#LOOK FOR PORNOGRAPHY TO MASTRUBATE TO

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LOOK FOR PORNOGRAPHY FOR MASTRUBATION

LOOK FOR PORNOGRAPHY TO MASTRUBATE TO

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Am I demisexual/demiromatic? I can feel attraction towards someone I find good looking/my type, in the sense that I can daydream about being in a relationship with them and I can also get aroused and mastrubate to a good looking porn star or celebrity doing sexual stuff. But when someone I find attractive asks me on a date or wants to kiss me, I don't feel attracted to them in "that way". Its like they are not good enough even when they are the hottest person in the world, I can find flaws (1/2)

Both flaws in appearance and in personality. I’m not blinded by love. Whereas with my friends who have many flaws, I don’t find them ugly and I want to be together with them because I love them. And I think that with dating, I am missing the part with actually knowing the person/being friends for it to work for me. I think I need to be in love to want to go on dates, hold hands, kiss, sex etc.. But can I be demi when I still feel attraction towards people like this?     (2/2)

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Hello anon! We discussed that together and we were wondering if you may be a combination of akoisexual/romantic and demisexual?

Or demiromantic and akoisexual, or just aceflux?

I’ll post definitions (and also links in the names) below, and feel free to use more or less labels depending on what your comfortable with.

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Akoisexual: Akoisexual (also called akoinesexual and lithsexual) refers to a person who experiences sexual attraction, but has their feelings fade if reciprocated. Akoisexual can also be defined as someone who doesn’t care or want their feelings reciprocated.

May aegosexual fit somewhere, do you think?Aegosexual: A disconnection between oneself and a sexual target/object of arousal; may involve sexual fantasies, or arousal in response to erotica or pornography, but lacking any desire to be a participant in the sexual activities therein

Let us know if you need more help!-The Mods

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▶(((They))) Want you Mastrubating Because (((They))) Understand Hormones Anonymous  01/28/19 (Mon) 17:14:09 0a2301  No.12731565>>12731642 >>12731692 >>12731960 >>12732000>>12732011 >>12732060 >>12732177 >>12732272 >>12732672 >>12732818 >>12732939 >>12733037 >>12733320 >>12733346 >>12733461 >>12733500 >>12733806 >>12733871 >>12734047 >>12734211 >>12734980 >>12735011>>12735355 >>12735523 >>12736003 >>12736213 >>12740558 >>12743760 >>12744806 >>12744933 [Watch Thread][Show All Posts]

QRD: Semen retention is critical for the sexually dimorphic traits of males to manifest. Without it you become an undifferentiated ungendered pawn.

Sexual dimporphism is primarily expressed via differing levels of testosterone and estradiol (estrogen in its biologically active form). The final controller of ALL hormone expression is the brain, and specifically the hypothalamus. The only intervention that works to increase testosterone is changing your brain structure.

Masturbation is proven to do this.

Before we can even get to semen retention, we have to understand how your body works, and the critically misunderstood roles that hormones play.

Why Testosterone?

Most of you, I'm sure, are already convinced about the beneficial effects of testosterone in men, but I want to give a brief overview of things you probably don't know about it.

Testosterone increases sociability. It increases connection to and participation in your milieu, this is true for both men and women. For women, this typically manifests as slutty behavior and ultimately ends up as cuckoldry, women with higher testosterone have sluttier faces (see left in pic). They also have greater sexual arousal levels:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10665617

For men however, testosterone decrease the incidence of lying and they are more cooperative with other men.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3468628

Men with high testosterone are fascistic ideal. They build, cooperate, and create civilization. Men with high testosterone are more driven to find not only mates, but to do all things. Testosterone receptors in the brain don't differentiate drive for sex from any other drive (that differentiation does occur, but requires other chemical receptors to be activated as well).

▶Anonymous  01/28/19 (Mon) 17:14:39 0a2301  No.12731568>>12733037

The Hypothalamus is King

Androgen/Testosterone boosting supplements don't work unless you are supplementing androgens higher than 100% of your baseline test production. To understand why this is, you have to first understand the HP axes, and specifically the HPG axis. The hypothalamus acts as a prime regulator for almost all hormones related to growth, sex, and homeostasis.

Hypothalamus notices an increased level of testosterone? It stops producing GnRH. GnRH is a signal to your pituitary gland to make FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone) and LH (luteinizing hormone); these signal the gonads in men to create sperm and testosterone respectively (in women's gonads these signal menstruation and estrogen). So at all times your hypothalamus is listening to the levels of sex hormones, and is only releasing enough GnRH to keep them at what it believes to be the proper homeostasis.

