#lol blaine

[69-toojay]

The character Blaine and my reading of him has always been very personal, when I first finished glee and compared him to the Blaine in my life I understood him very well. He was a textbook narcissist. The behaviour lined up like word for word. And through out the series if he's looked at through this lense he's one of the only consistently written characters.

A lot of us, myself included have trouble believing Kurt was so attached to this piece of shit. But after experiencing some things with my real life Blaines I began to have some empathy for how difficult it can be to let go of some people, no matter how much they hurt you. So I feel the need to try explain Kurts attachment to Blaine, not romanticize but explain why it exists.

Childhood attachment/First love: Kurt meets him relatively young, he looks up to Blaine, grows up with him, Blaine is the first person he dates and they get through some very dark times in Kurts life together, no matter how much growth occurs in Kurts life he can't shake off the initial gratitude, hero worship

Sunk cost fallacy: The strange feeling of not wanting to feel like an idiot or a loser for having a made a bad decision that has already taken too much of your time, so you rationalize that if you see it through it will be worth it because you've put too much of yourself in it, it being a relationship or a person. It's feels like too much effort to start over anew. To learn a new person or to heal when you've learned the motions of the status quo. So maybe it hurts when Blaine yells about unreasonable things but he's learned to yell back and hold his ground.

Trauma bonding : Feeling connected to an abuser because of various manipulation tactics they use to control you like love bombing, withholding affection( fratboiphysicals), guilt tripping ( I needed you and you weren't there), gaslighting etc. It's very hard to cope with the knowledge that someone you love is just using you for their ego so we don't. We pretend we are loved, that what we have is unconventional but special. When someone is constantly being hostile the bar lowers itself and we live on the crumbs of their affection, it feels special, and because the abuser never reassures you you have a definite place in their world you have to fight for their attention and fight you will.

External pressure : Narcissists have a way of perfecting surface level charm to get everyone in their pocket until you no longer have anyone in their corner and they have everyone telling you how great they are. Eg: the proposal scene, santana sabotaging kadam and the rant, Sue(?)

Isolation : They find whatever way to make sure you have less and less friends to make it easier for them to gaslight you, so only their opinion matters and you can't fact check with a sane person. Eg: the Elliot incident, the Chandler incident.

Gaslighting : Abusers change the narrative to fit their needs with such blinding confidence that you think you're the problem eg: late s6 Kurt.

[sscrambledmeggss]

Yay, another Blaine hater! They seem hard to find

OH YEAHHH 💪 blaine anti nation rise 🕺

i hope you know on instagram, i am in an artists gc with friends, and i made them all blaine haters. my legacy (glegacy?) truly lives on 😫😫

[dearmykalias]

As a Warbler cosplayer, I dye my head blond so I can be HIM

Whenever I see the warbler blazer online I get all excited because instantly I think it’s going to be him:

And then sometimes it’s him and the smile visibly vanishes from my face:

[backslashdelta]

@klainesecretsanta2024 gift for @spaceorphan18!

When I think of Pam I can't help but also think of the pages and pages of meta she's written over the years covering Klaine's story through the seasons. It didn't seem quite right to focus on one specific moment in their story, because how does one choose?? So instead I decided to focus on so many of the moments that make up their entire story - I hope that's okay! ;)

[justgleekout]

Happy glartswap @porcelainvino! And a happy early new year ;)

I thought Blaine looked so very cute, I didn’t wanna cover him up so I added him on his own as well 🙂‍↕️

[blaintism]

get to know me -> 1/9 tv shows: Glee (2009-2015)

[cryscendo]

Wipe off that angel face and go back to high school.

@giftober 2024 | day 5: angelic

[porcelainvino]

glee art school au:

> blaine- 2D animation/character design

> kurt- illustration/fashion design

> mercedes- sculpture/ceramics

> tina- photography

> quinn- painting

> santana- graphic design

[hevanderson]

[69-toojay]

Thank you Sebastian Smythe for almost blinding Blaine Anderson, I owe you one. ♥️

[sscrambledmeggss]

DO NOT BRING BACK VICTIMBLAINING IN MY 2024

[klainegifs]

[slothydaydreamer]

I love that Blaine has the range from "petty bourgeois kid who is too blunt and brutal with his devious political schemes to fit in with his peers" to "petty street rat that deals drugs, spreads plagues and does semi secret murder...who still doesn't really quite fit in because he clearly still got his elite peacock attitude and tries to pretend he's running some kind of noble establishment"

It's the worst of both worlds (cutthroat arrogant businessman & ruthless violent druglord) combined in one man. <3

And it shows in all his little murdery business endeavours

[gleefulpoppet]

DC Photo Edit/Manip for a story. Please feel free to do with it whatever you'd like! ♥ 📸Original Photo Credit [X].

[kriskubed]

[katimanki]

Drawing short hair mike turned into mike and 20 hairstyles +mike and mike's painting❤