#NW speaks

[northwestofinsanity]

A little thought, since I mentioned the DeviantArt thing on my Tumblr anniversary post a couple of days back (but not the point I want to eventually make a larger post on -I'm still figuring out how to articulate that).

So, on this day in 2017 (seven years ago), I was on my first day, post-throwing my first DeviantArt account into official hiatus on the night of February 6th as a last-ditch effort to break free from a character-based roleplay friendship/partnership that became toxic, controlling, and emotionally abusive. I woke up on this day in 2017 from the weirdest, symbolic dream. It was the most vivid scene of walking around my old high school building, in which the whole thing was empty, save for a few broken fixtures left behind. Symbolic of this empty space in my life after throwing this thing out. At some point, I ran out of the building, and there was something that happened to me, which, for the sake of those who might be triggered by it, I won't describe -but it was suggestive of getting rid of something unhealthy in my life. And then, despite the disturbing images in the dream, it ended with me looking to the sky, and between the grey clouds, the sun was still shining. Despite how screwed up everything was.

There are a lot of nuances to my particular experience that left a lot of grey area, and obviously, feelings don't disappear overnight, so there were a few weeks of grieving -the worst of which hit a few days on later. I don't remember much about this day in 2017, aside from that it was a bright, sunny day that just felt so weird in my state of shock.

With this past fall, finally reaching the point of peace where I can look back on this time and not blame myself in some way for it, and not feel any regrets about it... I've realized life has come full circle in a lot of ways to what I was dealing with then. In 2017, I was in my first year of college, watching my grandfather go down with heart failure from miles away from home (he lost his battle one week after I got home from the end of Spring semester). Here in 2024, I'm finally in my first year of veterinary school, back in the same town, I've got three family members in hospice, and I don't know if my grandmother's dementia battle is going to hit its end before or after I get home from this semester. I’m watching another online community I was once a big part of slowly melt down -perhaps one I became far closer to than the one I’d been in on DeviantArt. Maybe that hasn’t been with as much nasty, divisive drama -albeit there has been some nasty gossip at school the last couple of weeks that hasn’t been the easiest to hear. Not much in life has changed at all, really, for that many year's difference. It's not easy, still, but it is easier to deal with. Not because anything has changed, as I once thought based on how some people have described. It's just easier to accept and put into perspective, and maybe not necessarily stop caring entirely, as the cynical viewpoint would say, but better knowing how to limit how much I do care when it's not worth the stress -or just something that’s out of my control.

And as I was walking outside in the waiting period between lecture and lab earlier this afternoon, I noticed it was one of those bright, clear days -just like that really odd day in 2017. And it reminded me of the one coherent thought I could tell myself back then.

“I'm still here, and the sun is still shining.”

And I still am here, and the sun is still shining, and while it seemed like the bare minimum first step at the time, I don’t think there was ever anything as beautiful as the sun in the sky today, finally reaching the other end of the journey.

[bluntbambzie]

I think about this a lot

Nightwing 1996 - issue 19

[nightswatchdisbandmentera]

I think something that often gets overlooked when we talk about what Jon would've done had Ned disclosed RLJ before he joined the Night's Watch is that Jon isn't going to the Wall solely because he's Ned Stark's bastard. He's going to the wall because he's Ned Stark's bastard who has no prospects, or so he thinks.

“I forget nothing,” Jon boasted. The wine was making him bold. He tried to sit very straight, to make himself seem taller. “I want to serve in the Night’s Watch, Uncle.” He had thought on it long and hard, lying abed at night while his brothers slept around him. Robb would someday inherit Winterfell, would command great armies as the Warden of the North. Bran and Rickon would be Robb’s bannermen and rule holdfasts in his name. His sisters Arya and Sansa would marry the heirs of other great houses and go south as mistress of castles of their own. But what place could a bastard hope to earn?

(Jon I, AGOT)

As far as he knew, all his siblings had a future. But not him.

Knowing of his parentage doesn't really change much. Think about it. It's not like he can take to King's Landing, show up in front of Robert and be like, "hey that's my chair you're sitting on!" He'd need to actually press his claim and that's a whole new can of worms: who would believe him? Who would even want to fight for him? Can he even make it? Plus it definitely seems that those involved in the whole ToJ fiasco were determined to keep him and his claim under wraps so Ned is for sure not going to want another war.

The biggest factor that contributes to Jon going to the Wall is that Ned never bothered to let him know that he had options, and that he would be provided a future that was most fitting for his skills and status. It's understandable that Ned's trauma prevented him from speaking too much about Jon's situation, but he also needed to approach the problem more delicately and with a lot more foresight. Ned needed to sit down and actually talk to Jon because his situation out of all the Stark kids' needed the most attention. But he never did. And so Jon had to grow up quick and make the fateful decision on his own.