This is why only highly potent anabolic steroids are really the only things which appear to have a phenotypic response in humans. They overpower even the hypothalamus's ability to regulate testosterone. So when taking anabolic steroids your level of GnRH is basically zero. There is no activity on the HPG axis and it permanently changes your hypothalamus to produce less GnRH, and hence why you hear stories of anabolic steroids shrinking your balls and causing infertility.

So to maximize your GnRH you need to maximize the hormones which stimulate its production and minimize the ones that inhibit it.

There are many hormones which either stimulate or inhibit the production of GnRH, we will get into why fapping is one of the worst things you can do if you want to maximize GnRH next.

There are several other axes of the hypothalamus which should also be mentioned.

The hypothalamic–pituitary–prolactin axis (HPP) is responsible for lactation and mammary growth in females, but it is also present in males. It is not directly self-inhibiting like the HPG axis, but instead is inhibited by dopamine (this will seem contradictory at first, but is extremely important to understanding the dangers of masturbation). The main thing for now you should know is that excess prolactin causes typically feminine traits in men. The primary stimulating factor of the HPP axis is estrogen. Remember this is the only axis which isn't a direct feedback loop! More estrogen will always mean more prolactin. Finally, the higher your prolactin is, the lower GnRH output will be, which means the lower testosterone will be in males.

The HPS axis has the ultimate byproduct of IGF-1, which is the most critical signal for muscle growth. HPS axis is stimulated by testosterone (via blunting the inhibitory effects of GH in the feedback loop).

▶Anonymous  01/28/19 (Mon) 17:15:04 0a2301  No.12731569>>12731740 >>12731855 >>12732628 >>12732817 >>12733037 >>12735832 >>12737601

Masturbation and Hormones

Now to put it all together. Orgasm elevates prolactin massively. Prolactin causes a neurological effect of having little to no sexual desire, hence why you temporarily lose interest in the porn you watch after ejaculation. Now recall the previous section: Prolactin tells the hypothalamus to lower GnRH; GnRH stimulates production of sperm and testosterone; testosterone increases masculine traits and increases social cohesion in men; it also increases expression of muscles via the HPP axis.

Dopamine which is high during the build-up of masturbation inhibits the HPP axis though, so how can masturbation be causing an increase of prolactin? Well, the hypothalamus can be very intelligent at what it does. It understands context. Not only that, but the massive acute hit of dopamine you are getting causes something called a hormetic effect. Hormesis is kind of like a biological blowback effect, the hypothalamus is massively inhibited on its HPP axis and then to compensate, it releases even more prolactin than it normally would in all that time as a huge burst after orgasm. Not only that, it appears to have "aftershocks" throughout the next few days and releases prolactin even more.

But it gets worse. At least with a single mate in a monogamous sexual relationship your dopamine wouldn't be massively elevated, but with access to unlimited high speed pornography your dopamine will spike to never before seen levels due to the Coolidge effect (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect). What does this mean? For days after masturbation you will have low testosterone.

But there's even more. The hypothalamus is a neurological structure. It learns and adapts. What does chronic masturbation and dopamine spiking do to the HPP axis? It makes it less and less sensitive to regular dopamine levels. Throughout the day its perfectly normal and healthy to have a moderate level of dopamine, and especially so for men. If HPP is no longer inhibited by this normal level of dopamine, then prolactin will be chronically elevated. Finally we get to the crux. Chronically elevated prolactin means a chronically inhibited HPG axis. A chronically inhibited HPG axis means chronically low levels of homeostatic testosterone.

This is why the men of today have lower testosterone than the average 80 year old just 50 years ago.

This is why we have trannies developing feminine traits due to increased prolactin.

Now there's even more danger to all of this. We have huge amounts of xenoestrogens from overcompensation of plant based foods and hygiene products (you really should only be consuming meat). Estrogen stimulates the HPP axis even more, and we have blown our dopamine circuits to defend against them with acute chronic spiking. But the brain can heal and adapt.

Stop looking at porn. Stop masturbating. Stop consuming xenoestrogens. Stay monogamous, and only have sex for the purpose of procreation.

▶Anonymous  01/28/19 (Mon) 17:15:12 0a2301  No.12731570>>12732030 >>12733037 >>12741934

Extra Credit: Dangers of SSRIs and Weed

SSRIs increase the re-uptake of serotonin in the brain. Serotonin has an antagonist relationship with dopamine, which means if dopamine is high serotonin is low and vice-versa. SSRIs will chronically lower dopamine, not only taking away your enjoyment of novelty, but also once again activating the HPP axis.

