#NoJudgement

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[girlactionfigure]

In our walks of life, a profound question often bubbles up, shaking our innate sense of knowing. "Who am I to judge another when I myself walk imperfectly?" This question is not just a philosophical inquiry, but a whisper of humility, a humbling echo of our shared humanity that compels us to reassess our perspectives.

In the divine wisdom of the Torah, we learn, "Do not judge your fellow until you have stood in his place." (Pirkei Avot 2:4) The surface meaning of this teaching appears quite straightforward. Let’s try to inpack it a bit, though.

What does it mean to 'stand in his place'? Is it possible to fully grasp the countless complexities that shape another person's life—their joys and their trials, their dreams and their fears, their strengths and their weaknesses?

We can never wholly perceive the intricate matrix of experiences that constitute another's life. Yet, this should not engender a sense of hopelessness, but rather a profound reverence for the unfathomable depth of each person's existence. This is an invitation to embrace empathy, to open our hearts to the understanding that every soul carries a unique story written in the divine language of life's trials and triumphs.

Now, let's turn our gaze inward. "I myself walk imperfectly." Our own imperfections can feel like burdens, like shadows that chase us on our journey. Yet, the Baal Shem Tov, the founder of Hasidism, taught us that our perceived imperfections are, in fact, divine sparks concealed in the materiality of our existence. These sparks are not stumbling blocks but stepping stones on our path to growth, self-discovery, and ultimately, to our Creator.

Thus, our own imperfections remind us of our shared human condition - an existence marked by growth, struggle, triumph, and learning. The Torah doesn't demand perfection from us, but growth. When we see our own imperfections not as flaws but as opportunities for growth, we develop a compassionate lens towards others' imperfections as well.

Judgment, then, transforms from a weapon to a tool - not to belittle or shame, but to empathize and understand, to connect and uplift. Judgment can become a bridge connecting our souls, a conduit for love and understanding in the tapestry of our shared humanity.

So, I leave you with this thought today: In the theater of life, we are all actors, each playing our unique roles, wrestling with our scripts, often improvising, making mistakes, and learning. When we shift from being critics in the audience to fellow actors on the stage, we trade judgment for empathy, isolation for connection, and self-righteousness for humility.

So, as we step into the new week, let's strive to replace judgment with understanding, compassion, and respect for our shared, beautiful, imperfect journey.

Shavua Tov. May it be a week of empathy, connection, and shared growth.

Rabbi Yisroel Bernath

[fixquotes]

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them"

- Mother Teresa

[tonyastahlrealtor]

They say 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘫𝘶𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘢 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘣𝘺 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 - well, the same goes for Real Estate Agents! Don't let outward appearances fool you! 👇

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[legomars]

“Open-minded people do not impose their beliefs on others. They just accept all of life’s perspectives & realities, doing their own thing in peace without judging anyone.”

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In the past year, I found out who are my true friends. #truefriendship I have reconnected with my #highschoolgirlfriends and I’m loving it. There is #nojudgement between us. I have also found friendships with women that I have more in common with ♥️ @_lisashops @kiss_off_cancer @sunshinefarris #rebeccaandcassandra @sorrybusytakecare @ (at Castle Hills, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/Chvm90KMLL2/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=