[the-overanalyzer]

something horrible happens and even though it isn't his fault Sam feels tremendous guilt and self-loathing anyway but does a fantastic job of hiding it behind a cheerful goofball facade until Rich drags him to some new warriors meetup or maybe a big crossover fight and Robbie just immediately sniffs him out because that's his thing and now Vance has to try and explain to Rich/the champions why it's not creepy for speedball to be chasing their friend/surrogate little brother around with a net and nobody's in trouble and he's actually just trying to make him go to therapy

[storfulsten]

brooo this is fire what the heck

dope as hell whitty song letsgooo

[neeasworld]

if therapists finger fucked your throat while talking to you then maybe i would actually go to a session

[spitdrunken]

a lot of rambly posts today but i love the idea of, in the magicless nbc student scenario, rollo taking time out of his day to tutor you in the language of the city of flowers. in return, you could teach him the language of the world you hail from. (he is genuinely interested in it.) the two of you can communicate in a mix of the twisted wonderland lingua franca, french, and ‘your’ language that is absolute gibberish to anyone else.

rollo would criticize your french when he’s in private, tutoring you, but outside that he will defend you to the death and act a tad passive-aggressive to anyone who doesn’t understand what you mean LMAOOO you’re trying your best! he’s likely the only one who can understand you with relative ease at first, as he knows exactly what vowels and grammar you’re having difficulty with. he would also take you on ‘learning trips’ into the city of flowers to truly immerse you in the language, and make you speak with vendors and the like. (it’s kind of like a date.) 

[ankhlesbian]

I miss seattle but i really somt have ny reason to go back

[asterssunzephyr]

Nature Wives Fans, weve won.

If you havent seen Shelby's newest ep/her finale, please leave the post. I wish not to ruin or spoil anything for anyone and have backlash on my page via the mistake you chose to make after reading this warning.

Im inclined to believe all Nature Wives fans are Taylor Swift fans too and if not then too bad bc you wont change mind about this, In actually just right(this is a JOKE people.)

Anyway, so we got our happy ending Nature Wives AND a few days ago we got the Speak Now(Taylors Version) announcement⁉️ bro we winning.

[paranormeow7]

neon white spoilerzzzz

ok so im at the green boss battle and what holy shit?? did they mean to make green and whites rivalry THAT sweaty and homoerotic???? like??? "the heart wants what it wants, and well.. i just have no intentions of losing my White." MY WHITE???? this man is FLAMING. holy FUCK. also, rip violet :[ singing mcr in hell :[[[ anyways!! i am SOOOO hyperfixated, plz remind me 2 make fanart omg

[incorrect-ikevamp-quotes]

Heyoo I saw your tags! Thank you for being lovely! Sorry for the ask haha I couldn't message so thought this was the best way to respond haha. Also good to see you back here, it's been ages! How have you been? How's life been treating you, my lovely?

Hi! Haha, no worries, it was a sweet and welcome surprise~

And man, I hadn't realized how much time passed until I checked and saw it's been over a year 💀💀💀 It has been a relief to see a lot of familiar faces though. I spent a lot of time settling into work and preparing for my degree this fall, so I had less time to simp. But things are good! Mostly just been reading Celeste Ng's newest book All Our Missing Hearts and playing Pokemon Violet over the break because I caved after seeing the Tinkaton memes 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I now have a shiny one, and she is a menace to all Corviknights everywhere 🤣

Needless to say I've also been doing Comte events throughout the time I was away, so I may be discussing a few of the translations if I have the spoons over the next few months. Honestly he's still full of surprises, the drama CD they released a few weeks ago for him had a lot of fascinating tidbits--perhaps my favorite of which is how desperately he wants MC in a black dress. I do love it when my faves go full baby girl, but I digress; that's gushing for another time, I'm sure 🤣

I hope you've been well, too! I wish you all the best, always 💛💛💛

[wrdn-tabris]

once again making au notes 😔

[vincent-sinclair-deserved-better]

first of all, the fuck is nwlnw

second, thanks for giving me another "am i not woman enough to qualify as nonbinary and am i even or am i just faking" crisis

[princemick-archive]

sometimes, getting takeout can actually be so stressfull

[xwithteeth]

some cute nw panels because he makes me giggle and twirl my hair always

[pineapplesaresweet]

HEY HEY EHY HI HELLO HAVE AN AMAZING DAY MY FRUEND BECAUSE YOU…

*drumroll*

DESERVE IT :DDDD I THINK YOURE REALLY COOL NOW GO AND CONTINUE TO BE AWESOME. SPREAD THE FUCKING LOVE MY FRIEND (sorry if my swear offended you)

buh bye

-🦟

HELLO???? THANK YOU!!! YOU TOO KING!!!