOT self diagnosing a CDD as we do not have a CDD.

We live in a small town in Australia and due to being afab, have been largely ignored and neglected by the medical system as well as our "parents". Counsellors rarely believed us about any symptoms (in favor for blaming all our problems on being queer or our menstrual cycle). This lead us to do research in the DSM5 in order to self diagnose. We do not claim to have a diagnosis and never will unless we are formally diagnosed. (Research in the DSM5 is how we came to the conclusion that we do not have a CDD despite being traumagenic)

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Hello! This blog is (mainly) hosted by Sweetie from @homesick-sys !!

This is a discourse blog, if you want to see anything but discourse, feel free to disengage or interact with our system blog (linked above). However I may sometimes reblog uplifting posts, anything non-discourse will be tagged accordingly (#non-discourse)

We also coined Noxqueer and Modisex!

System origins below cut. (Just in case people want to bring it up in discourse)

System origins

We like to say our system is "Mixed Origin" however our system has it's main roots in being traumagenic. This includes sexual, emotional and physical trauma in young childhood from ages 1-11. The beginning age is just an estimation since for as long as we can remember, we were emotionally, physically and medically neglected by our "parents". At age 5-6 we were sexually assaulted by our highschool-age cousin. We only remember one event but it may not have been the first, nor the last. We only remember the age because our parents told us it was when we were in kindergarten. We were also emotionally and physically abused from a young age at the hand of our "parents", especially the body's "mother". The reason we say we are "Mixed Origin" is after our first episode of plurality (from around age 6 to age 11), we experienced another spike in our plurality (from around age 13 to age 15) which was less Traumagenic and more a mix of Stressgenic, Neurogenic with a small amount of Willogenic.

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Noxqueer's first addendum as I can't cover everything in one post.

Due to the nature of this being an addendum and not the original post, I understand if this addendum or future addendums are ignored, just understand that as the coiner of this term, these are the term's intended values.

This addendum covers Alterhumanity, Intersex/ism and Transandrophobia.

Alterhumanity

Noxqueer supports Alterhumanity including therians, otherkins (including fictionkins, fanfickins, ockins, conceptkins, songkins, objectkins and factkins), constellic individuals and all other forms of Alterhumanity. Noxqueer supports spiritual, psychological, physical, mental and every other type of alterhuman.

Noxqueer supports the use of dysphoric aids such as tails, ears & other accessories and packers. Noxqueer denounces the idea that packers are inherently sexual and saying so, especially only to alterhuman packers is inherently harmful and sexualises alterhumans who may not want to be sexualised. Alterhumans use their packers like trans men use packers, non-sexually.

Intersex and Intersexism

Noxqueer also supports Intersex people and their struggles, not just as a "gotcha" or as an argument but as real people who are marginalized by society and even in the queer community itself. Noxqueer denounces the "trans intersex" term and encourages those that use it or relate to it research the terms "Altersex" and "Salmacian" as one cannot transition to be intersex. Noxqueer acknowledges the fact that intersex describes hormone conditions that diverge from the "sex binary" first and foremost and is not a label just for ambiguous genitalia or having both male and female primary sexual characteristics. Noxqueer also acknowledges the term "Hermaphrodite" to be a slur that fetishizes, stereotypes and undermines the intersex experience.

Trans men and Transandrophobia

Noxqueer fully supports trans men and acknowledges their struggles as a minority, equal to that of trans women, just in different ways. Noxqueer equally supports trans women and acknowledges their struggles but also accepts that transandrophobia is very real and experienced by trans men and mascs in everyday life, even being perpetrated by their own community. Trans men speaking about transandrophobia is not an attempt to discredit or talk over trans feminine voices but to simply share their experiences with discrimination.

Noxqueer 🌙🫧

Noxqueer is a blankqueer term that describes one's beliefs on Shipcourse, Paraphiles & Contact, Mogai & Transx, Radqueer and Syscourse.

CW for relevant discussions related to the above topics such as Grooming and Trauma.

Shipcourse

(Tldr; Complex stance on Proshipping)

Noxqueer's stance on Proshipping is that Proshipping is a useful coping mechanism for people struggling with paraphilias however, fiction does in fact affect reality and can affect young children's minds negatively. Noxqueer believes that Proshipping should be kept either private or simply not a community as that makes room for Predators (Pro-C Paras & Bad Actors) to take advantage of minors and other vulnerable people. It's similar to posting your triggers or other personal information to the internet.

Paraphiles & Contact

(Tldr; Anti-Contact for big 3, Neutral-Contact otherwise, Pro-Recovery, Anti-Forced Recovery)

Noxqueer's stance on Paraphiles is that Paraphilias are often caused by trauma and/or forms of abuse. Noxqueer promotes recovery however will not force it on unwilling Paraphiles. Paraphiles are not Predators purely for their Paraphilias and are people deserving of nuance and kindness.

Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Contact on bodily minors, bodily animals and bodily corpses. Children, animals and dead bodies cannot consent. Noxqueer is Neutral-Contact on bodily adults, bodily humans and bodily alive people. Alterhumans can consent, assuming that they are bodily an adult and alive.

Mogai & Transx

(Tldr; Pro-Mogai, Anti-TransIDs, Pro-TransID alternatives, Anti-Transharmful & Transharmed, Anti Conabuse)

Noxqueer is Pro-Mogai including neopronouns, xenogenders, multigender labels, altersex labels, "contradictory" labels (Eg. Lesboy) and just generally any label as long as it is good faith.

Noxqueer is Neutral-Transx but is Anti-TransIDs and Pro-Alternatives. Noxqueer recognizes both atypical dysphoria and atypical euphoria and promotes the use of TransID alternatives such as Desirdae, Dissomei and Intusui. Noxqueer is Anti-TransIDs because the community and use of TransIDs are harmful such as transharmed & transharmful and trace, transabled. These can be incredibly harmful to people and is often fetishistic (Towards races and disabilities) or glorifying harmful behaviors (Such as grooming).

Radqueer

(Tldr; Anti-Radqueer, Anti-Conabuse, Pro-Recovery, Anti-Forced Recovery)

Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Radqueer as it's space promotes harmful behaviors as mentioned above in the Transx section. As TransIDs are seen as mainly Radqueer, it is often Radqueers who are perpetrating fetishization of disabilities and races and glorification of grooming and abuse. Noxqueer is Pro-Recovery for Radqueers and encourages them to leave the Radqueer community and take time to recover and take care of themselves. However, like with Paraphiles, Noxqueer does not believe in forced recovery. Noxqueer is firmly Anti-Conabuse, @anti-rq-gumi has a masterlist on how Conabuse is harmful and can be found here.

Syscourse

(Tldr; Pro-Endo, Neutral-Polymind, Anti-Harrassment)

Noxqueer is Pro-Endo including all system origins (Willogenic, Stressgenic, Neurogenic, etc.). Noxqueer recognises that Endogenic systems are not claiming to have a CDD such as DID or OSDD. Traumagenic systems and Endogenic systems are both ways of experiencing plurality, even if they vary quite a lot. Noxqueer also recognizes Mixedgenic and Multigenic systems as well as non-disordered Traumagenic systems.

Noxqueer is Neutral-Polymind but is firmly Anti-Harrassment against Polyminds and anyone in general.