#My ex

[beware-the-water]

really gets me pissed when men see my frustration as amusement. thinking abt how i would get genuinely angry about something w my ex (unrelated to him in these cases, like getting cut off in traffic, etc) and he would look at me w this little smile on his face and say something along the lines of “youre so cute when youre mad” shut the fuck up i will rip ur fucking face apart

[flock-of-cassowaries]

How am I the only one on this hellsite-affectionate who’s ever used the tag worse taste in boyfriends than will graham ?

Are we watching the same show?

…am I truly just making the worst real-world choices?

[plaidos]

So what I'm gathering from your recent posting is that sef must be a pretty exceptional cis gal

Sef is incredibly exceptional. she is probably the most attentive & compassionate ally i have ever met, which is in no small part why i fell in love with her. she has raised the bar incredibly high for other cis women who might be attracted to me HDHFHDHXJSJHD my last ex, despite being an outspoken “trans ally” was friends with a terf, wouldn’t criticise people (see: her friends, her family, her colleagues, strangers. anybody.) being transmisogynistic to me in front of her, wouldn’t read any transfeminist theory & kept pressuring me to top her. i ain’t ever letting that shit happen again & so i have begun basically not flirting with cis people at all unless they come onto me first. it ain’t worth risking being treated like a predator for somebody who might end up treating me like my ex did anyway ygm

[addieyapsalot]

things I love

going inactive on the internet for long periods of time

fanart (whether I'm in the fandom or not)

my 8 pm energy drink

James Maguire from Derry girls

Christian Borle (no I'm not a hazbin hotel fan I hate hazbin hotel)

my ex

abandoning WIPs for no reason other than the fact that I'm bored

big nosed men

Glee

ghosting people who make my mental health worse

cats

john green

That's all I'm probably gonna crawl back in my cave now

[romanticallymad]

"The world was on fire, no one could save me but you.”

[onlyposersfallinlovee]

[biancathebrawler]

Ok gang, personal story about today yall. So we had like a half school day, and I was going to my new homeroom (cause we’re all in a new school building now) and I was going there and the door had a sign saying “we’re in room - - - -“ and I turn around to go there AND MY EX JUST FUCKIN POPS UP BESIDE ME LIKE A FUCKIN JUMPSCARE😭💀 and he was lost too because that’s the only thing Lukas in good at doing, and we walk … TOGETHER… to homeroom😭 did not like it😭

[godd3ssastrid]

😳🫣🦇

[not-sure-what-im-feeling]

Blocked my ex from my tumblr 🫶 life is good

[panickedpansexualprincess]

Me: /trying to ignore the date Facebook: here's all the happy anniversaries you had with your ex! happy anniversary! Me: .... oh.

[yrwnightmare]

The way my ex left his mark on me (I can't see Hoseok of BTS without remembering him)

And I'm not even a BTS fan...

[spookietrex]

I swear to the gods I'm gonna have to start a new hashtag for the things my ex did.

This time, she stole all my fucking batteries for my remotes and battery operated candles. Like wtf? Pretty sure she stole my sex toys too. Like whatever makes you happy boo. Just get out of my life.

[flock-of-cassowaries]

Kevin Can Go F*ck Himself himself is reminding me of my last relationship in ways I should’ve expected, but somehow didn’t.

Like, the show really hits the nail on the head with how it portrays the the juvenile shit; and I’d kind of forgotten that - my ex and were long-distance, and every time I would call this man, all he would say into the phone was “Wazzup? Wazzup. Wazz [etc.]”. It almost felt like he didn’t want to talk to me. (He didn’t.)

It also does a good job reminding me of all the times and all the ways I felt diminished by him, and of the ways that I cut off more supportive relationships with people who did actually care about me, just so that I could pour more resources into the sinkhole that was him.

But the part that’s really getting me is the flip back to bright colour and sitcom lighting every time the shit-for-nothing husband POV kicks back in. Everyone else talks about how sobering the inverse is - when we switch from Sitcom Mode to Quality Television Mode when he leaves the frame - but for me, what really hits me in the gut is the idea that the man is absolutely oblivious to the woman’s suffering.

The negligence and the privilege of it.

I don’t think my ex was as oblivious to how he was destroying me - I think he drowned a lot of his guilt about that under gallons and gallons of Coors Light, in fact - but he did choose to ignore it, and make it my problem to figure out that he wasn’t really into me at all, even though he insisted he was. But yeah. Still shitty.

[plaidos]

the more you post about your ex girlfriend the more i understand why she's your ex (unless you've posted about like. multiple different ex girlfriends and just didn't clarify)

she broke up with me, actually. i probably wouldn’t have left her despite the way she treated me because im ✌️ unaware of my own value ✌️

[onlyposersfallinlovee]

[biancathebrawler]

Guys I’m so terrified rn my ex texted me, I’m shaking😳 I just needed to vent that out.