#Lol klaine

[icedteaandoldlace]

Pffft speak for yourself. I simply choose to hate his guts for all eternity, like a normal person. :)

[69-toojay]

The character Blaine and my reading of him has always been very personal, when I first finished glee and compared him to the Blaine in my life I understood him very well. He was a textbook narcissist. The behaviour lined up like word for word. And through out the series if he's looked at through this lense he's one of the only consistently written characters.

A lot of us, myself included have trouble believing Kurt was so attached to this piece of shit. But after experiencing some things with my real life Blaines I began to have some empathy for how difficult it can be to let go of some people, no matter how much they hurt you. So I feel the need to try explain Kurts attachment to Blaine, not romanticize but explain why it exists.

Childhood attachment/First love: Kurt meets him relatively young, he looks up to Blaine, grows up with him, Blaine is the first person he dates and they get through some very dark times in Kurts life together, no matter how much growth occurs in Kurts life he can't shake off the initial gratitude, hero worship

Sunk cost fallacy: The strange feeling of not wanting to feel like an idiot or a loser for having a made a bad decision that has already taken too much of your time, so you rationalize that if you see it through it will be worth it because you've put too much of yourself in it, it being a relationship or a person. It's feels like too much effort to start over anew. To learn a new person or to heal when you've learned the motions of the status quo. So maybe it hurts when Blaine yells about unreasonable things but he's learned to yell back and hold his ground.

Trauma bonding : Feeling connected to an abuser because of various manipulation tactics they use to control you like love bombing, withholding affection( fratboiphysicals), guilt tripping ( I needed you and you weren't there), gaslighting etc. It's very hard to cope with the knowledge that someone you love is just using you for their ego so we don't. We pretend we are loved, that what we have is unconventional but special. When someone is constantly being hostile the bar lowers itself and we live on the crumbs of their affection, it feels special, and because the abuser never reassures you you have a definite place in their world you have to fight for their attention and fight you will.

External pressure : Narcissists have a way of perfecting surface level charm to get everyone in their pocket until you no longer have anyone in their corner and they have everyone telling you how great they are. Eg: the proposal scene, santana sabotaging kadam and the rant, Sue(?)

Isolation : They find whatever way to make sure you have less and less friends to make it easier for them to gaslight you, so only their opinion matters and you can't fact check with a sane person. Eg: the Elliot incident, the Chandler incident.

Gaslighting : Abusers change the narrative to fit their needs with such blinding confidence that you think you're the problem eg: late s6 Kurt.

[waitformethistime]

The fact that it's been almost 8 years since Glee ended and the Kl*ine stans are still just as insufferable and insecure as ever. Like why are y'all attacking Jenna and Kevin just because they don't really talk about them and didn't like one of their scenes? Like who cares? That's their opinion and that pair didn't involve them anyway. It doesn't mean they hate them.

And even if they did, they have that right. Kevin being gay doesn't mean he's required to like every single gay pair or character (especially when they're terribly written). Damn just don't listen to their podcast and go about your business. This isn't hard.

[fuck-no-klaine]

Kadam, kadam, I hear it and I know…

[backslashdelta]

@klainesecretsanta2024 gift for @spaceorphan18!

When I think of Pam I can't help but also think of the pages and pages of meta she's written over the years covering Klaine's story through the seasons. It didn't seem quite right to focus on one specific moment in their story, because how does one choose?? So instead I decided to focus on so many of the moments that make up their entire story - I hope that's okay! ;)

[justgleekout]

Happy glartswap @porcelainvino! And a happy early new year ;)

I thought Blaine looked so very cute, I didn’t wanna cover him up so I added him on his own as well 🙂‍↕️

[klainegifs]

[porcelainvino]

happy 6x7 anniversary 🫶 (dedicated to @kurtsascot , #1 somebody loves you gcv fan)

[gleefulpoppet]

NEW STORY! Amid a period of healing solitude, Blaine crosses paths with Kurt, an inquisitive journalist. What begins as a casual conversation over an annotated book in a café becomes a blazing fire between their hearts. As the layers of their connection deepen, they learn to navigate the complexities of love, loss, and identity, unraveling a poignant tale that transcends the unexpected boundaries of their pasts. For the @klaineccfanficlibrary 2024 Valentine's Day Challenge Annotations of The Heart Chapter 1/14: I'll Be in Your Head [2787 Words]

You can read it on AO3 [here].

[icedteaandoldlace]

Anyways, since I have apparently been mistaken for a Klaine fan, again, here is your periodic reminder that I Hate Blaine Anderson So Much. That is all.

[blaintism]

nuuuurse she's drawing the glee resident evil au again!!!!!!

anyways. please enjoy more of my silly doodles of giving glee characters roles in this story. more to come..

[angelhummel]

made some little guys

[lovewilltellamillionstories]

Chris colfer secretly filming in Belfast for two months was not on my bingo cards

[spaceorphan18]

When in Glee season 4 do you think the break-up between Kurt and Adam was and how do you think it went?

Ha.

This is always a fun rabbit hole to go down.

First of all, I don't necessarily think there was anything to break up because I don't think Adam and Kurt were ever officially anything. They went out a few times, hung out a few times, and that was mostly it. (Do I think they slept together? You can argue either way - but I headcanon that they did - I think it's beneficial to Kurt's story for him to have more experiences.)

But I think they had a non-defined relationship. After they went to see that movie that was supposed to be /their/ movie, things began to fizzle out. (Keep in mind - it's only a month between Girls and Boys on Film and Love Love Love -- insane? why yes, Glee's timeline is)

I'm guessing that Kurt started to slowly not reply to texts right away, and Adam, whom I don't think was an idiot, kind of got the picture. And then when Kurt came back engaged, it kind of confirmed what I'm sure Adam had already been wondering about.

I don't think there was a clear cut moment -- I don't think all stories have definitive endings. I think it was one of those things that gradually tapered off into nothing. Kurt definitely doesn't seem that interested in defining or talking about it right before he gets back together with Blaine, sooo... yeah :)

[daltonblaine]

Gleeful Paintbox Project: Love Languages ↳ The people Blaine is closest to + types of physical touch

[justgleekout]

Hold on to the end, that's what I intend to do

I'm hopelessly devoted to you