Weed is made of cannibinoids. The body produces its own endocannibinoids which have receptors all throughout the nervous system. The hypothalamus is filled with CB1 receptors which have 2-AG (an natural endocannibinoid) as an agonist. 2-AG is released upon orgasm and is used in the adaptation process mentioned earlier to train the hypothalamus to be less responsive to dopamine.

What else is an agonist of the CB1 receptor? THC. In fact THC is far more potent than 2-AG could ever be, meaning that every time you smoke weed, you adapt your hypothalamus to be even less responsive to dopamine than if you were masturbating to porn the entire time you were high. THC is bad news if you value testosterone.

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Age of consent in fiction

Dear fandom, we need to talk. I usually try to avoid tumblr drama, but i feel that i should talk about it at least for once.

There is that weird obsession with age of consent in english-speaking comunity. Like, people who ship person below age of consent and person above age of consent are concidered horrible people that should burn in hell because they ship problematic ship. 

So, let me explain why I think that this view of shipping is wrong.

At first let’s start with basics. Why do we even need age of consent. This is not just some random magical age after which you can have sex.

In our modern times we do need age of consent to determine is person mature enough to give consentual premission to sex. You know why we need this age to be fixed? Because we can’t read other people minds and determine are they mature enough.

Age of consent is a social construct that we need to legaly protect immature unexperienced teenagers from risks of being manipulated by much more experienced and mature adults that can take advantage on teen.

And here is the problem: age dosen’t nessesary translate into actual maturity. There are 15 years old teens that actually are mature enough to give conset and there are 18 years old “adults” that isn’t.

Does that mean that age of consent is meaningless? Not really. We as society are trying to find more or less balanced way to protect teenagers (who’s mind we cannot read) and at the same time don’t restrict them beyond nessesary. Of course age of consent isn’t perfect, it suppose to represent average age of being mature enough, it can’t take into account every individual case. 

But this is why we need it in real life. Fiction is different.

In fiction we, as shippers and as authors, can see relationships from any angle. We don’t have “other people’s mind” limitation. We in control of whole relationship. And we can determine if couple is equal in maturity or not.

We determine if relationship is healthy or not by viewing it as one.

Okay, age of consent is one thing. But what about porn? Child pornography is bad, right?

Yeah, if it’s involve actual child/teen. It is bad, no discussion needed.

But in fiction - fanfics or fanart - there are no real children or teenagers. There are no minor involved. Because they aren’t real. They are text or pixels, not actual people. We can’t harm someone who isn’t even exist.

But sexualizin minors! Well, that is a problem... kinda. It depends.

Not all “written/drawn sex” is actually 100% porn. Or viewed as porn. Sometimes we need sexual scenes not for mastrubating, but for emotional connection. Sex is important part of romantic relationship for many people after all. It’s moment of uniting, moment of ultimate trust. And sometimes this is what appeal to us as shippers, not our need to mastrubate.

Another thing to consider is that at some point we stop viewing characters as “kids”. We view them as individuals, characters that we have emotional connection with. Sometimes we even can’t distinguish teens from “adults” by looking at their depiction in fanart or fanfiction. It’s hard enough in real life but in fiction this line is even more blurry.

And another thing to consider, specificly for texts i think, is that a lot of “teen sex” written for and by actual teens, or people who were teeens just few years ago. Of course they have emotional connection with such scenes. It’s their recent experience, it’s their feelings. 

And a few other thing I think I need to tell.

Shipping isn’t always about sex even. Romatic relationships may exist without sexual relationships. And age of consent apply only to sexual relationships.

I, personaly, more conserned about age difference. Relationships betweent 18 years old “adult” and 15 years old “teen” feel okay for me ‘cause there isn’t that much age difference. But I feel uncomfortable around ships that involves two mature adults with 15-20+ years of age difference. Or even worse, if two mature adults have “father figure - child figure” or “mentor - protégé” dynamic. This ships isn’t wrong or problematic, but for me they are. 

And also small reminder that age of consent depends on society and isn’t 18 everywhere. Most common age of concent is around 15-16. Just saying.

I understand that a lot of things that I said is at least controversial, but sometimes we need to reasonably discuss such topics and listen different opinions. Hating each others and calling your opponents morons dosen’t lead you anywhere.